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I Have Feelings For a Friend

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    It Took Me By Surprise....

    The feelings took me by surprise...kind of out of the blue..sort of like you came into my life..out of the blue. I have fought expressing them but then I did ...kind of...sort of.. in a non conventional way....but I was surprised! You werent shocked, like I thought you would be...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 4, 2008

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    I Didn't Want To.

    I didn't expect to and it only took me 6 or 7 months to realize it.
    Shaylon Shaylon 26-30, F May 26, 2008

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    i really like her, shes my best friend

    and she means the world to me. ive liked her for a while but i dont want to lose her as a friend or make things awkward between us. but im not sure if i should say something or not for both the reason i said before and because shes a freshman in hs and im a senior and people...
    musicmaker5 musicmaker5 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 19, 2014

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    The Past 5 Or 6 Years

    They haven't exactly been hell but they havent been great either. About 6 years ago, I met a girl and we quickly became best friends. We developed feelings for each other and admitted it yet never acted, she was afraid it would damage our relationship. We would see other people...
    Anavrin1990 Anavrin1990 18-21 1 Response Feb 15, 2009

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    We have been friends

    since I started post secondary. I've always noticed her more than my other friends. The thing is she's happily in a relationship and that makes me not want to do anything, else it would seem so selfish. I get jealous of her boyfriend quite a bit, just don't know what to do about...
    Coolsmen Coolsmen 18-21, M Feb 15, 2014

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    Friends

    Your friends with someone never that one day might be something more! You tend to wait to see if he would respond back. Knowing that we been through heartbreaks from each others xpartners trying to heal the pain. Our experiences drew you closer. You know he has some feelings for...
    NatashaX NatashaX 31-35, F 1 Response May 11, 2013

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    Sigh...(again)

     I have had feelings for my friend for almost a year...but he has feelings for a good friend of ours...Unfortunately the other girl got him...not me -__-
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 27, 2008

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    I have feelings for my in-game guild boss. He's a great guy, but he's monogamous, and I am polyamorous.. It's complex.
    standingfirm standingfirm 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    In this case, *than my boyfriends*. Because I'm poly and I have two of them. (Before you jump on me, both of them know about one another.) But I have lately developed feelings for...
    standingfirm standingfirm 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I find myself thinking about you a little more lately, even though I know I shouldn't. I can't help but think of you when I hear certain songs or when I drive certain places. I...
    readum16 readum16 26-30, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Weird,strange feelings,I don't like him like that i dont think i ever did,but still it's hard to forget him.I'm starting to kinda hate him lately.and im just sad too because I put...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    My boyfriend is in prison at the moment. Not for much longer though, he currently has four months left to serve. Whilst he has been away, I've been spending alot of time with...
    MsVioletta MsVioletta 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I let go of my exwife today, she is seeing another woman and I am dating too many women right now. We had a convo and I said to her that we are both moving on and im happy for her...
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    Met this girl and fell for her hard... And fast. I completely changed my life for her. Quit escorting... Quit social media dating sites... Cut back my alcohol consumption...
    Ownedforaprice Ownedforaprice 22-25, F 16 Responses Feb 17

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    Let it be...just let it go...forget about him...please find the strength and move on. Obviously, he doesn't care what you think anymore...don't contact him. Don't reply to him...
    JandL2013 JandL2013 31-35, F Feb 18

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    I cried for you last night and I cried for you this morning...sounds like I'm grieving over a death, but in a way, I am mourning. The way you ignored me and my questions and the...
    JandL2013 JandL2013 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 19

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    Darling I'm falling in love with you, but your eyes don't see me yet. I look up and see dull, grey, steel clouds filling every centimetre of the sky. The sky is hoarding so much...
    Macyyyy Macyyyy 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I deleted his contact from my phone, but what good would that do? His email is already imprinted in my brain. After a week since I emailed him asking for closure, I caved in...I...
    JandL2013 JandL2013 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    This person doesn't know they broke my heart, but they did somehow...
    justinbartolome justinbartolome 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    It's been nearly 4 years and I still love him smh
    ivettefromtheblock ivettefromtheblock 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    i'm new to this place..but i wanted to share my feeling so, guys please give me an idea.. He works in army..we met in Parade for the first time..both of us are single.. still we...
    Misheyl Misheyl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I have enough stories on EP to define me 80%, but not too many people read. There is an entire Encyclopedia of me here, so I get annoyed with the "Tell me about yourself" messages...
    shimmeringrose shimmeringrose 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 11

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    People think that I am reckless and I dont care but they are wrong, I do have feelings. I am just done showing it.
    infinitygirl98 infinitygirl98 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Animal cruelty...it's the worst crime someone could do in my eyes, in my mind...animals have feelings and they don't deserve to be treated like objects. They deserve to be treated...
    BlueRoseNeko BlueRoseNeko 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 9

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    I had a crush on a guy since about 8th grade. My freshman year of high school I was dating a guy who cheated on me and I told my crush, (let's call him P). We decided to meet up...
    jennamlb jennamlb 18-21, M Feb 6

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    Factory farming is abhorrent. Sow stalls are outlawed in some EU countries and the piggies are to have toys for stimulation, and hay to make nests. Eating sick animals has to...
    sinewriter sinewriter 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 21

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    have a friend, who I want to be my best friend. In fact I am a person that does not talk and laugh a lot. I get bored for little things. I live in my mind and think a lot. But I...
    andandi andandi 22-25, M Feb 4

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    I have no close friends other than my boyfriend, and I've given up hope that I will ever have any. I try so hard to make friends with people. Unfortunately what tends to happen is...
    myhy myhy 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Okay, so I'm no longer bestfriends with a person who meant the world to me. That specific person was easy to talk to and great to have around. Our friendship kinda got off track...
    Gabbyhere Gabbyhere 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    Seriously It would be cool to have one guy friend that's like me at least but all I have is straight dude friends. I like my friends but when they talk about girls, what's they...
    RedDog123321 RedDog123321 18-21, M Feb 17

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    Besides my boyfriend, I have a best friend and we have gotten really close lately. I can tell them anything, and they don't judge me. They are always there for me when I need them...
    lizzielazylove97 lizzielazylove97 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    I'm 16, have a good grades but no friends no nothing , i'm always alone. But nice to everyone. I try to make friends but nobody ever wants to b it. Im a total loser . Always will...
    BigBossLaLa BigBossLaLa 18-21, F Feb 9

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    I am looking for friends or someone to chat with. I work weird hours and I am up at weird times. It gets very lonely and boring.
    jrf9782 jrf9782 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 4

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    Always Have Room For More Friends
    goodnites1091 goodnites1091 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Yeah, I think I have been forgotten by the most important person in my life. He has up and forgotten me. I was, wait let me rephrase that, I AM in love with him. I have been since...
    wannaloveyou wannaloveyou 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    I miss her. i wish i had responded when she called out for me. I wish i could understand she was in pain!
    lubnashariff lubnashariff 31-35, F 13 hrs ago

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    why is there nobody in central iowa usa on here?? I really want to have some kind of physical interaction soon. I can't find anyone remotely close to my area to go out with shop...
    transgirl28 transgirl28 26-30, T 15 hrs ago

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    This brought me to tears. God has a special punishment for people like this. It's about greyhound racing. vimeo.com/119844882
    sinewriter sinewriter 36-40, M Feb 21

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    Im 20. In College and i'm married to beautiful man. Ever since I was young in grade school no one ever wanted to be my friend. I remember asking a girl "do you want to be my friend...
    thelonelyrose thelonelyrose 18-21, F Feb 2

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    My best friend is honestly my only friend and I think he's gonna get tired of me sooner or later and we live together which doesn't help my loner status at all. He says I need my...
    spicegirlsfan808 spicegirlsfan808 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    Yeah. about 95% of my friends are guys. In real life and online. For some reason I just don't get along with many girls. I haven't since the middle of high school. I don't mind it...
    LostandFading LostandFading 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    ever since middle school I have had more guy friends than chicks as a freshman I had a chick friend who I though was my best friend and one who was a good friend both in the same...
    sk1ttl3s sk1ttl3s 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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