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I Have Feelings For a Friend

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    We have been friends

    since I started post secondary. I've always noticed her more than my other friends. The thing is she's happily in a relationship and that makes me not want to do anything, else it would seem so selfish. I get jealous of her boyfriend quite a bit, just don't know what to do about...
    Coolsmen Coolsmen 18-21, M Feb 15, 2014

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    So there is this friend i have,

    who i go and see whenever i have a weekend off or something. Well we sort of went out for a while, but due to distance it didn't work out so well, plus she had never had a bf before so she didn't know how to handle it. We still get along as if nothing ever happened, laughing and...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Jul 21

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    It Took Me By Surprise....

    The feelings took me by surprise...kind of out of the blue..sort of like you came into my life..out of the blue. I have fought expressing them but then I did ...kind of...sort of.. in a non conventional way....but I was surprised! You werent shocked, like I thought you would be...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 4, 2008

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    Friends

    Your friends with someone never that one day might be something more! You tend to wait to see if he would respond back. Knowing that we been through heartbreaks from each others xpartners trying to heal the pain. Our experiences drew you closer. You know he has some feelings for...
    NatashaX NatashaX 31-35, F 1 Response May 11, 2013

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    I Didn't Want To.

    I didn't expect to and it only took me 6 or 7 months to realize it.
    Shaylon Shaylon 26-30, F May 26, 2008

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    Sigh...(again)

     I have had feelings for my friend for almost a year...but he has feelings for a good friend of ours...Unfortunately the other girl got him...not me -__-
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 27, 2008

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    The Past 5 Or 6 Years

    They haven't exactly been hell but they havent been great either. About 6 years ago, I met a girl and we quickly became best friends. We developed feelings for each other and admitted it yet never acted, she was afraid it would damage our relationship. We would see other people...
    Anavrin1990 Anavrin1990 18-21 1 Response Feb 15, 2009

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    i really like her, shes my best friend

    and she means the world to me. ive liked her for a while but i dont want to lose her as a friend or make things awkward between us. but im not sure if i should say something or not for both the reason i said before and because shes a freshman in hs and im a senior and people...
    musicmaker5 musicmaker5 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 19, 2014

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    im looking for fwb in the south haven/benton harbor area. ddf women only ages 18-32
    SwmiGuy SwmiGuy 22-25, M 6 hrs ago

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    I always wanted more friends, especially those who support my decisions about my identity and who I am and are not perverts
    Zurea Zurea 26-30, T 7 hrs ago

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    They are no different than us. They have feelings. They feel sad, happy, angry, anxious, scared, threatened, just like us. When you yell at them, they too feel scared and sad. When...
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999 16-17, M 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    *hug* thanks to my two friends who do talk to me... U two mean the world to me... Rlly ny two friends are like sisters to me... Cant imagine life without them and glad i met them...
    InfiniteMusic InfiniteMusic 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    This is why I have ******* trust issues one minute you're telling me a bunch of bulllshit about how you care but you're saying exactly the same **** to another female. I'm so done
    KaiyaStacks KaiyaStacks 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I know mine seems a lot better since I found her. I have to confess, I never really saw myself having a female best friend....kind of a sex fiend, so that always seemed a little...
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    So being in late 20s in noticed that I have not had close female friends since middle school. It's not for lake.of trying it just never sticks. Many people have told me that other...
    Sassychick06 Sassychick06 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    okay this might sound stupid or whatever but I really need advice and help. I'm a 13 y/o girl and I recently starting liking another girl named rachel a lot. this is going to sound...
    cadoh28 cadoh28 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    Today was my first day back to school (3rd year of secondary). The best way I can describe it was that it was a reality check. The people I had thought I was close to were walking...
    imme163 imme163 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Has moved to my town. He came seeking my help. I have tried but I keep having to let him down. I love this friend very much . And to not help crushes me.
    wantitmorenow wantitmorenow 51-55, F 4 days ago

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    they have too many feelings! that is their whole problem!!!
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 4 days ago

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    When I was 12, I was a lonely prepubescent girl who had no friends so I decided to create my own imaginary friend - Leo. We did everything together! We even had exciting adventures...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 days ago

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    i used to have a girl on skype as a FWB but she's gone it was amazing especially when it's started with a friendship and this the best way if any girl interested contact me i...
    naughtymido naughtymido 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i used to have a girl on skype as a FWB but she's gone it was amazing especially when it's started with a friendship and this the best way if any girl interested contact me i...
    naughtymido naughtymido 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    My best friend and I have known each other for 10 years. Lol it's going to sound lame but he is also my only friend. My only friend back in Texas. The first thing that entered my...
    Perseph0ne Perseph0ne 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    i'm looking for friends. Just people that i can talk to and stuff even if just online. Preferably around my age, but i really just wanna have people to be able to talk to about...
    Emiiii Emiiii 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Basically, my boyfriend left Sunday for bootcamp. He'll be gone for 3 months. I'm in need of a friend who understands to talk to; hopefully constantly. I just need someone. Help?
    seruhbear seruhbear 16-17, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    Today my best friend made me lunch and then made me study for my vocabulary test for English 101 and thanks to her I so Aced that thing!!!
    Kiaersanne Kiaersanne 18-21, F Aug 26

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    well idk why I am doing this but what the hell! this friend of mine is by my side for 8 years, and we weren't even very close first but here I am now I can't spend a freaking...
    Jade7120 Jade7120 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Im a loner since i was 16. I moved to other country and became a loner here. I made here some friends from the beginning but i was too shy for society so i quit with all friends...
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    So I live up state. All my friends are down state. Nobody trys to talk to me anymore. unless I start a convo. trying to make friends in a new place is seriously tough. especially...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I love my bff. We've been friends since preschool. We're more like sisters than friends. We argue. We make up. We argue. We make up.
    Hunniebae Hunniebae 26-30, F Aug 25

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    Yes. Strong feelings of desire mostly the smart ones can fake empathy.
    RegANONdixo RegANONdixo 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    a guy says I'm cute or he likes me? it's a sick twisted prank. some one says I'm funny OMG what are you trying to pull I live this way thinking like this.I have been hurt by so...
    youngkinyteenmom youngkinyteenmom 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 24

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    to be completely fair, I'm usually the crazy friend.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F Aug 24

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    Stupid S**T Chris Says: I'm going to start posting to this commonly, idk if I will daily or just whenever but you'll definitely see it again. Backstory: A group of friends and I...
    SkollHati SkollHati 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 23

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    I have one social site where i started to spend time more often. Some days ago i added there a guy who lives far away from me. I wrote him messages just about the places we live...
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    wish i had more my age :P i just need friends XD
    Spideroh1 Spideroh1 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    I have one friend who's a girl... but I mean we herded cattle for fun yesterday so does that even count...
    sidneyw24 sidneyw24 16-17 2 Responses Aug 20

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    R.I.P Boxy... Good friend and a lovely guy. Everyone on my course will miss you. Including me. <3
    Skin0Man1 Skin0Man1 18-21, M Aug 20

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    No one likes me. I don't blame them because I am such a bi t ch. some people I'm surprised stayed with me a long time then they left me. My dad and two brothers died and my moms in...
    ginny1q1q ginny1q1q 13-15, F Aug 20

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    I don't have more than 4 close friends, and only one is female. there is a girl at work I'm trying to be friends with, though!
    gingerru gingerru 18-21, F Aug 20

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    I really would like to find a girl friend that's into Spirituality, Meditation, Opening your 3rd eye, trying DMT, Eating healthy (LoL Basically into the things I'm into) I want...
    BLAiiRBEAR BLAiiRBEAR 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19

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