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I Have Been Told I Am a Calming Influence

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    I am a very calm person, especially outwardly and particularly when those around me are panicking, I seem to derive their lost sense of calm and will stand back and become the rational voice, the person that does rather than goes through verbal panic and races. I ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6, 2009

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    I lower other people's stress by doing nothing

    Yes, I am a rather calm person. Just ask the thousands of mood rings I've tried...-.- that's all they ever say. CALM. My art teacher once said she likes how I'm always calm. Since she teaches AP Art, she likes the fact that I'm calm because it lowers her stress level. One of my...
    chococat159 chococat159 18-21 Jan 13, 2013

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    I Try To Soothe

    I have spent most of my adult life trying to be the opposite of the man who raised me. Don't let my affection for my father fool you, he was a mean man who was never nice to anyone and never spoke with a soft voice, ever! I grew to love him for reasons I feel were inside me and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 31, 2011

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    Whaat?!

    Despite my issues, people have said this about me! I find it hard to believe sometimes. To be told that I'm calming and meant to be a healer still sounds a bit strange. I'm not sure what it is, but I've been told about it.
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Apr 4, 2011

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    Peace

    I remember once I had a job interview. The lady was late to the interview. I spent almost two hours in with that lady. She told me that when she first met me she felt calm about the interview. She shared personal things about herself and said she liked me. I often get this...
    Abriee Abriee 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    I Am Needed?

     I am tremendously introverted and therefore I'm not naturally people-oriented, am I? and yet it is strange and surprising to be told, by people like my oldest friend, that they need me around and that I calm them down. because truthfully I feel like I really have no idea...
    janebee janebee 22-25 3 Responses May 27, 2008

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    If Only It Worked For Me

    It makes me feel good that often I'm the one friends call when they're going through tough times.  When my roommate was going through major surgery, she asked me to take time off to help her out because she was scared and I made her feel calm about it,  I had to help...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    yes. I have been told from a genuine person whom I really liked a lot. she has massively impacted me. and I am greatful for that
    aaditjain aaditjain 18-21, M May 17

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    I have been told i look like Leonidas from 300 lol
    papalalala papalalala 22-25, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I've been told I look like a mix of Channing Tatum and who ever plays Neville from Harry Potter.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 22-25, M Apr 30

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    ive been told my eyes brown and by others that they are jet black..i think im bang in the middle...but whatever!
    Sbabyface Sbabyface 22-25, F 1 Response May 6

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    I've been told my eyes change from dark brown to dark green. No idea why.
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6

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    I think it's all about wanting to be good. 'Cause I've sure as heck been told the opposite too.
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F May 15

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    People tend to enjoy when I read things. I don't know why. I've been told there's something delicately delicious about how I enunciate.
    idiopathic idiopathic 22-25, T May 16

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    lol I've had been told so many times that my eyes are so beautiful and round and stuff.like that...what do you guys think according to my profile picture??(???)?
    michstar michstar 13-15, F 1 Response May 17

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    Ive been told that by 5 people. Well 6 including my mom.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 2 Responses May 17

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    Been told I look like Whitney Houston when she was my age. That woman is stunning :) best compliment ever.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 18 hrs ago

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    I've been told that I have "a voice fit for the radio" I never thought so but I guess so.
    mmanuel69 mmanuel69 18-21, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I've been told I look like Tiger Woods which is embarrassing since his scandal
    Bennymtl1978 Bennymtl1978 36-40, M 6 hrs ago

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    I've been told I look like Sarah Jessica Parker when I smile. oh seriously? :
    Blackberries Blackberries 26-30, F 5 hrs ago

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    I've been told I look like my twin sister when I was little lol... now only if she was famous!!
    exotica2002 exotica2002 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Every time I meet someone new I get told I have a very nice voice I get told it's a very soft gentle voice
    KaylaDem33 KaylaDem33 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 30

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    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F 1 Response May 18

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    I keep getting told I look like kristen stewart and avril lavigne and it's starting to get on my nerves because I find neither that pretty
    ggmer ggmer 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 29

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    Since I started growing my hair 10 years ago, I've been everyone from Jim Morrison to Omar Lopez Rodriguez (all before I had dreads, obviously). Doesn't hurt that I've been in a...
    Johnny7909 Johnny7909 22-25, M Apr 30

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    I don't see it, but friends and even random people sometimes have told me that I look somewhat like Kristin Kreuk. I don't even know who that is. . but they were shocked I didn't...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    I'm often told I resemble Shailene Woodley and Emma Stone. I don't really see it with Stone, but I guess at a glimpse I look like Woodley with her long locks.
    EllieLoveless EllieLoveless 13-15, F 1 Response May 1

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    someone once told me that i look like Darlene from Rosanne. i was offended.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 2 Responses May 4

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    Someone once told me that I looked like Hedy Lamarr.
    randomart4lives randomart4lives 13-15, F 1 Response May 9

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    Yes, someone once told me that my voice was sexy, smoothing, mature sounding and seductive :P
    silentkillxc1 silentkillxc1 18-21, F 4 Responses May 17

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    Some guy just stopped me and told me to look at him, and he said I had the most beautifulest eyes he's ever seen... I got scared and walked off o.o Thay was just too creepy for me...
    Waffl3s Waffl3s 13-15, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    So far 4 people have told me that they like my voice 😊
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Bernadette Peters! We have have the same hair.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 30

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    Almost everyone I have met, tells me that I have a radio voice, and I agree to a point, my voice is deep but really calm and relaxing
    roby23 roby23 18-21, M 1 Response May 5

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    my eyes have colour specks in them and change with my mood
    Georgiambear Georgiambear 13-15, F May 5

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    Boy I wish I did. I can sing but I don't have a good singing voice and it turns too many people off from liking my songs.
    ADF55 ADF55 56-60 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My friends always laugh or look at me weird when a stranger or an acquaintance says this to me. It's not like I don't have these traits but I'm known to be sassy even salty to some...
    deldel22 deldel22 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I have removed fake people from my circle... I don't intend to look or act like anyone. -In a way you want to remove all and any fluff from your life. Who really wants to hang out...
    vacationings vacationings 31-35, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I have experienced this for my entire life, but the most humiliating time happened last summer. I applied for a job at a cafe and I went in for an interview. The manager asked me...
    Jillbill8 Jillbill8 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I'm 15 and I look 10. Fun times(!) Anyway, these group of boys were about to catcall me when a guy said, "dude she's 10! You can't hit on a kid!" and I was just there like 'YAAAAS...
    Wantsomethingtostoptheboredom Wantsomethingtostoptheboredom 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    I am a southern woman. I talk very country. The people that even live where I live cant believe how southern I sound. :)
    Applepieofyoureye Applepieofyoureye 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 28

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