I Have Feelings For a Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 139 People

    Friends

    Your friends with someone never that one day might be something more! You tend to wait to see if he would respond back. Knowing that we been through heartbreaks from each others xpartners trying to heal the pain. Our experiences drew you closer. You know he has some feelings for...
    NatashaX NatashaX
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 11, 2013

    I Didn't Want To.

    I didn't expect to and it only took me 6 or 7 months to realize it.
    Shaylon Shaylon
    26-30, F
    May 26, 2008

    i really like her, shes my best friend

    and she means the world to me. ive liked her for a while but i dont want to lose her as a friend or make things awkward between us. but im not sure if i should say something or not for both the reason i said before and because shes a freshman in hs and im a senior and people...
    musicmaker5 musicmaker5
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 19, 2014

    We talk about all our funny incidents

    and everything and he's a year older than me but he just calls us friends😓
    Sk8borderAddie Sk8borderAddie
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015

    Sigh...(again)

     I have had feelings for my friend for almost a year...but he has feelings for a good friend of ours...Unfortunately the other girl got him...not me -__-
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 27, 2008

    We have been friends

    since I started post secondary. I've always noticed her more than my other friends. The thing is she's happily in a relationship and that makes me not want to do anything, else it would seem so selfish. I get jealous of her boyfriend quite a bit, just don't know what to do about...
    Coolsmen Coolsmen
    18-21, M
    Feb 15, 2014

    The Past 5 Or 6 Years

    They haven't exactly been hell but they havent been great either. About 6 years ago, I met a girl and we quickly became best friends. We developed feelings for each other and admitted it yet never acted, she was afraid it would damage our relationship. We would see other people...
    Anavrin1990 Anavrin1990
    18-21
    1 Response Feb 15, 2009

    It Took Me By Surprise....

    The feelings took me by surprise...kind of out of the blue..sort of like you came into my life..out of the blue. I have fought expressing them but then I did ...kind of...sort of.. in a non conventional way....but I was surprised! You werent shocked, like I thought you would be...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jul 4, 2008

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