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I Have Dreams About People I Love Hurting Me

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    Arachniphobia

    Last night I dreamed that my husband came to me with a gift. It was a box. He told me to open it. I was touched that he brought me a present. So I opened it. It was full of brown spiders, thousands of little brown ones. I screamed and threw it on the floor. All the spiders...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2011

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    Haunting

    for years i would dream about reconciling with my ex-best friend... but lately they have all been about her tearing me down.  i guess im finally accepting what really happened.
    SunnyKris SunnyKris 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2007

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    People I Love Are Hurting Me Every Night In Me Dreams!

    In the past couple of weeks i keep on getting hurt in me dreams!My boyfriend broke my nose!I asked my sister to stab me, as she was holding the knife to my stomach she decided she couldn't do it,  so my other sister pushed her so the knife went straight in to me.My best friend...
    Hanna007 Hanna007 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2011

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    Letting Go

    Although I know my relationship is over and I must move on, dreams of her moving on are tearing me up. So vivid are they that it is affecting me during the day. Last night was bad and today I feel like it is an open wound all over again. My subconscious knows exactly what my fear...
    busysingledad busysingledad 36-40 1 Response May 29, 2008

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    I Get Killed

    Too many times have I had similar dreams. Always different - different people, different places, different scenarios. But one thing is similar - someone is ALWAYS trying to kill me. I'm always being chased by someone. Sometimes someone I don't know, but most commonly a member...
    MamaJudia MamaJudia 22-25, F Dec 12, 2009

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    Transluminal2010 Transluminal2010 41-45, M Apr 9

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    I'm sure most, or some people have had a long lost lover in the past who they've had to let go in order to make them and happy and yourself happy, logically to make it work. It...
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    Tella84 Tella84 26-30, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I tend to care too much about the people that I do actually care about, and its rarely reciprocated...
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    IcyDragon IcyDragon 16-17, F Apr 6

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