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I Have Dated Ex-military Men

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    Ha ha ha! Like I didn't see this coming.

    ..you tell me she is knocked up the other day...today is her birthday & SURPRISE, they are engaged. She had NO idea what she is getting herself into, but she has to learn on her own her soon to be hubby is a douchebag! & by the way, my ring is WAY bigger than yours! I would say...
    SuzanneTS SuzanneTS 36-40, F Oct 26, 2014

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    And Married Him, Too!

    My husband is awesome. We were meant for each other. We met in 2003, which seems so long ago- he lived across the street from me. I was taking care of my father, because he was dying (2002) Every once in a while, I'd look out the front window and see him in his wheelchair. My...
    hjing hjing 46-50, F Apr 12, 2011

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    I think this group may be the best place to write about this crush that I've been having for what feels like an eternity. And this post will be long and very detailed, so please...
    arcticray arcticray 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    Just 9 days till I am going to be at my baby's BMT graduation. I seriously can't wait!! Finally going to have a real conversation after 7 weeks of not being able too! Hang in there...
    makaylaanne makaylaanne 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    A mental letter for you: I love you, with all my heart. I lied to you, I stabbed you in the front and watched as your heart pumped out all the blood. I was young and foolish, but...
    saraandherfoxes saraandherfoxes 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    I was recently broken up with, it was difficult and hurt but not the end of the world as we both knew it was the best for us both. I really took a step back and examined myself and...
    Jade0321 Jade0321 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    My dad is a heroin addict, has been for as long as I remember. I don't know how to help him anymore. He has had spells where he gets clean for a couple of weeks but always go back...
    Charley271 Charley271 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    I write a lot about men...like a LOT. Men have always been a big part of my life since the first breath I took in this form. Growing up the only man a part of my life, after the...
    MsJessicaRabbit MsJessicaRabbit 26-30, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I've been off of medication for several months. I went cold turkey when I found out I was pregnant. It was amazing not to be on meds and feel "normal". When I lost my baby I was...
    Audreydarling Audreydarling 26-30, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Waking up in the middle of the night and being unable to sleep. What was it, 3 am? Many nights I will wake up spontaneously during. But typically if the lights are on I just fall...
    Hush92 Hush92 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Getting old fears me. True. I am shocked that i am no longer a teenager, but why is it like only my age increases? I feel like my mentality when i was a teenager is the same as i...
    blitzkrieg7 blitzkrieg7 22-25, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Hello there everyone. How's everybody doing? My name is Albert. I have a disability called mentally challenged. I'm new in this group and I'm a very shy man. Feel free to tell me...
    BigTallTeddy10 BigTallTeddy10 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Walking through the doors getting my jacket checked, my bag looked through, the doors locks as they slam shut behind me. New faces, people in white uniforms, keys opening and...
    Ennah Ennah 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I never want to have children. For some people it seems like an impossible concept that a female does not to mother children. It is an individual choice, some women want to have...
    moonlightflower moonlightflower 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I've always been attracted to older men to a certain degree, even my first celebrity crush was an older man (David Bowie)! My attraction lead me into a multitude of problems though...
    spoiledsweetforever spoiledsweetforever 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I definitely have no problem with interracial relationships. I have dated, married and even been get pregnant several times by different black men. I am a white woman and just...
    vabeachfemale vabeachfemale 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 31

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    I la-la-la-lovee older men, preferably white. And I don't mean the Hugh Hefner, about to kick the bucket older man. I mean a 30 to 50 year old man who isn't overweight, isn't...
    BisexTex BisexTex 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 29

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    Examples: They are millions and millions of single mothers in the world why? Because when a girl gets pregnant most men can't mentally handle being a father so he runs away...
    Kornisone Kornisone 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 28

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    Hey girls, I have a question: I always see cute posters girls make for their military men when they come home. Is this usually only done for deployments, or would they work for...
    aBeautyQueenandHerSoldier aBeautyQueenandHerSoldier 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    So not only was this person physically perfect but he seemed to get me. However the issues were endless. 1)I spoke to him first (which us ladies should never do because real men...
    reginastrength reginastrength 22-25, F Jan 27

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    Etsy have the CUTEST military girlfriend things! I'm gonna have no money 😂😍
    cadenn cadenn 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    i was in a relationship with a man for over 5 years. I don't know when the abuse started, everything is so blurred now. Thinking back I think I was manipulated into believing he...
    JustGotOut2016 JustGotOut2016 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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    This seems to apply to me. I always seem to be more attracted to men that are older than me. I have dated a few that were a little younger but I think I prefer the older guys.
    funluvnangel funluvnangel 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    so, im coming clean with something ive only shared with a select few in my life.. back when i was 16 i lost my first love, he was too old for me and was thrown in prison for being...
    HaveIgoneMad HaveIgoneMad 18-21 Jan 23

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    My first time was in 8th grade, im in 10th right now, btw. I got caught cutting myself. I went 5 times in the span of two years. I also had eating disorders, anorexia at first...
    lekearns99 lekearns99 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I met my boyfriend, who is in the Army, online and we dated for a year and it was an amazing year! He would talk about having kids and us getting married and then we went to Aruba...
    Kat95 Kat95 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I like bigger men, men who know how to cut wood, and fix cars, and drive heavy equipment...someone at least 225 lbins. Men who make me feel safe in their arms. However, I dated...
    zMayden zMayden 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I am an U. S. Army girlfriend. Through this experience with my soldier I am blessed, hopeful, and proud. A little back ground from our story (try to follow a long, I am terrible...
    maryashlyn maryashlyn 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    I haven't been here in a long time but Me and my ex boyfriend have been single since May , we've been on and off on trying to fix us and get back together ( he always comes back to...
    Madelinex24 Madelinex24 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Hi all... I am seeking some advice on what to do, I have this guy whom I used to date back in high school but he then left South Africa to join the army fast forward 12 years we...
    Shazi2106 Shazi2106 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kimcc11aa kimcc11aa 26-30, F Jan 20

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kimcc11aa kimcc11aa 26-30, F Jan 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kimcc11aa kimcc11aa 26-30, F Jan 19

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    It wasn't physical abuse but mental. And for years I didn't think it would even be considered abuse or even be important. But I have recently learned that it's still abuse and is...
    ashuriiNikooru ashuriiNikooru 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    But it seems that it's not THAT serious. So I can't get any help. I've tried counselling. Not all counselor fit. One counsellor when i was living in foreign country, she was so...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky 26-30, F Jan 18

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    I feel alone a lot. Even though I have someone who loves me. Im afraid to hold on because everyone that I love has died, usually by committing suicide or because of me. Im in love...
    kayovele kayovele 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I think if we are all honest , deep down at least one time in our life, we have been attracted to a same sex person, even if we never felt the need or wanted to take it further. I...
    joolz52 joolz52 56-60, F 3 Responses Jan 17

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    I have been 4x. 3 of which I put myself into the hospital. None of those times were recently & I will not go back again. Not with how things are these days.
    tiger3cub8 tiger3cub8 46-50, M Jan 17

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    Their is a lot of sarcasm on this group I find it funny girls getting pissed at people's opinions if you don't wish to hear it don't listen if people have this belief of men over...
    Poisonmyst Poisonmyst 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    I was hoping some of you could give me info. Have any of you dated a man in the military only on line. I don't want to be the other woman.
    Dw1076 Dw1076 46-50, F 4 Responses Jan 15

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