I Have Been Unfaithfull

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 156 People

    Once Was Enough

    I was unfathful only once in my marriage and the guilt and agony that ensued was terrible.  To this day I still fear discovery. 
    Michellewhois Michellewhois
    56-60
    10 Responses Aug 22, 2009

    I was the one that found out

    that my father was being unfaithful and I was the one that told my mother so that she would leave him, I grew up with my mom and saw how much it tore her apart. I remember then vowing to never do that to anyone. Fifteen years have passed and somewhere in the middle I was...
    Synapse81 Synapse81
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

    I Know It Was Wrong...

    While my husband was in jail for 6 months I cheated on him about 5 times. I know it was wrong and somehow I don't feel bad. My husband made the decison to go to jail and I don't feel bad for fullfilling my needs. I do feel like a bad person though. Guilt sucks
    mandytap mandytap
    22-25, F
    6 Responses May 16, 2012

    I Have Been Unfaithful For 11 Years

    I met this bloke at church, he was a friend of my manager. Things changed when my manager had to go overseas for 3 months and I had to act on her position. I needed someone to give me support which I wasn't getting from my husband and he was there and he kept checking of how I...
    kindness1114 kindness1114
    46-50, F
    11 Responses Oct 2, 2011

    In My Nature

    I live unfaithfully. I am extremely passionate; I love sex; I love being wanted. I need that last one more than anything. The only times in my life I have been unable to control myself were in the arms of someone who truly wanted me. Being in control of my actions is very...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    15 Responses May 24, 2011

    Lesson Learned

    My ex husband was a terriable flirt and he had mulitpule affairs...even then I still loved him, I wanted more than anything for our marriage to work. Then just before thanksgiving he told me he wanted out of his vows and i was so devastated.... I got an apartment and moved out...
    shysecret shysecret
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Oct 3, 2011

    Wondering About Affairs...

    I pretty much came of age in Paris and moved back to the States (unhappily) a few years ago. I learned a lot about how the French handle situations and life in general, and of course the one that sticks out the most is how they view affairs and marriage and such. It is completely...
    crameika crameika
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Jan 25, 2012

    Being Unfaithful Is Not A Mistake: It Is A Message

    What does it really mean to be "unfaithful"? If we are faithful to someone else whom we no longer love, what does that mean for us? It means we are being unfaithful to our own self. That is not good. I doesnt work. Being unfaithful is a symbolic act. It is a crying out for...
    kim1958 kim1958
    51-55, F
    16 Responses Dec 22, 2010

    What A Mess I Am In

    I was unfaithful after 13 years of marriage ,had never strayed before. Not really sure why but thats another story, I guesse I just liked the attention. But anyway after a few months of marriage counceling and a lot of hard work we are getting it together again except for one...
    t3vr t3vr
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2009

    I Like Some One For 2-3 Weeks and Then Its Gone..i Feel More of An Appreciation For Them..

    So here it goes the story of my life.. I am 21 years old I have dated a few men in my life. Mostly older than me. To all of them I have been unfaithful.. I dont of the "bad thing" my excuse is "OH I DONT HAVE A RING" which is WRONG and I know.. I dont want to...
    xxjulixx xxjulixx
    18-21
    8 Responses Jul 8, 2009

    It Wasn'T Me

    Story of my life, searching for the right But it keeps avoiding me Sorrow in my soul cause it seems that wrong Really loves my company He's more than a man and this is more than love The reason that the sky is blue But clouds are rolling in because I'm gone again And to him I...
    Shedidthat Shedidthat
    31-35, F
    Nov 9, 2013

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    Apr 20
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    41-45, M
    2 Responses Apr 20
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    lonelylifeindia lonelylifeindia
    26-30, M
    Apr 19
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    MyNameIsKhryssy MyNameIsKhryssy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 19
    I have been told this so many times. "I love you forever" "I'll be there for you always" but none really stepped up to prove it. Either they get tired too easily or isn't really...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 19
    It's been three months since I discovered that my husband cheated on me. I chosed to stay because I thought we will be alright after all. But since then I felt I am not happy...
    AshleyFaith AshleyFaith
    26-30, F
    17 Responses Apr 19
    I have been told I do. I I don't find them to be spectacular. they are hazel so they change. I find that people with an agenda will talk about my eyes. I am suspicious of someone...
    DirtyRead DirtyRead
    36-40, M
    Apr 19
    ive been back in hospital & being referred to the burns unit for a skin craft on my arm.. i burnt myself in a moment of weakness. i gave in to the urges to hurt myself & im so...
    alyssiabeth alyssiabeth
    16-17, F
    Apr 16
    it's been almost five years for me and I think it's going to stay this way for some time. Certainly not ready to trust again.
    lostinthisworld83 lostinthisworld83
    31-35, F
    Apr 14
    I am verbally bullied when I was on my 1st and 2nd year in high school. That was pretty tough. Some people think it's nothing because "it's not physical", but that's a major reason...
    SparkofDecency SparkofDecency
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Apr 14
    For those that have been betrayed, I want to leave stories in the archives that they might find helpful should they stumble across this site. Is your spouse's cheating your fault...
    kpitup kpitup
    56-60, F
    1 Response Apr 13
    For those that have been betrayed, I want to leave stories in the archives that they might find helpful should they stumble across this site. Is your spouse's cheating your fault...
    kpitup kpitup
    56-60, F
    Apr 13
    I met him on here... He was perfect, kind, loving, receptive, different from anyone I have ever known before... He never had a relationship... Its easy to see how this happened...
    S33K3R S33K3R
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 13
    For those that have been betrayed, I want to leave stories in the archives that they might find helpful should they stumble across this site. One of the first things I would say...
    kpitup kpitup
    56-60, F
    1 Response Apr 13
    For those that have been betrayed, I want to leave stories in the archives that they might find helpful should they stumble across this site. One of the first things I would say...
    kpitup kpitup
    56-60, F
    Apr 13
    This past few days have been rough. This isn't a short story, be aware. Over a year ago, my mother had been going through changes in her life. She was aging, and had not been...
    Wudugat Wudugat
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 13
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    CouldBeAnybody CouldBeAnybody
    22-25, M
    Apr 12
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    Lincoln98 Lincoln98
    16-17, M
    Apr 10
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    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 10
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    PetiteChica PetiteChica
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 9
    I've been busy but....I'm backkkk!
    CatalinaPetrova CatalinaPetrova
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 9
    I always have preferred to go to female doctors. At one of my physicals i was being examined by a beautiful young middle eastern nurse practitioner. After she had checked my...
    tbobo1 tbobo1
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Apr 9
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    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    Apr 9
    Something told me to log on (my inner voice?) and I'm so disappointed to see this site is closing down. There have been times when this was the only socializing I had in my life...
    StormWatcher69 StormWatcher69
    46-50, M
    1 Response Apr 8
    I've been single for about 3 years now. No one had shown any true interest in me and I figured I'd always be alone. I had resorted to just saying and telling myself I'd always be...
    MeekaMonstahh MeekaMonstahh
    22-25, F
    Apr 8
    Didn't think I'd need to do another one of these but.... This is the 2nd time this has happened in the same relationship. I don't want it to end though. Okay I'm just putting...
    Cainamythgimoj Cainamythgimoj
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 8
    It was during My 8th grade year. This girl bullied me and my twin sister. I don't know why she bullied us. To be honest I was the most hurt one. I have done research on "why do...
    gabbyplusbff gabbyplusbff
    18-21, F
    Apr 8
    Hello everyone! I'm back :) I know I keep taking long breaks on here but I promise I won't happen again, I had to delete the app to have some more space on my phone so that got me...
    BornInTheWrongEra72 BornInTheWrongEra72
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Apr 7
    As a matter of fact, I have been to many other countries. Mexico, Great Britain (England, Ireland and Scotland... sorry, Wales!), France, Italy, Germany and Israel. I THINK those...
    Move4Word Move4Word
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Apr 7
    Yeah, sure, I've told but lots of men that I am beautiful. But that has only been in my adult years. When I was younger, everyone treated me like an ugly monster. Like I would...
    SeanaO SeanaO
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Apr 6
    After an 18 months long intense cocoa be addiction I have him an ultimatum. Me or drugs, I spent the next six months helping him through his withdrawal - I failed to attend school...
    DarkNightsBrightStars DarkNightsBrightStars
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 6
    Usually, when people call someone 'stupid', it's because they don't agree with what they have to say. Just because a person disagrees with you, doesn't mean they are stupid.
    Hannah1100 Hannah1100
    13-15, F
    Apr 6
    I was sent a message by an undeniably stupid guy. He,at first, did some introductory greetings, and then asked me about my name. At that time, I had the same username as my name...
    Notlessthananyone Notlessthananyone
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Apr 6
    Im getting kicked out && have nowhere to go.... only outta state but my boyfriend is in jail here in Georgia i cant just leave my relationship... but i have nowhere else to go...
    therealshy therealshy
    18-21, F
    Apr 5
    FTR I would like to point out isn't it strange how when Bruce Lee, Easy E, MJ and (maybe Elvis Presley too)?? Died a nurse or doctor was by their side? I know it's common but they...
    Sazzio Sazzio
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 5
    But not by my husband. Apparently my former boyfriend didn't like the fact that was not going to have sex until I was married. Oh well, there was someone better waiting around the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 4
    I'm male but I got beat up by a girl. I didn't want to hit her cause I knew I'd knock her out. We were 13 at the time. She had been in many fights before and had never lost, and...
    Tegrais134 Tegrais134
    16-17, M
    Apr 4
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    Manuel000 Manuel000
    18-21, M
    Apr 4
    When I was in Junior High the whole class got it one at a time, for misbehaving substitute teacher. Our science teacher was strict and didn't tolerate talking or not doing what...
    davedexp davedexp
    56-60, M
    1 Response Apr 3
    Next month I'm going to France, Italy, Germany and England. I'm very excited but hope that not knowing the languages won't cause me too much anxiety. I'd spent a short time in...
    GracefulKat GracefulKat
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Apr 3
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    lonelylifeindia lonelylifeindia
    26-30, M
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    Another Night in HeartBreak Hollywood Woke up, around 4pm, springtime’s sunlight, through my bedroom window shining in, I’m in a house, somewhere off Mulholland, had a call...
    AaronLA AaronLA
    31-35, M
    Apr 3
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    oliviayay oliviayay
    18-21, F
    Apr 2
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    CoffeeTimeNow CoffeeTimeNow
    22-25, F
    Apr 2
    With Experience Project closing, I've been meaning to say something. I never get a chance to appreciate this place like I used to. From the time I found this app, to the time it is...
    laurmb laurmb
    16-17, F
    Apr 2
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    10786y 10786y
    22-25, F
    Apr 1
    I see a lot of groups about against child abuse and I'm with that 100%. I see so many posts where a child lives in fear from their parents. Verbal abuse is the worse.But what if it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 1
    For those of you who have lost your desire to pray, to sing,I'm asking God to put that melody back in your hearts tonight; cause you to lift your voice, even though you don't...
    Lincoln98 Lincoln98
    16-17, M
    Apr 1
    For those of you who have lost your desire to pray, to sing,I'm asking God to put that melody back in your hearts tonight; cause you to lift your voice, even though you don't...
    Lincoln98 Lincoln98
    16-17, M
    Apr 1
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