I Have Cheated On My Boyfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 183 People

    My friend "Noah" ( fake name )

    and I were hanging out at a kick back and I was going thru some jealousy issues with my boyfriend and I was confiding in Noah the whole time. He and I have dated kinda before but nothing rly serious. So we went to his car and smoked a little joint then listened to some oldies. I...
    BellyBoo5 BellyBoo5
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

    We'd been together for two years,

    ten months, three weeks, and five days. I had been abroad for four months, saw him two to three times over the Christmas holidays, and in January left for a weeks once more. But (I'll call him Ian) was tall, tan, smooth, and utterly tantalizing. His voice and his hands both...
    StellaKLL StellaKLL
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2014
    Davonnaaa Davonnaaa
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 14, 2014

    I have a complicated situation.

    The guy I cheated on my boyfriend with is my ex, who I'm still in love with. You see, it'd been forever since we'd talked, and we sat fown and talked about how things ended. Answered the unanswered questions. And just hung out after the talk. And spending time with him that day...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 21, 2015

    I need a lot of advice.

    So my boyfriend cheated on me like two months into our relationship with a girl who I was friends with but not like best friends with. It was at a party. Then we broke up for a month and then got back together. We have been back together for 3 months now. This weekend I went to...
    corkcem corkcem
    18-21, F
    Mar 30, 2015

    Ok so hear goes. So lately I've been questioning

    if I should even be with my boyfriend. Mostly I think I am with him because we have a lot of fun and he's really good in bed, but I've never felt that I could fall in love with him. There are things missing in the relationship. I don't feel that I can completely rely on him. And...
    serenabelle serenabelle
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 19, 2015

    I'm a ****** girlfriend.

    I've never not cheated.
    ksnaps ksnaps
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Apr 14, 2014

    .....and I Feel Really Bad.

    It's not like me to do something like that and i just feel really, really sh*t right now. I can't believe i let it happen....i wish i could just go back and not be so f*cking weak!! I went to that party because I knew he'd be there. I wanted to see him. I didn't plan to sleep...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 6, 2012

    So theres this guy that wants to hook up

    and i really wanna but idk
    cheysweetheart cheysweetheart
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 7, 2014

    Have you ever met someone in your life

    that you knew that you had a deep connection with. Well I had and he was my first real love. We were together for 2 and 1/2 years. He wasn't perfect, but he was something I could never forget. He was a real a** to me, but not like my boyfriend now is. Well It started off as one...
    rose0605 rose0605
    18-21, F
    Jul 21, 2015

    I love my boyfriend. A lot.

    One night we were at this party thing and i was laying really close to my friend and it was three in the morning and he was right there and I just wanted to feel his lips on mine again. It felt so good and now I feel awful and I dont know what to do.
    lalune133 lalune133
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2015

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for almost two years. I love him more than anything. I've been battling depression and anorexia for the past year and that, on top of fighting with my boyfriend a lot at the moment, drove me to a breaking point. I told my boyfriend we were taking a break. Absolutely broke his...
    ajskyler ajskyler
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2014

    Funny thing is I got caught 1 min after

    but it did not matter. I broke everything I believed in and stand for and the guilt will haunt me.....but..the universe works in strange ways and timing is perfect. Turned out my bf had cheated on me for a long time and the person I cheated on him with wanted to tell me cause he...
    rukesh3 rukesh3
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 7, 2014

    Is there anyone who has cheated on their

    boyfriend and yet he still forgave you? And how did you forgive yourself and get past it in your relationship? Will the relationship ever be the same? Please help me I feel so lost and sick of myself. I don't want to live anymore. I feel so horrible!
    CheerMeUp2 CheerMeUp2
    26-30, F
    Aug 21, 2015
    Theend1000 Theend1000
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jan 28, 2015

    It's been nearly a year

    since he went to jail. It was a terrible time in my life. I would have panic attacks, and I couldn't be anywhere that he used to be. I loved him more than I even knew. And it nearly killed me.I was changed on the inside. The loss was so great. I was told that I grieved over him...
    Greenadikt1 Greenadikt1
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2014

    I have been in love with my boyfriends best

    friend since 7th grade (im 16) and the only reason why I dated him was so I could be close to his best friend & he would start liking me. Basically I got drunk one night and we made out. It sucks because he just doesn't love me that way & probably never will :( I cry about him...
    sadface69 sadface69
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 1, 2014

    I went to a party with my friend

    and a ton of people that I did not know. while I was there, I got really drunk. now I know getting drunk is still no excuse to cheat on someone, but I really did not know what I was doing. after a couple of shots I was very drunk (I am a lightweight because I am very small for...
    needadvicee needadvicee
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 14, 2014

    I cheated on my boyfriend

    but I am ugly anyways
    JesusfreakO91995 JesusfreakO91995
    22-25, F
    Mar 11, 2015

    I had sex with my friends boyfriend on my first

    time. My boyfriend and my friend don't know. I also have had sex with my teacher! I don't mind giving you a go. Give me your number.
    Awsum123 Awsum123
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Apr 14, 2014

    I cheated on my bf of 4

    and a half years together , he found out that i cheated in him while he was working , i keep insisting in getting and fixing this relationship but he doesnt want too , he so hurt and heartbroken , that i dont even know what to do , i love him , but i dont think he loves me...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Dec 17, 2015

    My boyfriend I were on the verge of breaking up

    when I got with someone else. At the time, I didn't feel bad or guilty in any way. Even though I wanted our relationship to be over, it was kind of an F - you to him. I never thought,during that time, that we'd end up working things out again. We were close to pretty much not...
    peanuttyandjelly peanuttyandjelly
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

    I have been dating my current boyfriend

    for 4 years now and I have met another friend and decided we would be really good friends and I invited him to my house where he made a move on me and I never stopped him. We went all the way to oral but no actual sex. My boyfriend still has no clue I even innocently invited him...
    battlefighter battlefighter
    18-21, F
    May 5, 2015

    Last night, I hung out with my ex boyfriend,

    Danny. He was my first love, but things just did not work. We have remained friends and hang out from time to time. When we do hangout, Danny pushes my comfort zone. For example, if we are watching a show, then he'll try to cuddle and I refuse because I have a boyfriend. I...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 27, 2015

    I made the mistake of trusting myself not to do

    anything while alone with other guys. I have zero control when It comes to situations such as what happened. I regretted it every day afterwards, but yet I just couldn't tell him. In the end it hit me right as I wasn't expecting it; he found out. If I could redo anything in...
    Driftyftw Driftyftw
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 16, 2015

    In 2012, I cheated on my best friend.

    I lost my virginity to someone else. The one thing I wanted more than anything in the world was for me to be with him in that way. I even have the old drawings still. But he didn't want that. He didn't want to even touch me the majority of the relationship. So a guy who I never...
    Headlights Headlights
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2015

    I went on holiday to Egypt

    and felt amazing so confident and I turned a lot of heads. But there was this one waiter called Ahmed, he looked at me and I instantly melted and I couldn't get enough of him... He took me out every night. And he was a real gentleman. I fell for him so hard and he fell to. We...
    alicelt alicelt
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 2, 2014

    I was at my freshman college orientation

    and my boyfriend was leaving for basic training soon and I met a guy there. He wanted me to sneak down to his dorm at like 2 am so I did and we started making out and then he was like "I have condoms" so then we ended up having sex... Twice. I don't regret it all. This is what I...
    marshymello marshymello
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 14, 2015

    Or just in general, just cheated.

    ..For years i would try to tell myself"I would never be that type of person, I'm not that stupid" But I was...As years went by I just would never find happiness in a relationship with someone. I would branch off and become a sliver of my former self. Now i never tried to look for...
    Onlyoneme18 Onlyoneme18
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2014

    I keep getting the urge to tell him,

    especially as when he slept with someone else, he was at least honest about it. There's this constant knot in my stomach everytime and all the time I'm around him. I can never bring myself to do it, though. I can't find the words ....and I do wonder to myself what good it would...
    Caramelapplepie Caramelapplepie
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Feb 2, 2014

    I once had a friend with benefits,

    an in school boyfriend, and a outside of school boyfriend. Punishment? I'm terrified of relationships now.
    AusgustSerene AusgustSerene
    18-21, F
    Sep 19, 2015

    So basically me and my boyfriend went through a

    rough point about a week ago and he said and done stuff that hurt me a lot. He broke up with me and then later told me he made a mistake and wanted to sort things. I'm completely in love with him so without a doubt forgave him and we are now in a relationship again. However...
    cb180696 cb180696
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 19, 2014

    Okay so I recently posted about

    when I cheated on my ex boyfriend. Even though I've apologised millions of times for hurting him he's still trying to get into my head in a way. He's constantly telling me he's not happy and that his family hate me and stuff like that. I've cried about this for a few days...
    sademptynothing sademptynothing
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 19, 2014

    me and my ex R were together

    for a year and a half but for the past 3 months we have drifted so far apart and in them 3 months he started chatting up another girl he accused me of cheating constantly and ive never cheated on him until yesterday. I went out yesterday for the first time in almost 3 years...
    sademptynothing sademptynothing
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Feb 17, 2014

    My "boyfriend" and i have been in

    and off for about 4 years.I dont even know what to call him to be honest. We havent had sex since Novemeber last year. I told him that i feel neglected and that it messes with my confidence,but he Doesnt change anything. He says he loves me and everything about me, so why does...
    lessonlearn3d lessonlearn3d
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 26, 2014

    Now, don't get me wrong here,

    I know what I did was bad and terrible and it should not have happened. But, if it's all those things, why do I still feel no regret? Me and my boyfriend have been living together for over a year now. At the beginning things were amazing. Every time I would see him I was just...
    GraceyD GraceyD
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 12, 2015

    This is difficult to write,

    but for theurapedic purposes, I'm sharing my story. My fiancé and I first met in high school, met him when I was 16. He was my first serious, and truly loving, relationship. Some odd years later, we got engaged. We have been together 10 years as of this year. I've always loved...
    SpicyTaco87 SpicyTaco87
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 14, 2013

    I miss him and regret it

    and would do anything to get him back
    happymess21 happymess21
    22-25, F
    Jul 23, 2015

    So I've been with my boyfriend

    for 8 years got 3 girls together, we used to have so much fun together but as life when on we was always rowing over anything and everything, I was at a low point one night and after a few drinks I ended up on the dating website nxt thing I know I was chatting to this guy and...
    Willow0909 Willow0909
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 8, 2015

    Before I actually begin,

    I just want to say that this wasn't literal cheating. It was basically just tons of thoughts and emotions I couldn't mentally or physically handle. I still don't know what to think. My boyfriend and I...
    Peytonvannseal Peytonvannseal
    31-35, M
    Mar 16, 2015

    But I don't feel guilty

    or any less in love with him. What is wrong with me.
    anonomyouslybroken anonomyouslybroken
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 27, 2014

    I Cheated On My Fiancé

    I am engaged with someone I haven't known that long but am SO in love with him. I have had sex twice before I knew him him, but together we decided to wait until marriage. I'm a very sexual person and had/have been struggling. A few weeks ago I went out with a large group of...
    ninerrider13 ninerrider13
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 7, 2013

    One night after a party at the club I was

    waiting to catch the subway. This dude from my group stayed with me so I wouldn't wait alone. We talked for a couple of hours, about my life, my boyfriend, about his life and just life in general. We sat down on a couple of benches a just kept talking, nothing much. My...
    MultipleGirl107 MultipleGirl107
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 4, 2015

    I Cheated On My Boyfriend While Abroad...

    Me and my boyfriend have been together now for five years. We went to high school together and I have been with him since I was sixteen years old. We have been through incredibly challenging times together, and incredibly happy times together, and I love him very very much...
    sp2401 sp2401
    5 Responses Apr 3, 2012

    We were together for almost 10 years.

    It isn't something I'm proud of, but with things the way they were, I suppose I needed someone to want/need me. I am emotionally immature. Not that that does or doesn't have anything to do with it. I'm not even really trying to justify, or give excuses... I'm just trying to give...
    BeautiKris BeautiKris
    31-35, F
    Feb 25, 2016
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