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I Have Been Unfaithfull

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    I Have Been Unfaithful For 11 Years

    I met this bloke at church, he was a friend of my manager. Things changed when my manager had to go overseas for 3 months and I had to act on her position. I needed someone to give me support which I wasn't getting from my husband and he was there and he kept checking of how I...
    kindness1114 kindness1114 46-50, F 11 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    Being Unfaithful Is Not A Mistake: It Is A Message

    What does it really mean to be "unfaithful"? If we are faithful to someone else whom we no longer love, what does that mean for us? It means we are being unfaithful to our own self. That is not good. I doesnt work. Being unfaithful is a symbolic act. It is a crying out for...
    kim1958 kim1958 51-55, F 17 Responses Dec 22, 2010

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    What A Mess I Am In

    I was unfaithful after 13 years of marriage ,had never strayed before. Not really sure why but thats another story, I guesse I just liked the attention. But anyway after a few months of marriage counceling and a lot of hard work we are getting it together again except for one...
    t3vr t3vr 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    Lesson Learned

    My ex husband was a terriable flirt and he had mulitpule affairs...even then I still loved him, I wanted more than anything for our marriage to work. Then just before thanksgiving he told me he wanted out of his vows and i was so devastated.... I got an apartment and moved out...
    shysecret shysecret 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 3, 2011

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    I Know It Was Wrong...

    While my husband was in jail for 6 months I cheated on him about 5 times. I know it was wrong and somehow I don't feel bad. My husband made the decison to go to jail and I don't feel bad for fullfilling my needs. I do feel like a bad person though. Guilt sucks
    mandytap mandytap 22-25, F 7 Responses May 16, 2012

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    Once Was Enough

    I was unfathful only once in my marriage and the guilt and agony that ensued was terrible.  To this day I still fear discovery. 
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 11 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    Wondering About Affairs...

    I pretty much came of age in Paris and moved back to the States (unhappily) a few years ago. I learned a lot about how the French handle situations and life in general, and of course the one that sticks out the most is how they view affairs and marriage and such. It is completely...
    crameika crameika 26-30, F 13 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    It Wasn'T Me

    Story of my life, searching for the right But it keeps avoiding me Sorrow in my soul cause it seems that wrong Really loves my company He's more than a man and this is more than love The reason that the sky is blue But clouds are rolling in because I'm gone again And to him I...
    Shedidthat Shedidthat 31-35, F Nov 9, 2013

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    I Like Some One For 2-3 Weeks and Then Its Gone..i Feel More of An Appreciation For Them..

    So here it goes the story of my life.. I am 21 years old I have dated a few men in my life. Mostly older than me. To all of them I have been unfaithful.. I dont of the "bad thing" my excuse is "OH I DONT HAVE A RING" which is WRONG and I know.. I dont want to...
    xxjulixx xxjulixx 18-21 8 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    In My Nature

    I live unfaithfully. I am extremely passionate; I love sex; I love being wanted. I need that last one more than anything. The only times in my life I have been unable to control myself were in the arms of someone who truly wanted me. Being in control of my actions is very...
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses May 24, 2011

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    I was the one that found out

    that my father was being unfaithful and I was the one that told my mother so that she would leave him, I grew up with my mom and saw how much it tore her apart. I remember then vowing to never do that to anyone. Fifteen years have passed and somewhere in the middle I was...
    Synapse81 Synapse81 31-35, M Jul 18

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    Related Experiences

    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    I need to express this. I feel so alone and feel that I am going through all of the emotions at once dealing with this. I sometimes don't even know where to begin. But I pray that...
    FromJWtoJEW FromJWtoJEW 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I have to say, I've never witnessed or experienced blocking at such a high frequency on any other site as much as on EP. It amazes me, humors me, and appalls me at times. Even...
    AllStarcrushNate AllStarcrushNate 26-30, M 6 Responses Sep 8

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    I've been so busy with school work , my son and other family things I haven't been on in forever . First I lost my second child a month ago so I've been going through that and...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I've been few continents by myself. The most difficult places have been the spanish speaking countries. ( language barriers, dangerous, etc) I must say people in Peru are nice and...
    nomadic32 nomadic32 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    Well that was fun...I had an accident at the farm and ended up with a concision...I have been here for 2 days now and I don't even know what happened...must have been bad cause my...
    BustyRedHead321 BustyRedHead321 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 4

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    I have been cheated on more than a couple times, my latest ex cheated on me but is now texting me all the time.part of me feels like hey karma is a ***** because he says the new...
    LoudMouse LoudMouse 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I live in a city that is very expensive and only work in a fairly low paid industry. long story short I cant live with family and I am a Christian who believes it is better for me...
    funkykristi funkykristi 31-35, F Sep 10

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and he is my life but the guy before me was a jerk. He had sex with someone in my bed whilst I was at work luckily I was left off work...
    mparker7789 mparker7789 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have been, and still am part of a really abusive selfish mother and an enabler father. My mother is so derailed mentally, she is viciously crewel. She has antagonized me from...
    pistacchia pistacchia 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    A Bridge Across the Pain. I remember one morning when I was three and sitting across the table from my father at breakfast, just he and I, when for no reason I could think of he...
    Steffi97 Steffi97 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    Umm i have been rejected to 8 girls. My social life sucks.
    IamDonatello IamDonatello 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    For basically all of my life.Mostly because i keep everything bottled up inside.I know its not good for me but i have kept this bottle as a Safe mode for all of my life. Just...
    UndefinedMind29 UndefinedMind29 16-17, F Aug 19

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    Lately I have been doing good by going to the Masque cause I am Muslim and pray allot I left the alcohol and the smoking and the bar seen behind to get closer to god inshallah like...
    Shirazsh Shirazsh 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I'm from England and I have been to Scotland, Spain, France, Portugal and Turkey! I would love to visit the USA though!
    Dec200 Dec200 13-15, M 5 Responses Aug 22

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    My ex gf just got arrested yesterday for showing domestic violence towards me in our school parking lot this week. I told the witnesses to call the police, and they did. When we...
    Kiyamilan Kiyamilan 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Yes. I have been told I was younger than I look. What you think?
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    In pictures obviously I'm a guy aha ... but not unless the girl wanted i disagree with random flashers haha. The only exception to this is when I'm drunk because i end up stripping...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M Aug 23

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    In have been seen nude so many times I can't keep track! I love it! That's why I pose nude do art classes. An excuse to be nude in front of all of people!!
    Crdrinker Crdrinker 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I have been single for two years and I'm tired of being single!!!!!!
    theonenibodylikes theonenibodylikes 13-15, M Aug 24

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    For the last 8 years I have been studying, working and traveling overseas, but sometimes I feel lonely as my friends is spread around the world, the good thing is whenever I come...
    Jasonaditya Jasonaditya 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 24

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    I feel like i have been on my own for so long. I am not even sure if I know how to be with someone anymore.
    Erinjessica Erinjessica 22-25, F Aug 26

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    I have been to Thailand and I was sad and amazing all at the same time ! Te beaches were lovely !! The night sky was ******* amazing !
    20andinkedxxx 20andinkedxxx 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I have been very busy this last few weeks. i work a lot as it is! These last few weeks have taken me to some pretty strange hours of the day. I have been getting up at 2AM and...
    johnlament19 johnlament19 18-21, M Aug 28

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    I've loved to travel all my life. I was born in New Zealand. I have been to Australia, Samoa, Tonga and Tokelau Islands. I will never forget it. Oceania is beautiful and I...
    InfiniteSunshine InfiniteSunshine 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I have been to Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia, China, Hong Kong, Japan and USA and UAE. I would love to travel more, like Europe (maybe next year), UAE for more cities, UK, Japan...
    candy8ar candy8ar 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    my boyfriend is trying to convince me that I 'admitted' doing something with another guy before our 'split up', when I didn't. I was sure he broke up with me so I turned to alcohol...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    Not that many really. I live in the UK, I went to Spain when I was 4, France when I was 9 and when I was 12 (actually I might have been 11, not sure but it doesn't really make much...
    CupcakeCarnival CupcakeCarnival 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 1

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    I have been physically abused by my alcoholic dad ever since I was in 3rd grade. He went to jail for a couple years but is now back. It has gotten better now that I am bigger and...
    ihill032299 ihill032299 16-17, M Sep 2

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    I have been depressed before~ People I knew had cancer 2 died 1 is surviving 1my grandma -died 2my friend -died 3 my mum -lived I was depressed The first time is when I found...
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    To "I am the other man", FU you coward. Thanks for your part in destroying my marriage. Yes I made mistakes but have been man enough to change and not hide.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I live in the USA. I am originally from ethiopia, people with good culture and value. I have been to Canada new found land- nice place and better life!
    greatmotuma greatmotuma 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    By my voice, looks and demeanor, I must have been told I resemble Jeff Bridges. Probably at least 100 times. No hyperbole.
    WaterOx WaterOx 41-45, M Sep 7

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    I have been to Australia, New Zealand, Florida, Antigua, Saint Lucia, Barbados, the SeyChelles, Bermuda, Grenada, The Maldives, Spain, Portugal, Italy, Greece, Austria, Germany...
    hermione118 hermione118 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    I have been told for years I have a sexy voice. Now that I am of this time those I speak with tell me I sound much younger and very sexy....time has been generous to me!
    WhiteRosesDelivered WhiteRosesDelivered 66-70, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    If anyone thinks meehannah is a girl you have been scammed, "she" is actually a guy and he admitted it when we were messaging on k.ik Here is the proof
    Heyitsme69 Heyitsme69 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I have been, but the worst part is, that person/s doesn't even know they hurt you.
    gwenllian gwenllian 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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