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    So me and my boyfriend are living together

    and we have argued a lot already and we have broken up. Honestly I believe it's a bunch of communication and trust issues and honestly I'm over it. I reached out last night and tried to talk, he said no. I tried again tonight and he said no.. So at this point I have given up...
    Chipperme21 Chipperme21 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 19

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    I Have Never Been More Confused

    Once Upon a Time... Sounds like  the beginning to some cheesy children's story right? Well, every one's life starts off once upon time and this just happens to be mine...Last July, in 2010, I started working at the local Subway, the workers of this Subway consisted of the young...
    jh3557 jh3557 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    Well here we go I'm 43

    and my fiancée is 29 we have the most beautiful 2 year old boy together, however she has been suffering from depression and has struggled with looking after our son, the littlest thing would set her off and ruin her day. Our love life had become non existent and I begged her to...
    superdaddy44 superdaddy44 41-45, M 1 Response May 24

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    Is This All Wrong?!

    I have a friend named Sean. He's my friend with benefits and we've been benefitting from each other for about 4 months now. Read my blog for more infor on our relationship. And things obviously are complicated between us. Doe he want more, does he not, do I? So many...
    Danyush Danyush 22-25 Jun 22, 2009

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    I Have Several Boyfriends, And Am Married

    I have had a long term affair, with someone I work with for over 5 years. I also have many other boyfriends. I am unhappily married, for 24 years. This year will be our silver 25th anniversary, and I should be excited. I'd rather shoot myself, than think about that. My other...
    pearlyq2 pearlyq2 46-50, F 4 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    I just got out of a terrible

    and torturous relationship recently and I decided to jump straight into another relationship (so stupid, I know). This new guy seemed to have so much potential. We got along and he was so open with his emotions and vulnerable. We met online and talked for a couple of weeks. When...
    mistakeoverload mistakeoverload 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I have always been in relationships

    that included violence and heartaches. My longest one is the my current one. We argue and keep revisiting the past. I plan to go to counseling for our relationship because we need it.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Aug 18

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    Who Knows

    I met a guy 3 years ago. Things were complicated at 1st as he was just going through a divorce. His ex wife found out about us and stopped him from seeing his children. I offered to walk away to make things easier didn't want to be the one at blame for these children not seeing...
    MeliB87 MeliB87 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2012

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    How Am I Not In A Corner?

    So long story short before the actual problem, My ex is in the Navy, broke up with me in A-school , came home, spent a lot of time together, went to Michigan to visit a friend, and is now dating her.It's been three weeks since then, and for the past two weeks he's been telling me...
    jh3557 jh3557 18-21, F Jan 7, 2012

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    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    Love to Love, Hate to Leave

    I have been in this "relationship" for 12 years. I know he loves me. I love him. He does not want a commitment, I am not sure how much of one I want either BUT I want him to want one. IS that wrong?
    ishamae ishamae 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 2, 2008

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    I Have A Really Complicated Relationship Even That I Don't Get It

    It's been 8 months since I start dating " Malek " & now we broke up since a month ago I guess or maybe I don't know .. He didn't call me , he didn't msg me , he didn't even chat with me I didn't heard anything about hem he's just liek .. disappear or something .... even if I...
    hyunam hyunam 13-15, F Jul 23, 2013

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    I Think I Love My Best Friend.

    My story is so complicated, even writing it stresses me out. It is almost impossible to put the relationship I am in into words, hence the difficulty of explaining it as I type right now. I met a guy a year and a half ago at our job, and we began a friends with benefits type of...
    g9g408 g9g408 22-25 2 Responses Oct 31, 2011

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    My boyfriend is staying with his ex girlfriend

    because he is an alcoholic and he feels this she can help him. He admits still having feeling for her but swears he is staying there only to help him. I live two hours away and can't be with him all the time. Also she doesn't like me so he's telling her we aren't together...
    hanna135 hanna135 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    Am I Bad Person?

    I have a question and I need an answer. First I’m going to tell you the story. Yesterday while I was in school, there was an announcement that one of last year’s graduate was found dead in the forest next to the school. No, there was no danger to the school. Now I knew this...
    bluebellpuppy bluebellpuppy 13-15, F May 11, 2012

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    Me and my boyfriend broke up two months ago.

    In the beginning of our relationship we were so inlove and close. Then thinks start to change and we were always fighting, because he is from spain and me from iceland, but he lives here. We lived together here in iceland for a couple months but now he is renting with the guys...
    girlyy93 girlyy93 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Today i asked my ex if she wanted to get back

    together and i feel wierd about it because 1 i broke up with her 2 the things i said so heres what i said "Hey i would of done this in person but i dont really feel condfident with you cause your you your amazing and i was gonna choke anyways i really wanna get back together...
    SpiritualMe SpiritualMe 16-17, M Jan 21

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    My ex gf is pregnant

    now she's expecting her babe in February and she call him our babe! Well I like that I wish I could be the father! I loved her even now I just don't trust her but we still in love especially when we meet it's too much love she came to see me 1am she just left and she promise to...
    Theuniqueones Theuniqueones 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    My boyfriend of 7years really ****** me off

    when he tries to tell me what to do. Sometimes he makes me wonder if I really want to be with someone like that. We don't live together because I get scared he will get very controlling.
    lisa0183 lisa0183 31-35, F 2 Responses May 23

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    More On Douchebag Bryan

    So it's been like 10 months since the whole deal with Bryan and I. ( You can read that in my previous posts) and now we've reached a point where we are friends. I have a new boyfriend who I have been dating for 8 months and Bryan has a girlfriend whom he met 9 months ago. He...
    Ihatebryan Ihatebryan 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2013

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    Why is it that... We know we like each other

    we're sweet.. But there's no commitment have you every heard of "MU"? It mean mutual understanding. That's when you'll be labeled when you have no relationship but you act like it, I mean.. We say i love yous we care for each other.. But uhmmm I think I want him but i just want...
    RcZzz RcZzz 13-15, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    How Can I Stop Loving The Person I Love.....

    The hardest thing that i ever experience is to love the wrong person accidentally...and the bad thing is i still committed...and time comes that i love him the most and i know that he loves me also... it kills me a hundred times when i saw him with another girl...but an...
    seeyahlater seeyahlater 18-21, F Oct 1, 2012

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    My ex and my current partner don't like me

    going around my best friends house, my ex is my best friends girlfriends best friend. My best friend is really like my brother, I'm his child's godfather and we have been through allot together. He doesn't know I'm into guys but my ex does, and if she wanted to be a ***** (if...
    lostsoul9011 lostsoul9011 22-25, M Feb 28

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    I feel that resentment kills relationships.

    I was just texting my ex GF about how I missed her humour. She is usually cordial but got weird when I told her that I find it difficult to laugh at my "new connection's" joke. She said "wow, new love interest - you still got it huh?" We broke up 2 years ago. I left because...
    suryothai suryothai 36-40 Aug 7

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    Hate

    WITH MY Dada that i hate so much
    tiara1992 tiara1992 18-21, F Sep 11, 2011

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    Good Grief - Yes I Do!

    I don't think I want to sound like I'm bragging about my complicated relationships so I'll not get too deep into the details.After I wrote that sentence I got to wandering around EP and in a comment on a story by someone else I described one complicated relationship: an affair...
    CFOM CFOM 70+, M 2 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    Married to a man that has been married

    for the third time for 15 years.. At his daughter wedding I went but not included ... His relationship with his daughter has always be all show ... His siblings were really surprised. & I'm very well liked by all of them. What's wrong with this picture ????
    cindy456 cindy456 51-55, F Oct 21

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    There's rumors going around saying my

    boyfriendd is all up on other gurlz,, he says he lykes me && I really lyke him back, he wants to get back what should I do?????
    ggboo ggboo 16-17, F Apr 9

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    A Friend With Benefits..

    A few months ago, I was introduced to this guy by a mutual friend. We connected on FaceBook and I really needed some friend in the area. I had just moved there. I didn;t even think we would actually meet. But then we did. The night before we firt met, we spent the...
    Danyush Danyush 22-25 4 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    I Feel So Lucky and Then Again - So Very Unlucky...

    Have you ever felt like you have been given a blessing that at the same time makes your life so damn complicated? Well, I feel this way. I consider myself very lucky and at the same time - quite the opposite. It all started more than 5 years ago when I discovered the "...
    PolishMystery PolishMystery 21-25, F 4 Responses Sep 21, 2007

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    Loved, But All Alone

    I know that the fact that SOMEONE loves me is better than not being loved, so I suppose I can consider myself lucky in that respect. An explanation for the title is the following: I have been with my current boyfriend (Who I'm going to call Mr. Y.) for almost four years. I was...
    YoungInsanity YoungInsanity 18-21 2 Responses Oct 25, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    This is true. Circumstances are the cause of it. But of late I've been finding that I've been attempting to escape the complicated using fantasy... and finding myself increasingly...
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 22

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    These is this girl I like I liked for about 2 years and she liked me for about the same time. We only made out once but it was nice. We tried getting closer but she pushed me away...
    Nickname4me Nickname4me 18-21, M Oct 19

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    How long can two people stay in love indefinitely without ever touching? Relationships are usually based on timing proximity and chemistry. Two people have to be in the same...
    Rheasdream Rheasdream 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    I'm 19 and I first started pulling my eyelashes when I was in 8th grade. At first it wasn't too bad. I would stand in the mirror and pull my eyelashes but was able to stop once...
    alisonw23 alisonw23 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 21

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    My family drives me to the point of suicide. I know that suicide is selfish, and I'd never commit suicide. but they think I'm being manipulative, the moment I say how I feel, after...
    Luckycharm2014 Luckycharm2014 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    It's time to let go ... I love this article gives me some hope !! When I was about 18, I met a girl who changed my life. She opened my eyes to a part of the world – a part of...
    fiestychica fiestychica 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 4

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    This is going to be long. Me and my bf have been together for 10 years. We were friends before we got together. We were both in bad relationships when we decided to get together. I...
    elaventia elaventia 31-35, F Oct 4

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    honestly i can say I ever had a good relationship ......maybe not all relationships are perfect but Danm can i atleast have an OKAY ONE -_-
    ARIESLUV ARIESLUV 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I keep wondering if he'll come back? He left me after he beat me and I haven't heard from him since. It's been a month. This is the longest in our lives we've gone without contact...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Can't figure this girl i'm dating out. It's complicated.
    Bja1234 Bja1234 31-35, M Oct 8

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    One of the main reasons I don't want to be in a relationship is because of the drama. I'm the type of person who doesn't like drama, and I would say I'm kind of a complicated...
    SuckMyAwesome SuckMyAwesome 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    I feel that long distance relationships couldn't work because you are solely relying on technology and also, what if you met someone really great in person? Wouldn't that be less...
    H3lloK1tty H3lloK1tty 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Yahhh, were in a complicated relationship now. Today is our day but he didn't greeted me :( i feel so upset.
    Itskyeme Itskyeme 16-17, F Oct 6

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    You can never understand a girl. Its really very complicated. Its the universal law. If you ask a girl for something they think we are Despo and If we didn't ask anything they...
    ExpendablesWarrior ExpendablesWarrior 22-25, M 10 Responses Oct 15

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    i tend to run when someone takes romantic interest in me. my fear of love is that strong. i can't believe i feel that insecure and inadequate so i give no one a chance, i really...
    AThousandThoughts AThousandThoughts 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 17

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    The other day this guy asked me out and I really like him but it's complicated. Ok so one day we were texting and we ended up arguing because he called my sister (fake) a b**** and...
    LakiraC LakiraC 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I hate when I write too much, forgive me. I've been single now for 3 months. My how the time flies. My ex and I were together for 5 years, engaged for about 2 but with no plans of...
    LockRobster LockRobster 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 1

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    I have always looked around and observed those who are my friends, family, peers, just strangers nearby, stories, articles and experiences. These days, apparently, everyone's...
    turtlemonster turtlemonster 16-17, F Oct 4

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    I used to believe in soul mates. I used to crave a "romantic movie" type romance, but what I have learned from love is this: it is anything but the ideal picture that the media...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 19

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    I just joined the experience "I don't know if I want to get married" and it reminded me of something that I've often thought about. People jump into relationships, esp. marriage...