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I Have Been Told I Am a Calming Influence

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 152 People

    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F Aug 6

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    Peace

    I remember once I had a job interview. The lady was late to the interview. I spent almost two hours in with that lady. She told me that when she first met me she felt calm about the interview. She shared personal things about herself and said she liked me. I often get this...
    Abriee Abriee 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    If Only It Worked For Me

    It makes me feel good that often I'm the one friends call when they're going through tough times.  When my roommate was going through major surgery, she asked me to take time off to help her out because she was scared and I made her feel calm about it,  I had to help...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Whaat?!

    Despite my issues, people have said this about me! I find it hard to believe sometimes. To be told that I'm calming and meant to be a healer still sounds a bit strange. I'm not sure what it is, but I've been told about it.
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Apr 4, 2011

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    Yes

    I am a very calm person, especially outwardly and particularly when those around me are panicking, I seem to derive their lost sense of calm and will stand back and become the rational voice, the person that does rather than goes through verbal panic and races. I ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6, 2009

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    I Am Needed?

     I am tremendously introverted and therefore I'm not naturally people-oriented, am I? and yet it is strange and surprising to be told, by people like my oldest friend, that they need me around and that I calm them down. because truthfully I feel like I really have no idea...
    janebee janebee 22-25 3 Responses May 27, 2008

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    I Try To Soothe

    I have spent most of my adult life trying to be the opposite of the man who raised me. Don't let my affection for my father fool you, he was a mean man who was never nice to anyone and never spoke with a soft voice, ever! I grew to love him for reasons I feel were inside me and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 31, 2011

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    I am walking back into the incredulous calm I

    knew and it feels so comforting. There is a level of peace in my spirit that I am thankful for. I listen to audio books while at work and this has greatly helpb maintain the calm
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I lower other people's stress by doing nothing

    Yes, I am a rather calm person. Just ask the thousands of mood rings I've tried...-.- that's all they ever say. CALM. My art teacher once said she likes how I'm always calm. Since she teaches AP Art, she likes the fact that I'm calm because it lowers her stress level. One of my...
    chococat159 chococat159 18-21 Jan 13, 2013

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    12 months ago I created my profile and picked a name for my feminine self. 12 months ago Jessica came into my life (Virgos rule, BTW) What a year it's been.... I won't bother...
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55, T 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I have been really stuffing myself like crazy the last few days. The scale is saying it's paying off. My belt is saying to go up a notch.
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    iv fainted when i got a hard on its that big
    DamoLFC DamoLFC 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    Some people have said that I look like Russell Wilson. lol
    JustChris1217 JustChris1217 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've always wanted blue eyes but people seem to love my brown ones
    Emma1ee Emma1ee 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was told by a cashier that I looked like Winona Ryder when she was in Edward Scissor Hands, even though I'm a brunette and she had blonde hair in the movie. I was also told I...
    Sienna770 Sienna770 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    My mom said I look like Daisy Duke from The Dukes of Hazards
    Shireene92 Shireene92 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Yupp shore have ... People come up to me all the time and start askin " hey .. Ain't you one of dim Duke boys ?" Then they start a saying ... " you thank you hot **** a don't cha...
    wolffive wolffive 51-55, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Depending on the color of my hair... I've been told that I look like fergie, Olivia munn, Kate upton, Sarah Hyland and I forgot the other 2... Idk how I can look like all of them...
    Maricopa Maricopa 18-21 1 Response 3 days ago

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    People always tell me I look like Beyonce and I'm like no, then they will say things like are yiu related to her or anything and I'm just like no. One person thought I was her one...
    AquamarineCiara AquamarineCiara 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    so with black hair, I get Katy perry, with light hair like my profile pic.. I get Emma stone. two totally diff people but it never fails when I go back and forth with my hair...
    angelanicole89 angelanicole89 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I get Katy Perry all the time
    angelanicole89 angelanicole89 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I get told I look like Sarah Paulson from AHS.
    natsta77 natsta77 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    I've been told I look a bit like Harry Styles with short and darker hairs
    Bradshugs Bradshugs 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've been told before that I look like Avril Lavigne in her teenage years and young Taylor Swift.. lmao idk
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 days ago

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    apparently I look like to people scary Mary from phones 4 u or Janice battersby from coronation street
    susango1 susango1 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    Yesterday there was somebody who told me I look like Emily Kinney... Whut? xD He told me I have the same shape in my face.
    GirlyGirl1993 GirlyGirl1993 18-21, T 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Not sure people always mean it when they say it but still makes me very happy :)
    chloejustchloe chloejustchloe 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    when a friend of mine which is a boy smelled my hair frantically, we were told by another friend of us that if a boy smells the girl's hair he is considered as pervert. Is it true...
    coolandawesome coolandawesome 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    My therapist just told be this the other day. I feel like I need to be on Star Trek or something.
    mysecretidentity123 mysecretidentity123 36-40, M Aug 18

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    Almost as green as my human's.
    Randahl Randahl 31-35 1 Response Aug 18

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    My boyfriend says my eyes are like the ocean. Unsettling and beautiful at the same time. :)
    DreamWarriorBlake DreamWarriorBlake 22-25, M Aug 16

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    "You have your father's caramel colored eyes!" "Yours eyes are like honey." "Dark eyes and dark hair is sexy." They're just plain old light brown. I feel like other colors are...
    Franse Franse 22-25, M Aug 16

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    http://s3.amazonaws.com/ep_albums/9910680/472048/fel2v-9910680-i.jpg look into my eyes. now give me your lunch money.
    unconsciousdreamer unconsciousdreamer 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    The other day I was at the pool with a couple of my friends and this boy came up to me out of the blue and told me that I have the cutest feet :) I guess I blushed when he said...
    marlene41298 marlene41298 16-17, F Aug 14

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    I have always been called cute on the internet, but I i get bullied for being ugly irl... dafuq
    FakersWaifu FakersWaifu 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    People are usually shocked when they ask how old I am. Apparently I can pass for the ages of 12 and older, but of course not my actual age of 21. I guess the only plus of this is...
    cosmicolored cosmicolored 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I have been told I am...but when I think I like them they turn out to be pervs.
    lonefirefox lonefirefox 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    Yes by my mum, dad, younger brother, by my granny, my cousin not too mention my friends. And so is my crazy bf. hahaha
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 13

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    People says my eyes are beautiful.... I do too. No shame ;D
    Chimywongwong Chimywongwong 18-21, F Aug 13

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    I have. It's nice. I don't see what say great about my voice but I do appreciate the compliments.
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F Aug 12