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Codependency anonymous support group with information on diagnosis, treatment, symptoms, along with personal stories and experiences with Codependency. You're not alone. 19 People

    Alcoholic Break Up

    I broke up with my boyfriend 5 days ago. were together for 1 year. i have 2 kids from my exhusband ( ex addict). My ex boyfriend drink about 3 to 4 days a week. 3 to 6 beers on week days. Lots and lots on weekends. Enough to start making me feel uncomfortable. he also has an...
    ggmbq ggmbq 31-35 1 Response Mar 3, 2012

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    My needs don't matter to me.

    My feelings are unimportant. What others think of me constantly haunts me. Are my interests even my own anymore? Or are they the product of how I project myself to others? Who am I? I was diagnosed with codependency last week by my therapist and I've been struggling with...
    srhjeanne srhjeanne 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    Am codependant Proud

    but painfilled We care like awesome humans They say dont but who will Charities are a corrupt joke that we are told will help so we can heal As an american who needs it i can say bullshyte Stop caring is a killer. Who to care about does need changing but letting agencies...
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Jan 14

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