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I Have Experienced Bad Sex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 125 People

    I Don't Know Where To Go From Here...

    I am trying to focus and put some energy into my married sex life. My wife isn't a social creature (prone to anxiety in public) so we just had dinner at home and retired to the bedroom to watch a movie together. Everything was going swimmingly, and I rubbed her feet and her back...
    roadphotoguy roadphotoguy
    36-40, M
    Mar 30, 2012

    It Wasn't Even Sex - It Was Pathetic...

    And it was ME! - double drat those Effexor pills....  Glad I broke that addiction!
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Apr 19, 2009

    Kissing Seals The Deal For Me

    She was gorgeous, drop dead sexy playboy model material. Stuff most mens wet dreams are made out of. But she just laid there, had no imagination. No drive, no desire... Other then the fact that kissing her was like getting hit on the mouth with a wet sponge everything else was ok...
    hotroddot39 hotroddot39
    41-45, M
    1 Response Apr 2, 2011

    Too Many Bad Experiences

    The worst was probably the guy who came as soon as I pulled his pants off. Oops!  Sorry, no soup for you. Then there was the boyfriend who I really liked but had an unusually small (read:  infantile) penis.  They say size doesn't matter, but it really does matter...
    doorsinmymind doorsinmymind
    41-45, F
    9 Responses Oct 15, 2008

    Every Time

    I feel like every girl I have ever had sex with could join this group.  I saw someone say about a 5 minute man, id love to last 5 minutes. I have cummed multiple times as my pants were coming off and my **** was still not if you read any of my other stuff im only...
    cal321 cal321
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 17, 2010

    It Wasn't Good.

    I suppose I shouldn't have expected much for a first time, but I think this one stands out as being bad despite that. I met a woman in an open relationship at an event, and there were a great many things I didn't know about her at the time, I suppose I only cared that she was...
    motokourashima motokourashima
    18-21, M
    Jan 23, 2013

    Ouch Ouch Ouch

    TOO BIG TOO FAST, it was a definite head-banging session and I was in agony! It's difficult to say 'can you slow down please?' when they're moaning away!
    DarceySmile DarceySmile
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2009

    What A Waste Of Time

    a few years ago I went out to a club and pulled a nice young girl. As the night progressed we got even more drunk than we already were. Then came the usual end of the night questions - your place or mine. On the way over she start to whisper dirty things in my ear - can we do...
    matt609 matt609
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Nov 5, 2010

    More Times Then I Care to Admit

    Who hasn't had bad sex? There has to be a line somewhere between bad sex and sex that wasn't bad...but wasn't good, either. There are many variables when it comes to sex. Is the sex bad if you don't ******? No, I don't think so, but it is certainly better if you do. Is it...
    autimom autimom
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2008

    Bad Sex

    I really had bad sex with my ex gf .. she was so cold . I used to *** very fast to finish this **** .. im in really need for a horny milf to fulfill my lust
    ahmedbob ahmedbob
    18-21, M
    Mar 14, 2013

    As A Child The Repeat Rapes By Baby Sitters

    all 5 of us kids in the couples care were repeat raped and no one care even when we told others we were called name and told we were going to hell for lying about this youth minister and his family
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Aug 30, 2013

    Failure On Both Sides

    I remember the first girl I had sex with it.  I was sitting in my room on a rainy Sunday when she messgaed me telling me that she was horny.  I sweet-talked into letting me head up to her place for a quick booty session lol.  Everything seemed promising...
    rorschach246 rorschach246
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 11, 2009

    THATS It?!

    I've had couple bad sex experiences. Guy #1 & I were going at it, at first it was great; passionate & all, but then all of a sudden he stops & started complaining about getting an "*** CRAMP"-- yeah, I know. What the ****?! I didn't say anything; I was...
    AdviceFromLizzie AdviceFromLizzie
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 6, 2008

    The Worst

    Gorgeous guy, pure lust... Lights out...waiting..... WTF?  You're done?  I didn't know you had even started!
    GoneCrazyBBL GoneCrazyBBL
    31-35, F
    Oct 2, 2008

    Bad Sex

    I was writing another story, and started thinking of the women I have been lucky to be with.  I have been with a number of good lovers and have had my share of great sex.  I also remembered some alright and even a few bad experiences. Bad sex happens because of an...
    houstonman1 houstonman1
    51-55, M
    8 Responses Mar 31, 2010


    It was a long time ago, before I knew 10% of what I know now.  She was a cute girl a few years younger.  I actually had a little feud with her sister, so I thought what better revenge then ******* the little sister. She was on top and did not move just sat there. ...
    frydaddy frydaddy
    Apr 24, 2009

    Not All Sex Is Good!

    Several years ago, my wife had a female co-worker who knew we were open-minded through conversation they had. She and her husband were trying to find a couple to play with and she asked my wife if they could come for a visit and see what happened.  She agreed and both of them...
    SwGaMan SwGaMan
    61-65, M
    Oct 3, 2012

    Worry Too Much

    I can get crazy when the sex is good, and who doesn't, I don't mean like I'm scratching or biting I mean like my body is doing it's own things falling out of rhythm, twitching etc. I have this nagging concern for safety, because I'm losing control but not in a good way exactly...
    XioBlue XioBlue
    22-25, F
    Apr 22, 2012

    First Time...

    The first time I had sex was incredibly bad. The guy was a one pump chump. He came and went with one thrust. lol. I have more stories like this...
    Mamyinchi Mamyinchi
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Jul 28, 2013

    It Would Be Hard... have gotten to age 50 without having had some bad sex.   Possibly the worst was, "I'm leaving you, can we have sex one last time?"   But I have to say that the good sex WAY outweighs the bad sex, and that the worst sex is no sex.
    EBunbury EBunbury
    46-50, M
    5 Responses Feb 1, 2009

    I Have Experienced Bad Sex.

    Its sad to say ive had too many bad sex  experiences that i even forget what good sex feels like.  I assure you.. im not the problem... its just the situations and the awkwardness during and after. 
    applescruffs applescruffs
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2011


    dead fish so many girls are dead fish so bad m*sturbation > dead fish     *edit* i love how EP censors the word m*sturbation
    deleted deleted
    Feb 1, 2009

    Never Orgasamed

    Me and my ex waited awhile before we started being intimate. And when the day came I was so ready. But if I'd known how bad it was I would have never done it. Now I am not trying to be rude but I would like to know. Has anyone ever had sex with someone a few times and each time...
    jlbrown19 jlbrown19
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2013
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