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    Boyfriend In Prison

    When I met David he was a drug dealer and we were both in Ibiza. Maybe I should seen the warning signs! But he was charming, funny and wonderful and I fell for him straight away. He treated me like a princess. Over the next year we talked and met up on and off but both had...
    KimboButton KimboButton 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    Negative To A Positive

    My boyfriend of 12 years is a year into a 5yr sentence. It's really hard on me, and the stress is really starting to creep up on me. But the funniest thing happened. A close girlfriend is now going through the same thing. She asked me to write her an erotic story to send to her...
    Alchemist83 Alchemist83 26-30 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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    They Took My Husband To Prison,,,i Feel So Empty....

    Right now I am feeling so empty and lost..Our 7 year anniversary was on Feb.14th and I went to see my husband in jail (where he had been since Nov.17,2010.) and it was great to just see him.Even though I would go see him EVERY sunday this day was special.He told me that day that...
    daddysgirl8975 daddysgirl8975 36-40, F 7 Responses Feb 20, 2012

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    I miss my Mr a lot today :-( 12 more sleeps

    until I see him again! Just want a cuddle so badly! I love him loads and miss him so so much!
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Puppy Love...

    I met my boyfriend though a friend of mine, His name is Tyler, He is 15, I love him. I am 12 years old. He means everything to me, After everything we have been through together I am not about to throw it all away for nothing. He is being sentenced to 1-2 years in prison, And I...
    Lonergirl12 Lonergirl12 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    My boyfriend got sentenced yesterday

    for 3.5 years, his barrister had said all along that there was no way he'd get a custodial sentence but the very worst happened. It's only been a day and I feel like I've lost half of myself. I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21, we've known each other for 8 years but have only...
    gmsola gmsola 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Hey girls Have you ever wondered

    if you treat your guys like they treat us, would they like it? That's if they don't treat you well. Hardly any calls or letters? Will your relationship survive if you did that to them? Just a thought... Oh and have any of your boyfriends lied to you's just to see how much crap...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    i miss my boyfriend so much i just feel

    so alone since my family don't want me with him so they try to break me and him up and my friends don't get why i am still with him but he loves me so much and i love him so much too so i have no one to talk to about things like this and i am just 19 years old all alone, i need...
    marisela3192013 marisela3192013 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    There is an end! You're in the beginning,

    or the middle. I am in the end. I've been where you are right now, waiting for a phone call. Or maybe you're loading a moneypak. Unfortunately, you're probably wishing this day would come to an end, so you could be one day closer to your sweet, beautiful man who is enduring hell...
    ColombianaQueen ColombianaQueen 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    Well it's been just over 10 months

    since he was arrested and got an 8 year sentence. In Scotland prisoners serve 2 thirds of their sentence if they get 4 years or more. I've had my up and down days which is normal in this situation, I've seen my boyfriend changing for the best, settling down becoming calmer...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Why?

    I want to explain myself really......MY boyfriend is in prison because of me well he's not my boyfriend anymore but I have had no closure that's why it's hard for me....He broke my hand smacked me about a bit but that was ok coz I loved him and thought he would change but he...
    Kazwilder1 Kazwilder1 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    I had my first visit (contact)

    since my love was in county, yesterday. I have never visited a prison before and was so nervous. I hadn't seen or touched my love in two months! Those two months were so long and hard...but as soon as my love walked out to meet me and we locked eyes, it was ALL worth it!! It...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    My fiancee has been in prison

    for a year now with 2 more to go. I miss him so much I can hardly stand it. He is 3 hours away so I can go see him quite often, but every time I have to come home it tears me up. I have had a few meltdowns over the last year, but they are becoming more frequent and I just don't...
    mmmshells mmmshells 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    He's Gone And Im So Lost

    hi my name is roxy my boyfriend was just arrested for violation of probation and is lookin at 8 months I have never had to go through this so I am so lost without him we have been knowing each other since I was 15 and I am 26 now so its been a while we have only been together...
    roxy0524 roxy0524 26-30, F Oct 19, 2013

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    Well nearly been 2 months without my man

    but yet it's still odd having no one to wake up to just a cold side of the bed, coming home from work to an empty house. I'm living 3 different life's at them moment. I have my work life - nothing's wrong with me my life's fine, I'm always (fake) smiling. Then I have the show I...
    LaurenD1 LaurenD1 18-21 3 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    It's all about adapting.

    If what you have is real, y'all will find a way to get thru this. Yes my boyfriend is in prison but we are trying to make the best out of a terrible situation. For example: We still have "dates" - our weekly phone calls We "text" - he can hear my response when he calls even when...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    Gooooood morning everyone!

    I feel so much happier this morning, it's only 8:41am so let's hope I stay happy hehe. Keep your chins up everyone, there is always light at the end of the tunnel, day after night and hope will get us through :-) Have a good day and take care!
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F a week ago

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    I feel so stressed tonight.

    I met my friend today and she asked me to come down to her house for some lunch, its about two years since I seen her and I was delighted to spend the day with her and her little ones. My guy phoned me tonight and he was angry at me, and told me when he phones tomorrow night to...
    sofinuim sofinuim 46-50 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Strange Place To Find Your Soulmate

    Little did I realize that people in prison were just that people. Having worked inside we are supposed to keep the offenders at bay. After knowing each other on a working level. One day he kissed me and I knew this was the soulmate I seeked all my life. How could my mind begin to...
    fatimabarras fatimabarras 46-50, F Jul 20, 2013

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    Seem's Like A Lifetime

    My Fiance has been inside for over 3months now, the day he was taken from the court i was an emotional mess, i didnt no what i was going to do or how he was going to cope, But three months down the line i have finally come round to the idea & have realised its not forever, I...
    Kirwen2100 Kirwen2100 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    He Lied

    I did everything I possibly could for this man. I stood by him through it all. Now he is out and I realize everything he wrote...everything he said...was nothing but lies. I felt it long before he made it obvious, so thankfully I was already distancing myself emotionally before...
    Moppy1632 Moppy1632 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    I'm Sorry I Couldnt Help Him

    My fiance is addicted to Crack Cocaine. He wasn't always like that. We dated when we were young. He was the first person I ever had sex with but like most young love, we had to split up. I met another man and fell in love and had two kids but could never forget about Kevin. I...
    MrsCardinal MrsCardinal 22-25 1 Response Dec 20, 2010

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    I live for these love letters 05/04/2015.

    My fianc√© will be home ūüėć
    4evahislady 4evahislady 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    Hi ladies... My man has been in county

    since November, it's hard to believe its April already! I got to see him for the first time in 45 days yesterday through a webcam visit because they put him in solitary for getting in a fight. My "batteries" are totally recharged. He also got his first tattoo of my NAME!! And I...
    Laurenhensen Laurenhensen 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    My boyfriend has just been given 5 weeks

    for missing a probation meeting which was a total accident as the letter was mixed inside a leaflet and this is how it happened . I am absolutely distraught and I have no idea how I will cope , I have battled with depression before and I'm scared incase this comes back ... The...
    alicegonemad alicegonemad 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    Sad Story

    Hi I want to tell you about my story. I meet my love back in 2003 when first meet him I thought he was a very cool guy then as time passed I feel in love with him, we got more serious an we ended up having a baby that we both raised for about a year then i got pregnant with...
    Crybaby2013 Crybaby2013 36-40, F Oct 7, 2013

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    Tick..Tock..

    I was just told this evening, by my incarcerated fiance, that a site like this existed. I told him I was definitely going to be googling it. He was unsure of the name, but I did happen to come across EP. After reading a few stories of women in similiar situations and exploring...
    MandT23 MandT23 26-30, F Sep 10, 2013

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    I had a wonderful day today,

    there was hardly any other visitors and they let me stay for 90 minutes...I feel so happy, and exhilirated and full of life after spending that time with him, another 56 days and he'll be free, yippee! Everything about him makes me so happy, he really is a wonderful guy and I'm...
    sofinuim sofinuim 46-50 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    My Little Story.. I Just Need To Get It Out

    I live in a Central America country, where lots of stuff happen not in the same way we see in the US movies, I just want that cleared... Years ago... I was introduced to this guy (lets call him X) by an ex of mine... we started talking, and got a long pretty well, we like the...
    crixxmoon crixxmoon 22-25, F Oct 16, 2013

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    Love Broken By The Law

    so im vanessa im 16 i know im young . any who my boyfriends name is bugzy . our story is like this. we met when i was a freshman he was a juniour . we met in a library (go figure) i thought he was cute he had a lot of tattoos and hissmilee was sooo gorgeous. we became friends for...
    nessaaaaaa nessaaaaaa 16-17 Sep 24, 2011

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    This Pain :/

    It's so hard watching movies, going in public, seeing my friends who all have their boyfriends next to them but me I can't I can't just pick up the phone and call him over to hold him, or go to the movies with him, just to hold a conversation with him everyday that's longer than...
    Alexgirrl Alexgirrl 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Boyfriend Of 9 Year Just Been Sent Down

    One night while out drinking he was started on , he didnt personally know the lad but this lad had his problems with my Hubby. He started by throwing a glass vase at his face which ended in a 2 inch scar on his face a big fight ensued. By the time he was up in court my how the...
    Firsttimerboyinside Firsttimerboyinside 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 13, 2013

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    My Sam

    I have been with my partner Sam for nearly 13 years we have 2 children. One morning after dropping my eldest daughter at school in 2004 turned into my street to see my house surrounded by the police. As I ran towards them i all i remember thinking was that Sam was dead, and...
    delgirl delgirl 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2007

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    Great news today and it was all out of the blue!

    ! So, my love put in a request to transfer to a long-term transitional center where he'll work a regular detail until he is eligible for work release. We were told it would take months to get transferred...but yesterday (a weeks time had gone by) I got a call from my love....from...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    My Exhusband In Prison

    I had met my ex and was very vulnerable wanting another baby and he agreed he would. Not long after he moved in with me I got pregnant. Long story he went to jail and eventually prison I stood by him the entire time thinking he had good possibilities if I stood by him. I was...
    akimble akimble 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2013

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    My boyfriend has been incarcerated

    since 2009. I have stood by his side for the past 5 years. They recently (1yr ago) moved him to a prison 5 hours away : /.I visited every chance I could when he was closer to home. I have made the 5hr trip every other weekend when the weather would allow me to. As 2014 came I...
    anav2018 anav2018 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    I Miss My Boyfriend...

         My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years now. I am head-over-heels for the man. Even though we argue, I still love him and I can't see myself with anyone else. He was just transferred to prison yesterday from county jail because...
    PR1NC3SS09 PR1NC3SS09 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27, 2010

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    Holding It Down For Your Love..

    so ive known my boyfriend for almost 6 years now but didnt become a couple till 2 years ago..ive always known i loved him & that there was something about him that would bring us together one day...when we first started dating his was the best boyfriend a girl could ask for...
    stephbabe145 stephbabe145 18-21 3 Responses Jul 13, 2011

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    Update

    SO just to let you all know i had my first visit with my man. It was amazing he smiled soons he seen me and he couldnt quit saying i love you. I feel so much better since ive seen him. i keep praying he gets out early. I would love to have him home for christmas. Its bad i sleep...
    ntvhottie87 ntvhottie87 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2009

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    For Every Rose There Are Many Thorns

    and when you inhale the fragrant blooms sometimes you get cut. Thats the pain of loving someone in prison. First there's the shame. You cannot tell people at work or most people about your situation so you suffer quietly. When others talk about sadness you are compassionate...
    Lilyp Lilyp 41-45, F Nov 22, 2011

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    Please Help With Coping

    Like many of you I never thought that I would ever say I have a boyfriend in prison. However, here we all are. My best friend and the love of my life, has gotten himself into some trouble. I know the whole situation and it was a terrible accident, and now he is facing 6-10 years...
    vanillamoon13 vanillamoon13 36-40 13 Responses Jan 5, 2011

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    The Justice System Is So Unfair

    Well I am trying to hold on to some kinda of hope but every time I do I get it taken right away.I finially go what I thought was a good lawyer to do my husbands appeal but it turned out he was a crook.It was so hard to even come up with the money to afford him because we are not...
    daddysgirl8975 daddysgirl8975 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2011

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    My Boyfriend Has To Serve 10 Years In Prison :(

    After a year and a half of waiting for a trial, my boyfriend accepted a deal for 12 years with time for credit served. We have a 2 year old daughter, he's been gone since she was 8 months old, and I have literally cried every single day since April 1, 2010. I feel so empty at...
    solitaYsola solitaYsola 22-25 4 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    My Boyfriend Has 4 Months Left!!!

    Hi I am 21 and my bf is 20. He has 4 more months on a 17 month sentence for breaking and entering. I miss him SOOO much even tho this is not his 1st time being locked up. I love him and I want him to come home and do right for my son and I. I also want to carry his children...
    SexyDiva19 SexyDiva19 18-21 6 Responses Apr 18, 2010

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    I have been waiting 2yrs

    for the man I believe is my soul mate. I have been super down about it lately. He got a 12yr sentence & I do not know when he will be out. :(
    ChristianAlicia ChristianAlicia 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    What Can I Do?

    My bf was taken into custody last thurs. We have been together several months now. He lived in Alaska, and I used too but am on my way to Texas. We were going to get together in Texas, he was going to come down when he had settled his business with the military. However that all...
    AzureD87 AzureD87 26-30, M Nov 26, 2013

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    LADIES IAM REALLY IN MY FEELINGS TODAY I MISS

    MY BOO MORE AND MORE EACH DAY I TRIED TO KEEP IT TOGETHA CUZ I DONT WANT HIM TO SEE ME HURTIN BUT THIS IS KILLIN ME I LUV HIM TO PIECES BUT THIS IS TAKIN A TOLE ON ME I DONT WANNA LEAVE HIS SIDE BUT IAM BEGINNING TO GET REAL LONELY
    Mzmodest Mzmodest 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    Steadfast Heart

    I have been with my  boyfriend for almost 8 years. We have been through alot to say the least. He has been in prison for 5 of those years. When we first met we were very different people then we are today, he was a drug dealer and we were both drug addicts. When he went to...
    karibelle karibelle 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2011

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