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I Have Cheated

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 159 People

    After The Wedding

    It wasn't my wedding, but the wedding of my girlfriend's cousin. We travelled abroad for their marriage, back to my girlfriend's home country, and I learned a bit of the language before we went. I sat at the kids table, though we're in our mid to late twenties, and chatted with...
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    Oct 22, 2013

    The first time

    I don't know if it's cheating or not.  I had permission, but it still seems like it was wrong. I.e., nothing good came out of it. I've cheated other times, and something good, believe it or not, has come out of it.  I see cheating as a symptom of problems in the...
    wundayatta wundayatta
    56-60, M
    Jun 1, 2010

    yeah I have . I have only done it once.

    it was back in high school. I was dating laurien. had a keger over at friend mark's house there was like 12 of use there. we all knew we were passing out there. so laurien end pass out in the tree out in the back yard. I pass out in mark's bed . do not remember how I got...
    chat68chat chat68chat
    36-40, M
    Jan 21, 2014

    My Indescretion

    Growing up, i was always considered a dork. I was awkward and very unattractive. I was always playing by the rules and living on the safe side of life. All of those things combined did nothing for my self-esteem. Anyways, about a month ago i entered into a social networking site...
    nanceepark nanceepark
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2010

    I Will Never Cheat Again

    Yeah, I recognize that's what everybody says. But I mean it. Before we were married, we'd been dating for 6 years and had a child together. I felt like he never had any time to be intimate with me. I felt like he wasn't taking time to be with me emotionally either(Ironically some...
    peacefl1 peacefl1
    31-35, F
    Mar 21, 2011

    With His Brother

    I really... don't... feel that bad. I love my boyfriend and everything, but I need to do something dangerous to be sexually excited. So I've been fooling around with his older brother. I won't sleep with him, though. I've never been with anyone else.
    anarkist anarkist
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 22, 2012

    Wtf Is My Problem?

    so i been divorced 3 years. never cheated when i was married. never even thought of it. I have had 5 relationships i would call exclusive and cheated on every one of them. I have not been in a relationship for a year, trying to better myself. I have had some slip...
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    1 Response Mar 31, 2010

    i still don't feel bad

    for what i did. i went out with someone for 3 years. he was toxic, controlling, arrogant, and mean. it was an emotional abusive relationship. well my third year into it i met an amazing guy who was so sweet and gentle with me. he treated me so well. he knew about the other guy...
    enemyinthemirror enemyinthemirror
    18-21, F
    Dec 12, 2013
    unhappilymarriedf unhappilymarriedf
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Mar 22

    Cheating Is Cheating, You Cant Dress It Up To Be Something Else!

    When travelling round South East Asia I met some amazing people including this gorgeous Swedish guy called Christian. We quickly became a couple, and travelled round together. He was a great guy, attentive, sweet, caring, loyal.... But being on your travels you do meet alot...
    DitaVonDiva DitaVonDiva
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Feb 22, 2010

    Hollow Person, Hollow Doings

    I had initially joined EP as a support tactic. I had met some very intelligent people that were able to assist me in working with myself, not only for self loathing purposes but to attack root cause. The following story will likely break a few perspectives on me as a person...
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    2 Responses Nov 9, 2008

    Because I'm Embarrassed

    The times I have cheated do have something in common. I've written in other groups that I have the permission of my husband; he has the "right of veto" when I'm seeing someone else. But ... I have cheated on my husband. Why, when I have permission? Because I'm embarrassed by...
    auroramaru auroramaru
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Jul 24, 2010

    ...He Wasn'T Around...

    I have cheated once. I was engaged to an OK guy, but he was older and he graduated before me. I felt lonely and weak, and was abused on top of that. Then along came a man, let's call him "Chris". He treated me so sweetly, and the way he would cup my face and kiss my forehead made...
    ChizuruHyuga17 ChizuruHyuga17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2013

    The Mistake of a Lifetime

     I dated someone for 3 and a half years and i cheated on him countless times. he only knows about one or two of the times which is terrible. the first time i did it was a few months before our 2 year anniversary. he found out a few days after that. what is even more terrible...
    aimzeez89 aimzeez89
    4 Responses Jul 15, 2008
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