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I Have Done Stupid Things In the Name of Love

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    Sometimes I Cringe When I Have Memories

    My last boyfriend ... I lived with him.  Hell, he wanted us to get married and for me to have our children.  What did I really see in him?  Was I just afraid of being alone?  Was I hopelessly trying to prove I could be a wife?  Yeah, we were good in bed...
    SaratogaGirl SaratogaGirl 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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    I Have Done Stupid Things In The Name Of Love,

    When we started dating I fell for him pretty hard, I'd had a few not so nice men in my life before and he was a change. good fun and very happy to be with me. Over time it became apparent he did not like traveling to see me and expected me to do all the running. I cleaned his...
    bonnie129 bonnie129 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2010

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    Switching Nights And Days

    I had this girl that worked at night, in a pub. I was so in love with her that I used to slip from home at night, like at 3 am, for almost a month, and my parents didn't know that. Then coming back home at 6 am..That is the most stupid thing I've done for love, and still I don't...
    CrookedMat CrookedMat 26-30, M Jan 30, 2013

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    I Was Really In Love.

    My last ex boyfriend and I were getting serious and I would clean his house, watch his son, do his laundry, take his garbage out...and we weren't even living together.   I was like a live in maid and I never minded then because I was so in love. ...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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    Dropped Out Of School

    Both college and high school, running start, for one man. I'm just glad he married me otherwise it would have been for nothing for both of us. He dropped out of high school too. It was stupid and caused a lot of problems. But I'm going back to college and he is working very hard...
    jkitty93 jkitty93 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2012

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    Asking For Pneumonia

    When Dave and I met it was pretty much love at first sight.  With a good dose of lust mixed in.Now mind you, we were both 19-ish at the time, stupid and immortal.  We had a place on campus...secluded and reasonably private...spent many hours making out on a bridge near a pond...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F Dec 3, 2011

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    Paid For His Lawyer

    when he went to jail. i put money in his books. I think he used the money to buy callig cards to call his GF. when he got out after the arraignment before he was sentenced he stayed with her the whole month until he got sentenced. I left the courtroom. after the lawyer told me...
    cowli cowli 41-45, F Oct 2, 2012

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    Let's just say live everyone else I'm not myself when I'm drunk I do stupid things again like every other drunk lol
    Maddya Maddya 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I just wanted to share something with you guys, I have had these three friends since I was 3(sisters). And they have had the worst childhood you can wish someone. Perhaps not...
    SJNak SJNak 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Being a Stepmom hurts. I am trying to completely forgive SD for her hateful and hurtful comments and actions. So, I am putting my feelings on the line to possibly be hurt again. SD...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Until now...... and this person Is not single. Just my damn luck. I have never been faithful to ANYONE except for now. For that reason I don't feel like I have ever really been...
    vwilliams69 vwilliams69 41-45, F Apr 2

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    I find them stupid sometimes, and most people think they are all stupid. But we learn by them, You can't learn from something if you haven't done it. People may believe something...
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I have decided to just live a happy life being a good person. There are so many things that I have to be thankful for & I do feel blessed
    PyjamaCat PyjamaCat 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    THIS ONE IS GOING TO BE TOUGH... 1. Bake with my mom 2. Join an Interschool quiz show 3. Spelunking 4. 5km trail running 5. Half Marathon 6. Record a song on soundcloud 7. Rock...
    spilledinklove spilledinklove 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    41 secrets about me be honest no matter what . 1. who was your last 4 texts from? daddy, aragorn, auntie, bestie 2. where was your default picture taken from? My room...
    HikoukiGumo HikoukiGumo 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I have had two abortions. First when I was 19 and thought I was I love. He dumped me as soon as he found out. Second when I was 25 and he begged me to keep it. I was scared. Please...
    xMissTix xMissTix 26-30, F 12 Responses Mar 25

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    Last year I relapsed on crystal meth but this time I took way too much that I almost died from it. It all happened in November of 2013 when I ended up getting $600 from and decided...
    blablabla444 blablabla444 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I was visiting a friend in prison a few weeks ago and stupidly pointed out that all the prisoners were men
    SlightlySparkles SlightlySparkles 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My precious lover knows many of those things, but never, ever will I tell all of what I've done in my life. I hold that shame very near and dear and the only forgiveness for those...
    MysticalSkeptical MysticalSkeptical 41-45 Apr 2

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    The wrong things at the wrong times. Generally during awkward silences.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M Apr 2

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    Like admit stuff and tell people things I wanted to keep secret :/
    lunaluna13 lunaluna13 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    1. Sang in front of 400 people 2. Kissed a boy 3. Been in a musical 4. Fell in love 5. Had my heart broken 6. Ate liver. 7. Made a Facebook 8. Made an Instagram 9. Sang karaoke...
    meganayyye21 meganayyye21 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I have thought so many stupid thought it hard to tell now which ones are stupid, but i can honestly say the thing i have thought before came out to be something other have thought...
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I am 17 having sex with a 26 year old. I want to have sex with him. I do like him a lot. Is this illegal still and does it sound bad?
    savi757 savi757 16-17, F Mar 24

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    the bong was pretty, it was clear, but black on the bottom. he called it Sanja, it's his favorite name in the world, he thinks it's beautiful. I was confused, nervous...
    maggieee5086 maggieee5086 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I think everybody has done something they wish they hadn't. I think that is part of being human. Life is a learning process and mistakes are just a tool for learning:)
    1234Ideclareathumbwar 1234Ideclareathumbwar 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    It would probably be easier to list the things I haven't done. College was fun :)
    meghanmonroe meghanmonroe 26-30, F Mar 27

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    Back in middle school it was a very bad time of stress, and the worst three years of my life. During that time, I would talk to men on the internet and I have shown myself online...
    sassysarah98 sassysarah98 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    You can profess all you like that if you were in their situation you would do things differently but you really don't know how you are going to react if you have never been there...
    SmashedUpSanity SmashedUpSanity 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    but unfortunately you took it just a little too far. A little too much mental manipulation. No matter how much I love you, it's completely done. But you can always take solace in...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 22

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    I was at a friends house (female) I said I need the bathroom so way I went. In sted of going 2 the bathroom I sneaked into her room I pinched about 6 pears of her underwear. I...
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 22

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    ive done a lot of substances and i dont regret a second of it. through everything ive done, ive now realized that i wouldnt be me if it weren't for drugs for they have opened my...
    bongripper1 bongripper1 16-17, F Apr 4

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    Yeah I have. But to be honest they are all learning opportunities for the human experience. They have helped to shape me into the individual that I have become today. So proud...
    Jericho7 Jericho7 36-40, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    I'm Shaina Nichole and yes, that's my first name. A lot of people think that is my first and middle, but it's just like Mary Kate or Mary Beth or whatever.
    ShainaNichole ShainaNichole 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    No good experiences to report. Plenty of pretty photos, outdated profiles, many loose facts, genuinely disappointed. Even though many on here have indicated one is foolish for...
    grasshopper54 grasshopper54 56-60, M Apr 9

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    in like all kinds. My aunt and uncle hate me and I have to stay with them lots of times. They hate when I bother them and make them work and they let it feel me. I just have to...
    SabrinaInTears SabrinaInTears 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Around my early time as a 16 year old I lost my best friend. I met him when I was 15 during summer camp and we bonded ever since. He didn't die though, my parents thought that he...
    HeyRainbow HeyRainbow 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    A actually wrote this last January 31st but I wasn't able to post it immediately because I'm a little bit busy. Just a random post, I don't know what are the things that will be...
    m00nshine m00nshine 16-17, F Mar 24

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    1.) There are more selfish people in the world than selfless people. 2.) A lot of people only care about themselves. 3.) Some people enjoy causing pain to others. 4.). People...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I don't know what it is. Even if I am so tired, and I know I need to get some sleep, if I have a lot on my mind, the hampster wheel just keeps on spinning!
    marine0351 marine0351 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I live with a haunting guilt that I cannot dig out from under. I live it everyday, everynight , in my sleep and my nightmares . I have hurt the ones closest to me down.
    atcjwc atcjwc 36-40, M Mar 23

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    Ok so I was in the car with my homeboy talking about how it seems like iPhones die left and right so fast. So while we're talking about how bad the battery sucks he looks over at...
    triniboy92 triniboy92 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    A majority of the time it's when I'm with anyone attractive. I get really nervous, intimidated and either babble complete nonsense or don't say a word. Otherwise, it's when I'm...
    shortgirl4 shortgirl4 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 26

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    Im one of those people who says "you too" when the person at the ticket booth tells me to enjoy the movie...
    catchphrasejones catchphrasejones 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    One time my crush told me he liked my earrings and I asked him why he was looking there. Lol!
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F Apr 6

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    I lost my new undiess and i am now saddened :(
    onemorelie onemorelie 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Msg me if you want know more
    MISTERCYCLOPS MISTERCYCLOPS 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    1. Read more than 40 books 2. Went to Nevada 3. Went to Texas 4. Went to Arizona 5. Went to Louisiana 6. Went camping 7. Gotten straight A's 8. Watch every episode of Avatar...
    ayanna9067 ayanna9067 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Gwyn - I suppose it's fairly rare.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M Apr 7

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    I would be soo mad hahahaha
    lexix0 lexix0 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    No spankings without corner time afterwards. It gets so boring and staying in position is hard
    tabikat tabikat 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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