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I Have Been Told I Am a Calming Influence

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    Peace

    I remember once I had a job interview. The lady was late to the interview. I spent almost two hours in with that lady. She told me that when she first met me she felt calm about the interview. She shared personal things about herself and said she liked me. I often get this...
    Abriee Abriee 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    Yes

    I am a very calm person, especially outwardly and particularly when those around me are panicking, I seem to derive their lost sense of calm and will stand back and become the rational voice, the person that does rather than goes through verbal panic and races. I ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6, 2009

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    I Try To Soothe

    I have spent most of my adult life trying to be the opposite of the man who raised me. Don't let my affection for my father fool you, he was a mean man who was never nice to anyone and never spoke with a soft voice, ever! I grew to love him for reasons I feel were inside me and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 31, 2011

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    Whaat?!

    Despite my issues, people have said this about me! I find it hard to believe sometimes. To be told that I'm calming and meant to be a healer still sounds a bit strange. I'm not sure what it is, but I've been told about it.
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Apr 4, 2011

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    I Am Needed?

     I am tremendously introverted and therefore I'm not naturally people-oriented, am I? and yet it is strange and surprising to be told, by people like my oldest friend, that they need me around and that I calm them down. because truthfully I feel like I really have no idea...
    janebee janebee 22-25 3 Responses May 27, 2008

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    I lower other people's stress by doing nothing

    Yes, I am a rather calm person. Just ask the thousands of mood rings I've tried...-.- that's all they ever say. CALM. My art teacher once said she likes how I'm always calm. Since she teaches AP Art, she likes the fact that I'm calm because it lowers her stress level. One of my...
    chococat159 chococat159 18-21 Jan 13, 2013

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    If Only It Worked For Me

    It makes me feel good that often I'm the one friends call when they're going through tough times.  When my roommate was going through major surgery, she asked me to take time off to help her out because she was scared and I made her feel calm about it,  I had to help...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    I have been told I have a nice country voice and they love to hear my moans.
    Sunnysmile36 Sunnysmile36 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I have been told I'm beautiful. I don't believe it. To be honest i find it quite insulting because i know I'm not and its patronising.
    tidget tidget 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    Actually, I have been told by a few people including my boyfriend that I look like Whitney Houston when she was my age. That is a HUGE compliment because I love her and she's...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jun 29

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    I have been told I look like Tyler the Creator, they say because I got big ears and look like a ape just like Tyler the creator, but I don't think I look like Tyler the creator
    Chasemanning Chasemanning 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I have been told I look like Christiano Ronaldo....I guess that is a good thing, right? 😮
    Nickiboy14 Nickiboy14 13-15, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    ApperentlyI have a soothing, calming voice.
    00afreshstartUK 00afreshstartUK 51-55, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I've been told that my voice sounds different depending on my moods and what device I'm using. But I've been told in general, that my voice fits my personality, and doesn't hurt...
    unknownfamiliar unknownfamiliar 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Surprisingly, I've Been There, Too. I've been told that I'm beautiful, but mostly only by my mom and by people who are 1) high 2) going blind. Is that enough to make me a member?
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I've been told once that I resemble the Egyptian queen, Nefertiti. I was a little surprised when someone told me that, but I took it as a sweet compliment.The person thought I...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F Jun 30

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    I have only been told this once. It was by my friend Misty. She only told me that because my eyes looked like ice. My eyes change colors. I have heterochromia. I have a two thin...
    Katalynn17 Katalynn17 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am constantly been told by my friends, family and most especially strangers that I am beautiful. I believe them and it makes my day :). I always get complimented a lot on my eyes...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    Iv been told I have beautiful eyes because I have heterochromia, it's a big word for I have two different coloured eyes, they're aren't that great tho. My right eye is dark brown...
    xxcarysxx xxcarysxx 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    Been told I look like Amara...a Dominican pop star.
    Virtualhugger Virtualhugger 26-30, F Jul 10

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    Yeah, i had been told that i have a nice voice, but then i ruined it. Now i am trying to get it back where it was
    MayaMoonShadow MayaMoonShadow 16-17, F Jul 12

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    I've been told I look like Sammi "Sweetheart" from Jersey Shore and more recently Zoe Saldana lol. I don't see it!
    Livvy2 Livvy2 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    The tittle say been told and not expressed as that is what i miss... I always have girls who say i love you and i open my heart to them and give my own heart key to each... Then i...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M Jul 14

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    I've been told I look like Lorde.. Don't know if that's a complainant 0.o
    Kdespite5 Kdespite5 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I've been told I look like Whitney when she was my age.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I've been told I look like Megan fox but I don't see it
    lifesimmer lifesimmer 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    ... been told i look like Justin Beiber
    trentoy trentoy 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Yup I've been told I have a nice voice, but I don't think those people are sane. I have one of those Jennifer Tilly voices. SMH
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    But i have been scared to sing because of how i look
    Skykilllers7 Skykilllers7 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 19 hrs ago

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    I speak to a number of foreign (well foreign to me anyway) girls on the phone and I've been always told that my voice is really sexy. It must be my Irish accent :P
    spankwire spankwire 46-50, M Jun 27

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    I met this guy and he's really adorbs. We talked, as in literal talking. I like the sound of his laugh. And then while we were talking, he asked me what song I would like to listen...
    Ranessa Ranessa 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    A guy that I know told me I was beautiful when I was about 13. He probably didn't know how significant it was to me, but it was sweet all the same - no one has said it since so it...
    RWxo RWxo 16-17, F Jun 29

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    I get told all the time I look like Drew Berrymore. Haha I don't see it.
    huntersmiles14 huntersmiles14 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    No one has ever just told me that. Not even my mom nor my brother. I just want someone to honestly fall in love with me and show me that it's real.
    bmthgirl17 bmthgirl17 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    They told me that i look like Jensen Ackles in this pic :)
    EngineerMA EngineerMA 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hasn't everyone? The word has been overused a bit. So much that I have trouble believing it . Just this week, I've been called it numerous times. Even " gorgeous" . I scoff it...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    Some people have told me that I have a smooth radio voice. Would love to try, but my brain wouldn't like it. LOL
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M Jun 24

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    My eyes aren't even that cool looking but I've been getting compliments on them a lot the last few weeks! :-)
    klou24 klou24 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I was told it was nice because it was southern. .... Let's get this straight it's southern but not like hick southern. Lol
    ashless ashless 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    I don't really get why but I've told that I have a sexy deep voice
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    People have told me I look like David Tennant
    tyson365 tyson365 13-15, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My eyes have combinations they have blue,green,grey,brown in my eyes...
    tiashepherdx tiashepherdx 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    uhm,well, I really don't get it. I personally do not think I am beautiful. I think I am photogenic and maybe the light and the angles make me beautiful. I don't know what to say...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Quite the few people have said this to me & I don't really understand why. A few people have said that I have a androgynous-sounding voice, which I am unsure whether to take as a...
    KMargatroid KMargatroid 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I have recently traveled to Britain to teach children how to speak French. A lot of the pupils and teachers have commented saying that I have a nice voice and that they like the...
    Wattouat Wattouat 18-21, F Jul 6

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    Yes people say I have beautiful eyes because apparently they r big dark brown eyes that r so beautiful but I think my eyes r ok☺️
    pattyricia pattyricia 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I'm working on it! Whenever I read these stories I'm like, damn