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    I badly need advice. I am starting to develop

    hate and indifference towards my parents because of what is happening right now. This all started when my father got sick which practically drained our funds. I am now working so practically, it's alright cos I can still provide. I have loans in the office because of what...
    lovealaska lovealaska 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    I could right a book about how screwed my

    family is. I'm so reluctant to post anything in detail on here. I just know that for the first time in my life I'm alone and have no one I can talk to. I just thought I would try this place out, but I'm not sure if anyone here can legitimately help me
    GoneWithTheWind1936 GoneWithTheWind1936 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    Me and my sister have been fighting

    for a while now. We just had a big argument just an hour ago.. :'( I don't know who to talk to.. I feel like I'm worthless in this family! My mom is taking her side and favourites her so I feel like dying. We haven't talked since March. She treats me like I am 8, she talks to me...
    MisledSoul MisledSoul 18-21, F Jun 24

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    amaui1 amaui1 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 3

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    My family fights constantly

    and its driving me crazy
    sophiedeleveau sophiedeleveau 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    So i avoid family. Text mom.

    And remember why i avoid.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 17

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    hi guys so my mom have been talking to this one

    australian guy for 3 months now they have already exchanged numbers and now theyre talking on whatsapp ((its a messanging app if u didnt know)) and today my bestfriend told me that my mom told her that she wants to marry that guy and she also told my bestfriend to not tell me...
    patheticlilgirl patheticlilgirl 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    Been a way 4 a while life is just ****** up

    right now wife is talking 2 other guys and my brother from a nother mother hung him self at my house and I found him dead I now don't have a house could not stay there after that
    cagefightlife cagefightlife 36-40, M Nov 23

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    I Am Sick And No One Cares And I'm Barely Holding On.

    I got sick when I was 19 years old. I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia. I'm in constant pain and depression and all I get from my family is it's all in your head. When I was working everybody loved me. I was always surrounded by my family and friends. Now that I need help no one...
    blessedmommy126 blessedmommy126 41-45, F 7 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    My Husband,s Sister Has No Sense

    okay lets start i got married one month ago i just finished my honey moon ,,,, my husband is little busy at the day time on his work so somtimes i feel boring i asked my husband to bring his sis to stay with me if she want to just to chat with her and be busy with her ,,,,, first...
    borred borred 26-30 Dec 17, 2012

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    i just need to get it all out.

    my dad used to be an engineer but he has been unemployed for about 2 years now, now he started working as personal driver. my mum works, a lot, and when she comes home she still has to do the chores because nobody in the family would and i couldnt because im studying somewhere...
    penscared penscared 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    I really need advice,

    not sure how this site works but here goes: I'm 17 years old and I keep letting my parents down. My older sister has anxiety and small things can upset her, and I seem to cause this a lot. That makes my parents mad which I completely understand but I feel as though they...
    17femaleuk 17femaleuk 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    I can't stand living around my spouses family

    and I want to move but I know my spouse won't leave his family and their land. It's driving me crazy, I don't want to leave my marriage but I'm miserable.....
    Phmj Phmj 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 7

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    They Found Out..

    My life hasn't been great. I fell in love, got lied to, etc. I don;t remember my childhood too much. I remember parts here and there. But, anyways, I grew up, making my own morals and promises. I promised myself I wouldm't poison my body with drugs, alcohol, and smoking. And I...
    MeMe0326 MeMe0326 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2013

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    Just yesterday I experienced crazy feeling .

    I had an argument with my spouse I walked away and started to cry , I am not sure why was I even crying .has anyone had something like that happen to them or is it just me ?
    sad2014 sad2014 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    Mom: "You were a mistake.

    I wish i had a normal daughter." Me: "You're just a joy today huh." It doesn't even get to me any more.
    XxscarsxX XxscarsxX 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 18

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    I really can't stand it here.

    What ever I do isn't appreciated, and mostly from my mom. I mean when I cook, or clean she has something negative to say. So when I don't do either its always: "I'm always on my feet cleaning, cooking, and taking care of all you." That is pure bull sh*t. You have a room that...
    OutOfTheOrdinary OutOfTheOrdinary 13-15, F Aug 19

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    I love my family. But its gotten to

    where I feel like my sister and I are more of adults than they are (I am 16 and my sister is 24) my sister and her husband have been my main support system, I even lived with them for 6 months when my parents kind of went over the edge. If I didn't have them, I have no idea what...
    GoneWithTheWind1936 GoneWithTheWind1936 16-17, F Sep 14

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    my family has always been dysfunctional,

    and I've come to accept that over the years. But I feel it is reaching its breaking point with my brother. Imagine an 18 year old boy who does nothing but smokes pot plays video games and sits on her ***. I have no idea what he think is going to happen but he believes that he...
    ocdfun123 ocdfun123 16-17 6 days ago

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    Life Growing Up.

    so when i was a little girl i used to watch my father abuse my mother. he was a terrible alcoholic, when i was 8 years old he went to jail for rape. he apparently raped my babysitter who was 14 years old. when he got out of prison my mother took him back. i was 11 and my younger...
    whyamiforeveralone whyamiforeveralone 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 11, 2012

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    My dad is dating a witch.

    She excludes me from everything. My Dad and I haven't spoken in 2 weeks. My aunt has been offering me some comfort. Now, i find out she has been friendly with this woman behind my back! We are scheduled to go on vacation in 2 weeks. Should I cancel?
    mcrn96 mcrn96 41-45, F Oct 19

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    My parents are divorced.

    .. My father's family hates me... My father has been very nasty to me... I live alone now... In some ways I'm happy, but my father and his family still haunt me on a regular basis.
    CaliginousHeart CaliginousHeart 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 3

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    My Mother Is Leaving In A Few Weeks

    So my parents' marriage has been sh*tty since as far as I can remember, and my mother finally decided to leave my dad. She decided to fly back to her country to stay with her family, leaving my dad and my little brother behind. I don't blame her, my dad is abusive in all forms...
    EmmyChi EmmyChi 22-25 1 Response Oct 9, 2013

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    My Dad Has A Nasty Temper And Is A Major Hypocrite...

    I have big family problems at home. My dad is a very short tempered person who tends to have huge bursts of anger and fury. I’m a teenager and I understand perfectly that sometimes I slip. I sometimes seem arrogant but really it’s only because I might be annoyed about...
    brokengirl8 brokengirl8 16-17 3 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    i have alot of problems with my parents

    that sometimes i feel that they are standing in my way to happiness.
    Thescriptlover Thescriptlover 13-15, F Sep 27

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    I haven't talked to my dad

    since he "disowned" me for losing my virginty this year. He does not live with me but this week my mom if forcing me to visit him for 7 days after 5 months not talking to him. While he treats me unfairly poor with his attitude. My mom constantly puts me down because it's okay...
    Michela6730 Michela6730 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I was on the bus listening to music

    and I heard my family's favorite song and I remember how we use to be close and started crying.
    curiou98 curiou98 18-21, M Dec 5

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    Should I continue a relationship with my mom?

    Growing up, my mom and I had an amazing relationship. My parents divorced when I was 3, and even though they were separated, I was content. I never had friends until middle school because my mom and I constantly (at least 9 times) moved in with her new boyfriends, fiancees...
    annamarie1 annamarie1 18-21, F Nov 29

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    Financial Problem Messing Up My Family

    Financial problem has always been an issue with my family. But somehow now, it's much worse.. to the point that my parents relationship are worse and so does it with us, their children. My dad is a seaman, he goes abroad and go all around the world for 10 months and then come...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    It's so weird how my parents were shouting

    and screaming at each other the whole night which resulted in my mother crying. But today they are talking normally. I don't understand . They normally don't get on with each other and tend to argue a lot but how can they just go back to normal like that. I'm confused
    jess271201 jess271201 13-15, F Nov 30

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    Okay so when I make food

    for people in the house I don't get thank yous. I made food last time for everybody, and I didn't get one thank you. So I made me breakfast this morning. Not anyone else food because its obviously not appreciated. I finish my meal a few minutes ago, and my mom comes busting in...
    OutOfTheOrdinary OutOfTheOrdinary 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    so I had my 3rd kid some days ago

    and got no visitors like my sister said she cant come see me every time I pop a baby out -_- she has only came to see one of the three kids I had at the hospital so I am like so mad right now
    momofthree921 momofthree921 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 29

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    Sometimes I wonder if my mom likes my brother

    more and in truth I know she does, I would test things out to see how she would respond and when I ask my brother to do the same she would respond differently, I mean I do WAY more than him when it comes to helping around the house and he can be really rude to her and she wouldn...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 22

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    My dream is to do interior designing course

    but my parents want me to do engineering. My dad is short tempered and is very typical. I just have no idea how to deal with him ! I need help. :|
    HateLife2 HateLife2 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 17

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    So much for getting better.

    ... The teachers don't even notice anything. So I'm all good
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F Sep 19

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    I don't feel comfortable living with them.

    Never been happy, they never listen but only judge. They always see the dark side of me, forgetting the bright side. I feel like this isn't home. I wanna go somewhere far away from them. I feel depressed. They always push me to do something but never motivate me please i don't...
    Imogen12 Imogen12 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    Its hard when your parent says your crazy

    after time and time again you tell them you get emotionally bullied and they don't seem to care or don't even like talking to you.
    Danae102 Danae102 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 24

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    What Should I Do?

    My 12 yr old cousin has some big issues going on. She will be turning 13 in a few days but told me something very bad when I was trying to get her to open up to me. She has started cutting herself. This portion of my family has a lot of issues. One day I got a call 1 hr before I...
    tig1991 tig1991 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    Family Issues -

    Heey everyone :) im a 14 year old girl jst looking for a bit of advice. To start off, i hve 3 youngr sisters, a mum with bipolar disorder and a fathr who is religious and can at times be abusive. He has his reasons though. Mum, due to her disorder, often has mood swings, and...
    suNshiiNeeexoxox suNshiiNeeexoxox 13-15 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    Who doesn't ? ( rhetorical lol) Everyone has/

    had them. I wouldn't believe you if you said you never had issues. 😇✌️
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    I feel like I'm loosing my mom she's spend more

    time with her boyfriend and her friends I feel like I'm like her sister backing her up making sure she dosent get caught is like she forgot she's a mother and dosent notice tht we need her she change a lot after she divorce with my dad and met new a guy I'm happy for her thts...
    Anabe1995 Anabe1995 18-21, F Nov 10

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    My brother is 14 nearly 15

    and he is causing huge problems at home he's causing mom and dad to fight and they never do.. He treats us all like ****, he's so ungrateful and just expects mom and dad to bring him everywhere and do everything with him.. I want to runaway i cant handle this **** anymore
    amyslatts amyslatts 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    My mom just told me that im subject

    for her and that she does not care about me. I love her and I need my old mom back, I cant take this...
    staystrongandlive staystrongandlive 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 17

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    My dad passed away 3 years ago

    and my mom can't let go until now. She refuses to move on. Sometimes she forgets who's dead and who's alive. And she has a bad themper. She also has an unpredicted mood. So three of us (me and my sisters) must be ready whenever her bad side came out. She's not abusive in...
    fikydiamond fikydiamond 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 6

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    My mum has been clinically depressed throughout

    my life, and my dad has anxiety & much deeper problems but refuses to get help or take medication. I know it's not their fault but the way they are has affected me. I wish my family was normal, I wish I had a normal life
    ems177 ems177 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    OMG! I just found out

    that my mom is a lesbian, I dont want to talk with her about this cuz I'm scare that I'm gonna hurt her feeling. What should I do?
    sashiaJ sashiaJ 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 25

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    I am very angry at my sister.

    She always puts me down. Before the board exam results came, we are busy praying for her to passed the board exam. She was very nice back then. Very sweet... Begging me to hug and kissed her. But after the board exam came, she become the total opposite. She, again, has put me...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I've been on my depression pills

    for 2 months now. For most part I am happy. My life with my man is good. As I said I changed to be a better person. He has not and I don't think that he ever will. He doesn't think he needs to. But I have to live with it.
    jcain739 jcain739 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    Im always trying to stick to myself in my family

    since its basically , me , my grandma and my mother .. Somehow we always find a way to have a problem with something , we argue or have a dissagreement atleast once a day ( if we even see each other ) if we dont see each other then we'll probably not even speak to each other...
    Johnlovecrazy Johnlovecrazy 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    My brother physically

    and verbally abused me, and almost killed me a few times. My sister verbally abused me and scared me so bad when I was little. She self harmed in front of me, and I thought it was a normal way of relieving stress. I started to self harm before 1st grade. I didn't know what my...
    xMayesx xMayesx 16-17, M 1 Response May 12

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    Hello.. I'm Sam. And this is my story,

    I was adopted by my grandmother as a one year old. My whole life my grandmother always said my real mother never wanted me. Well I found out about last year that she had been lying to me this whole time. My grandmother is narcissistic, she craves attention. She fake cries...
    samanthaj27 samanthaj27 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 28

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