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I Have Feelings For a Friend

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    Sigh...(again)

     I have had feelings for my friend for almost a year...but he has feelings for a good friend of ours...Unfortunately the other girl got him...not me -__-
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 27, 2008

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    I Didn't Want To.

    I didn't expect to and it only took me 6 or 7 months to realize it.
    Shaylon Shaylon 26-30, F May 26, 2008

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    i really like her, shes my best friend

    and she means the world to me. ive liked her for a while but i dont want to lose her as a friend or make things awkward between us. but im not sure if i should say something or not for both the reason i said before and because shes a freshman in hs and im a senior and people...
    musicmaker5 musicmaker5 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 19, 2014

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    The Past 5 Or 6 Years

    They haven't exactly been hell but they havent been great either. About 6 years ago, I met a girl and we quickly became best friends. We developed feelings for each other and admitted it yet never acted, she was afraid it would damage our relationship. We would see other people...
    Anavrin1990 Anavrin1990 18-21 1 Response Feb 15, 2009

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    Friends

    Your friends with someone never that one day might be something more! You tend to wait to see if he would respond back. Knowing that we been through heartbreaks from each others xpartners trying to heal the pain. Our experiences drew you closer. You know he has some feelings for...
    NatashaX NatashaX 31-35, F 1 Response May 11, 2013

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    We have been friends

    since I started post secondary. I've always noticed her more than my other friends. The thing is she's happily in a relationship and that makes me not want to do anything, else it would seem so selfish. I get jealous of her boyfriend quite a bit, just don't know what to do about...
    Coolsmen Coolsmen 18-21, M Feb 15, 2014

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    It Took Me By Surprise....

    The feelings took me by surprise...kind of out of the blue..sort of like you came into my life..out of the blue. I have fought expressing them but then I did ...kind of...sort of.. in a non conventional way....but I was surprised! You werent shocked, like I thought you would be...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 4, 2008

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    My 'crush' and I have both admitted that we have feelings for each other but we agreed to 'get to know each other first' and decided that now wasn't the correct time.. But I want...
    rachieu rachieu 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    This is a tough one however I do have feelings for my exwife. We shared a life together and kids. We had beautiful moments and our kids are so beautiful. I decided that it is what...
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F Jan 23

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    It's been almost three years since we first met. I still remember the day. I had been back in my home town for a few months after I'd convinced myself to stay because I'd missed it...
    minernick minernick 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    I'm 22. Aren't I suppose to know what to do with my life? I'm not meant to be coach surfing. Homeless. And jobless. I should have a job, a home and a life that isn't a disaster...
    nonnygirl13 nonnygirl13 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    My ex taylor, i will always remember the day she broke my heart. I still love her and she is the one i actually understood. We both used to be best friends then we became boyfriend...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M Jan 6

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    I like you. There's no reason to tell you this but I have to because if I don't, it's going build up until I explode. You tilt your head when you think as if you're inviting all...
    PieceOfSummer PieceOfSummer 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    I could use someone to vent to about this :/
    myheartleadsme myheartleadsme 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    Well, not really. But occasionally he pops up in my dreams as the boyfriend which of course never and will never happen.
    itcheru itcheru 22-25, F Jan 18

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    Its been a year and he asks me advice on what to do about different girls he likes. PFFT, that totally doesn't sting at all . . .
    Desi17 Desi17 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My first post... Well, I'm french, 18 and I'm black. You know, I always knew I loved girls; their perfume, their bodies, their attitudes. I've been in love with one of them and...
    TheSweetChris TheSweetChris 18-21, M Jan 13

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    I have only had 2 occasions where a boy returned his feelings for me. i don't get guys who like me very often.
    williamshana williamshana 13-15, F Jan 21

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    For some reason I dont have a best friend,i dont know what it is about me but im always stabbed in the back by so called "best friends" right now i dont have anyone to talk to no...
    Gertrude95 Gertrude95 18-21, F Jan 18

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    I had some online friends( almost not anymore ) and almost zero offline friend . I will say since I use Internet . I have zero offline friend . I grow up at an Internet world .
    Mrshouhou Mrshouhou 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I used to have when I was in grade school because my classmates would label us as "best friends" just because we go together, eat together, and simply do things together. Now, I...
    dakilangdreamer dakilangdreamer 18-21, F Jan 10

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    I turned 30 in the past week. Loads of people wished me happy birthday on Facebook. They wished me a great day, surrounded by loved ones, being spoilt. It was none of those things...
    Sentiphant Sentiphant 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 17

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    I don't have any real friends that are female, other than my ex sister-in-law. My best friend is a man.
    angierose2014 angierose2014 36-40, F Jan 20

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    actually I have many good friends. But one of them is more best close friend of mine. Whenever I am off we hangout together. I am separated but I consider my self single. I don't...
    manwarkhn manwarkhn 41-45 Jan 22

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    I have a best friend on EP that means the sold to me...we share everything...but you won't find them on my friends list. Strange but true :)
    BytheBy BytheBy 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    I have an amazing friend and her name is MeowOnMe ^_^
    IndySteeler IndySteeler 18-21, M Jan 6

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    I would love to have more online friends. I would prefer people around my age though.
    MacabreCannibal MacabreCannibal 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I don't have but 2 friends its hard to trust people
    sugarplum44 sugarplum44 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    Most people only like me when its convenient or beneficial for them to do so. I'm used to it, I have a few friends and they care. Thats all that really matters .-.
    CanYouHearTheSilence CanYouHearTheSilence 13-15, T 1 Response Jan 19

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    I've known her for almost 16 years now, since I was 4 and she was 2 1/2. We share every detail of everything. Doesn't matter how personal. So many inside jokes that I can't even...
    findingfae findingfae 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I forgot what it feels to have a best friend , its been a while since i haven't truly being open with no one. I keep so many things to my self that its hard now to open and to find...
    yiyaa yiyaa 16-17 1 day ago

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    I don't know why but it is so hard to find true female friends. I'd love to have BFFs (like in that movie, Bridesmaids) or someone I can confide in. The female friends I have - I...
    amc888 amc888 22-25, F Jan 17

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    It started off with just an ear for each other. He was hurt. I was hurt. Me being me, not afraid of anything or rejection, sent him a msg and told him if he'd like to talk about...
    Cricket75 Cricket75 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Today I made plans with a fellow co-worker and was ready and waiting on her to pick me up when I get a text saying she isn't coming anymore but then I see on her snapchat story she...
    Brensmith17 Brensmith17 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I don't even know why I think they do... I have ended up with so many stuffed toys and other things (like figurines) and can't throw them away because that would hurt them and that...
    Purpleshadow11 Purpleshadow11 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Tbh I'm so angry. It was New Year's Eve right and I'm from the UK, me and my group of friends were planning on doing something all together a few months back, but guess how it...
    Lillemon Lillemon 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    Pretty much what's going on right now: "I need a brand new friend, who doesn't bother me I need a brand new friend, who doesn't trouble me I need somebody; who doesn't need me"
    sturmgewher44 sturmgewher44 18-21, M Jan 1

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    every single ''friend'' i had turned out to be fake and every single girl turned out to be a mistake i'm content and happy just being on my own i pleasure myself real good i don't...
    AndeleAndele AndeleAndele 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    I started talking to someone here, and now, not quite before I know it, I've made a friend on EP :) Thank you, EP friend.
    YuEvans YuEvans 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    It can sometimes be a bad thing. I have a friend (male) and he has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. We were joking around just us two then he grabs my b**b more than once which...
    thatmegan thatmegan 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    I have boy friends, but I only run into them from time to time. Those girl friends I have? They would only go to me if they needed advices and ****. I'm sick of it, really. I don't...
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F Jan 19

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    So, I've been dating this girl for two months now. Total love at first sight. She's beautiful, has a great heart, wonderful mother(she has a 10yo and 1yo, I have a 1yo). We get...
    wisconsin52 wisconsin52 26-30, M Jan 19

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    I guess i never really got the concept of true friendship. growing up, every new school year I got a new set of 'friends', but at the end of the school year that just disappeared...
    Kringle95 Kringle95 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    It's been a more than a year when this incident happened. I had a friend (she wasn't that close or anything, just in between an acquaintance to being a friend). She calls me...
    VVmommy VVmommy 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've made so many connections on here and I need to say I love each and every one of them in my own way, because they are unique in their own way. I won't mention names because...
    kinkysexybabe kinkysexybabe 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I met a really super guy on here a month or so ago, and he became a real friend of mine. One day we were talking and the next nothing. I don't know if I did or said something or...