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I Have Been Told I Am a Calming Influence

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    Whaat?!

    Despite my issues, people have said this about me! I find it hard to believe sometimes. To be told that I'm calming and meant to be a healer still sounds a bit strange. I'm not sure what it is, but I've been told about it.
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Apr 4, 2011

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    If Only It Worked For Me

    It makes me feel good that often I'm the one friends call when they're going through tough times.  When my roommate was going through major surgery, she asked me to take time off to help her out because she was scared and I made her feel calm about it,  I had to help...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    Yes

    I am a very calm person, especially outwardly and particularly when those around me are panicking, I seem to derive their lost sense of calm and will stand back and become the rational voice, the person that does rather than goes through verbal panic and races. I ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6, 2009

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    I Am Needed?

     I am tremendously introverted and therefore I'm not naturally people-oriented, am I? and yet it is strange and surprising to be told, by people like my oldest friend, that they need me around and that I calm them down. because truthfully I feel like I really have no idea...
    janebee janebee 22-25 3 Responses May 27, 2008

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    I lower other people's stress by doing nothing

    Yes, I am a rather calm person. Just ask the thousands of mood rings I've tried...-.- that's all they ever say. CALM. My art teacher once said she likes how I'm always calm. Since she teaches AP Art, she likes the fact that I'm calm because it lowers her stress level. One of my...
    chococat159 chococat159 18-21 Jan 13, 2013

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    I Try To Soothe

    I have spent most of my adult life trying to be the opposite of the man who raised me. Don't let my affection for my father fool you, he was a mean man who was never nice to anyone and never spoke with a soft voice, ever! I grew to love him for reasons I feel were inside me and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 31, 2011

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    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Peace

    I remember once I had a job interview. The lady was late to the interview. I spent almost two hours in with that lady. She told me that when she first met me she felt calm about the interview. She shared personal things about herself and said she liked me. I often get this...
    Abriee Abriee 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    I got told I'm gorgeous ONCE and I've been told I'm pretty a few times, but I have problems believing compliments.
    sceabc sceabc 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Lol not really just thought I'd have a look to see how many self centred egotistical people are about ????????
    chris7379 chris7379 41-45, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am not sure about it but many people told me I am.
    LonAnmol LonAnmol 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I get told it but I'm just like "nah I'm not xD". What do you think... /).(
    xxSatansDemonxx xxSatansDemonxx 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Alchymyst Alchymyst 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    Lots of people have said to me that they think I look closer to my husband's age than my own - and he's only 26.
    MrsRusty MrsRusty 31-35, F Jul 23

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    Someone told me I have a voice for radio. At least I think he said "voice."
    DrWhom DrWhom 51-55 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I was a radio jock for a bit, not long ago, and had an audience of approximately 2.5 million, yes million. My first three months, I was the overnight talent, which meant...
    TallMtnMan TallMtnMan 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 20

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    I am 41 and I have been told i look much youger looking like 28 29. Maybe its the Gym or Bicycling or Bud Light and Cigerettes? Who knows.
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 19

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    So I go to the same place every day before work, I get a coffee, sometimes I get lunch there, and I buy my cigarettes there, I have been going there since they opened, well on...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F Jul 19

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    I'm a junior but I was told I look like a freshman cryin rn
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    I am 50 years young and loving it! I am always mistaken for being in my late 30's. The profile that is posted was taken July 4th 2015. Personally my youthful look comes from...
    womanofblessins womanofblessins 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    And I never really got into it or when I tried it was like they wanted me to pay to do it, and I thought that was stupid. I easily saw myself as a child modeling it's always been a...
    IntoxicatedFairy IntoxicatedFairy 18-21, F Jul 18

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    I get told I look like Justin Bieber too often.
    JasonMcCann JasonMcCann 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    yep happens all the time cos I dont have real boobs yet but THEY WILL GROW well I hope so anyway
    abarepussy abarepussy 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    Been told that I look to be in grade 6 when I'm actually in grade 10. She was fully serious as well 😕
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    Well...actually I don't think I have, but this seemed an appropriate place to share... I have a huge beauty spot on my left ankle. Well, about 5mm diameter. I mean...why there...
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    My eyes are blue, but they change to green or grey depending on what Lighting I am in. But yeah.. :D Also my dad and brother has green eyes and my mom has blue.. Lol
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    MonsterOnTheInside MonsterOnTheInside 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    vivanatasha vivanatasha 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I actually have a broadcaster's voice. People ALWAYS tell me that. It's not as natural as the homeless guy on YouTube, but I can turn very quickly. I also love singing. People like...
    Ilovegirls9696 Ilovegirls9696 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 11

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