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I Have Been Told I Am a Calming Influence

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    I am a very calm person, especially outwardly and particularly when those around me are panicking, I seem to derive their lost sense of calm and will stand back and become the rational voice, the person that does rather than goes through verbal panic and races. I ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6, 2009

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    I lower other people's stress by doing nothing

    Yes, I am a rather calm person. Just ask the thousands of mood rings I've tried...-.- that's all they ever say. CALM. My art teacher once said she likes how I'm always calm. Since she teaches AP Art, she likes the fact that I'm calm because it lowers her stress level. One of my...
    chococat159 chococat159 18-21 Jan 13, 2013

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    Peace

    I remember once I had a job interview. The lady was late to the interview. I spent almost two hours in with that lady. She told me that when she first met me she felt calm about the interview. She shared personal things about herself and said she liked me. I often get this...
    Abriee Abriee 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    Whaat?!

    Despite my issues, people have said this about me! I find it hard to believe sometimes. To be told that I'm calming and meant to be a healer still sounds a bit strange. I'm not sure what it is, but I've been told about it.
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Apr 4, 2011

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    If Only It Worked For Me

    It makes me feel good that often I'm the one friends call when they're going through tough times.  When my roommate was going through major surgery, she asked me to take time off to help her out because she was scared and I made her feel calm about it,  I had to help...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    I Try To Soothe

    I have spent most of my adult life trying to be the opposite of the man who raised me. Don't let my affection for my father fool you, he was a mean man who was never nice to anyone and never spoke with a soft voice, ever! I grew to love him for reasons I feel were inside me and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 31, 2011

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    I Am Needed?

     I am tremendously introverted and therefore I'm not naturally people-oriented, am I? and yet it is strange and surprising to be told, by people like my oldest friend, that they need me around and that I calm them down. because truthfully I feel like I really have no idea...
    janebee janebee 22-25 3 Responses May 27, 2008

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    I have been told for years I have a sexy voice. Now that I am of this time those I speak with tell me I sound much younger and very sexy....time has been generous to me!
    WhiteRosesDelivered WhiteRosesDelivered 66-70, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Yes, I have been told this. Many times. There were many situations when I communicated with people for longer period over the phone only. And my nickname was "The Voice" - like...
    quietmentor2 quietmentor2 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Yes. I have been told I was younger than I look. What you think?
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I have been told :) AKA bad *** movie voice
    WhosChaos WhosChaos 18-21, M Aug 27

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    By my voice, looks and demeanor, I must have been told I resemble Jeff Bridges. Probably at least 100 times. No hyperbole.
    WaterOx WaterOx 41-45, M Sep 7

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    I have always been told that my voice is calming and relaxes people. I was a preschool teacher for a couple years and was told that makes sense because I have the perfect voice for...
    ToBeYours ToBeYours 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    I hav also been told I hav very nice voice on phones also got many job offers on phone prvsly I use to work in hotel front desk I got a call from other hotel that there rooms r...
    Angel763 Angel763 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    She is a world famous French actor, she's been in lots of movies here, and in Hollywood. You might know her from Belle de Jour, or The Hunger, or Indochine.I've been told on a few...
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 18

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    i have been complimented on my telephone voice many times. ive even had job offers to be a receptionist just because of my telephone voice. when i was a teenager it has gotten many...
    SadisticBitch SadisticBitch 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Ive had friends I've talked to on the phone and thru video chat saying i have a calm voice haha i just simply talk and try not to be boring Thanks for reading!
    goofysk8 goofysk8 22-25 52 mins ago

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    I constantly am told I have a cute voice. someone told me i have black girl slang with a white girl voice everyone thinks it's so cute. I dont know why though I hate my voice
    ihaveaname99 ihaveaname99 13-15, F Aug 19

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    While working frontline rental, I had a very grumpy customer come in one morning. He was very put out about the vehicle his company had reserved for him, insisted on a different...
    MrsChatterbox MrsChatterbox 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    As I was leaving church, this woman who sat behind me during Mass told me she thought I had a lovely singing voice. DAAAAWWWWW!!!!! :"> :"> :">
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    A customer told me I look like Drew Barrymore.... But all my friends think that I look like Lorde (a not so pasty thin version).
    Southernpanda Southernpanda 18-21, F Aug 23

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    Hilarious the subjects one can come acroSs on here!Anyway ,i too was told so.I like singing iwhile i am havin my bath,but things chnage onc one gets out:D
    Woudziniska Woudziniska 26-30, F Aug 26

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    When I go to pick up my son (16 years old) from school, his friends does know who am I. When he told them that is my mom, they thought I am 18 years old. Nice :)
    Sadlyeverafter2 Sadlyeverafter2 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Always get told I have a sweet voice. Scottish Highland girl here.
    Isthishell Isthishell 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    "You are mine"...I was told that... just as a loving thing...and I melted...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    On my last project at work, one of the clients I interacted with only over the phone said that I "have a voice made for radio." I guess that's better than being told you have a...
    zmc67 zmc67 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I would have never thought so myself to be honest. But I've been consistently complimented on how deep it is. Obrigado to the dudes and dudettes that have said it I guess. :L
    samuraiswordless samuraiswordless 18-21, M Aug 19

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    This has happened a lot ever since The Weeknd got famous. I had been listening to him for years without actually seeing him so when I did I was like "Wait the hell up! That looks a...
    Gr8nsaw8S Gr8nsaw8S 22-25, M Aug 23

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    people used to ask me are you in college i would tell them ive been out of college for 3 years
    chuckzares chuckzares 26-30, M Sep 1

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    When ever I talk to people and I ask what I sound like to them. Most say I have a perfect blend of a gay tone and straight tone mix together. So it's hard to tell if I'm gay or...
    DavidHamilton1 DavidHamilton1 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    My boyfriend heard me for the first time today over skype and said I have a unique cute voice, and he likes it. He says it's a bit southern. But I think that it's just that I'm...
    emoscreamo101 emoscreamo101 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    When i was little I wanted to be a newsreader! My family are Scottish do my dad taught me to have a very regional accent. Iv always had a deep calm voice, it's one of the things I...
    29wine 29wine 41-45, F Aug 22

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    You can see them for yourself in my profile pic. They're a greenish/blue with a rust-colored "star" around the pupil. They also seem to randomly get darker and lighter in color...
    LockedDarius LockedDarius 26-30, M Aug 26

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    22 problems anyone with a baby- face will relate to. I remember reading these points somewhere and I thoroughly enjoyed them, for most of them are so true. 1. People still think...
    hiddentears hiddentears 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    They are hazel, and appear to change colour. They are the colours of the forrest.
    Lilys3 Lilys3 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    Nicki Minaj lol Her recent looks are way better than before
    JustIndifferent JustIndifferent 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I was at a katy perry concert I went to the bathroom I walked in a girl said wait that's not katy perry XD and when I was at her concert people thought I was famous cuz I came in a...
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F Aug 23

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    My sister said with curly hair I look like Lana del ray
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F Aug 23

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    How old do I look?? 😏😏
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 23

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    My voice is either quiet and intimidating or loud and fun. My friend love my voice either way
    ImperfectionNo1 ImperfectionNo1 18-21, F Aug 23

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    Am I? Reply your opinions ;)
    endmylife endmylife 13-15, M 7 Responses Aug 24

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    And sometimes it's a slap in the face. I want you to be attracted to me and hope I come off as "hot", not adorable.
    Zolaugh Zolaugh 18-21, M Aug 24

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    Theyre kind of an ice blue with a dark blue ring around the outside. Really they're the only thing i like about me :)
    Marshey Marshey 13-15, M Aug 24

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    not sure how on earth they managed to come into this conclusion but it feels weird (and actually nice) enough so i'd share this one too for myself in case i'm feeling down.. at...
    yayforKay yayforKay 22-25, F Aug 28

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    I Would Rather Be Called Cute/Beautiful Than Sexy Bomb.
    DaisyLopez DaisyLopez 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Cute is for puppydogs and babies
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Ya whatever the **** that means
    rehn65 rehn65 16-17, M Aug 29

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    Girls at my school tell me I'm cute but I know they're lying :b am I? I don't think I'm cute, I think I'm... Meh.
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M 1 Response