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I Have Boyfriend In Prison

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    Please Help With Coping - Like many of you I never thought that I would ever say I have a boyfriend in prison. However, here we all are. My best friend and the love of my life, has...
    vanillamoon13 vanillamoon13 36-40 12 Responses Jan 5, 2011

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    What Can I Do? - My bf was taken into custody last thurs. We have been together several months now. He lived in Alaska, and I used too but am on my way to Texas. We were going to...
    AzureD87 AzureD87 26-30, M Nov 26, 2013

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    He's Gone And Im So Lost - hi my name is roxy my boyfriend was just arrested for violation of probation and is lookin at 8 months I have never had to go through this so I am so...
    roxy0524 roxy0524 26-30, F Oct 19, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Has To Serve 10 Years In Prison :( - After a year and a half of waiting for a trial, my boyfriend accepted a deal for 12 years with time for credit served. We have a 2...
    solitaYsola solitaYsola 22-25 4 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    I miss my Mr a lot today :-( 12 more sleeps until I see him again! Just want a cuddle so badly! I love him loads and miss him so so much!
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Hey girls Have you ever wondered if you treat your guys like they treat us, would they like it? That's if they don't treat you well. Hardly any calls or letters? Will your...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Miss My Boyfriend... -      My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years now. I am head-over-heels for the man. Even though we argue, I...
    PR1NC3SS09 PR1NC3SS09 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27, 2010

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    Hi ladies... My man has been in county since November, it's hard to believe its April already! I got to see him for the first time in 45 days yesterday through a webcam visit...
    Laurenhensen Laurenhensen 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    My Exhusband In Prison - I had met my ex and was very vulnerable wanting another baby and he agreed he would. Not long after he moved in with me I got pregnant. Long story he...
    akimble akimble 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2013

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    My Little Story.. I Just Need To Get It Out - I live in a Central America country, where lots of stuff happen not in the same way we see in the US movies, I just want that cleared...
    crixxmoon crixxmoon 22-25, F Oct 16, 2013

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    My boyfriend has been incarcerated since 2009. I have stood by his side for the past 5 years. They recently (1yr ago) moved him to a prison 5 hours away : /.I visited every chance...
    anav2018 anav2018 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    Great news today and it was all out of the blue!! So, my love put in a request to transfer to a long-term transitional center where he'll work a regular detail until he is eligible...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Sad Story - Hi I want to tell you about my story. I meet my love back in 2003 when first meet him I thought he was a very cool guy then as time passed I feel in love with him, we...
    Crybaby2013 Crybaby2013 36-40, F Oct 7, 2013

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    My boyfriend has just been given 5 weeks for missing a probation meeting which was a total accident as the letter was mixed inside a leaflet and this is how it happened . I am...
    alicegonemad alicegonemad 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    LADIES IAM REALLY IN MY FEELINGS TODAY I MISS MY BOO MORE AND MORE EACH DAY I TRIED TO KEEP IT TOGETHA CUZ I DONT WANT HIM TO SEE ME HURTIN BUT THIS IS KILLIN ME I LUV HIM TO...
    Mzmodest Mzmodest 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    This Pain :/ - It's so hard watching movies, going in public, seeing my friends who all have their boyfriends next to them but me I can't I can't just pick up the phone and call...
    Alexgirrl Alexgirrl 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Update - SO just to let you all know i had my first visit with my man. It was amazing he smiled soons he seen me and he couldnt quit saying i love you. I feel so much better since...
    ntvhottie87 ntvhottie87 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2009

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    They Took My Husband To Prison,,,i Feel So Empty.... - Right now I am feeling so empty and lost..Our 7 year anniversary was on Feb.14th and I went to see my husband in jail (where...
    daddysgirl8975 daddysgirl8975 36-40, F 7 Responses Feb 20, 2012

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    It's all about adapting. If what you have is real, y'all will find a way to get thru this. Yes my boyfriend is in prison but we are trying to make the best out of a terrible...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    Boyfriend Of 9 Year Just Been Sent Down - One night while out drinking he was started on , he didnt personally know the lad but this lad had his problems with my Hubby. He started...
    Firsttimerboyinside Firsttimerboyinside 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 13, 2013

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    Steadfast Heart - I have been with my  boyfriend for almost 8 years. We have been through alot to say the least. He has been in prison for 5 of those years. When we first met we...
    karibelle karibelle 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2011

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    I had my first visit (contact) since my love was in county, yesterday. I have never visited a prison before and was so nervous. I hadn't seen or touched my love in two months...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    I live for these love letters 05/04/2015. My fiancé will be home 😍
    4evahislady 4evahislady 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    i miss my boyfriend so much i just feel so alone since my family don't want me with him so they try to break me and him up and my friends don't get why i am still with him but he...
    marisela3192013 marisela3192013 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    Strange Place To Find Your Soulmate - Little did I realize that people in prison were just that people. Having worked inside we are supposed to keep the offenders at bay. After...
    fatimabarras fatimabarras 46-50, F Jul 20, 2013

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    Well it's been just over 10 months since he was arrested and got an 8 year sentence. In Scotland prisoners serve 2 thirds of their sentence if they get 4 years or more. I've had...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Love Broken By The Law - so im vanessa im 16 i know im young . any who my boyfriends name is bugzy . our story is like this. we met when i was a freshman he was a juniour . we met...
    nessaaaaaa nessaaaaaa 16-17 Sep 24, 2011

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    There is an end! You're in the beginning, or the middle. I am in the end. I've been where you are right now, waiting for a phone call. Or maybe you're loading a moneypak...
    ColombianaQueen ColombianaQueen 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    I feel so stressed tonight. I met my friend today and she asked me to come down to her house for some lunch, its about two years since I seen her and I was delighted to spend the...
    sofinuim sofinuim 46-50 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    My Sam - I have been with my partner Sam for nearly 13 years we have 2 children. One morning after dropping my eldest daughter at school in 2004 turned into my street to see my...
    delgirl delgirl 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2007

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    Boyfriend In Prison - When I met David he was a drug dealer and we were both in Ibiza. Maybe I should seen the warning signs! But he was charming, funny and wonderful and I fell...
    KimboButton KimboButton 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    He Lied - I did everything I possibly could for this man. I stood by him through it all. Now he is out and I realize everything he wrote...everything he said...was nothing but lies...
    Moppy1632 Moppy1632 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    I have been waiting 2yrs for the man I believe is my soul mate. I have been super down about it lately. He got a 12yr sentence & I do not know when he will be out. :(
    ChristianAlicia ChristianAlicia 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Tick..Tock.. - I was just told this evening, by my incarcerated fiance, that a site like this existed. I told him I was definitely going to be googling it. He was unsure of the...
    MandT23 MandT23 26-30, F Sep 10, 2013

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    Holding It Down For Your Love.. - so ive known my boyfriend for almost 6 years now but didnt become a couple till 2 years ago..ive always known i loved him & that there was...
    stephbabe145 stephbabe145 18-21 3 Responses Jul 13, 2011

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    I'm Sorry I Couldnt Help Him - My fiance is addicted to Crack Cocaine. He wasn't always like that. We dated when we were young. He was the first person I ever had sex with but like...
    MrsCardinal MrsCardinal 22-25 1 Response Dec 20, 2010

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    I had a wonderful day today, there was hardly any other visitors and they let me stay for 90 minutes...I feel so happy, and exhilirated and full of life after spending that time...
    sofinuim sofinuim 46-50 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    Seem's Like A Lifetime - My Fiance has been inside for over 3months now, the day he was taken from the court i was an emotional mess, i didnt no what i was going to do or how he...
    Kirwen2100 Kirwen2100 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    My Boyfriend Has 4 Months Left!!! - Hi I am 21 and my bf is 20. He has 4 more months on a 17 month sentence for breaking and entering. I miss him SOOO much even tho this is not...
    SexyDiva19 SexyDiva19 18-21 6 Responses Apr 18, 2010

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    My fiancee has been in prison for a year now with 2 more to go. I miss him so much I can hardly stand it. He is 3 hours away so I can go see him quite often, but every time I have...
    mmmshells mmmshells 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    Puppy Love... - I met my boyfriend though a friend of mine, His name is Tyler, He is 15, I love him. I am 12 years old. He means everything to me, After everything we have been...
    Lonergirl12 Lonergirl12 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Gooooood morning everyone! I feel so much happier this morning, it's only 8:41am so let's hope I stay happy hehe. Keep your chins up everyone, there is always light at the end of...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    My boyfriend got sentenced yesterday for 3.5 years, his barrister had said all along that there was no way he'd get a custodial sentence but the very worst happened. It's only been...
    gmsola gmsola 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    The Justice System Is So Unfair - Well I am trying to hold on to some kinda of hope but every time I do I get it taken right away.I finially go what I thought was a good lawyer to...
    daddysgirl8975 daddysgirl8975 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2011

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    For Every Rose There Are Many Thorns - and when you inhale the fragrant blooms sometimes you get cut. Thats the pain of loving someone in prison. First there's the shame. You...
    Lilyp Lilyp 41-45, F Nov 22, 2011

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    Why? - I want to explain myself really......MY boyfriend is in prison because of me well he's not my boyfriend anymore but I have had no closure that's why it's hard for me....He...
    Kazwilder1 Kazwilder1 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Well nearly been 2 months without my man but yet it's still odd having no one to wake up to just a cold side of the bed, coming home from work to an empty house. I'm living 3...
    LaurenD1 LaurenD1 18-21 3 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    Negative To A Positive - My boyfriend of 12 years is a year into a 5yr sentence. It's really hard on me, and the stress is really starting to creep up on me. But the funniest thing...
    Alchemist83 Alchemist83 26-30 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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