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I Have Boyfriend In Prison

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    Its been 2 years since the incident happened.

    ..but baby I know you weren't in your right mind...my baby got 3⃣ LIFE SENTENCES at only 17 😭😭😩 Free my baby TJ πŸ’™
    x0dollface x0dollface 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    My boyfriend went to prison in April I was 8

    weeks pregnant when he got arrested it was such a shock, I'm 21 weeks now & obviously have a little fighter in my tummy but I'm struggling to stay positive & not break down every 5 minutes. He got sentenced to 6 yrs 9 months but will only do half that time but still how am I...
    kelbels kelbels 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    Have any of you ever picked up a pen

    and paper feeling like you could write pages then you start it and immediately get writers block Ahh I hate it 😜
    hisgirlXOXO hisgirlXOXO 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    Umm. Looking for some advice

    and thoughts on this. Quicknotes: I'm a first time "prison girlfriend". There are zero doubts about me standing by my man, he's amazing and I love him so much! He has a little bit of time left until he's home. So here's my predicament. My boyfriend had a cellphone. He is...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2014

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    rubyflower4 rubyflower4 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    This Sucks.

    Well me and my boyfriend (Josh) started dating October 13, 2012. Josh is 5 and a half years older than me. I am 16 years old, and he is 21 years old. He is currently in jail for engaging in sexual contact with me. I currently live in the state of New Jersey where laws about this...
    amychrisinee amychrisinee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    I hate the holidays ,

    I'm just so lonely without him.
    BeautifulAnna BeautifulAnna 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    My fiancee has been in prison

    for a year now with 2 more to go. I miss him so much I can hardly stand it. He is 3 hours away so I can go see him quite often, but every time I have to come home it tears me up. I have had a few meltdowns over the last year, but they are becoming more frequent and I just don't...
    mmmshells mmmshells 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2014

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    I went to see him today

    and it was good. It's hard at the same time. Rikers island experience sucks if anyone knows. I miss him
    Joeyswiffey4life Joeyswiffey4life 26-30, F 1 Response May 15

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    I just met him three days ago

    but he's so hot and sweet! He makes me smile so much. He says he gets out in 2 months! He's been in there for 4 years. He told me he was put in prison for drugs. I believe him. I hope when we gets out we will have a happy life together! I'm falling for him already! 😍
    Crazymotrucker Crazymotrucker 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2014

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    The Justice System Is So Unfair

    Well I am trying to hold on to some kinda of hope but every time I do I get it taken right away.I finially go what I thought was a good lawyer to do my husbands appeal but it turned out he was a crook.It was so hard to even come up with the money to afford him because we are not...
    daddysgirl8975 daddysgirl8975 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2011

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    sucks having the love of my life,

    and the father of my 4 month old locked up. I know he is a good person but I also believe he needs to learn a lesson. it hurts everyday to know that he won't be able to experience our sons milestones.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 17

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    LADIES IAM REALLY IN MY FEELINGS TODAY I MISS

    MY BOO MORE AND MORE EACH DAY I TRIED TO KEEP IT TOGETHA CUZ I DONT WANT HIM TO SEE ME HURTIN BUT THIS IS KILLIN ME I LUV HIM TO PIECES BUT THIS IS TAKIN A TOLE ON ME I DONT WANNA LEAVE HIS SIDE BUT IAM BEGINNING TO GET REAL LONELY
    Mzmodest Mzmodest 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    my best friend is in prison.

    . he has 16 more months to go-we have known each other for 8 yrs.. well almost 2 years ago he had me talk to another friend of his that was also there in prison-i didn't ever think i would have anything with someone in prison but i guess we don't plan things so the more...
    traci1212 traci1212 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2014

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    My Boyfriend Has 4 Months Left!!!

    Hi I am 21 and my bf is 20. He has 4 more months on a 17 month sentence for breaking and entering. I miss him SOOO much even tho this is not his 1st time being locked up. I love him and I want him to come home and do right for my son and I. I also want to carry his children...
    SexyDiva19 SexyDiva19 18-21 6 Responses Apr 18, 2010

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    Talked to him today made my whole entire week

    :) miss him so much glad I can make him smile
    bb1017 bb1017 18-21, F May 20

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    Tick..Tock..

    I was just told this evening, by my incarcerated fiance, that a site like this existed. I told him I was definitely going to be googling it. He was unsure of the name, but I did happen to come across EP. After reading a few stories of women in similiar situations and exploring...
    MandT23 MandT23 26-30, F Sep 10, 2013

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    I'm After Some Girls

    for Advice;We are all in The Same Boat I Guess!! I'm Married to a Now Inmate - he's only Been in Jail 1 Month it's honestly been the Hardest Time of my Life Long Days & Lonely Nights, My Life is now Centered around waiting for his once Daily 6min Jail call, 1hr visits once a...
    lollypopsMolly lollypopsMolly 26-30, F May 11, 2014

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    my boyfriend always find his self doing stupid

    things to get his self in trouble & I don't feel like I'm strong enough to lose him to prison ????.
    gotallthequestions gotallthequestions 18-21, F Nov 28, 2014

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    my boyfriend is in jail

    and I wrote a short story about sex can someone tell me if it's good I can send it to you
    kara0812 kara0812 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 29

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    I live for these love letters 05/04/2015.

    My fiancé will be home 😍
    4evahislady 4evahislady 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2014

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    My boyfriend only of 3years just got 10 years

    hes been gone for 8 mos we talk on the phone almost everyday i also have a 5 year old an we really jyst had a happy life togethet this his first kids at 35years old this hurt so bad please yall help me find my self at times all i do is cry
    mscrisp mscrisp 26-30 1 Response Apr 29, 2014

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    I just talked to my boyfriend.

    He got out of prison this morning, and is getting unpacked at the rehabilitation centre as I'm writing this. I'm so excited! He's gonna call me again as soon as everything is in order up there. The centre is located like 2-3 hours away from where I live, but he can have...
    prisonboyfriend prisonboyfriend 22-25, F 1 Response May 26, 2014

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    My boyfriend got caught dealing drugs

    and in in prison for a year. I am heartbroken , angry and sad all at the same time. It's been 3 weeks. I hate him for it! I feel angry towards him does anyone else get this ?
    georginadanielle georginadanielle 22-25, F 3 Responses May 14

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    My baby daddy is in prison ,

    and I'm debating if I should get him a cell phone while he's in there . I feel like he would build a bond with social media thus meaning with other woman .
    tiffeny661 tiffeny661 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    I want to write my boyfriend a letter

    but I don't no what direction I should take it in .
    tiffeny661 tiffeny661 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    Strange Place To Find Your Soulmate

    Little did I realize that people in prison were just that people. Having worked inside we are supposed to keep the offenders at bay. After knowing each other on a working level. One day he kissed me and I knew this was the soulmate I seeked all my life. How could my mind begin to...
    fatimabarras fatimabarras 46-50, F Jul 20, 2013

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    I had my first visit (contact)

    since my love was in county, yesterday. I have never visited a prison before and was so nervous. I hadn't seen or touched my love in two months! Those two months were so long and hard...but as soon as my love walked out to meet me and we locked eyes, it was ALL worth it!! It...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    Hi ladies... My man has been in county

    since November, it's hard to believe its April already! I got to see him for the first time in 45 days yesterday through a webcam visit because they put him in solitary for getting in a fight. My "batteries" are totally recharged. He also got his first tattoo of my NAME!! And I...
    Laurenhensen Laurenhensen 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2014

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    Great news today and it was all out of the blue!

    ! So, my love put in a request to transfer to a long-term transitional center where he'll work a regular detail until he is eligible for work release. We were told it would take months to get transferred...but yesterday (a weeks time had gone by) I got a call from my love....from...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 2, 2014

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    I miss him terribly tonight.

    It seems I cannot be happy lately, I just want to see him. Unfortunately that's not an option.. What does everyone else do when you are feeling down and loosing ambition to keep going
    hisgirlXOXO hisgirlXOXO 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 25, 2014

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    Funny how everyone will be celebrating a new

    year together... Whilst we will be apart and counting down the days, weeks, months of this new year :(
    rubyflower4 rubyflower4 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Please help me, I live in the UK

    and I'm going to visit him for the first time on Monday and I am so nervous I don't know what to expect. I feel sick everytime I think about it. Me and him are totally different we have completely different backgrounds so I've never even set foot near a prison in my life. What...
    ashleigh1709 ashleigh1709 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 11

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    Holding It Down For Your Love..

    so ive known my boyfriend for almost 6 years now but didnt become a couple till 2 years ago..ive always known i loved him & that there was something about him that would bring us together one day...when we first started dating his was the best boyfriend a girl could ask for...
    stephbabe145 stephbabe145 18-21 3 Responses Jul 13, 2011

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    I have been waiting 2yrs

    for the man I believe is my soul mate. I have been super down about it lately. He got a 12yr sentence & I do not know when he will be out. :(
    ChristianAlicia ChristianAlicia 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Has To Serve 10 Years In Prison :(

    After a year and a half of waiting for a trial, my boyfriend accepted a deal for 12 years with time for credit served. We have a 2 year old daughter, he's been gone since she was 8 months old, and I have literally cried every single day since April 1, 2010. I feel so empty at...
    solitaYsola solitaYsola 22-25 5 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    My boyfriend has been incarcerated

    since 2009. I have stood by his side for the past 5 years. They recently (1yr ago) moved him to a prison 5 hours away : /.I visited every chance I could when he was closer to home. I have made the 5hr trip every other weekend when the weather would allow me to. As 2014 came I...
    anav2018 anav2018 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 10, 2014

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    My boyfriend has been in prison

    for one month so far, he is only in for 12-18 months depending on good time but today is the first day I saw him. It was very hard seeing him in the whole prison uniform and not being able to hug him every second, does visits get easier for anyone else? I am dedicated to staying...
    Marie240 Marie240 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    Three and a half years left πŸ˜₯ It's long,

    but in that time I'll get my life together and get to know him better ❀️
    caitlynr18 caitlynr18 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5, 2014

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    Well nearly been 2 months without my man

    but yet it's still odd having no one to wake up to just a cold side of the bed, coming home from work to an empty house. I'm living 3 different life's at them moment. I have my work life - nothing's wrong with me my life's fine, I'm always (fake) smiling. Then I have the show I...
    LaurenD1 LaurenD1 18-21 3 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    My Exhusband In Prison

    I had met my ex and was very vulnerable wanting another baby and he agreed he would. Not long after he moved in with me I got pregnant. Long story he went to jail and eventually prison I stood by him the entire time thinking he had good possibilities if I stood by him. I was...
    akimble akimble 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2013

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    Please Help With Coping

    Like many of you I never thought that I would ever say I have a boyfriend in prison. However, here we all are. My best friend and the love of my life, has gotten himself into some trouble. I know the whole situation and it was a terrible accident, and now he is facing 6-10 years...
    vanillamoon13 vanillamoon13 36-40 17 Responses Jan 5, 2011

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    Do any of you girls know

    if we are allowed to get photos with our man even though they are incarcerated?
    Insearchofsunrise Insearchofsunrise 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    i miss my boyfriend so much i just feel

    so alone since my family don't want me with him so they try to break me and him up and my friends don't get why i am still with him but he loves me so much and i love him so much too so i have no one to talk to about things like this and i am just 19 years old all alone, i need...
    marisela3192013 marisela3192013 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    I Miss My Boyfriend...

         My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years now. I am head-over-heels for the man. Even though we argue, I still love him and I can't see myself with anyone else. He was just transferred to prison yesterday from county jail because...
    PR1NC3SS09 PR1NC3SS09 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27, 2010

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    My Sam

    I have been with my partner Sam for nearly 13 years we have 2 children. One morning after dropping my eldest daughter at school in 2004 turned into my street to see my house surrounded by the police. As I ran towards them i all i remember thinking was that Sam was dead, and...
    delgirl delgirl 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2007

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