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I Have Been Unfaithfull

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    Lesson Learned

    My ex husband was a terriable flirt and he had mulitpule affairs...even then I still loved him, I wanted more than anything for our marriage to work. Then just before thanksgiving he told me he wanted out of his vows and i was so devastated.... I got an apartment and moved out...
    shysecret shysecret 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 3, 2011

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    I Know It Was Wrong...

    While my husband was in jail for 6 months I cheated on him about 5 times. I know it was wrong and somehow I don't feel bad. My husband made the decison to go to jail and I don't feel bad for fullfilling my needs. I do feel like a bad person though. Guilt sucks
    mandytap mandytap 22-25, F 7 Responses May 16, 2012

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    Being Unfaithful Is Not A Mistake: It Is A Message

    What does it really mean to be "unfaithful"? If we are faithful to someone else whom we no longer love, what does that mean for us? It means we are being unfaithful to our own self. That is not good. I doesnt work. Being unfaithful is a symbolic act. It is a crying out for...
    kim1958 kim1958 51-55, F 17 Responses Dec 22, 2010

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    I Have Been Unfaithful For 11 Years

    I met this bloke at church, he was a friend of my manager. Things changed when my manager had to go overseas for 3 months and I had to act on her position. I needed someone to give me support which I wasn't getting from my husband and he was there and he kept checking of how I...
    kindness1114 kindness1114 46-50, F 11 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    I Like Some One For 2-3 Weeks and Then Its Gone..i Feel More of An Appreciation For Them..

    So here it goes the story of my life.. I am 21 years old I have dated a few men in my life. Mostly older than me. To all of them I have been unfaithful.. I dont of the "bad thing" my excuse is "OH I DONT HAVE A RING" which is WRONG and I know.. I dont want to...
    xxjulixx xxjulixx 18-21 8 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    It Wasn'T Me

    Story of my life, searching for the right But it keeps avoiding me Sorrow in my soul cause it seems that wrong Really loves my company He's more than a man and this is more than love The reason that the sky is blue But clouds are rolling in because I'm gone again And to him I...
    Shedidthat Shedidthat 31-35, F Nov 9, 2013

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    I was the one that found out

    that my father was being unfaithful and I was the one that told my mother so that she would leave him, I grew up with my mom and saw how much it tore her apart. I remember then vowing to never do that to anyone. Fifteen years have passed and somewhere in the middle I was...
    Synapse81 Synapse81 31-35, M Jul 18

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    What A Mess I Am In

    I was unfaithful after 13 years of marriage ,had never strayed before. Not really sure why but thats another story, I guesse I just liked the attention. But anyway after a few months of marriage counceling and a lot of hard work we are getting it together again except for one...
    t3vr t3vr 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    Wondering About Affairs...

    I pretty much came of age in Paris and moved back to the States (unhappily) a few years ago. I learned a lot about how the French handle situations and life in general, and of course the one that sticks out the most is how they view affairs and marriage and such. It is completely...
    crameika crameika 26-30, F 13 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    In My Nature

    I live unfaithfully. I am extremely passionate; I love sex; I love being wanted. I need that last one more than anything. The only times in my life I have been unable to control myself were in the arms of someone who truly wanted me. Being in control of my actions is very...
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses May 24, 2011

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    Once Was Enough

    I was unfathful only once in my marriage and the guilt and agony that ensued was terrible.  To this day I still fear discovery. 
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 11 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    :) on the outside but :( in the inside!I've been through a lot of pain physically as well as psychologically so i've been through hell and been through a lot more than a average 21...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I need to express this. I feel so alone and feel that I am going through all of the emotions at once dealing with this. I sometimes don't even know where to begin. But I pray that...
    FromJWtoJEW FromJWtoJEW 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been married to my husband for 5 years. When we first got together during our last year of college, we liked to party as any young kids do. We would drink and smoke and...
    youaremystrength youaremystrength 26-30 3 Responses Aug 5

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    Bringing relationships to completion and walking away with loving detachment: exerpt from Ch. 18 of Oneness Acceptance, unconditionally, of whatever has been presented, without the...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 4 Responses Aug 7

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    I like to take nude summit photos. I am as much embarrassed by this as I am excited, so I make sure no one is around. Recently I was at the summit of a local mountain just...
    xxname xxname 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    so far in my life i have been to canada, usa, spain, netherlands & iceland. i've also been to scotland, ireland & wales, but seems as they're part of great britain, i'm not...
    samosborne12 samosborne12 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    So, I have not long come out of a private hospital here in the UK as an NHS patient (state funded to you American folks) and it's gone fairly well overall. I went in in a state...
    SolitaryFriend SolitaryFriend 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    I am currently married and unsure if I am in an abusive relationship or if I am just difficult to deal with. My husband has never hit me, but the things that he says to me and...
    Gonzales96 Gonzales96 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 16

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    I was adopted at birth and the woman who adopted me raised me since birth so that is my mom or so I thought..Throughout my entire life things were a struggle..I began cutting...
    ChandlerTitus1 ChandlerTitus1 18-21, F Aug 16

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    this poem remind me of my grandma, she was big on rescuing and burying any dead animals on the roads I learned alot from her LONELY DOG POEM(COPIED) ...ADOPT! Once I was a lonely...
    dannygirl89 dannygirl89 22-25, F Aug 16

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    I have lost a lot of friends and in the back of my head a little voice always says: "You should have been a better friend, you could have been a better friend but you weren't an...
    Sky233 Sky233 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    A Bridge Across the Pain. I remember one morning when I was three and sitting across the table from my father at breakfast, just he and I, when for no reason I could think of he...
    Steffi97 Steffi97 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    For basically all of my life.Mostly because i keep everything bottled up inside.I know its not good for me but i have kept this bottle as a Safe mode for all of my life. Just...
    UndefinedMind29 UndefinedMind29 16-17, F Aug 19

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    I've been few continents by myself. The most difficult places have been the spanish speaking countries. ( language barriers, dangerous, etc) I must say people in Peru are nice and...
    nomadic32 nomadic32 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    My ex gf just got arrested yesterday for showing domestic violence towards me in our school parking lot this week. I told the witnesses to call the police, and they did. When we...
    Kiyamilan Kiyamilan 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I have been very busy this last few weeks. i work a lot as it is! These last few weeks have taken me to some pretty strange hours of the day. I have been getting up at 2AM and...
    johnlament19 johnlament19 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I have been to France, Italy, Spain and China. All beautiful in their own unique way but France was my favorite
    isitpossible83 isitpossible83 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    was a very dramatic stunt, played by my mother. At one point, I 'wanted' to be admitted. At least then, I'd have been comfortable. She was a lying, stubborn, idiotic, selfish...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I have been to Australia, China, Hong Kong, Thailand, Russia, Mexico, Honduras, Afghanistan, Japan, The Netherlands, France and Canada. And I really want to visit many other...
    Brandona7x Brandona7x 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 5

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    For as long as I can remember. I hvnt told anyone about what I have been going through, how i felt or wht i really thought about anything. At times I feel like I hv lost the...
    masquerader masquerader 18-21 Aug 5

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    NOT. ONE. PENNY. All of you with a couple coins in your pocket, even some with hundreds in their bank... Not one. damn. Penny to help a young girl. I have been rotting. Away in...
    Daisypie Daisypie 18-21, F Aug 5

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    About 10 years ago I went to the UK and France. That was one of the most amazing vacations I have been on.
    curiousgirl1214 curiousgirl1214 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 5

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    I have been told my voice sounds very kind and nurturing. People have told me its difficult to tell when I'm angry because my voice still sounds very gentle even when I'm upset. It...
    tendersoul22 tendersoul22 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 5

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    I would have been with you forever, with you I didn't need anybody else ... more importantly I didn't want anybody else, but finding out that you were unfaithful in our...
    qbanbb85 qbanbb85 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I can't help myself. It's the what if, could have been, and over thinking that gets me into trouble.
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I have been to, Norway, Denmark, England, Spain,Finland and Germany. also a short stop in France for breakfast on the way to spain.
    megirl36 megirl36 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    Boateng made a bold shoe choice Wednesday. The Bayern Munich player wore a pair of coveted chaussures asics shoes when he visited the Adidas campus in North Portland. Boateng and...
    123watt 123watt 22-25, F Aug 8

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    Boateng made a bold shoe choice Wednesday. The Bayern Munich player wore a pair of coveted chaussures asics shoes when he visited the Adidas campus in North Portland. Boateng and...
    123watt 123watt 22-25, F Aug 8

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    I have been told this as it seems I always bring up sad issues for no apparent reason, even if it wasn't a big deal or even that sad. I do catch myself feeling like I'm purposely...
    lilyranger90 lilyranger90 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I think it is hard to live in Canada and not go to the USA at least once. So almost every Canadian will say they have been to another country. I just wish I could see more...
    galdran galdran 36-40, M Aug 9

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    ever since i was little me and my siblings have been abused by our oldest brother. our parents left a lot and went on a lot of vacations and left us home alone with him. he moved...
    whatyourheartisfor whatyourheartisfor 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I am blocked by my best friend in college! We have been friends for a long time and she became very demanding and took me for granted. So I wanted to pull back a little. She then...
    nxcatfishy nxcatfishy 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    so far i have been to spain and italy, and hungary.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 11

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    I have been on here before met amazing people on here some not same age as well really friendly people I hope they have there account im ready to mingle again ;) ♥♡♥♡ I do...
    Xxchristinx18 Xxchristinx18 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I have been friend zoned by very attractive .she beautiful but says she just isnt attracted to me like that. It sucks so much because she is beautiful funny smart talented and...
    Hurricane95 Hurricane95 18-21, M Aug 13

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