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I Have Feelings For a Friend

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    The Past 5 Or 6 Years

    They haven't exactly been hell but they havent been great either. About 6 years ago, I met a girl and we quickly became best friends. We developed feelings for each other and admitted it yet never acted, she was afraid it would damage our relationship. We would see other people...
    Anavrin1990 Anavrin1990 18-21 1 Response Feb 15, 2009

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    I Didn't Want To.

    I didn't expect to and it only took me 6 or 7 months to realize it.
    Shaylon Shaylon 26-30, F May 26, 2008

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    We have been friends

    since I started post secondary. I've always noticed her more than my other friends. The thing is she's happily in a relationship and that makes me not want to do anything, else it would seem so selfish. I get jealous of her boyfriend quite a bit, just don't know what to do about...
    Coolsmen Coolsmen 18-21, M Feb 15

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    Sigh...(again)

     I have had feelings for my friend for almost a year...but he has feelings for a good friend of ours...Unfortunately the other girl got him...not me -__-
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 27, 2008

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    Friends

    Your friends with someone never that one day might be something more! You tend to wait to see if he would respond back. Knowing that we been through heartbreaks from each others xpartners trying to heal the pain. Our experiences drew you closer. You know he has some feelings for...
    NatashaX NatashaX 31-35, F 1 Response May 11, 2013

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    It Took Me By Surprise....

    The feelings took me by surprise...kind of out of the blue..sort of like you came into my life..out of the blue. I have fought expressing them but then I did ...kind of...sort of.. in a non conventional way....but I was surprised! You werent shocked, like I thought you would be...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 4, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    So I lived 5min away from this guy, we spoke everyday for a year.. Crazily enough we never met up, because I was too scared and have massive anxiety etc.. So we never met but I'm...
    dontkillmyvibe17 dontkillmyvibe17 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I only thought about it today, I know I definitely love a guy but I can't have him, but there's this other guy I will see soon I about a month and I got an image in my head of...
    kieran456 kieran456 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    there's this guy who broke my heart and I still have feelings for him. can anyone give me advice on how to forget about him completely?
    meguare meguare 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I have a friend who I've known for about 3 and a half years now. I've had feelings for her for quite some time, the thing is she was married when I first met her. She is...
    Twitch313 Twitch313 26-30, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Well it's all started when he randomly snap chatted me one day. I didn't know who he was but in the photo he looked cute so I replied. We continued sending pictures and talking and...
    imtoomuch imtoomuch 13-15, F Jul 12

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    And he screwed me over :( we've been seeing eachother for about 4 months and I decided I should look at his phone just once to see if I could trust him. Well it's a good thing I...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    I was totally in love with this one guy thinking we would last forever. He was very religious and turns out I guess god told him to stop. So then our relationship ended and he...
    Sparklefuck Sparklefuck 13-15, F Jul 1

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    I hate myself because I think I love you. I've always had trust issues with men because the only man in my life I have been able to trust until recently was my dad (recently my...
    kaps105 kaps105 18-21, F Jun 25

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    Dated a guy 4 1/2 years ago we been friends since we broke up we stop talking because he was hitting on me while in a relationship so I decided to send all our text message to his...
    chardia chardia 18-21, F Jul 11

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    I dated this guy my junior/senior year of high school. He was always super sweet and of course very cute. I was an idiot and broke it off because of something's people were saying...
    rie76 rie76 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    He is my ex and we've been on the friend zone for a while... It's fun how we talk about old days and everything. And when I think about him I miss him so so much. But I guess that...
    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F Jul 11

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    I can't help feeling like I let true love slip away. I have a boyfriend, but about a year ago someone else come into my life and he turned it upside down. He started working with...
    laurennhem laurennhem 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    My had my first real boyfriend not so long ago, we dated for half a year and then his mother said we couldn't be together anymore because I was distracting him from school. I was...
    Mi5h Mi5h 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    My boyfriends a **** !! Let's me down for my birthday and doesn't understand that he's upset me says I'm being childish. Okay yeah it's a concert he said he would pay for a ticket...
    Butterflyfairy23 Butterflyfairy23 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I married then cheated on him then we divorced then 3 years later remarried & now we have 2 small children. I recently met up w a former lover who I should have stayed with in the...
    HisAndrea HisAndrea 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Lol. Lmao. Too many for too many. Its a curse.
    converted converted 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    Its 12 midnight and all im thinking its about her, what could she be doing, is she okay? Is she doing the right things, how is he better than me, its been a year since i lost her...
    mcalderon89 mcalderon89 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The girl I like went to her home country for a whole month and I missed her so much ,I didn't realize how much I really liked her until we were apart ,she's coming home next week I...
    Life8227 Life8227 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I'm really started liking this guy, but it's going no where! I wanna keep talking to him but I feel like it's just hurting me :(
    Pawes Pawes 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    He took me on a surprise date to cavalia odysseo.. It was the most amazing thing I've ever seen, he definitely won me over with this :) asked me to be his girlfriend afterwards and...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F Jul 16

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    I thought i am strong w/o her, I know it is painfull but i didnt expected that this pain is so hard to bare. I miss her, I still love her, so hard to breath whenever she flash...
    Kram978 Kram978 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Of course. I am finally happy with Adam. Sure he lives 12 hours away, but still. Then, two days ago Tyler texted me. I don't understand him. He broke it off with his girlfriend...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I have been friends with this girl for over a year and now we are honestly best friends. I haven't been this close to someone ever in my life. We met at work and after a couple...
    cj177 cj177 18-21, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Not entirely true. I do have feelings such as stress, anger, depression, and sadness, but I can only feel those types of emotions (physically/internally). Anything else doesn't...
    Caramelheart Caramelheart 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 27

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    Sure I have a few friends, but no good ones. No loyal ones. No friends I can relate with being that I am a weird person. And today, in life, it's difficult to find good friends...
    TacTaco TacTaco 22-25, M Jul 1

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    I am 13 years old , well i have some good friends but not a real best friend . I would like a best friend : a girl or boy ... just like me : i am a person who loves kind and funny...
    lolxoxswag lolxoxswag 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I actually have no 'true' friends majority of them was just there when they had nobody and I secretly thought they are just using me... The start of high school was abit nerve...
    drunkonwords drunkonwords 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    I am satisfied and happy with the friends I have.Thanks for standing by me -friends.It is easy to make friends but difficult to keep them .I don't mind ,though,having a few more...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I had a best friend. We started talkin to two other best friends and became a group of 4. But my best friend started hating one of my other friends and would always leave and get...
    HarlieMarie HarlieMarie 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    So I have this guy friend I have been friends with for 4 years, I mean I always thought he was cute and stuff and he thought the same of me but I just never wanted to go further...
    Jic195 Jic195 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Since I don't go out as much, I think it would be nice to have more online friends. I was thinking about this right now, and I was wondering what if I actually made friends with...
    nadsxo2 nadsxo2 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Well they're good friends of mine (I already have a best friend), but they can be so dumb sometimes.. Especially one. They fought and stopped being friends for months just because...
    littlestella littlestella 18-21, F Jul 9

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    I have a girl friend who was my co-worker ,bur i have changed branch within the same town. One of the problems b/n us is she ,now and then would tell me that she will go to her...
    buttqa buttqa 31-35, M a week ago

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    I have a best friend who loves me and It's very confusing. She's been my best friend for 7 years and I don't want to ruin this friendship. I have a huge crush on her but I just don...
    Nessuray Nessuray 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    hello my name is maggie and i 23 and pregant with my first kid. I am looking for friends who are pregant and know whats like so i can have some advice. If want to talk me you can...
    soonbemom23 soonbemom23 22-25, F Jul 10

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    I have the greatest friends ever!! I wouldn't trade them for anything in the world and it just so happens it was only by chance I met them all . I love u guys 😄✌️
    Life8227 Life8227 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Most days I love him to pieces, he's incredible and I feel so lucky to be his friend. He makes time for me over his boy friends and other girl friends (all of which fancy him like...
    n4ta1i3 n4ta1i3 16-17, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    So it was me and Ingrid since 3rd grade ! Then in 4th grade Vincent came he is such a bad boy !! Vincent sat next to me and started to bother me so I told myself "I need to get...
    bela5562 bela5562 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Wow, this is a topic of interest among the masses. It seems that there are a lot of us with no friends or no close friends and yet here we all are. Too bad there isn't a coffee...
    BerthaMae BerthaMae 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I am sincere in my friendship and I am looking for people like me who would be sincere with me and wont play with my feelings. I am looking for life-long friendships.
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Never stop doing little things for others. Sometimes those little things occupy the biggest part of their hearts.
    McCannT12 McCannT12 41-45, F 3 days ago

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