I Have Boyfriend In Prison

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 620 People

    There is an end! You're in the beginning,

    or the middle. I am in the end. I've been where you are right now, waiting for a phone call. Or maybe you're loading a moneypak. Unfortunately, you're probably wishing this day would come to an end, so you could be one day closer to your sweet, beautiful man who is enduring hell...
    ColombianaQueen ColombianaQueen
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2014

    I had my first visit (contact)

    since my love was in county, yesterday. I have never visited a prison before and was so nervous. I hadn't seen or touched my love in two months! Those two months were so long and hard...but as soon as my love walked out to meet me and we locked eyes, it was ALL worth it!! It...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

    It's all about adapting.

    If what you have is real, y'all will find a way to get thru this. Yes my boyfriend is in prison but we are trying to make the best out of a terrible situation. For example: We still have "dates" - our weekly phone calls We "text" - he can hear my response when he calls even when...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2014

    sucks having the love of my life,

    and the father of my 4 month old locked up. I know he is a good person but I also believe he needs to learn a lesson. it hurts everyday to know that he won't be able to experience our sons milestones.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 17, 2015

    My boyfriend was arrested about 3 weeks ago.

    I have decided that no matter what happens with his sentencing I will be there and support him. Most people in my life continue to tell me to leave him because he is "worthless" and other negative things. He did some stupid things but I still love him. I can see past the...
    skatinem13 skatinem13
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2016


    Mzmodest Mzmodest
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Dec 8, 2013

    I just talked to my boyfriend.

    He got out of prison this morning, and is getting unpacked at the rehabilitation centre as I'm writing this. I'm so excited! He's gonna call me again as soon as everything is in order up there. The centre is located like 2-3 hours away from where I live, but he can have...
    prisonboyfriend prisonboyfriend
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 26, 2014

    Talked to him today made my whole entire week

    :) miss him so much glad I can make him smile
    bb1017 bb1017
    22-25, F
    May 20, 2015

    i miss my boyfriend so much i just feel

    so alone since my family don't want me with him so they try to break me and him up and my friends don't get why i am still with him but he loves me so much and i love him so much too so i have no one to talk to about things like this and i am just 19 years old all alone, i need...
    marisela3192013 marisela3192013
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 13, 2014

    Three and a half years left 😥 It's long,

    but in that time I'll get my life together and get to know him better ❤️
    caitlynr18 caitlynr18
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 5, 2014

    I hate the holidays ,

    I'm just so lonely without him.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

    I have a boyfriend in prison

    and it is do hard. some days it drives me crazy but I love him....I want him to believe that I will wait for him.
    khrh8992 khrh8992
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 17, 2016

    Well nearly been 2 months without my man

    but yet it's still odd having no one to wake up to just a cold side of the bed, coming home from work to an empty house. I'm living 3 different life's at them moment. I have my work life - nothing's wrong with me my life's fine, I'm always (fake) smiling. Then I have the show I...
    LaurenD1 LaurenD1
    3 Responses Dec 13, 2013

    Strange Place To Find Your Soulmate

    Little did I realize that people in prison were just that people. Having worked inside we are supposed to keep the offenders at bay. After knowing each other on a working level. One day he kissed me and I knew this was the soulmate I seeked all my life. How could my mind begin to...
    fatimabarras fatimabarras
    46-50, F
    Jul 20, 2013

    My boyfriend has been incarcerated

    since 2009. I have stood by his side for the past 5 years. They recently (1yr ago) moved him to a prison 5 hours away : /.I visited every chance I could when he was closer to home. I have made the 5hr trip every other weekend when the weather would allow me to. As 2014 came I...
    anav2018 anav2018
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 10, 2014

    my boyfriend went to prison two weeks ago,

    he called me every day, i haven't heard from him since Sunday afternoon. . and at that point he was really down, any idea .. what he may be going through and why he wouldn't be calling me
    bleed3354 bleed3354
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Dec 22, 2015

    Great news today and it was all out of the blue!

    ! So, my love put in a request to transfer to a long-term transitional center where he'll work a regular detail until he is eligible for work release. We were told it would take months to get transferred...but yesterday (a weeks time had gone by) I got a call from my love....from...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 2, 2014

    just want to say hi to all the prison wives

    and families out there hope your having a good day ..keep your heads up and stay strong none of you r in this alone .... breathe and remember what's at the end of the tunnel when your all done w doing these terms w your loved ones... stay strong and good luck
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 26, 2016

    I need someone to talk to.

    . Who have been through this?
    Zella50 Zella50
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2015

    My Boyfriend Has To Serve 10 Years In Prison :(

    After a year and a half of waiting for a trial, my boyfriend accepted a deal for 12 years with time for credit served. We have a 2 year old daughter, he's been gone since she was 8 months old, and I have literally cried every single day since April 1, 2010. I feel so empty at...
    solitaYsola solitaYsola
    5 Responses Oct 18, 2011

    My Sam

    I have been with my partner Sam for nearly 13 years we have 2 children. One morning after dropping my eldest daughter at school in 2004 turned into my street to see my house surrounded by the police. As I ran towards them i all i remember thinking was that Sam was dead, and...
    delgirl delgirl
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Dec 17, 2007

    I Miss My Boyfriend...

         My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years now. I am head-over-heels for the man. Even though we argue, I still love him and I can't see myself with anyone else. He was just transferred to prison yesterday from county jail because...
    PR1NC3SS09 PR1NC3SS09
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 27, 2010

    This Sucks.

    Well me and my boyfriend (Josh) started dating October 13, 2012. Josh is 5 and a half years older than me. I am 16 years old, and he is 21 years old. He is currently in jail for engaging in sexual contact with me. I currently live in the state of New Jersey where laws about this...
    amychrisinee amychrisinee
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 27, 2013

    My Exhusband In Prison

    I had met my ex and was very vulnerable wanting another baby and he agreed he would. Not long after he moved in with me I got pregnant. Long story he went to jail and eventually prison I stood by him the entire time thinking he had good possibilities if I stood by him. I was...
    akimble akimble
    51-55, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2013

    I have been waiting 2yrs

    for the man I believe is my soul mate. I have been super down about it lately. He got a 12yr sentence & I do not know when he will be out. :(
    ChristianAlicia ChristianAlicia
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2013


    I was just told this evening, by my incarcerated fiance, that a site like this existed. I told him I was definitely going to be googling it. He was unsure of the name, but I did happen to come across EP. After reading a few stories of women in similiar situations and exploring...
    MandT23 MandT23
    31-35, F
    Sep 10, 2013

    My fiancee has been in prison

    for a year now with 2 more to go. I miss him so much I can hardly stand it. He is 3 hours away so I can go see him quite often, but every time I have to come home it tears me up. I have had a few meltdowns over the last year, but they are becoming more frequent and I just don't...
    mmmshells mmmshells
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2014

    Please help me, I live in the UK

    and I'm going to visit him for the first time on Monday and I am so nervous I don't know what to expect. I feel sick everytime I think about it. Me and him are totally different we have completely different backgrounds so I've never even set foot near a prison in my life. What...
    ashleigh1709 ashleigh1709
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    My boyfriend is in prison,

    and for the past few months, I really did a great job staying strong. But right now I feel like I'm falling apart. I miss him so much, I no longer know how to handle this.. Anyone in the same situation or who knows how I feel?
    sproetje sproetje
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 4, 2016

    my boyfriend is in jail

    and I wrote a short story about sex can someone tell me if it's good I can send it to you
    kara0812 kara0812
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Mar 29, 2015

    I'm currently in a relationship with my

    boyfriend for 6 months now ... the hardest thing about being in this relationship is not being able to physically have him by my side to have fears and worries and doubts about how our relationship is going to be like when he comes home, but most importantly having my mother...
    vnesaanjela vnesaanjela
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 29, 2015

    My boyfriend has just been given 5 weeks

    for missing a probation meeting which was a total accident as the letter was mixed inside a leaflet and this is how it happened . I am absolutely distraught and I have no idea how I will cope , I have battled with depression before and I'm scared incase this comes back ... The...
    alicegonemad alicegonemad
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 7, 2014

    Funny how everyone will be celebrating a new

    year together... Whilst we will be apart and counting down the days, weeks, months of this new year :(
    rubyflower4 rubyflower4
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

    My boyfriend got caught dealing drugs

    and in in prison for a year. I am heartbroken , angry and sad all at the same time. It's been 3 weeks. I hate him for it! I feel angry towards him does anyone else get this ?
    georginadanielle georginadanielle
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 14, 2015

    i met my love through a pen pal site.

    Eventually we made it official. Hes the most amazing man i know. it gets hard around the holidays. not having him home
    SoCalgirl619 SoCalgirl619
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 25, 2015

    Everyday I wake up, I immediately feel some

    type of way that my man is in prison & not with me. What's eating me up more so, he doesn't have a release date & been in for 3 months already
    SueMoni SueMoni
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 29, 2015

    If anyone needs any support

    or just someone to talk to feel free to message me because I need the support too. Always here if anyone needs talk!
    TiffanyJadex TiffanyJadex
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2016
    TiffanyJadex TiffanyJadex
    Mar 21, 2016

    Please Help With Coping

    Like many of you I never thought that I would ever say I have a boyfriend in prison. However, here we all are. My best friend and the love of my life, has gotten himself into some trouble. I know the whole situation and it was a terrible accident, and now he is facing 6-10 years...
    vanillamoon13 vanillamoon13
    18 Responses Jan 5, 2011

    Holding It Down For Your Love..

    so ive known my boyfriend for almost 6 years now but didnt become a couple till 2 years ago..ive always known i loved him & that there was something about him that would bring us together one day...when we first started dating his was the best boyfriend a girl could ask for...
    stephbabe145 stephbabe145
    3 Responses Jul 13, 2011

    My Boyfriend Has 4 Months Left!!!

    Hi I am 21 and my bf is 20. He has 4 more months on a 17 month sentence for breaking and entering. I miss him SOOO much even tho this is not his 1st time being locked up. I love him and I want him to come home and do right for my son and I. I also want to carry his children...
    SexyDiva19 SexyDiva19
    6 Responses Apr 18, 2010

    The Justice System Is So Unfair

    Well I am trying to hold on to some kinda of hope but every time I do I get it taken right away.I finially go what I thought was a good lawyer to do my husbands appeal but it turned out he was a crook.It was so hard to even come up with the money to afford him because we are not...
    daddysgirl8975 daddysgirl8975
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 17, 2011

    They Took My Husband To Prison,,,i Feel So Empty....

    Right now I am feeling so empty and lost..Our 7 year anniversary was on Feb.14th and I went to see my husband in jail (where he had been since Nov.17,2010.) and it was great to just see him.Even though I would go see him EVERY sunday this day was special.He told me that day that...
    daddysgirl8975 daddysgirl8975
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Feb 20, 2012

    Countdown To 12/30/2012

    My boo is in prison. I met him while he was/is incarcerated. I could not ask for a more perfect man for me. His discharge date is 12/30/2012. He is able to go up for parole this up coming November. If he is granted then he should be coming home 12/1/2011. A little over 21 months...
    chey20002001 chey20002001
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Mar 9, 2011

    Boyfriend In Prison

    When I met David he was a drug dealer and we were both in Ibiza. Maybe I should seen the warning signs! But he was charming, funny and wonderful and I fell for him straight away. He treated me like a princess. Over the next year we talked and met up on and off but both had...
    KimboButton KimboButton
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2011

    Steadfast Heart

    I have been with my  boyfriend for almost 8 years. We have been through alot to say the least. He has been in prison for 5 of those years. When we first met we were very different people then we are today, he was a drug dealer and we were both drug addicts. When he went to...
    karibelle karibelle
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 21, 2011


    SO just to let you all know i had my first visit with my man. It was amazing he smiled soons he seen me and he couldnt quit saying i love you. I feel so much better since ive seen him. i keep praying he gets out early. I would love to have him home for christmas. Its bad i sleep...
    ntvhottie87 ntvhottie87
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2009

    I'm Sorry I Couldnt Help Him

    My fiance is addicted to Crack Cocaine. He wasn't always like that. We dated when we were young. He was the first person I ever had sex with but like most young love, we had to split up. I met another man and fell in love and had two kids but could never forget about Kevin. I...
    MrsCardinal MrsCardinal
    1 Response Dec 20, 2010

    Seem's Like A Lifetime

    My Fiance has been inside for over 3months now, the day he was taken from the court i was an emotional mess, i didnt no what i was going to do or how he was going to cope, But three months down the line i have finally come round to the idea & have realised its not forever, I...
    Kirwen2100 Kirwen2100
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2010

    Negative To A Positive

    My boyfriend of 12 years is a year into a 5yr sentence. It's really hard on me, and the stress is really starting to creep up on me. But the funniest thing happened. A close girlfriend is now going through the same thing. She asked me to write her an erotic story to send to her...
    Alchemist83 Alchemist83
    1 Response Oct 9, 2012

    For Every Rose There Are Many Thorns

    and when you inhale the fragrant blooms sometimes you get cut. Thats the pain of loving someone in prison. First there's the shame. You cannot tell people at work or most people about your situation so you suffer quietly. When others talk about sadness you are compassionate...
    Lilyp Lilyp
    41-45, F
    Nov 22, 2011

    Afraid I've Lost Him--no Clue Why If I Did

    I tend to overreact to many things, but my man always writes me letters...more than he ever writes to others, even his family members. Now it's been 2 weeks of nothing from him to me, yet he has sent multiple letters to others and has been calling them too. I am very hurt and...
    Moppy1632 Moppy1632
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Jan 9, 2013

    Finally Sharing The Truth

    Today was sentencing and I will attach the horrible article written about my best friend. His original guidelines for the state of Michigan where only 6-12 years. The chances of his guidelines being extended was rare....so we thought. The PSI report added 50 bogus points based...
    SweetsWife311 SweetsWife311
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 17, 2013

    Can I Really Do This

    I don't know if I can bare not being with him for so long already I've cried non stop and its only been 2days can I really do it for years he's already told me it's ok for me to move on but I don't want to all I want is him but it's going to be hard and no one understands...
    alynna21 alynna21
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2013

    Missing My Soon To Be Husband &Amp; Think I Made An Mistake

    Hi everyone , I'm new to things like this . I just needed some advice from people who have been in my experience . I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years we have an 5 month old son together . Me and my bf have an rocky relationship , he's quite fimilar with the law and I...
    vonniee23 vonniee23
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 16, 2013

    Love Broken By The Law

    so im vanessa im 16 i know im young . any who my boyfriends name is bugzy . our story is like this. we met when i was a freshman he was a juniour . we met in a library (go figure) i thought he was cute he had a lot of tattoos and hissmilee was sooo gorgeous. we became friends for...
    nessaaaaaa nessaaaaaa
    Sep 24, 2011

    I miss him terribly tonight.

    It seems I cannot be happy lately, I just want to see him. Unfortunately that's not an option.. What does everyone else do when you are feeling down and loosing ambition to keep going
    hisgirlXOXO hisgirlXOXO
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 25, 2014

    6 Months Down Today!!!

    Wow 6 months down today I cannot believe iv got this far already I mean I'm not half way yet but almost there :) soo proud of myself x next month I can start countin down from 24 months! Realy am proud of myself.
    shadeen shadeen
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2011

    This Pain :/

    It's so hard watching movies, going in public, seeing my friends who all have their boyfriends next to them but me I can't I can't just pick up the phone and call him over to hold him, or go to the movies with him, just to hold a conversation with him everyday that's longer than...
    Alexgirrl Alexgirrl
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Sep 18, 2013

    I Miss U More Than Words Can Say

    so happy to talk to u tonight. my luv. even if it. it was b brief I can sense in ur voice. that u are feeling. down an next. week. is ur court date nor sure of the outcome u sound as tho u are preparing us for the worst. my luv who has always seeen the brighter side of things...
    Dematt Dematt
    51-55, F
    May 29, 2013
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