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I Have Feelings For a Friend

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    We have been friends

    since I started post secondary. I've always noticed her more than my other friends. The thing is she's happily in a relationship and that makes me not want to do anything, else it would seem so selfish. I get jealous of her boyfriend quite a bit, just don't know what to do about...
    Coolsmen Coolsmen 18-21, M Feb 15

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    Knowing That Can'T Happen At All!

    The days go by knowing that feeling for that friend intensify even more and more knowing that friend is not no ordinary friend. He's your so call boyfriend best friend. I will call him A and my boyfriend B. Every time I see A I realize maybe he could have gave me more...
    NatashaX NatashaX 31-35, F May 13, 2013

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    I Didn't Want To.

    I didn't expect to and it only took me 6 or 7 months to realize it.
    Shaylon Shaylon 26-30, F May 26, 2008

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    The Past 5 Or 6 Years

    They haven't exactly been hell but they havent been great either. About 6 years ago, I met a girl and we quickly became best friends. We developed feelings for each other and admitted it yet never acted, she was afraid it would damage our relationship. We would see other people...
    Anavrin1990 Anavrin1990 18-21 1 Response Feb 15, 2009

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    It Took Me By Surprise....

    The feelings took me by surprise...kind of out of the blue..sort of like you came into my life..out of the blue. I have fought expressing them but then I did ...kind of...sort of.. in a non conventional way....but I was surprised! You werent shocked, like I thought you would be...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 4, 2008

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    Friends

    Your friends with someone never that one day might be something more! You tend to wait to see if he would respond back. Knowing that we been through heartbreaks from each others xpartners trying to heal the pain. Our experiences drew you closer. You know he has some feelings for...
    NatashaX NatashaX 31-35, F 1 Response May 11, 2013

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    Sigh...(again)

     I have had feelings for my friend for almost a year...but he has feelings for a good friend of ours...Unfortunately the other girl got him...not me -__-
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 27, 2008

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    I know it's over...I do. I know that whatever we had, that connection, is now gone. I know that it will never be like that again. I'm trying not to contact you for silly reasons...
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    She texts me every single time she's drunk. And it's so ******* hard to pretend that I don't care. I miss her so ******* much, and I love her to death.
    Amidala97 Amidala97 16-17, F Apr 15

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    I think I secretly still do but I don't want to admit it to myself and I just mask it but trying to hate him.
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    EndSeeker EndSeeker 18-21, M Apr 7

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    Ok here it goes..... I'm more than your slave, your baby, your sugar or your toy. I have feelings too. Sometimes I would like to meet someone who would just listen to me and be my...
    kimmerzwth kimmerzwth 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have a best friend, her name is Jaszmin. We've been best friends since freshman year and slowly my feeling for her have built up. Now two and a half years later I love her. I...
    Emiliodecker Emiliodecker 16-17, M Apr 13

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    I met this awesome girl on here a few months ago and I think we really click and im beginning to grow feelings for her!
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    I have feelings too! Like seriously, don't talk down on me because I don't have complete complete understanding of a foreign language!
    thesassiestamerican thesassiestamerican 13-15, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Let me first say that I'm not here to judge. I use to be the other women, so I know exactly how you all are feeling. I just thought that maybe I would share my experience. Maybe...
    tamstaub tamstaub 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    Yes.....I have a best friend......LifeAfterBlake!.....And i met him here,on EPI'm not gonna waste time explaining how much he means to me...........cause he already knows......I...
    TheLegendaryStubbleBeard TheLegendaryStubbleBeard 18-21, M Apr 13

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    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    haileybean89 haileybean89 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    wootaco wootaco 22-25 Apr 7

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    AlwaysHaveDreams AlwaysHaveDreams 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I have finally started to want to meet a gentleman in my age group. I'm a widow and have been one now for almost 8 years. And would like to meet a nice male for friendship and...
    elainefw55 elainefw55 51-55, F Mar 26

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    Any females out there interested ! sorry don't have the time to try and charm you and that romantic stuff.....I'm just really busy but still a man that has needs! I'm not a dog or...
    Gravity949 Gravity949 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I feel like crying, screaming, swearing, punching, thrashing, sprinting to the other side of the world and back again, I feel hot, I feel desperate.... I feel like I don't know...
    jeweldoggy jeweldoggy 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm a shy person thus I am really bad at making friends. In addition, I'm afraid of crowds which makes things worst. I only talk to people whom I know (eg: classmates/ some...
    Planetweird Planetweird 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    There was only one true friend that I love dearly and I have lost her, it kills me a little everyday. I've tried finding new people to hangout with but we can never connect most...
    Xxcrazedbanana Xxcrazedbanana 13-15, M Mar 31

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    I hate when you do ALL that you possibly can for someone and all they do is take it for granted ! I've been here for you and always made an effort to since the beginning of the...
    anqieeex3 anqieeex3 18-21, F Apr 2

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    bryannnnaaa bryannnnaaa 13-15, F Apr 11

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    whitemiddleclassteengirl whitemiddleclassteengirl 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    My friend (a girl).. love me so much.. . she always say I love you and kiss my cheek... We share everything.. I am proud of having her as my friend... :D
    AnnaKhit AnnaKhit 26-30, F Mar 31

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    It's just hard and confusing. I don't like being a boy's best friend -It always leads to falling in love which is something that I absolutely don't want- and also, I don't like...
    Mary0710 Mary0710 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I'm a married woman, and my three best friends are male. One has been my bud since high school, another has been my friend since college. My third male best friend always makes...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F Apr 4

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    i have alot of male friends haha few female friends idk y but i guess girls find me different n just dont want to be my friend but thats all cool
    loveableprincess123 loveableprincess123 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    New to this site.Hoping to make new friends.Lonely and hoping to find friends to share and encourage and help through the good and bad times of our life's.
    luckytexanlady luckytexanlady 51-55 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I have friends sorta... No one talks to me its always me talking to them when i say hi they even say stuff like what. I absolutly have no idea why people are so mean to me I try...
    Joshrayz Joshrayz 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    Female friend wanted comment or message if ya Wanna be friends
    oneperson93 oneperson93 18-21, M Apr 1

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