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I Have Dated a Trans Person

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 87 People

    I have dated males, females,

    transgendered females and transsexual men, and in case anyone is wondering: we dated because we liked what we saw in each other as people, we broke up because, after looking deeper, we were irreconcilably different types of humans.
    MissBmused MissBmused 41-45, F Jul 31, 2014

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    I Dated An Ftm

    I'm a boy. I've always been open and knowing of trans people. I've always considered myself Bisexual. I met him and had no idea he was trans until about a month or two after we met. I was at his house and saw some needles lying around and I asked him if he did drugs or something...
    Alexlicks Alexlicks 18-21, M Jun 14, 2013

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    I Have Dated A Trans Person

    My gf of 3 years confessed to me that she wanted to be male. This kind of came out of left field for me because although she dressed more masculine, she always told me she was happy as a female. As a girl who identifies as gay, it was a bit hard to take at first but I decided I...
    sublime5 sublime5 22-25, F Oct 13, 2013

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    Trans Day Of Remembrance (nov. 20)

    I sincerely hope that every one of you find yourself in a good, safe place this Trans Day of Remembrance. Let us never forget those that have come before us. I also hope that we will always remember those that we have lost to ignorance and prejudice. Stay safe and be strong.
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40, T Nov 20, 2012

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    My M to F Lesbian Lovers

    I met Sarah About three years ago. Except when I met her she had another name that I will not divulge here. She was a guy when I first met her. Or so I thought.  But within a couple of times of us hanging out "He" informed that she was a girl. It's a tough concept...
    Winterborn Winterborn 31-35 4 Responses Aug 18, 2008

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    I Fell In Love With a Mtf

    Jerri was her name. she was five foot four, platinum blonde hair and a knockout figure.  The first time I met her we just talked.  I must have been showing signs of wanting more. She suggestd we get together for a day. I thought about it as much as I knew she was...
    Micayla Micayla 61-65, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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    Lulu My Love

    During a recent bout of sex tourism in Phnom Penh, Cambodia, I met Lulu. She is a ladyboy, or if you prefer, a transgender person. You can follow me and read various EP stories I've posted about her. You can also look at my photos and see an albumn of her pics. She is very...
    KenWX KenWX 61-65, M Mar 11, 2012

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    She Is So Beautiful

    I am currently dating a trans-woman. She has the most incredibly blue eyes. Her hair is long and wavy and a soft caramel color with brown highlights. Her cheek bones are prominent in a regal sort of way. I love to kiss and massage her long graceful neck. She has the longest most...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40, T Dec 16, 2012

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    It's nearly been a year

    and I love her so much.
    oneinthree333 oneinthree333 31-35, F Nov 20, 2014

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    I Live In Ladyboyland

    Living in Asia I move in various circles: professional (which is straight, sober, cold), social (which is not a big deal for me, only occasional, and involves straight mostly white expat men - and sometimes their accompanying Asian girlfriends or wives), and erotic, which is a...
    KenWX KenWX 61-65, M 4 Responses Sep 3, 2011

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    Caleb

    We broke up in like..January of this year. He is the sweetest thing ever..one of the nicest, most genuine men I've ever met. He was my first relationship& first boyfriend. We spoke on the phone last night and then just text messaged. His voice is just...that of another person...
    micahN micahN 22-25, M May 12, 2012

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    "the Surgery"

    For the partners of ftm or mtf or anyone really:so i just posted my story about my exp w/dating a ftm& was looking at the comments of others. So many of you refer to things as "the surgery" or "the operation." My ex bf had would become very annoyed w/these terms. There are...
    micahN micahN 22-25, M 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    Best Boyfriend Ever!

    For two years I dated a really cool FTM dude.  It was the funnest, longest, most fulfilling relationship I've ever had.  Things were going pretty well- I liked his family, his friends and we shared essential views and values.  In the fall of our second year he left...
    istruggle istruggle 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 19, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    My story. Ever since I was a little "girl" I always knew something was off. I was never interested in things that most girls my age were. I'd rather wear boys clothes. I...
    RAREBREED77 RAREBREED77 18-21, T 3 Responses Jan 15

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    It's been a while experience project! What an experience I have had this past year. I've gone from a confused little man to somewhat of an outstanding citizen I aim to be I'd...
    flibsley flibsley 31-35, M Jan 9

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    I don't feel shame that I feel transgender. I feel shame that I have not done anything to start transitioning. A few friends know my true identity, but I am afraid to share it with...
    Polcenigo Polcenigo 26-30, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    i am looking for a transgender pen pal. just so i dont feel lost or alone someone that can help me boost my confidance and visversa . just another transgender friend i can talk to...
    krista46 krista46 18-21, T 11 Responses Jan 7

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    I understand. I cried when I read this. Please dont ever do this. Im not transgender but I no ppl tht are. Im a gay male but I know tht its not easy and I can see why ppl are doing...
    footsugar123 footsugar123 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    My dysphoria is getting worse. Does my mother not believe what I tell her because she really thinks it's my autism, or because she doesn't want me to be transgender? Apparently...
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Considering a transition from MtF. Would like to talk with someone who has done it...
    haaginheimer haaginheimer 26-30, T 4 Responses Jan 1

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    My mom keeps using the phrase 'no matter what'. It's really starting to tick me off. It's not bad to be transgender!
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 1 Response Jan 4

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    Ok, I'm not transgender, but I don't know what I am or how to describe myself. I don't feel female and I'm comfortable in my male body, although I don't feel completely male either...
    WalterStuart22 WalterStuart22 18-21, M 7 Responses Jan 9

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    i really want to date a mtf transgender but im not sure where to find someone like that. any ideas
    Hephaestus5094 Hephaestus5094 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 10

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    I'm trying to start my mtf transition, anyone willing to give donations go to this link, anything is appreciated http://www.gofundme.com/k2qrvc
    TaylorDoyle TaylorDoyle 18-21, T 2 Responses Jan 16

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    Okay , so I am not "out" yet, I mean none of my friends or family knows other than my wife that is. But lots of professional people know, my doctor, hair stylist, nail girl, Ect...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I know this link will go stale eventually since it is a craigslist ad, but if you're transgender in the US, especially if you're near San Francisco, check this out: http://sfbay...
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am starting to think I may be transgendered, and it scares me.
    Mich38 Mich38 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    For as long as I can remember, femininity has intrigued me. But it was something that was out of my immediate grasp. Yes when I had a chance, I would put on my Mom and sister's...
    scottie50 scottie50 61-65, F 5 Responses Jan 7

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    Hello, im a person who is in need to talk to some MTF's I am posting here anonymously because I have a few people on here that I know that I do not want to see this, I want to...
    AnonymousHelpMe AnonymousHelpMe 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Hello, im a person who is in need to talk to some MTF's I am posting here anonymously because I have a few people on here that I know that I do not want to see this, I want to...
    AnonymousHelpMe AnonymousHelpMe 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    About Asha Struggling to hold the petticoat against my non existent busts as I took in a dip in a temple pond, I gaped open mouthed when a well heeled lady probably not equipped...
    AashaKiran AashaKiran 46-50, T 1 Response Jan 4

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    Does anyone have any tips on how to come out to your parents?
    gemmynoday gemmynoday 13-15, T 5 Responses Jan 10

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    My goal is to come out to my wife this year. I know she won't accept me but i can't live my life this way anymore. We don't have kids and I got fixed along time ago too. I'I scared...
    lauraCD805 lauraCD805 36-40, T 11 Responses Jan 14

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    4 years ago I found out my husband was a CD. I wasn't ok with it at first but just now got started getting use to it. Probably because he couldn't dress up that much, not because I...
    WoaCD09 WoaCD09 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    Meet all of my personalities= Ale= respnsible fo all of my bad decisions Ace= respnsible for all of my good decisions Asher= the one that always tries to make everyone laugh Jae...
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    My personalities: Yasmin:Responsible,mature but still fun to be around. Kendi:Crazy,outgoing,down for whatever, bad-*** rock chick. Onika:My typical big-*** Nicki Minaj mood. P...
    PYazmin PYazmin 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    I refer to them as my 'Personal Guidelines,' and they are a set of rules I've given myself, through evaluation of what I believe and what I expect of myself as I go through life...
    KoalaRising KoalaRising 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Several months ago I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer. It affects my life so much. I got new job this year but I haven't performed my best yet. My boyfriend left me due to intense...
    bungaramadani bungaramadani 22-25, F Dec 30, 2014

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    Yes they do...lets cut too the chase. They have a body that brings so much joy to a man that enjoys a female body like they possess.All that matters is enjoying a plus size woman...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M Jan 1

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    Bpd is making me very lonely and suicidal at the min people around me who don't have it don't understand and its getting me down. Just need some one to talk to who understands what...
    abscar1990 abscar1990 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    One minute I'm punk rock, dressed in black and listening to all time low and fall out boy, the next I am girly as **** dressing in pink. I don't have to decide.
    lolznewaccountio lolznewaccountio 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    A girl that has a **** is really cute and sexy
    biventure biventure 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Idk if I'm gay or not. I want to be a girl. I am a 15 year old male I live in the U.S. I want to experience sex with a guy were I'm the girl. I still like girls to. Can someone...
    ChelseyAmos ChelseyAmos 13-15, T 4 Responses Jan 7

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    I finally came out!!! I told my mom and my dad and my sister and all my friends. They're all ok with it!!! :3
    Kimmandra6918 Kimmandra6918 18-21, T 58 Responses Jan 13

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    I just did my first shopping spree with a few girlfriends. It feels nice to wear my own clothing. I feel really good about myself today.
    ianbrewman ianbrewman 26-30, T 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Why am I having doubts? I know I would be 100% more comfortable with my body if it were male. These feelings of dysphoria are not make believe. So why am I questioning it?
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    New to EP and I am seeking like minded friends in East TN. Look forward to getting to know you.
    justhere4 justhere4 41-45, T 1 Response 1 day ago