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I Have Faked An Orgasm

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 99 People

    I Don't Know Many Guys Who Have, But...

     I have faked it before.  Sometimes when the girl gets so nervous and worried that I'm having a good time, it destroys the mood...  and I know she would be offended and sad if I couldn't get off...  so I had to fake it.  I've had to lots of times...
    vaguevocalist vaguevocalist
    18-21, M
    Dec 13, 2008

    My Last Boyfriend...

    It was his first time... and i can understand this, i really can. We'd messed around before and everything. Thing is... he was just SO BAD. He was bad at everything sexual, and ..well everything else, which is why i broke up with him, along with the ...emotional... abuse...
    candiipup candiipup
    22-25, F
    Apr 2, 2008


    So... hmmm there was this guy Tyler.. that was and still is  pretty much obsessed with getting females off.. I think his whole purpose for wanting sex is to conquer his conquest.. Thats all he wants is to know you got yours.. In some ways yes its...
    AuThEnTiC AuThEnTiC
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 18, 2008

    Everytime..........But One.

    It just got easier to start faking it then being told what I was doing "wrong". It was easier than having to try & explain EVERYTIME what I needed, because he really didn't care anyway..... I find it really hard to relax & enjoy myself....So I've gotten use to...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Apr 16, 2009

    I Was Scared!

    I was involved with someone I shouldn't have been, long story but no real excuses....anyway I faked an ****** one time because I thought she would be insulted if I didn't.....and I was right.
    mikemcneil mikemcneil
    51-55, M
    24 Responses Feb 18, 2008


    Faking it was the only way to get my ex-husband to stop and leave me alone.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 3, 2007

    All the Time With My Ex....

    i honestly thought something was wrong with me. until i met my husband...then i realized it was my ex who had the problems... one time my husband faked not having an ******...this was a long time ago. we were having sex and i thought he was about to c-m, and then all of a sudden...
    antiyou antiyou
    26-30, F
    Feb 19, 2008

    Many Times With My Ex

    Sometimes the sex was so bad, I just wanted it over with. He was a sweetie, and hell-bent on getting me off, but he just wasn't doing what I liked (and yes, I'd told him). It was partially out of pity and partially out of wanting it to end. Not that he was always bad, but...
    BlissfullyBruised BlissfullyBruised
    22-25, F
    Sep 4, 2011

    You Think Guys Are Exempt?

    I had an insatiable girl once. We would have all the crotch numbing mind blowing, go all night, curl your toes sex you ever saw in your life! But...every once in a while man, I had to fake it just to get a break! That was a whole other life ago.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 2, 2011


    It is actually kinda funny cause I am usually the one in the mood when he is not, but every once in awhile it works the other way around, so I fake it to get it over with. If he has any idea, he never calls me on it, and he is so the kind of person to call me on it, so I do not...
    Ozzygrl Ozzygrl
    26-30, F
    Nov 30, 2007

    I Have a Few Times

    It was mostly when I was with guys.  I learned early on that as long as they were satisfied that they didn't really seem to care.  As long as you can convince them vocally that you did they won't try to see if you really did.  I did manage to do it with a woman...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 26, 2007


    Ehh... sometimes you feel like it isn't gonna go anywhere, and you're getting tired, and you just wanna get it over with haha. I don't always need an ****** to feel satisfied anyway. I enjoy the act of sex all in itself.
    paperalias paperalias
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2007

    Many a Time...

    the guy I lost my virginity to was terrible... had an ****** once... Faked it everytime for the rest of the year =P
    deleted deleted
    Mar 17, 2008

    First Ex

    I need to feel emotional attachment and trust for my partner.
    cuddlybear cuddlybear
    26-30, M
    1 Response Aug 25, 2011

    Jeez...who Hasnt...

    Of course I have.....did it for years..... Thing is...even if I wanted to or felt the need doubt I could get away with it now.  JD helped me figure that puzzle out and he knows what a real one is like....I'm frankly just not that good of an actress....LOL
    Lexus Lexus
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Nov 26, 2007

    Can We Say "mercy ****"?

    She was my neighbor, in the apartment in the basement of the house i was in.  While She was a good looking clean healthy woman, with a great body - She did nothing for me sexually: i couldn't go down on Her, She didn't want foreplay, She just got drunk a couple of times and...
    jismlicious jismlicious
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Oct 30, 2009

    Exhusband Faked It All the Time

    I wasn't really experienced when I met my ex husband he was the first man I was ever with (ie I was with many women). Sex was ok but He would last about five minutes never went down on me and the lack of intimacy was horrible. He would get upset if I asked him to do or touch me a...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 18, 2008

    I Had To.

    I still remember this incident quite clearly, it was about 2 years ago when me and my boyfriend were quite new to sex and neither of us had any such experience or practice. We were having sex, maybe the 3rd or the 4th time, and everything was going good for us. We were doing in...
    lilylove5 lilylove5
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 5, 2013

    Fak'n It To Make It

    There has been a few select times (when I had had sex multiple times in the day). These were typically when I was on the 3rd or 4th time in one day and I was just spent. We had been going at it for some time & I was exhausted (being on top) and she wouldn't climb aboard so I...
    funplayn1 funplayn1
    41-45, M
    May 18, 2012

    It's Very Hard

    it's very hard for me to ****** durrin sex. i'm sure the main reason is i'm physically male and the types of sex i'm capable of having just don't feel right. i have orgasmd durring sex a few times but it's usually just a physical responce, not as enjoyable as it should be. it...
    AngelaDark AngelaDark
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 23, 2007

    Never Had One During Sex

    i can get off all the time with my vibrator or my bullets but i need **** stimulation. i even tried having sex while keeping a bullet on my **** and it didn't work. when my husband used to eat me out i needed something on my **** to stimulate it until i'm almost there and then he...
    yana1 yana1
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 15, 2007

    Want to Stop But Don't Want to Offend.

    I used to have an incredible sex drive, there was no such thing as too much and it was not uncommon for me to come several times per session. I then dated a guy for 2.5 years who was abusive and made me feel like I should be ashamed of wanting sex. We rarely did, and when we did...
    violet835 violet835
    1 Response Sep 10, 2009

    The Guy I Lost My Virginity To...

    Basically, we were both virgins. Fair enough, really. It was special and all, but... He didn't know what he was doing and cos I'd already been playing with myself for a while, I knew what worked for me, and it was annoying cos even though I'd tell him what worked for me, but he...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 18, 2008


    I have faked an ****** Who hasn't?
    deleted deleted
    Dec 6, 2009

    Too Many to Count

    I admit it.  It hones my acting skills, I suppose!
    debmichelle debmichelle
    Jun 21, 2008

    It Happens

    Sometimes it just does not work, I have too much on my mind or whatever, but I feel bad because my hubby wants to make me happy and has already invested so much time to my ******, that I just pretend, so he does not feel like it was all for nothing. I feel this helps ensure that...
    Ozzygrl Ozzygrl
    26-30, F
    Feb 2, 2008

    Not That Easy To Do When You Are A Guy

    It's easy for women.....Julia Louis Dreyfus and Meg Ryan showed us how. But if you are a guy and realize halfway through that there is no way you are horny enough to *** with this woman and you really don't want to be with her anymore and just want to get as far away from there...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 27, 2012

    And the Award Goes To... Phidget!!!

    For the best dramatic faked ******... HAHAHA... I don't HAVE to do it now... my sex life is superly-dooperly awesome... BUT I won't lie and say that I have NEVER faked one before... I was dating this one guy who for some reason just wasn't making it happen... and he would...
    phidget phidget
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 22, 2008
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