I Have Boyfriend In Prison

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 620 People

    It's all about adapting.

    If what you have is real, y'all will find a way to get thru this. Yes my boyfriend is in prison but we are trying to make the best out of a terrible situation. For example: We still have "dates" - our weekly phone calls We "text" - he can hear my response when he calls even when...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2014

    i miss my boyfriend so much i just feel

    so alone since my family don't want me with him so they try to break me and him up and my friends don't get why i am still with him but he loves me so much and i love him so much too so i have no one to talk to about things like this and i am just 19 years old all alone, i need...
    marisela3192013 marisela3192013
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 13, 2014

    Three and a half years left 😥 It's long,

    but in that time I'll get my life together and get to know him better ❤️
    caitlynr18 caitlynr18
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 5, 2014

    Everyday I wake up, I immediately feel some

    type of way that my man is in prison & not with me. What's eating me up more so, he doesn't have a release date & been in for 3 months already
    SueMoni SueMoni
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 29, 2015

    I Miss My Boyfriend...

         My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years now. I am head-over-heels for the man. Even though we argue, I still love him and I can't see myself with anyone else. He was just transferred to prison yesterday from county jail because...
    PR1NC3SS09 PR1NC3SS09
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 27, 2010

    I have been waiting 2yrs

    for the man I believe is my soul mate. I have been super down about it lately. He got a 12yr sentence & I do not know when he will be out. :(
    ChristianAlicia ChristianAlicia
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

    Please help me, I live in the UK

    and I'm going to visit him for the first time on Monday and I am so nervous I don't know what to expect. I feel sick everytime I think about it. Me and him are totally different we have completely different backgrounds so I've never even set foot near a prison in my life. What...
    ashleigh1709 ashleigh1709
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    Talked to him today made my whole entire week

    :) miss him so much glad I can make him smile
    bb1017 bb1017
    22-25, F
    May 20, 2015

    My Exhusband In Prison

    I had met my ex and was very vulnerable wanting another baby and he agreed he would. Not long after he moved in with me I got pregnant. Long story he went to jail and eventually prison I stood by him the entire time thinking he had good possibilities if I stood by him. I was...
    akimble akimble
    51-55, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2013

    My boyfriend has been incarcerated

    since 2009. I have stood by his side for the past 5 years. They recently (1yr ago) moved him to a prison 5 hours away : /.I visited every chance I could when he was closer to home. I have made the 5hr trip every other weekend when the weather would allow me to. As 2014 came I...
    anav2018 anav2018
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 10, 2014

    I have a boyfriend in prison

    and it is do hard. some days it drives me crazy but I love him....I want him to believe that I will wait for him.
    khrh8992 khrh8992
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 17, 2016


    Mzmodest Mzmodest
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Dec 8, 2013

    I'm currently in a relationship with my

    boyfriend for 6 months now ... the hardest thing about being in this relationship is not being able to physically have him by my side to have fears and worries and doubts about how our relationship is going to be like when he comes home, but most importantly having my mother...
    vnesaanjela vnesaanjela
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 29, 2015

    My boyfriend is in prison,

    and for the past few months, I really did a great job staying strong. But right now I feel like I'm falling apart. I miss him so much, I no longer know how to handle this.. Anyone in the same situation or who knows how I feel?
    sproetje sproetje
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 4, 2016

    my boyfriend went to prison two weeks ago,

    he called me every day, i haven't heard from him since Sunday afternoon. . and at that point he was really down, any idea .. what he may be going through and why he wouldn't be calling me
    bleed3354 bleed3354
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Dec 22, 2015
    TiffanyJadex TiffanyJadex
    2 Responses Mar 17, 2016
    TiffanyJadex TiffanyJadex
    Mar 20, 2016

    I need someone to talk to.

    . Who have been through this?
    Zella50 Zella50
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2015

    There is an end! You're in the beginning,

    or the middle. I am in the end. I've been where you are right now, waiting for a phone call. Or maybe you're loading a moneypak. Unfortunately, you're probably wishing this day would come to an end, so you could be one day closer to your sweet, beautiful man who is enduring hell...
    ColombianaQueen ColombianaQueen
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2014

    hello, I'm new to this,

    I just needed some input on my situation. I am in my early twenties, I met a guy while he was in prison, through his sister. I known his sister for about a year. I get a lot of negativity thrown my way because I decided to start dating him. everyone feels that I'm being stupid...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Oct 23, 2015

    Well nearly been 2 months without my man

    but yet it's still odd having no one to wake up to just a cold side of the bed, coming home from work to an empty house. I'm living 3 different life's at them moment. I have my work life - nothing's wrong with me my life's fine, I'm always (fake) smiling. Then I have the show I...
    LaurenD1 LaurenD1
    3 Responses Dec 13, 2013

    My baby daddy is in prison ,

    and I'm debating if I should get him a cell phone while he's in there . I feel like he would build a bond with social media thus meaning with other woman .
    tiffeny661 tiffeny661
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 18, 2015
    TiffanyJadex TiffanyJadex
    Mar 21, 2016

    I want to write my boyfriend a letter

    but I don't no what direction I should take it in .
    tiffeny661 tiffeny661
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 18, 2015

    I hate the holidays ,

    I'm just so lonely without him.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

    I am trying to decide

    if I want to go visit my bf in jail. I talk to him on the phone mostly everyday but he still hasn't apologized for everything that happened. Part of me wants to see him face to face and tell him how he hurt me. I need to get my feelings out in order for me to work through...
    skatinem13 skatinem13
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 20, 2016

    just want to say hi to all the prison wives

    and families out there hope your having a good day ..keep your heads up and stay strong none of you r in this alone .... breathe and remember what's at the end of the tunnel when your all done w doing these terms w your loved ones... stay strong and good luck
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 26, 2016

    This is a new experience

    for me and a lot harder than I could have ever imagined. My boyfriend is doing a 6 month sentence and then a 3 month half way house after. When we met he had already been charged but not sentenced. I did not expect for our relationship to go very far, we were only having fun...
    sweetntx sweetntx
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2016

    New on here but...Hello I have been with my

    boyfriend for coming up on 6years this November about 3 years ago he wanted me to marry him, but I told him I wanted to wait until he gets out at that time I thought he would be home a year or 2 later, but now its 3 years coming up on our 6years and I now I do want to get...
    mslady62 mslady62
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2015

    If anyone needs any support

    or just someone to talk to feel free to message me because I need the support too. Always here if anyone needs talk!
    TiffanyJadex TiffanyJadex
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2016

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    kimcc11aa kimcc11aa
    26-30, F
    Jan 20, 2016

    This Sucks.

    Well me and my boyfriend (Josh) started dating October 13, 2012. Josh is 5 and a half years older than me. I am 16 years old, and he is 21 years old. He is currently in jail for engaging in sexual contact with me. I currently live in the state of New Jersey where laws about this...
    amychrisinee amychrisinee
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 27, 2013
    TiffanyJadex TiffanyJadex
    1 Response Mar 19, 2016

    I went to see him today

    and it was good. It's hard at the same time. Rikers island experience sucks if anyone knows. I miss him
    Joeyswiffey4life Joeyswiffey4life
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 15, 2015

    I'm so used to talking to my partner every day,

    sending cute little texts to each other just to say good morning, good night or whatever. I had a moment today when I found myself checking my phone to see if he had text me good morning, like he usually would, only to be greeted with the horrifying reminder that I wouldn't be...
    natalooly natalooly
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2015

    I had my first visit (contact)

    since my love was in county, yesterday. I have never visited a prison before and was so nervous. I hadn't seen or touched my love in two months! Those two months were so long and hard...but as soon as my love walked out to meet me and we locked eyes, it was ALL worth it!! It...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2013


    I was just told this evening, by my incarcerated fiance, that a site like this existed. I told him I was definitely going to be googling it. He was unsure of the name, but I did happen to come across EP. After reading a few stories of women in similiar situations and exploring...
    MandT23 MandT23
    31-35, F
    Sep 10, 2013

    Does anyone have the same feelings.

    .. When your boyfriends done something wrong or got himself into trouble you feel like everything's changed? You don't know what to think, feel or say? Does it mean they can't change? x
    rubyflower4 rubyflower4
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 30, 2015

    My boyfriend was arrested about 3 weeks ago.

    I have decided that no matter what happens with his sentencing I will be there and support him. Most people in my life continue to tell me to leave him because he is "worthless" and other negative things. He did some stupid things but I still love him. I can see past the...
    skatinem13 skatinem13
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2016

    Great news today and it was all out of the blue!

    ! So, my love put in a request to transfer to a long-term transitional center where he'll work a regular detail until he is eligible for work release. We were told it would take months to get transferred...but yesterday (a weeks time had gone by) I got a call from my love....from...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 2, 2014

    My Boyfriend Has To Serve 10 Years In Prison :(

    After a year and a half of waiting for a trial, my boyfriend accepted a deal for 12 years with time for credit served. We have a 2 year old daughter, he's been gone since she was 8 months old, and I have literally cried every single day since April 1, 2010. I feel so empty at...
    solitaYsola solitaYsola
    5 Responses Oct 18, 2011

    Strange Place To Find Your Soulmate

    Little did I realize that people in prison were just that people. Having worked inside we are supposed to keep the offenders at bay. After knowing each other on a working level. One day he kissed me and I knew this was the soulmate I seeked all my life. How could my mind begin to...
    fatimabarras fatimabarras
    46-50, F
    Jul 20, 2013
    rubyflower4 rubyflower4
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 29, 2015

    My boyfriend got caught dealing drugs

    and in in prison for a year. I am heartbroken , angry and sad all at the same time. It's been 3 weeks. I hate him for it! I feel angry towards him does anyone else get this ?
    georginadanielle georginadanielle
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 14, 2015

    sucks having the love of my life,

    and the father of my 4 month old locked up. I know he is a good person but I also believe he needs to learn a lesson. it hurts everyday to know that he won't be able to experience our sons milestones.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 17, 2015

    My Sam

    I have been with my partner Sam for nearly 13 years we have 2 children. One morning after dropping my eldest daughter at school in 2004 turned into my street to see my house surrounded by the police. As I ran towards them i all i remember thinking was that Sam was dead, and...
    delgirl delgirl
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Dec 17, 2007

    I just talked to my boyfriend.

    He got out of prison this morning, and is getting unpacked at the rehabilitation centre as I'm writing this. I'm so excited! He's gonna call me again as soon as everything is in order up there. The centre is located like 2-3 hours away from where I live, but he can have...
    prisonboyfriend prisonboyfriend
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 26, 2014

    i met my love through a pen pal site.

    Eventually we made it official. Hes the most amazing man i know. it gets hard around the holidays. not having him home
    SoCalgirl619 SoCalgirl619
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 25, 2015

    My fiancee has been in prison

    for a year now with 2 more to go. I miss him so much I can hardly stand it. He is 3 hours away so I can go see him quite often, but every time I have to come home it tears me up. I have had a few meltdowns over the last year, but they are becoming more frequent and I just don't...
    mmmshells mmmshells
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2014

    my boyfriend is in jail

    and I wrote a short story about sex can someone tell me if it's good I can send it to you
    kara0812 kara0812
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Mar 29, 2015
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