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I Have Dated Ex-military Men

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    And Married Him, Too!

    My husband is awesome. We were meant for each other. We met in 2003, which seems so long ago- he lived across the street from me. I was taking care of my father, because he was dying (2002) Every once in a while, I'd look out the front window and see him in his wheelchair. My...
    hjing hjing 46-50, F Apr 12, 2011

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    Ha ha ha! Like I didn't see this coming.

    ..you tell me she is knocked up the other day...today is her birthday & SURPRISE, they are engaged. She had NO idea what she is getting herself into, but she has to learn on her own her soon to be hubby is a douchebag! & by the way, my ring is WAY bigger than yours! I would say...
    SuzanneTS SuzanneTS 31-35, F Oct 26, 2014

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    Yes I have was in one for over four years, as an employee of course lol
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    I have been a patient at one twice, once last spring and the other the year before that My goal is to never have to go to one again. I may post why sometime or I may not.
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    Well, going to, at least. My doctor said it'd be a good idea.
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    I went and visited a friend at one, so I was technically at one. Not as a patient but as a visitor.
    Batman328 Batman328 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 2

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