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I Have Been Told I Am a Calming Influence

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    I lower other people's stress by doing nothing

    Yes, I am a rather calm person. Just ask the thousands of mood rings I've tried...-.- that's all they ever say. CALM. My art teacher once said she likes how I'm always calm. Since she teaches AP Art, she likes the fact that I'm calm because it lowers her stress level. One of my...
    chococat159 chococat159 18-21 Jan 13, 2013

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    Yes

    I am a very calm person, especially outwardly and particularly when those around me are panicking, I seem to derive their lost sense of calm and will stand back and become the rational voice, the person that does rather than goes through verbal panic and races. I ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6, 2009

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    I Am Needed?

     I am tremendously introverted and therefore I'm not naturally people-oriented, am I? and yet it is strange and surprising to be told, by people like my oldest friend, that they need me around and that I calm them down. because truthfully I feel like I really have no idea...
    janebee janebee 22-25 3 Responses May 27, 2008

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    If Only It Worked For Me

    It makes me feel good that often I'm the one friends call when they're going through tough times.  When my roommate was going through major surgery, she asked me to take time off to help her out because she was scared and I made her feel calm about it,  I had to help...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    I Try To Soothe

    I have spent most of my adult life trying to be the opposite of the man who raised me. Don't let my affection for my father fool you, he was a mean man who was never nice to anyone and never spoke with a soft voice, ever! I grew to love him for reasons I feel were inside me and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 31, 2011

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    Whaat?!

    Despite my issues, people have said this about me! I find it hard to believe sometimes. To be told that I'm calming and meant to be a healer still sounds a bit strange. I'm not sure what it is, but I've been told about it.
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Apr 4, 2011

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    Peace

    I remember once I had a job interview. The lady was late to the interview. I spent almost two hours in with that lady. She told me that when she first met me she felt calm about the interview. She shared personal things about herself and said she liked me. I often get this...
    Abriee Abriee 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    I have been told my voice is as sweet as a kitten drinking milk in front of a warm fireplace. I know, silly huh. But I do admit it is very calming.
    Greeneyedgrr1 Greeneyedgrr1 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    Today I have been told this... I don't believe them but I don't know.... They seem truthful, but they like making people happy! For all I know I could be speaking like a goat XD XD...
    mangadrawer12321 mangadrawer12321 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    I have been told by more than a few people that I should be in Radio...and I've always wanted to Get "On The Air"...wouldn't make any money, but what a gas!:)
    Davido57 Davido57 56-60, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have quite often been told my voice is a nice one to listen to. I am told it's relaxing, and often quite posh, although I really don't see it. Once, within one day, I was told...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 13-15, F a week ago

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    Ya, I been told I have a nice phone voice and a nice singing voice but I hate talking on the phone so I guess I will try to excel with my singing voice
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M Mar 31

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    I dont know why but they do. I have hazel eyes and Ive been told that when Im sick or really pissed about something, they turn a cloudy brown color When Im happy and everythings...
    TheVampireQueen92 TheVampireQueen92 18-21, F Apr 5

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    when me and my bff where breaking up cuz her mom found out we had been watchingporn 2gther and i was s*xting guys i met on omegle after my breakup she wouldn't let us hang anymore...
    casssss casssss 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Don't you hate it when you hear yourself talking. Like when someone records your voice..I think I sound ugly only cause I'm not used to hearing myself, since we all sound different...
    conzy112 conzy112 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    everyday of my life until I got lazy and stopped working out. I still get told they change color (it depends what shirt I wear, and the quality of sleep I got). I can't wear the...
    ksup ksup 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    I get told this a lot, it makes me feel awkward. Tbh it was more awkward when I was younger because I used to have a lazy eye, So people would say 'you have lovely....eye. You have...
    xMina97x xMina97x 16-17, F Mar 25

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    I don't really know what's so special about mine :3 but I'm told this all the time.
    korilakkuma korilakkuma 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    My eyes change colours all the time and I never know what to say when people ask what colour they are. But on the bright side I always get told I have beautiful or gorgeous eyes!
    TayBearXoXo TayBearXoXo 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I always feel so awkward when I think how long it's been. 4 years since Xfactor and now I am here. I never thought I'd get 3 positives from the judges. It's so surreal. And when I...
    HarryEStyles HarryEStyles 18-21, M Apr 14

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    My teachers and friends often say that i have nice voice. They always ask me to sing. Well, I think i got this singing talent genetically. My grandma, father, uncle are great...
    Skpan80 Skpan80 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    My eyes are bright orange in the centre, than it goes from a light blue to a forest green. It's quite cool. But every time i where pencil liner somebody sais i have beautiful eyes...
    matti1342 matti1342 13-15, F Mar 30

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    I have a phone sex voice. I like saying normal things and making them sound filthy.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 30

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    My eyes are sort of a blue-green color and they have tinges of hazel in them. I feel that my eyes are unique and they are what makes me who I am.😊
    whenilovedyou whenilovedyou 22-25, F Mar 30

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    People seem to feel the need to tell me just how nice my voice is, not just the way i speak but also the tone it's amazing how many people i have spoken to go on about maybe i...
    vierge vierge 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    People say I have a soft and soothing voice.
    Maurelle Maurelle 22-25 2 Responses Apr 4

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    My eyes are naturally a light purple but when I have a lot of emotion like if I'm really happy or sad they deepen to a royal purple. I usually just put contacts in to cover it up.
    Samchezz Samchezz 13-15, F Apr 5

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    Blue, bright blue, like my profile pic. I like it and so do girls, so I have no problem with that.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M Apr 7

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    Yeye so I'm walking out the school with my HIGH SCHOOL options booklet on what subjects I'd like to study for the next 2yrs, and my mates brother goes to me 'awww hiya little girl...
    MixedLesbian MixedLesbian 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    There's a bartender at a tavern I hang out at who only works there on Saturdays. I would drive there to home from work just to have lunch during her shift. I would always share...
    barefootfan29 barefootfan29 26-30, M Apr 13

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    I was sitting with my best friend and I kinda have a crush on her. We were sitting there, working on one of her stories and she said "What if we were to write a fantasy?" And we...
    ArizonaDrew ArizonaDrew 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    A lot of people (mainly guys) have said my voice is very soothing. I don't really agree but ehh.
    lexix0 lexix0 16-17, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Not on here I guess because I usually feel awkward and like I'm wasting people's time, but apparently I'm good at writing. For school now though, I have to do a piece of creative...
    JustTiggz JustTiggz 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I don't think i have a good voice and i crack up a lot, but a few people i know say i have a nice voice. From singing nice and soft music to having that nice soothing voice that...
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I sound a bit girly. If I had to describe my voice it would be, "affluent British man" and if you wanted to visualise then think of someone saying "It was rather good at the...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 12

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    Like everyday lol mainly when I'm in the sun 😘😊
    vividdreamer97 vividdreamer97 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    My eyes are bright brown, and according to people they're big when i'm not squinting so they think it's beautiful. I find my eyes really normal, don't know how others see them as...
    bassamelali bassamelali 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    When I threw a perfect spiral football and all the guys was like damn.. Haha they underestimated me too.
    lilay98 lilay98 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I just got cast in "Le Nozze did Figaro". I just tried out because my mom said I should. I got cast as Cherubino, the Count's page. This part is called a pants part, usually played...
    puber puber 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I can really only think of one thing. My mother always said that there are somethings that people are going to say to you, that you will never forget, that will haunt you forever...
    DeJeKlu DeJeKlu 18-21, F Mar 30

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    I was singing a song from a musical I was in and everyone said I was really good:) it was great:)
    sometimesquiet sometimesquiet 13-15, F Mar 31

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    Idk why. But they do. I like it tho. I love my eyes. I love blue eyes but I like my eyes too.
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Apparently, they change different shades of green, I think it's just the lighting but idk. According to others at certain points they get really hazelish/green and at other times...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    The eyes are the windows to the soul, nuff said.
    vierge vierge 22-25, F Apr 3

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    I'm 14 but people always ask if I'm 11 or 12. Acting immature doesn't help either :/
    PinkChocolate00 PinkChocolate00 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    My eyes are naturally pale blue, if i feel sad its a dark greenish blue, if im happy its a blue with yellowish green around the pupil
    ImGoingCrazyDude ImGoingCrazyDude 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    My eyes are green, and so are my younger brothers. I was born with blue eyes, and so was my brother. At around four years old they changed from blue to green. I don't know why, but...
    scarpi scarpi 18-21, M Apr 5

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    Text me a pick so I can tell u
    Ilikecock7865 Ilikecock7865 13-15, M Apr 7

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    Yup hubby tells me everyday :)
    armstrong7984 armstrong7984 26-30, F Apr 8

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    I tried out for American Idol with Carrie Underwood. In our overnight camp out in the civic center where we were at, all the harmonies that were being produced by thousands of...
    ApollosMuse ApollosMuse 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 9

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    About 6 months ago i went to the cinema to watch Evil Dead, i mean it wasnt even that good but anyways i almost cried to the tickets guy because he thought that i had i dont know...
    FunnyEnglish FunnyEnglish 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 12

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