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I Have Dated Ex-military Men

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    Ha ha ha! Like I didn't see this coming.

    ..you tell me she is knocked up the other day...today is her birthday & SURPRISE, they are engaged. She had NO idea what she is getting herself into, but she has to learn on her own her soon to be hubby is a douchebag! & by the way, my ring is WAY bigger than yours! I would say...
    SuzanneTS SuzanneTS 31-35, F Oct 26, 2014

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    And Married Him, Too!

    My husband is awesome. We were meant for each other. We met in 2003, which seems so long ago- he lived across the street from me. I was taking care of my father, because he was dying (2002) Every once in a while, I'd look out the front window and see him in his wheelchair. My...
    hjing hjing 46-50, F Apr 12, 2011

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    Nope. Not a mental hospital. That's what they told me. It's not a mental hospital. I was 15 years old. They told me (2 psychologists in a room with me, and I think maybe my parents...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jan 10

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of...
    angelacc11 angelacc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    1 month last year and they maybe gonna put me in a mental hospital next week again 👍
    Celine1804 Celine1804 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    Not just men that are disrespectful..... I have lost respect for anyone that is disrespectful
    ElissaAcosta ElissaAcosta 16-17, F Jan 22

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    So this is more of a question but its extremely to a mental ward in a hospital, so that's why I'm posting it here. When you were in the psych ward what were some things that you...
    sadly203 sadly203 18-21 1 Response 4 days ago

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    When I was 14 I was in a mental hospital under suicide watch......I was there for 6 months. I still remember everything
    Broken0923 Broken0923 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have huge trust issues with 99.999999999999999999% of all males regardless of age using the internet and specifically those using this EP website. I am very careful what I say...
    mominlingerie mominlingerie 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    My only goal for 2015 is to stay out of the hospital. I know its going to be a hard goal to keep but let hope and pray I can do it. It will prove that I'm strong and am no longer...
    sadly203 sadly203 18-21 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Things I remember... Cuffed by a bed, straitjacket, isolation room, mean nurses, insults, fights - lots of fights, hit, sedatives, lots of pills, crying, lies.. This is their...
    Sanding Sanding 13-15, M 5 Responses Jan 7

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    When I was 13 I wrote a poem about wanting to kill my mom that she found. When I got to the hospital they said I was normal and let me out the next day When I was 16 I attempted...
    lonelygurl92 lonelygurl92 22-25, F Jan 11

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    Had some of the best times of my life. Couple of crazies all together. Simply people who got f'd in da face by reality. Mother b*tch!
    VeniceTheMenice VeniceTheMenice 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    So m33lad has been writing rather disgusting comments to women consecutively here I've unfortunately been a witness to many of his comments I answered him with factual information...
    MNI1982 MNI1982 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 21

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    Easy to say, but someone can be disrespectful to you over and over and over again...and we keep holding on. My once best friend is one of the meanest people to me, he abandoned me...
    StrawBracelet StrawBracelet 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    To shorten the story, I have an ex fiance from 2004. My father died and he walked away due to my father's death. You know why as good as I do. I ended up having an emotional...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jan 18

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    I'm feeling a little guilty. My Marine keeps talking about moving me out to him in NC and starting a life there with him. At first just moving outside of base as a girlfriend, but...
    KaleJay KaleJay 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hello :) I joined this website after reading a lot of posts on internet. I thought you could help me out :) I met my soldier online a few days ago. We talked for 20 hours no-stop...
    leslie11x leslie11x 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Technically, right now I'm no longer a girlfriend... My marine and I fell in love very quickly and very intensely and knew it was it for both of us from the beginning.... Neither...
    Slk23 Slk23 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I had lived in the uk since I was 13 and sadly I have been very unlucky and I had encountered lots of racial abuse and hatred I feel that 99% of white people and especially...
    newyear15 newyear15 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    and it doesn't help that my dad is ex-military, bipolar, compulsive, OCD, and a big scary looking guy. he's harsh with his words and it hurts so much. I end up crying after every...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    I have seen this title and the stories behind it so many times, it makes me puke. People make it seem men are the only ones who cheat and hurt their significant other, but what a...
    Godsmack23 Godsmack23 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    When I was fourteen my mom told me something so I wouldn't have to hear it from her ex boyfriend. My mom went into an illegal abortion clinic while she was in her third term...
    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I prefer men as friends any day. Women are so competitive, jealous and judgemental. I find men much easier to talk to and have a conversation with. Men are also much more caring...
    galaxy3 galaxy3 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    I have always thought older men were hot!!!
    anneloves anneloves 18-21, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've always had it. I never played with the other kids at recess from pre school to 5th grade. Middle school was a living hell and now I go to an alternative high school. I have a...
    classAteam classAteam 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    I have a fear of mentally disabled people. Whenever i am nearby one, i get a stomachache and my heart beats fast and hard, often accompanied by blushing (???!!). I feel very...
    lukashv lukashv 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    Yep. I know I know. Well since I've lost weight people have started calling me hot and being interested in me but I still have that 'fat girl' mentality like everyone who shows...
    staygoldenbaby staygoldenbaby 16-17, F Jan 18

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    All my life I have been uncomfortable around men. I don't know for sure why I'm like that. It's a bit of a mystery.
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate when guys walk away from me and say "It was good while it lasted." when I tell them I have a boyfriend now. What was good while it lasted? We were only friends... so now the...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 day ago

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    Over the summer I had a traumatic experience overseas. When I got home I was talking really fast & with a Spanish accent & apparently sounded crazy. My family convinced me to...
    Stella30 Stella30 26-30, F 10 mins ago

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    Have you ever brushed your teeth and then sipped orange juice? That's the sort of taste that being in a BPD relationship leaves you with. An intense sting that leaves your throat...
    TalaSnow TalaSnow 22-25, F Jan 21

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    There's a difference between older men, much older men, and old men. When I was 21, I was tired of only older men being attracted to me (30's, 40's, 50's). I felt like they were...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jan 4

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    Ok so I'm gonna rant and speak my mind. This is to everyone!! Ladies that have you men in bootcamp seriously enjoy the time while they are there and having the ability to write...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    I dated a man 10 years my senior. The age difference wasn't too noticeable. There were some funny moments of my being completely unaware of pop culture things from his generation...
    Frahlick Frahlick 18-21, F Jan 17

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    I always wished I had been in the military and fought for the good cause. It is a proud and honorable thing to achieve such a great challenge. But I was so badly damaged by my...
    Ajushi Ajushi 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    I'm a mixed girl who has always liked and dated white guys. I've never dated any other race. Race doesn't matter to me. I just really happen to like white men lol.
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Ya know, here in 8 days or less, I'll get to talk to my love again and I'll be going to see him graduation. And I get sad. I cry. But then one thought hits me. There are women...
    MySoldierMyLove MySoldierMyLove 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    Talked to my man today about his deployment to Japan in Nov. Before finding out yesterday that he would be deployed, we were saving up money to move me out to NC into an apt close...
    KaleJay KaleJay 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I think that all military girlfriends should watch the music video for Carrie Underwoods "Just a Dream" just to put into perspective what those of us have. I mean yea, some of us...
    armygirl20 armygirl20 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    It took me some time before i came to realize that the events in my opinion were repeating themselves??Only to then realize that i was seeing future events of what could be?? I...
    001kn 001kn 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    keliscc11 keliscc11 26-30, F Dec 30, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    keliscc11 keliscc11 26-30, F Dec 30, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    paulacc11 paulacc11 26-30, F Jan 3

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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