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I Have Boyfriend In Prison

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    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response May 24

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    Hey ladies It's a good day

    for me so far, I've been busy... Went to college this morning and got an early lunch as I had finished all my work. So I went a walk to a card shop and bought three cards. All have amazing sayings on them. So my question to you's is... Do you's send cards randomly to your...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 22

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    Strange Place To Find Your Soulmate

    Little did I realize that people in prison were just that people. Having worked inside we are supposed to keep the offenders at bay. After knowing each other on a working level. One day he kissed me and I knew this was the soulmate I seeked all my life. How could my mind begin to...
    fatimabarras fatimabarras 46-50, F Jul 20, 2013

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    Please Help With Coping

    Like many of you I never thought that I would ever say I have a boyfriend in prison. However, here we all are. My best friend and the love of my life, has gotten himself into some trouble. I know the whole situation and it was a terrible accident, and now he is facing 6-10 years...
    vanillamoon13 vanillamoon13 36-40 15 Responses Jan 5, 2011

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    My Exhusband In Prison

    I had met my ex and was very vulnerable wanting another baby and he agreed he would. Not long after he moved in with me I got pregnant. Long story he went to jail and eventually prison I stood by him the entire time thinking he had good possibilities if I stood by him. I was...
    akimble akimble 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2013

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    This is so hard! I'm only human.

    .. How can I cope still? Wish I knew how to get through this...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    LADIES IAM REALLY IN MY FEELINGS TODAY I MISS

    MY BOO MORE AND MORE EACH DAY I TRIED TO KEEP IT TOGETHA CUZ I DONT WANT HIM TO SEE ME HURTIN BUT THIS IS KILLIN ME I LUV HIM TO PIECES BUT THIS IS TAKIN A TOLE ON ME I DONT WANNA LEAVE HIS SIDE BUT IAM BEGINNING TO GET REAL LONELY
    Mzmodest Mzmodest 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    My boyfriend has been in prison

    for one month so far, he is only in for 12-18 months depending on good time but today is the first day I saw him. It was very hard seeing him in the whole prison uniform and not being able to hug him every second, does visits get easier for anyone else? I am dedicated to staying...
    Marie240 Marie240 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    The Justice System Is So Unfair

    Well I am trying to hold on to some kinda of hope but every time I do I get it taken right away.I finially go what I thought was a good lawyer to do my husbands appeal but it turned out he was a crook.It was so hard to even come up with the money to afford him because we are not...
    daddysgirl8975 daddysgirl8975 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2011

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    What's the difference between having a

    boyfriend in prison compared to having a boyfriend that's not? Well besides from the obvious like we don't see eachother every day, there's no other difference. I still love him as if he's perfect, like he didn't commit a crime. Just like any "normal" relationship. A...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F May 4

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    Umm. Looking for some advice

    and thoughts on this. Quicknotes: I'm a first time "prison girlfriend". There are zero doubts about me standing by my man, he's amazing and I love him so much! He has a little bit of time left until he's home. So here's my predicament. My boyfriend had a cellphone. He is...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    my boyfriend always find his self doing stupid

    things to get his self in trouble & I don't feel like I'm strong enough to lose him to prison ????.
    gotallthequestions gotallthequestions 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    My Boyfriend Has To Serve 10 Years In Prison :(

    After a year and a half of waiting for a trial, my boyfriend accepted a deal for 12 years with time for credit served. We have a 2 year old daughter, he's been gone since she was 8 months old, and I have literally cried every single day since April 1, 2010. I feel so empty at...
    solitaYsola solitaYsola 22-25 5 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    i miss my boyfriend so much i just feel

    so alone since my family don't want me with him so they try to break me and him up and my friends don't get why i am still with him but he loves me so much and i love him so much too so i have no one to talk to about things like this and i am just 19 years old all alone, i need...
    marisela3192013 marisela3192013 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    Do any of you girls know

    if we are allowed to get photos with our man even though they are incarcerated?
    Insearchofsunrise Insearchofsunrise 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 4

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    My boyfriend only of 3years just got 10 years

    hes been gone for 8 mos we talk on the phone almost everyday i also have a 5 year old an we really jyst had a happy life togethet this his first kids at 35years old this hurt so bad please yall help me find my self at times all i do is cry
    mscrisp mscrisp 26-30 2 Responses Apr 29

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    so sad my baby hasnt called me today i know he

    ran out of minutes on the phone lastnight and was going to put them on it today does anyone know how long it usually takes for that money to clear on the phone im so sad i wish i want to talk to him :(
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    Writing this letter is killing me inside,

    I'm crying. I hope he realises that I need time to sort my head out, to be able to work on myself and he needs to do the same if we are ever to work out as a couple when he's released from prison. I do love and care about him still but he needs to get himself sorted too
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Boyfriend In Prison

    When I met David he was a drug dealer and we were both in Ibiza. Maybe I should seen the warning signs! But he was charming, funny and wonderful and I fell for him straight away. He treated me like a princess. Over the next year we talked and met up on and off but both had...
    KimboButton KimboButton 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    Three and a half years left 😥 It's long,

    but in that time I'll get my life together and get to know him better ❤️
    caitlynr18 caitlynr18 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I Miss My Boyfriend...

         My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years now. I am head-over-heels for the man. Even though we argue, I still love him and I can't see myself with anyone else. He was just transferred to prison yesterday from county jail because...
    PR1NC3SS09 PR1NC3SS09 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27, 2010

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    My boyfriend went to prison in April I was 8

    weeks pregnant when he got arrested it was such a shock, I'm 21 weeks now & obviously have a little fighter in my tummy but I'm struggling to stay positive & not break down every 5 minutes. He got sentenced to 6 yrs 9 months but will only do half that time but still how am I...
    kelbels kelbels 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Gooooood morning everyone!

    I feel so much happier this morning, it's only 8:41am so let's hope I stay happy hehe. Keep your chins up everyone, there is always light at the end of the tunnel, day after night and hope will get us through :-) Have a good day and take care!
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F Apr 14

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    I had my first visit (contact)

    since my love was in county, yesterday. I have never visited a prison before and was so nervous. I hadn't seen or touched my love in two months! Those two months were so long and hard...but as soon as my love walked out to meet me and we locked eyes, it was ALL worth it!! It...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    My Sam

    I have been with my partner Sam for nearly 13 years we have 2 children. One morning after dropping my eldest daughter at school in 2004 turned into my street to see my house surrounded by the police. As I ran towards them i all i remember thinking was that Sam was dead, and...
    delgirl delgirl 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2007

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    my best friend is in prison.

    . he has 16 more months to go-we have known each other for 8 yrs.. well almost 2 years ago he had me talk to another friend of his that was also there in prison-i didn't ever think i would have anything with someone in prison but i guess we don't plan things so the more...
    traci1212 traci1212 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    Have any of you ever picked up a pen

    and paper feeling like you could write pages then you start it and immediately get writers block Ahh I hate it 😜
    hisgirlXOXO hisgirlXOXO 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 4

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    Haha some people must think I'm stupid.

    .. Pretending to be someone else just to findout information about my bf! Sorry love but you are his EX for a reason!
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response May 10

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    it seems like forever I've always wanted my

    boyfriend and wow I finally get the chance . it's been along 10 years but the first time I laid my eyes on him I knew I wanted to marry him I won't ever forget that first time I saw him walking in the hall at school . and so random the next year I would become so close to his...
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F Nov 30

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    does anyone know of any dirty things i can say

    to my boyfriend over the phone im horrible at phone sex or w.e idk what to say lol what are some of the things you's say to your men ?
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    This Sucks.

    Well me and my boyfriend (Josh) started dating October 13, 2012. Josh is 5 and a half years older than me. I am 16 years old, and he is 21 years old. He is currently in jail for engaging in sexual contact with me. I currently live in the state of New Jersey where laws about this...
    amychrisinee amychrisinee 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    Well nearly been 2 months without my man

    but yet it's still odd having no one to wake up to just a cold side of the bed, coming home from work to an empty house. I'm living 3 different life's at them moment. I have my work life - nothing's wrong with me my life's fine, I'm always (fake) smiling. Then I have the show I...
    LaurenD1 LaurenD1 18-21 3 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    I hope I get to hear his voice tomorrow haven't

    talked to him in 4 days I hope he don't get in anymore trouble I don't want to go threw this again not talking to him is the worst I hope he's staying positive
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    misssing my jail bird right

    now sucks how i wont be able to talk to him till the night time thats if he even calls ugh this is so tough i love him so much i hope hes thinking about me too i hope i get a letter from him todayyy :((
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 13

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    I miss him terribly tonight.

    It seems I cannot be happy lately, I just want to see him. Unfortunately that's not an option.. What does everyone else do when you are feeling down and loosing ambition to keep going
    hisgirlXOXO hisgirlXOXO 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    My Boyfriend Has 4 Months Left!!!

    Hi I am 21 and my bf is 20. He has 4 more months on a 17 month sentence for breaking and entering. I miss him SOOO much even tho this is not his 1st time being locked up. I love him and I want him to come home and do right for my son and I. I also want to carry his children...
    SexyDiva19 SexyDiva19 18-21 6 Responses Apr 18, 2010

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    didnt get that morning call today

    so i most likely wont hear from him till tonight. its so depressing i miss him so much. all i have are these memories and it kills me to think about them but i do wish we made more memories tho. i wish i got to spend more time with him before he left he was out for 5 months...
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    Its been 2 years since the incident happened.

    ..but baby I know you weren't in your right mind...my baby got 3⃣ LIFE SENTENCES at only 17 😭😭😩 Free my baby TJ 💙
    x0dollface x0dollface 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 4

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    Well I just got my exam results.

    .. Abit disappointing that I only got a C grade but it's not my final result so I guess I can try harder next year for my final! Just feeling abit disappointed in myself... But on a happier note I get to see my boyfriend tomorrow :-) wish I could just cuddle him now
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response May 27

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    My boyfriend has been incarcerated

    since 2009. I have stood by his side for the past 5 years. They recently (1yr ago) moved him to a prison 5 hours away : /.I visited every chance I could when he was closer to home. I have made the 5hr trip every other weekend when the weather would allow me to. As 2014 came I...
    anav2018 anav2018 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    Tick..Tock..

    I was just told this evening, by my incarcerated fiance, that a site like this existed. I told him I was definitely going to be googling it. He was unsure of the name, but I did happen to come across EP. After reading a few stories of women in similiar situations and exploring...
    MandT23 MandT23 26-30, F Sep 10, 2013

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    It's all about adapting.

    If what you have is real, y'all will find a way to get thru this. Yes my boyfriend is in prison but we are trying to make the best out of a terrible situation. For example: We still have "dates" - our weekly phone calls We "text" - he can hear my response when he calls even when...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    Well today someone who was supposed to be

    supporting me while going through a similar thing decided to through up what y bf did, all this and being horrible and mean because I said I can't cope with this no more and was thinking of moving on. Silly little girl I guess
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Holding It Down For Your Love..

    so ive known my boyfriend for almost 6 years now but didnt become a couple till 2 years ago..ive always known i loved him & that there was something about him that would bring us together one day...when we first started dating his was the best boyfriend a girl could ask for...
    stephbabe145 stephbabe145 18-21 3 Responses Jul 13, 2011

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    Countdown To 12/30/2012

    My boo is in prison. I met him while he was/is incarcerated. I could not ask for a more perfect man for me. His discharge date is 12/30/2012. He is able to go up for parole this up coming November. If he is granted then he should be coming home 12/1/2011. A little over 21 months...
    chey20002001 chey20002001 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    i am madly in love with my fiance he recently

    went to jail two month ago and its been very hard on me. i thought it would get easier but its gotten worse. he is suppose to be gone for two years but we can hopefully get on home confinement in 10 months i pray. i am fully committed to him im not worried about being lonely or...
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 11

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    I have been waiting 2yrs

    for the man I believe is my soul mate. I have been super down about it lately. He got a 12yr sentence & I do not know when he will be out. :(
    ChristianAlicia ChristianAlicia 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    I just met him three days ago

    but he's so hot and sweet! He makes me smile so much. He says he gets out in 2 months! He's been in there for 4 years. He told me he was put in prison for drugs. I believe him. I hope when we gets out we will have a happy life together! I'm falling for him already! 😍
    Crazymotrucker Crazymotrucker 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    There is an end! You're in the beginning,

    or the middle. I am in the end. I've been where you are right now, waiting for a phone call. Or maybe you're loading a moneypak. Unfortunately, you're probably wishing this day would come to an end, so you could be one day closer to your sweet, beautiful man who is enduring hell...
    ColombianaQueen ColombianaQueen 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    i miss my baby so much ugh i cant wait till he

    calls me again i hate that hes in jailll this is horrible
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    My fiancee has been in prison

    for a year now with 2 more to go. I miss him so much I can hardly stand it. He is 3 hours away so I can go see him quite often, but every time I have to come home it tears me up. I have had a few meltdowns over the last year, but they are becoming more frequent and I just don't...
    mmmshells mmmshells 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 1

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