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I Have Dated Ex-military Men

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    And Married Him, Too!

    My husband is awesome. We were meant for each other. We met in 2003, which seems so long ago- he lived across the street from me. I was taking care of my father, because he was dying (2002) Every once in a while, I'd look out the front window and see him in his wheelchair. My...
    hjing hjing 46-50, F Apr 12, 2011

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    I think it's really sad that I've seen alot of women get romantically involved with married men. As a single person like myself, I feel like it's not really worth it because you're...
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    I was in one for six days in February, and then they forced me to go to further treatment for another three weeks. I missed so much school because of it, but I couldn't be luckier...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Wasn't a true mental hospital. More like a cheap crisis center for suicidal/abused teens. I remember the day I went. Around December I think, few years back. Mom was alive too. I...
    CJCA CJCA 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    When I was six my mum abandoned me at a mental asylum and I didn't see her or my family for 4 years. Trouble is whilst I was their doctors actually found that I posses the dark...
    zacisbest45 zacisbest45 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    was a very dramatic stunt, played by my mother. At one point, I 'wanted' to be admitted. At least then, I'd have been comfortable. She was a lying, stubborn, idiotic, selfish...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I was locked up for a month. Medicated against my will, ignored and left alone. I became even more ill. Hospitals are evil, they didn't even help me only I could help myself.
    GeorgiaAlicee GeorgiaAlicee 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Terrible and scary experience. But the people were mostly nice.
    guardian96 guardian96 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    He came to visit me again..and he tried it on with me..I'm just so sick of it. I don't know what to do. Luckily before he could actually do anything one of the staff came in..I was...
    Betruetoyourselfxx Betruetoyourselfxx 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Eight times ask me anything
    heathee heathee 46-50, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    They suck profusely. I've never gotten therapy there. Just drugs. Many many drugs.
    BrokenBrain123 BrokenBrain123 22-25 1 Response 3 days ago

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    They aren't as people make them out to be. If you take it seriously you can get help and recovery :)
    Muppo23 Muppo23 13-15, F 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I was in the U.S. Air Force for about 4 yrs. After I moved to AZ in 2001, I was supporting myself working temp jobs & deciding what I wanted to do w/my life. Armed w/my bachelor's...
    afdragon afdragon 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 10

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    I am black and I have dated guys of my own race, but in the end i would end up heart broken. I am NOT saying that there are no good black men out there just that white men (and...
    jlbrown19 jlbrown19 18-21 Aug 10

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    I like people of most races. I like White men with dark eyes and light hair and a bit of rhythm. The few white guys I have dated, I met dancing .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm always horny and I love to have sex, especially with older men. There's just something about them that's so... addictive? haha probably not the word to describe it but I always...
    natalielan506 natalielan506 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 20

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    Hello, I’m Dr. Horace S. Browntrout, and I’ve just written a hilarious spoof of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual for Mental Disorders (DSM). It’s called Mental...
    DocBrowntrout DocBrowntrout 26-30, M Aug 24

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    I don't judge a person by gender. You will have men smarter than women and you will have women smarter than men. Same goes with strength. Really to say that woman are smartest of...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M Aug 20

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    John Wayne and Clint Eastwood. What do they have in common? Real men. What the ****, with the One Direction, Justin Beiber, ****? No wonder so many chicks like other chicks. I...
    Shamrocksalono Shamrocksalono 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I never had a boyfriend but I have always admired white men and been attracted to them. I would at least try to attempt a relationship with one. But I am too different from society...
    inspirelove inspirelove 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    I use to value the truth and be proud I held up to telling the truth no matter how hurtful but I have slowly built a web of lies. I am so shameful. I am married to a man and have...
    lilMsOakTree lilMsOakTree 46-50, F 3 days ago

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    I was doing so well dealing with the fact that I have hpv. Until yesterday. I told this guy I've been kinda seeing that I have it & he told me he doesn't want to see me anymore but...
    onedayatatime01 onedayatatime01 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    So this isn't easy to say but I can't keep it inside anymore. I want to commit suicide, and I've had thoughts about it for a long time now. I'm 16 and I have told my mom, mentor...
    Jb359 Jb359 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Sure have, but names like that have no real meaning unless you put a value to them. I think when your younger and you don't know any better, you know thin skinned. It can be some...
    KawaiiDemon KawaiiDemon 18-21 1 Response Aug 21

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    I just stumbled across this site, and think it's an absolutely wonderful idea. I have spent much of my time wondering if there are any individuals in the world that think similarly...
    jd6742 jd6742 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I would say I've officially been a navy girlfriend for about 9 months now. It has been a bumpy road these past 9 months and even bumpier before that. I found myself asking if I...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    what kind of men did you grow-up around? i don't like to talk much about my fondness for tall men (especially if they're lanky like the actor who played King Edward VIII on "W.E...
    peppersasen peppersasen 26-30 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    So I dated him for 3 months I only dated him cause I had just gotten out of a long relationship and the guy I broke up with didn't want anything to do with me didn't even talk to...
    kaylaDem kaylaDem 18-21, F Aug 22

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    My wife isn't really getting fat at the moment but rather has always been plump. She was only 5'0 tall and 190 pounds when graduating from highschool in 1993. By the time we met in...
    hsnpman hsnpman 46-50, M 5 Responses Aug 18

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    PaulDaleRoberts PaulDaleRoberts 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    I was in a relationship with a man two years older than me, he was going to be a navy nuke & I wanted to enlist in the marines. I stood by him, through his alcoholism & addiction...
    Rebellove Rebellove 16-17, F Aug 13

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    Within the first week of our relationship my ex-boyfriend said to me "if you're going to be with me you aren't going to have time for anyone but me." This was a red flag to me, but...
    amazingcuzitis amazingcuzitis 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So about May i got hired as a temp for my new job. i instantly thought my Supervisor was attractive. but i let the though go because one he was my Boss and two my Boyfriend (now ex...
    Wolfey777 Wolfey777 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Every morning I wake up to a "Good Morning" text from my boyfriend and it is amazing to see his dedication while he is away. I know many of you long for communication from your...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F Aug 4

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    My son started seeing his now wife about seven years ago. I never liked her from the start. He and I used to be very close and after she came into the picture our relationship was...
    Plava111 Plava111 51-55 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I was wrongfully done by my military ex husband in my custody battle with my almost two year old son last year and lost due to lies during court. I need help and support for my son...
    Amurray0390 Amurray0390 22-25, F Aug 2

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    I dated a guy once that seemed to be normal at first. He had stole my heart from the first day we met, and three months later we were engaged. But than he started showing his...
    brandijade92 brandijade92 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I really miss my AF boyfriend...he's been gone a month now..to Quatar..we dated 10 months before he left..and I am trying to stay busy, positive, and not worry.. It's not easy...
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    When I lived in California I was all about asian guys. Loved their look, dark hair and beautiful eyes. I never dated one because I wasn't sure they dated black girls. Wish I'd of...
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F Aug 14

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    I just think I made the hugest mistake of my life. I met this new man about 4 months ago and moved in with him 3 weeks back as my ex told me to get out of his apartment. Problem is...
    cradleaway cradleaway 22-25 2 days ago

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    Journey to Germany: Well yesterday I got the news from my boyfriend where they were going to deploy him after AIT. I was in shock but knew it was a great possibility that he would...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 2

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    I dated with nearly 10 guys but haven't found my lover. My dating stopped after one or second meeting because sometimes both sides were not interested in each others or sometime...
    katnguyen katnguyen 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I have signed my soul to other men... So they may use me as they wish. I pray it is for the greater good, to keep my family safe... You her protesters saying keep the troops home...
    Arr762 Arr762 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I used to be so naive. Sometimes I wish I could have that innocence back...to be able to see the world through the eyes of a girl who only knew of sheltered happiness. Of course...
    SupernovaxGirl SupernovaxGirl 26-30 1 Response Aug 12

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    I was totally Asian boy obsessed in school. Especially Japanese but I wasn't too picky. Never dated one though because I wasn't sure they dated black girls, but maybe I should have...
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F Aug 14

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