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I Have Codependency

Codependency anonymous support group with information on diagnosis, treatment, symptoms, along with personal stories and experiences with Codependency. You're not alone. 16 People

    Am codependant Proud

    but painfilled We care like awesome humans They say dont but who will Charities are a corrupt joke that we are told will help so we can heal As an american who needs it i can say bullshyte Stop caring is a killer. Who to care about does need changing but letting agencies...
    converted converted 46-50, M Jan 14

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    Alcoholic Break Up

    I broke up with my boyfriend 5 days ago. were together for 1 year. i have 2 kids from my exhusband ( ex addict). My ex boyfriend drink about 3 to 4 days a week. 3 to 6 beers on week days. Lots and lots on weekends. Enough to start making me feel uncomfortable. he also has an...
    ggmbq ggmbq 31-35 1 Response Mar 3, 2012

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