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I Have Dated Ex-military Men

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    My husband is awesome. We were meant for each other. We met in 2003, which seems so long ago- he lived across the street from me. I was taking care of my father, because he was dying (2002) Every once in a while, I'd look out the front window and see him in his wheelchair. My...
    hjing hjing 46-50, F Apr 12, 2011

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    Just got out of a mental hospital for suicude only to find my foster parents don't want me now I'm in a group home
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    Recently I discovered that I enjoy her relationship with other men. I even want to see her have intimate relationship with them. This I realized when I saw her sharing some adult...
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    My wife and I have only fantasized about her sucking another man off as I **** her
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    This year I (finally) found someone that likes me back despite all my personality quirks. The only problem is that we're both seniors. Neither of us want to start a relationship so...
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    I'm being forced to go to a psych ward. See u guys
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    It's always my fault. When I speak do my words just go through one ear to the next? Or do you actually understand what I am saying. I am trying to improve myself and make things...
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    I have one more year of undergraduate classes and then another year of clinicals. Lately I've been thinking about joining the military. The air force is accepting single parents...
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    Nothing against short guys, they simply make me feel like a jolly green giant, and so awkward. Being 6' tall, and female always made dating a hassle. I dated a guy shorter than me...
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    As the significant other of someone in the military, you know. You know what it’s like to wonder if he’s okay. You know what it’s like to lay awake at night and wonder if he...
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    I am a black woman and am attracted to white men. I have dated, married, and have had biracial children by white husband.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I just read an article about being in love with someone. Now I am not sure if I have ever been in love with anybody. I have dated, married, and divorced. So far, men I was...
    marion13 marion13 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    We've been separated for a year now. We're still legally married. He's an alcoholic but has been sober now for about 4 months and is doing very well. I'm doing pretty well also. I...
    FreedomtoFly FreedomtoFly 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Just because I like this..... The Type Sarah Kay If you grow up the type of woman men want to look at, you can let them look at you. But do not mistake eyes for hands. Or...
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    Victorloveoldermen Victorloveoldermen 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    I am very embarrassed at the amount of men and woman that I have slept with over the years. I started having sex, weather it be oral, or the full deal at the age of 14. It hasn't...
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    its just the way i am .. i always have gravitated to older men ... they seem confident and patient and have life experience in so many areas ;) Age is just a number
    Lorieisme Lorieisme 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 12

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    its just the way i am .. i always have gravitated to older men ... they seem confident and patient and have life experience in so many areas ;) Age is just a number
    loriismee loriismee 22-25, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against older men, but when they're 40+, horny as ever, trying to chat you up...it's disturbing. Go back to your wife and kids please...
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    I was always attracted to older men. I am 22 and I dated men who were at least 4 years older than me. But never passed 10 years apart. The maturity always mattered and I felt safe...
    Lovelifee22 Lovelifee22 22-25, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    I'm a 26 year young woman in a relationship with a 38 year old man. I'm starting to fall in love,which is VERY hard for me considering I'm not that trusting of a person anyway...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm a 26 year young woman in a relationship with a 38 year old man. I'm starting to fall in love,which is VERY hard for me considering I'm not that trusting of a person anyway...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've written here before, under this same section "I Have a Broken Heart." It was in August and I think then, I still clung to the idea that I could make it work with my ex. I...
    Twiddledum Twiddledum 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Sometimes the military sucks. But you get out of it what you put into it. If your going to be one of those people who just complains that your soldier is gone or cant be with and...
    lmsabatino lmsabatino 22-25, F Apr 10

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