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I Have Family Members That Get On My Nerves

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    My brother’s attitude really gets on my

    nerves. He has always had this careless irresponsible attitude, always caused troubles and never took anything in his life seriously. Well that doesn’t really concern me, but the fact that he is blaming his failure on everyone else other than himself is what really ****** me...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So my mom doesn't want me dating ,

    yet I'm 17 , if I can legally drink in 7 months I think I should be able to date. what's your opinion?
    sunshine126 sunshine126 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I despise my father. For my entire life,

    the drunken ******* has insulted me, pushed me around, and made me feel like I'm nothing. Just recently, he killed my ******* cat. I hate him so much.
    aroacefromouterspace aroacefromouterspace 13-15, T Jun 11

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    Okay. so i'm top 1 in my class.

    got an A in all if my subjects. I do the chores. i study hard. and they always scold me! they never praised me. and it's unfair because my brother doesn't do anything. he keeps playing dota, watches **** and heck he keeps ************! and they praise him like urgh.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 8

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    forkinyoureye forkinyoureye 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 30

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    honestly i feel like my family friends

    and EVERYONE else in my life deserves better than what i can give the. #all-timelow
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 17

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    I just have the ones

    that only talk to you when they need something. grrrr
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 4

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    lol, who doesn't have at least 1 family member

    they get annoyed with, and if you don't then you are that family member everyone else gets annoyed with.
    bretneyc bretneyc 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    It's official. I want my grandfather to move out

    and get his own apartment again. I can't deal with him here, up my ***, in my business, every single ******* day. He is driving me in sane. we fight every day. And he's always the one who starts it. I think he forgets this isn't his house. He doesn't have a say in anything that...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    Especially that kind

    who did all sorts of bullshit during their teens and give you sage words of advice. Ask for your exam results but don't even remember your frikkin birthday. Visit your house out of the blue, listen to your parents' tantrums and start giving lectures like they know all about it...
    akkiRK akkiRK 18-21, M 1 Response May 5

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    Can I just say, parents don't know everything.

    The moment you try and defend yourself, they automatically tell you that you don't know anything. It's ridiculous that parents can yell at us, but we can't yell at them. They don't let us explain why we did something, they just assume.
    CallmeTessa CallmeTessa 13-15, F 6 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    em not living with my parents coz I am having

    some convince issues to school although we r I the same city well em living in my aunt's house my czns I just hate them my czn A is always bullying me I don't know why and when I started to bully him his sis W came with him and then they both started abusing me and bullying me...
    Fariyal Fariyal 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 2

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    Sister Dearest

    My sister Petula is a singer. And thus; Petula enjoys singing. She has a beautiful voice; don't get me wrong there-- but I do stand to believe that she enjoys it a *little* bit too much. She and her husband lived with my husband and I in his house for about a year while they were...
    LittleRedCareBear LittleRedCareBear 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 8

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    I have an older sister

    that verbally abuses me daily. I know it's normal for sisters to argue, but I never say anything back. Sometimes some sarcasm but she's just cruel. Calling me worthless and useless and trying to control how much I eat
    haydenkate haydenkate 16-17, F 3 Responses May 12

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    I'm at a family party

    and feel like I don't belong
    feelsointhedark feelsointhedark 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 8, 2014

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    was nearly killed by an in law.

    by nearly, I mean simply, he failed to succeed. but attempted.
    chickpeasAndRice chickpeasAndRice 31-35, F 1 Response May 10

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    When i'm wrong my mom yells at me

    and gets angry. and when she's wrong and i start to get angry she starts to yell at me. like srsly.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 8

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    Even though it's an established fact

    that I hate humanity entirely, there is something about certain family members - they who I shall not name - that irks me in a entirely different, and perhaps, more wrath-inducing way. (warning: r-r-r-rant ahead) There is a weird hierarchy within this so-lovely family of mine...
    Shinoyo Shinoyo 18-21, F 2 Responses May 5

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    My mom is so nosy when it comes to my sex life.

    I know she's worried and wants to make sure I'm safe and won't get pregnant, but she wants to know every detail that I really don't feel comfortable sharing. Things like how good it is, how he gets me in the mood, and how often we do it. There's things that you just don't need...
    HelloLovelyPerson HelloLovelyPerson 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    My dad and I always fight.

    Right now he's not even talking to me ... What so I do ?
    sunshine126 sunshine126 16-17, F 3 Responses May 14

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    I love my family, but my mind is by far the

    most willing. They're so depressing it kills me. I just want a happy place for my daughter and I to live happily.
    AshleyRob94 AshleyRob94 18-21, F Jun 12

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    and they sometimes even drive me a little crazy,

    but I love them and accept them anyhow.
    hollygee hollygee 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    try to clean whole house including sweep,

    vaccume, and mop floors, dad gets mad for a wet spot. smh
    Leahxox Leahxox 13-15, F Jan 19

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    Yes. I do. One of those members is my father.

    You know what he called me? Incompetent, unreliable and disappointing...just because I lost my driver's student permit (that is already expired and can be applied again by the way) This is the reason why I don't talk about my problems with my family nor do I ask questions...
    middlechild274 middlechild274 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 15

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    SORRY THIS POST IS LONG.

    ... I have a sister who's already 21 and is still so immature. She is either evil or crazy. Her kindness is incontinent. Like sometimes she wakes up irate, sometimes too nice kissing everyone and saying good morning like she's Snow White. She works right now and didn't finish...
    patrickgutier patrickgutier 18-21, M May 4

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    One of the worst things to experience is your

    mom crying because half of her family didn't show up for the Christmas Eve celebration. Makes me sick
    justintrubela justintrubela 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 24, 2014

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    My mother is a miserable person

    because she works hard, but all her money goes to my locked up thirty six year old brother and his kids. She treats my daughter and I like foster kids.
    GBPOWDER31 GBPOWDER31 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 8

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    my grandma kills baby cats.

    she doesn't understand why spay or neuter. no, forget about it. she says I'm dumb cause I spayed my cat, because she would give beautiful fluffy kittens everyone would want. I give up.
    Blackberries Blackberries 26-30, F 2 Responses May 24

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    My brother is so fricken annoying.

    Haha. My dad acts like a teenager. My mom is always on her phone. I feel like im the parent. But at the end of the day we love each other and forget how annoying we all are (:
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    tales of stupidity #57: just

    because you turned 18 doesn't mean you should drop out of school and post your nekkid pics on fb where your family can see it!!
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 3 Responses May 24

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    God don't even go there.

    ..I have a part of my family which constantly lie about the most horrible things...for example my auntie told my mum that she has 25 people out of 42 at work that are dying of cancer...I mean unless she works in a cancer hospital that is a shocking and disturbing thing to say...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 21

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    My siblings are the annoying people.

    My little brother is always talking. He never stops. My other little brother likes to take my stuff. My older brother is always stealing money from me and he always blames stuff on me. My other older brother, who is at a boarding school across the country, always calls me asking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 19

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    my dad and I were horsing around

    and mum was on the phone . she told us to shush. and grandmother Hurd her and asked what was going on. she said I was horsing around with her and dad . I was not even talking to her while she was on the phone :-/. then grandmother sujusted that mum hit me to discipline me...
    flowergirl1997 flowergirl1997 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    So I borrowed my aunts suburban to travel

    for a doctor appointment and I'm staying with my cousins and grandma because who wants to get a motel. Anyways my uncle and I went to the movies and when I got back at like midnight my mom asked me if we took the suburban. But we didn't we took my uncles car. My 15 year old...
    Gabbysam Gabbysam 16-17, F 1 Response May 15

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    i am 39 and am/was the first born.

    .oldest grandchild etc..until a few years ago..my dad found out he has another daughter 8 months older then me...i tried to be happy about it but I actually hate it..i have a ton of resentment. being the black sheep doesnt help either..shm.
    meldesavage meldesavage 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    Really? We have been cleaning

    for the last hour and all you can do is complain that a clean pair of pajamas was thrown in the dirty clothes? Stfu. There is no pleasing you and you have no right to get upset with me because I didn't do something exactly the way you wanted. And how dare you attack me and then...
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    The Bible Thumper Aunt

    You know that one aunt that tries to force change on you? Well...that's my aunt. It starts off with this: my aunt has a huge influence on the family even though she is not the oldest. How? She uses her religion to control and manipulate her own family. When I was younger, she...
    thebookaholic thebookaholic 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2013

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    My family was having a day out

    when my mom got really mad. She left and wouldn't let me go home with her. She's always miserable, no matter what. She yells at me and I a very depressed kid.
    Montana2002 Montana2002 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    The Holidays

    I love Thanksgiving but have a hard time dealing with extended family. Maybe there's something wrong with me but it totally annoys me that my cousins, uncles, aunts, etc. always expect to come to my house or my parents' house for holiday dinners. They pretty much invite...
    CoolKay CoolKay 41-45, F 19 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    Hey I love all of them dearly

    but sometimes grrrrr XD
    Julia1600 Julia1600 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 2

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    i work with my brother

    and he treats me like a total ***. i also live in his house. i am living in pure hell
    snowman70 snowman70 41-45, M 3 Responses May 27

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    I asked my mother a simple question.

    She doesn't need to be a ***** about the answer.
    louistoblerone louistoblerone 18-21, M Aug 3, 2014

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    Mom

    My mom is now 74 years old. She has never been a very happy person and she's getting worse the older she get. She is very negative and likes everyone around her to be miserable too. She is getting very difficult to deal with.
    JustCallMeMom JustCallMeMom 51-55, F Jun 27, 2012

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    I just need to vent a little.

    .. My father-in-law is driving me bonkers. He asked his children, the four of them, for help. He's gotten to an age and health where he really can't live independently any longer. My husband and I were the only ones willing (and able) to offer him a place. We're the black sheep...
    Ceraia Ceraia 36-40, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I feel like I can't have opinions in my family

    because apparently I'm too young and inexperienced to have an opinion. It's like everything I say doesn't matter because I'm just a stupid kid who doesn't understand how the real world works no matter what I do. I can't have my own opinions if they don't match his, because...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 5

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