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I Have Boyfriend In Prison

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    My fiancee has been in prison

    for a year now with 2 more to go. I miss him so much I can hardly stand it. He is 3 hours away so I can go see him quite often, but every time I have to come home it tears me up. I have had a few meltdowns over the last year, but they are becoming more frequent and I just don't...
    mmmshells mmmshells 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    Tick..Tock..

    I was just told this evening, by my incarcerated fiance, that a site like this existed. I told him I was definitely going to be googling it. He was unsure of the name, but I did happen to come across EP. After reading a few stories of women in similiar situations and exploring...
    MandT23 MandT23 26-30, F Sep 10, 2013

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    Its been 2 years since the incident happened.

    ..but baby I know you weren't in your right mind...my baby got 3⃣ LIFE SENTENCES at only 17 😭😭😩 Free my baby TJ πŸ’™
    x0dollface x0dollface 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 4

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    This Sucks.

    Well me and my boyfriend (Josh) started dating October 13, 2012. Josh is 5 and a half years older than me. I am 16 years old, and he is 21 years old. He is currently in jail for engaging in sexual contact with me. I currently live in the state of New Jersey where laws about this...
    amychrisinee amychrisinee 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    Hey ladies It's a good day

    for me so far, I've been busy... Went to college this morning and got an early lunch as I had finished all my work. So I went a walk to a card shop and bought three cards. All have amazing sayings on them. So my question to you's is... Do you's send cards randomly to your...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 22

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    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response May 24

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    Well nearly been 2 months without my man

    but yet it's still odd having no one to wake up to just a cold side of the bed, coming home from work to an empty house. I'm living 3 different life's at them moment. I have my work life - nothing's wrong with me my life's fine, I'm always (fake) smiling. Then I have the show I...
    LaurenD1 LaurenD1 18-21 3 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    i miss my boyfriend so much i just feel

    so alone since my family don't want me with him so they try to break me and him up and my friends don't get why i am still with him but he loves me so much and i love him so much too so i have no one to talk to about things like this and i am just 19 years old all alone, i need...
    marisela3192013 marisela3192013 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    Holding It Down For Your Love..

    so ive known my boyfriend for almost 6 years now but didnt become a couple till 2 years ago..ive always known i loved him & that there was something about him that would bring us together one day...when we first started dating his was the best boyfriend a girl could ask for...
    stephbabe145 stephbabe145 18-21 3 Responses Jul 13, 2011

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    LADIES IAM REALLY IN MY FEELINGS TODAY I MISS

    MY BOO MORE AND MORE EACH DAY I TRIED TO KEEP IT TOGETHA CUZ I DONT WANT HIM TO SEE ME HURTIN BUT THIS IS KILLIN ME I LUV HIM TO PIECES BUT THIS IS TAKIN A TOLE ON ME I DONT WANNA LEAVE HIS SIDE BUT IAM BEGINNING TO GET REAL LONELY
    Mzmodest Mzmodest 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    The love of my life is in prison,

    he just went 3 days ago. Hes on a 10year non violent. I feel so empty. Hes on lockdown for 30 days so i cant talk to him or anything. Everyone i try to talk to judges him n tells me to leave...i love him, i cant leave! Hes a good man, just made a drunk mistake...only reason he...
    amandanielle amandanielle 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 28

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    My boyfriend only of 3years just got 10 years

    hes been gone for 8 mos we talk on the phone almost everyday i also have a 5 year old an we really jyst had a happy life togethet this his first kids at 35years old this hurt so bad please yall help me find my self at times all i do is cry
    mscrisp mscrisp 26-30 2 Responses Apr 29

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    Strange Place To Find Your Soulmate

    Little did I realize that people in prison were just that people. Having worked inside we are supposed to keep the offenders at bay. After knowing each other on a working level. One day he kissed me and I knew this was the soulmate I seeked all my life. How could my mind begin to...
    fatimabarras fatimabarras 46-50, F Jul 20, 2013

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    They Took My Husband To Prison,,,i Feel So Empty....

    Right now I am feeling so empty and lost..Our 7 year anniversary was on Feb.14th and I went to see my husband in jail (where he had been since Nov.17,2010.) and it was great to just see him.Even though I would go see him EVERY sunday this day was special.He told me that day that...
    daddysgirl8975 daddysgirl8975 36-40, F 7 Responses Feb 20, 2012

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    I just talked to my boyfriend.

    He got out of prison this morning, and is getting unpacked at the rehabilitation centre as I'm writing this. I'm so excited! He's gonna call me again as soon as everything is in order up there. The centre is located like 2-3 hours away from where I live, but he can have...
    prisonboyfriend prisonboyfriend 18-21, F 2 Responses May 26

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    I miss my Mr a lot today :-( 12 more sleeps

    until I see him again! Just want a cuddle so badly! I love him loads and miss him so so much!
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 18

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    Hi ladies... My man has been in county

    since November, it's hard to believe its April already! I got to see him for the first time in 45 days yesterday through a webcam visit because they put him in solitary for getting in a fight. My "batteries" are totally recharged. He also got his first tattoo of my NAME!! And I...
    Laurenhensen Laurenhensen 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I Miss My Boyfriend...

         My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years now. I am head-over-heels for the man. Even though we argue, I still love him and I can't see myself with anyone else. He was just transferred to prison yesterday from county jail because...
    PR1NC3SS09 PR1NC3SS09 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27, 2010

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    Great news today and it was all out of the blue!

    ! So, my love put in a request to transfer to a long-term transitional center where he'll work a regular detail until he is eligible for work release. We were told it would take months to get transferred...but yesterday (a weeks time had gone by) I got a call from my love....from...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    There is an end! You're in the beginning,

    or the middle. I am in the end. I've been where you are right now, waiting for a phone call. Or maybe you're loading a moneypak. Unfortunately, you're probably wishing this day would come to an end, so you could be one day closer to your sweet, beautiful man who is enduring hell...
    ColombianaQueen ColombianaQueen 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    Gooooood morning everyone!

    I feel so much happier this morning, it's only 8:41am so let's hope I stay happy hehe. Keep your chins up everyone, there is always light at the end of the tunnel, day after night and hope will get us through :-) Have a good day and take care!
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F Apr 14

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    Haha some people must think I'm stupid.

    .. Pretending to be someone else just to findout information about my bf! Sorry love but you are his EX for a reason!
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response May 10

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    Boyfriend In Prison

    When I met David he was a drug dealer and we were both in Ibiza. Maybe I should seen the warning signs! But he was charming, funny and wonderful and I fell for him straight away. He treated me like a princess. Over the next year we talked and met up on and off but both had...
    KimboButton KimboButton 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    I live for these love letters 05/04/2015.

    My fiancé will be home 😍
    4evahislady 4evahislady 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    The Justice System Is So Unfair

    Well I am trying to hold on to some kinda of hope but every time I do I get it taken right away.I finially go what I thought was a good lawyer to do my husbands appeal but it turned out he was a crook.It was so hard to even come up with the money to afford him because we are not...
    daddysgirl8975 daddysgirl8975 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2011

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    I have been waiting 2yrs

    for the man I believe is my soul mate. I have been super down about it lately. He got a 12yr sentence & I do not know when he will be out. :(
    ChristianAlicia ChristianAlicia 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Writing this letter is killing me inside,

    I'm crying. I hope he realises that I need time to sort my head out, to be able to work on myself and he needs to do the same if we are ever to work out as a couple when he's released from prison. I do love and care about him still but he needs to get himself sorted too
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    My boyfriend has just been given 5 weeks

    for missing a probation meeting which was a total accident as the letter was mixed inside a leaflet and this is how it happened . I am absolutely distraught and I have no idea how I will cope , I have battled with depression before and I'm scared incase this comes back ... The...
    alicegonemad alicegonemad 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    My Boyfriend Has To Serve 10 Years In Prison :(

    After a year and a half of waiting for a trial, my boyfriend accepted a deal for 12 years with time for credit served. We have a 2 year old daughter, he's been gone since she was 8 months old, and I have literally cried every single day since April 1, 2010. I feel so empty at...
    solitaYsola solitaYsola 22-25 5 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    I had my first visit (contact)

    since my love was in county, yesterday. I have never visited a prison before and was so nervous. I hadn't seen or touched my love in two months! Those two months were so long and hard...but as soon as my love walked out to meet me and we locked eyes, it was ALL worth it!! It...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    This is so hard! I'm only human.

    .. How can I cope still? Wish I knew how to get through this...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    My Sam

    I have been with my partner Sam for nearly 13 years we have 2 children. One morning after dropping my eldest daughter at school in 2004 turned into my street to see my house surrounded by the police. As I ran towards them i all i remember thinking was that Sam was dead, and...
    delgirl delgirl 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2007

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    Have any of you ever picked up a pen

    and paper feeling like you could write pages then you start it and immediately get writers block Ahh I hate it 😜
    hisgirlXOXO hisgirlXOXO 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 4

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    Three and a half years left πŸ˜₯ It's long,

    but in that time I'll get my life together and get to know him better ❀️
    caitlynr18 caitlynr18 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Do any of you girls know

    if we are allowed to get photos with our man even though they are incarcerated?
    Insearchofsunrise Insearchofsunrise 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 4

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    Well it's been just over 10 months

    since he was arrested and got an 8 year sentence. In Scotland prisoners serve 2 thirds of their sentence if they get 4 years or more. I've had my up and down days which is normal in this situation, I've seen my boyfriend changing for the best, settling down becoming calmer...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    My Exhusband In Prison

    I had met my ex and was very vulnerable wanting another baby and he agreed he would. Not long after he moved in with me I got pregnant. Long story he went to jail and eventually prison I stood by him the entire time thinking he had good possibilities if I stood by him. I was...
    akimble akimble 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2013

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    Well I just got my exam results.

    .. Abit disappointing that I only got a C grade but it's not my final result so I guess I can try harder next year for my final! Just feeling abit disappointed in myself... But on a happier note I get to see my boyfriend tomorrow :-) wish I could just cuddle him now
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response May 27

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    Please Help With Coping

    Like many of you I never thought that I would ever say I have a boyfriend in prison. However, here we all are. My best friend and the love of my life, has gotten himself into some trouble. I know the whole situation and it was a terrible accident, and now he is facing 6-10 years...
    vanillamoon13 vanillamoon13 36-40 14 Responses Jan 5, 2011

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    My boyfriend went to prison in April I was 8

    weeks pregnant when he got arrested it was such a shock, I'm 21 weeks now & obviously have a little fighter in my tummy but I'm struggling to stay positive & not break down every 5 minutes. He got sentenced to 6 yrs 9 months but will only do half that time but still how am I...
    kelbels kelbels 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    I miss him terribly tonight.

    It seems I cannot be happy lately, I just want to see him. Unfortunately that's not an option.. What does everyone else do when you are feeling down and loosing ambition to keep going
    hisgirlXOXO hisgirlXOXO 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    What's the difference between having a

    boyfriend in prison compared to having a boyfriend that's not? Well besides from the obvious like we don't see eachother every day, there's no other difference. I still love him as if he's perfect, like he didn't commit a crime. Just like any "normal" relationship. A...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F May 4

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    My boyfriend has been incarcerated

    since 2009. I have stood by his side for the past 5 years. They recently (1yr ago) moved him to a prison 5 hours away : /.I visited every chance I could when he was closer to home. I have made the 5hr trip every other weekend when the weather would allow me to. As 2014 came I...
    anav2018 anav2018 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    Well today someone who was supposed to be

    supporting me while going through a similar thing decided to through up what y bf did, all this and being horrible and mean because I said I can't cope with this no more and was thinking of moving on. Silly little girl I guess
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I'm After Some Girls

    for Advice;We are all in The Same Boat I Guess!! I'm Married to a Now Inmate - he's only Been in Jail 1 Month it's honestly been the Hardest Time of my Life Long Days & Lonely Nights, My Life is now Centered around waiting for his once Daily 6min Jail call, 1hr visits once a...
    lollypopsMolly lollypopsMolly 26-30, F 1 Response May 11

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    I just met him three days ago

    but he's so hot and sweet! He makes me smile so much. He says he gets out in 2 months! He's been in there for 4 years. He told me he was put in prison for drugs. I believe him. I hope when we gets out we will have a happy life together! I'm falling for him already! 😍
    Crazymotrucker Crazymotrucker 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    My Boyfriend Has 4 Months Left!!!

    Hi I am 21 and my bf is 20. He has 4 more months on a 17 month sentence for breaking and entering. I miss him SOOO much even tho this is not his 1st time being locked up. I love him and I want him to come home and do right for my son and I. I also want to carry his children...
    SexyDiva19 SexyDiva19 18-21 6 Responses Apr 18, 2010

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    It's all about adapting.

    If what you have is real, y'all will find a way to get thru this. Yes my boyfriend is in prison but we are trying to make the best out of a terrible situation. For example: We still have "dates" - our weekly phone calls We "text" - he can hear my response when he calls even when...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    My boyfriend got sentenced yesterday

    for 3.5 years, his barrister had said all along that there was no way he'd get a custodial sentence but the very worst happened. It's only been a day and I feel like I've lost half of myself. I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21, we've known each other for 8 years but have only...
    gmsola gmsola 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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