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I Have Feelings For Someone I Shouldn't

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 419 People

    Unfinished Business

    I don't think I have feelings for him, that would be going too far. But this seemed like the group that best fits my situation. Where do I start? I'm in a long, draining relationship that I seem unable to get out of. I care about my boyfriend a lot, but he's a suffocating, all...
    PreRaphaeliteEyes PreRaphaeliteEyes 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 18, 2013

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    NOW CASTING: HELP! I'M IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WHO

    IS ENGAGED/MARRIED! Is the man/woman that you think is your soulmate about to get married to someone else? Can you not stand the thought of the person you believe to be your soulmate marrying someone else? Do you want to stop the wedding and confront your soulmate? If you...
    nowcasting nowcasting 22-25, F Dec 4, 2013

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    Is this the time when I finally understand

    Taylor Swift's "I knew you were trouble when you walked in"? I am really starting to like Mr. Tattoo Guy but I know, I think, maybe I should't. Today, I missed his call so I texted him. Me: You called, why? *He called again. Me: So, you're calling, why? Him: Nothing, just want...
    PieceOfSummer PieceOfSummer 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2014

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    Saw Him Today

    I saw him today, my hookup (I hate to call him my hookup, because he is pretty awesome) that I have confusing feelings about. My heart jumped, it was uncomfortable. It would never work as a legit relationship, I wouldn't even wanna try. He is a good friend, and amazing in bed...
    lulabelle138 lulabelle138 31-35, F Nov 9, 2013

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    Not Now, Not Ever

    My best friend and I have always been close. People have always assumed that we were lesbian lovers, but that is only my wish. Just this year I have comes to terms with the fact that I am in love with my best friend. I have spent the last couple years trying to stop people from...
    suffocating suffocating 16-17, F Aug 31, 2010

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    How To Stop Feelings For A Friend?

    I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. I had always been happy and never even looked at another man until last summer. We had just moved in together but he was away with work for a few weeks. I was feeling lonely and sad. One night at a bbq at a friend's house a mutual...
    inhauntdattics inhauntdattics 22-25 2 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    Wish I'd Never Gotten To Know Him

    I remember the first time I ever truly got to know him.  We were just having some lunch with friends and he kept staring.  He has absolutely gorgeous blue eyes so why would I not stare back.  We started talking and laughing and I thought he was great.  It...
    kbs409 kbs409 18-21, F Mar 29, 2010

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    Torn

    I like my roommate and we get along great, and i think we are both intrested in eachother, but theres a girl who makes me flustered when im around her. She's my girl best friend and i've talked to her about all my relationship problems. She crazy beautiful, shes funny and smart...
    ChandlerBing33 ChandlerBing33 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 11, 2012

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    I recently become single

    and went to a party with a coworker who I've kind of had a crush on. I knew he had a girlfriend so I didn't try anything and kept it very friendly. That night I got extremely drunk and I ended up back at his place, my coworkers. He made obvious moves to have sex with me. At...
    arielm11878 arielm11878 18-21, F Oct 30, 2014

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    I can't help feeling like I let true love slip

    away. I have a boyfriend, but about a year ago someone else come into my life and he turned it upside down. He started working with me. We had an instant connection, I can't even explain it. But we were inseperable. Every time I saw him, I left smiling. I debated leaving my...
    laurennhem laurennhem 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1, 2014

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    Ugh I'm so bipolar lol.

    . I can't like Jackie, I know myself to well. All I'm going to do is keeping telling myself I'm going to talk to her but I know I'm not, and she has a boyfriend.. I can't like her.. But I know I'm going to. I wish I could stop feeling💔😔
    iamj iamj 16-17, F Mar 14, 2014

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    I Dont Know How To Get Over Him Move On!

    Right i dont even know where to start when i was 8 i developed a crush on a teacher in my school he was not even my teacher by 11 i was in his class and my feelings grew dramaticaly for him. after that year i went ontohigh school and he left school to move to another part of the...
    lonelygirl1998 lonelygirl1998 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    I Know I'm Being Stupid

    I "met" someone that.. well.. i think about frequently. i wouldn't say I "love" him, obviously im not that easy, but when I think of him my heart flutters and I wish I could be in his arms and I wish I could know what it feels like to be cared about in this...
    DavesDaughter DavesDaughter 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 6, 2009

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    He Hates My Guts....So Why Do I Like Him?

    We are enemies, we will always be enemies. He is a sneaky little worm who hates my guts and is just waiting for the perfect opportunity to try and break me. His MO is mind game tactics that have yet to work on me.......or have they? Because I don't understand why, although I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 9, 2013

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    Open Letter To My Roommate

    That is the one thing I will never get over, is that night. The night when you and my ex got **** *** drunk, and after everyone else went to bed, you and I stayed up and talked in the semi-darkness. I will never get over that night, Liz, because that was the night you gave me...
    Nereida13 Nereida13 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 17, 2011

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    Nathan

     i have feelings for someone i shouldnt because they are not approved of by family and friends even though i enjoy it all he wants is sex and i dont want to get pregnant
    citcge09 citcge09 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26, 2009

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    It Would Be Better If...

    I wish I would just feel NOTHING when I thought of him, instead of feeling either love or hate. Sometimes, I miss him, and my heart fills with the love we had.  I rembember how it was, how we were together, and I want it again.  I know, I know, I should be over it...
    Bluebie Bluebie 46-50, F 31 Responses Feb 22, 2010

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    Never Knowing What I Want, Or If It Ever Is Right.

    So i have to decide what i want once again. I hate it ,to choose between James a complete sweetheart hockey player or Damien a physical sexy beast. They both sound great and all, but here is the problem... There both my ex's. James all though he is good hearted he is an age below...
    lonergirl123 lonergirl123 16-17, F Nov 12, 2012

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    I like you. There's no reason to tell you this

    but I have to because if I don't, it's going build up until I explode. You tilt your head when you think as if you're inviting all the thoughts in the world to witness how cute you are when you crease your forehead. The heavy breath that escapes your lung when you're worried...
    PieceOfSummer PieceOfSummer 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    You Were The One I’D Run To, You Were The Thing That Blinded Me

    Looking in your eyes, is like looking in the sun Burning in my mind, a vision of the pain Take away the pain, take away the sight, of you Is easier for me, then to see That every day we play, the same game, of just being strangers...... From a song I wrote about someone very...
    NJguitarist NJguitarist 41-45, M Feb 21, 2013

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    Beautiful Disaster

    hello my EP friends, I come here today to tell everyone it is ok to be confused, lost, sad, scared, lonely, alone, angry, depressed, and/or broken. It is when we accept these negative feelings that we have the capacity to understand why we feel this way and can then attempt to...
    happyadventurer happyadventurer 26-30, F May 8, 2013

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    I Am Being A Total Dumb*ss

    Im with this one guy who is utterly amazing and makes me feel like i'm worth something again. So y cant i forget my rebound fling who, although hes a very nice man and a good friend, treated me like i didnt matter while we were "together?" c like i said being a dumb ***.
    isapheonix isapheonix 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    I once made a vow to never fall

    for someone I work with. The line of work I dabble in isn't a typical job, nor is it really a job at all. Regardless, in the group of people I work with, I knew I'd never fit in with any of them outside of what we do. I was a fool to think that I would ever be with anyone, even...
    RegicideJester RegicideJester 18-21, M Oct 31, 2014

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    I Dont Know What To Do

    I dated this guy for three years and he has put me through hell and back. But no matter how hard i try i always go back to him. Ive dated three people since him and less than a year but i always want him still. my relationships were great but i still always want him and i dont...
    lolo1227 lolo1227 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    I'm starting to have feelings

    for a co-worker. I know that he would never look at me that way, but I can't help but fall deeper.
    shortstackshell shortstackshell 26-30, F Aug 29, 2014

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    I Take That Back

    When I joined this group, I was in a really low place. I'm not saying I'm completely gung ho now, but there is one thing that's changed, and that's my perspective. I used to think I had feelings for someone I shouldn't have feelings for. Now, I'm not so sure. I AM sure that I...
    fadingvioletdawn fadingvioletdawn 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2011

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    Now I Am Really Worried

    Since May this year the feelings I have had towards someone came over me again. Stronger this time, but I still haven't told this person how I feel. What worries me now is I am not sure that I should allow myself to feel this way. He is not married but I am not sure if he would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 8, 2009

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    Not really suppose to have feelings

    for a guy. But It's just he's cute, funny, sarcastic and when I'm around him I can't keep eye contact but I have to stop myself from looking at him when he's around.
    JohnoCA JohnoCA 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    I Don't Want To Like Him! I Have A Boyfriend. It's Serious!

     I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. We're both going to college and we get along great! We've been through a lot together to become the very trusting, loving, fun-loving couple that knows how to give eachother space now. We used to be the opposite...
    Lila1152 Lila1152 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    Broken Hearted Nightmare

    starting with a brief description, the love of my life died 6 months ago. i was (and still am) very torn up about it, but there has only been one person who has been there for me with out judging me, whos let me talk if i wanted to, sleep and rest if needed, forced me to eat (as...
    DellieDella DellieDella 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 2, 2013

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    Makes No Sense

    I met this guy online. I think he's gorgeous...he's got a great job, nice house, etc. I went to his house to watch a movie with him...I gave him a massage and we talked about random things. Trouble is he acted so sketchy most of the time...didn't return my texts/calls...
    eekimateacher eekimateacher 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    I have feelings for two men actually.

    Neither are my husband. I haven't had feelings for him for a few years now. Anyway, I have more feelings for one than the other. I've never met either of them, but have become good friends with both of them. I know I shouldn't have feelings for either of them especially since I...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    Ashamed And Confused, Please Help

    I have been dating this girl for 3 years now. When we first met she was my world, she actually was the first girl I have ever dated. I have always been interested in guys, and I still am. Our relationship got bad and I decided that i wanted to see other people. One of those...
    abrownxo abrownxo 18-21, F Jul 26, 2013

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    Why Do I Still Care..?

    Alright a year later... and there is someone knew. I never thought I would get over my ex, and then he came along. He was sweet, funny,flirty and the perfect summer romance... but then it turned into more than just a summer fling... we fell in love.. or at least I did. We were...
    picture23 picture23 16-17, F Jan 6, 2013

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    Im Going Crazy Over Here..

    Im 41 years old and going crazy. I have been married for 10 years and have three kids. I would do anything for my kids in life. Me and My husband have been having the typical marriage fights and things have just not been good for a few years relationship wise. I cant remeber the...
    lovethem3 lovethem3 41-45 4 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    I was totally in love with this one guy

    thinking we would last forever. He was very religious and turns out I guess god told him to stop. So then our relationship ended and he never dated another but has kissed, held hands, etc with others. One of my best friends to be exact (she gave me crap for being good friends...
    Sparklefuck Sparklefuck 13-15, F Jul 1, 2014

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    Trying To Find My Smile Again

    Life is so beautiful - - I see it's marvels everyday. Biking down the road, looking that the flowers, trees, the sun in my face. I have made so many mistakes in my life, that I can't even count them. I have loved very foolishly, I've worked my *** off and didn't achieve what I...
    happyadventurer happyadventurer 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 27, 2013

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    Nearly A Year Now

    She and I have very similar interests. We're both RPG nerds, and attend the same D&D groups. We have many classes together at school. We both enjoy music and movies and all the standard things one compares a potential partner to. And we get along fairly well, though at times I...
    Autokrator Autokrator 16-17, M Jul 4, 2010

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    I Felt So Bad..

    I have feelings for somebody I shouldn't. Well, it's not that bad now that I have broken up with the boyfriend, but it was pretty bad. I must admit I feel terrible about this. But what can I do? It's my heart. It only wants what it wants. I can't stop it, couldn't stop it at the...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 16-17, F Jan 12, 2013

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    My 'crush' and I have both admitted that we have feelings for each other but we agreed to 'get to know each other first' and decided that now wasn't the correct time.. But I want...
    rachieu rachieu 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    This is a tough one however I do have feelings for my exwife. We shared a life together and kids. We had beautiful moments and our kids are so beautiful. I decided that it is what...
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    It's been almost three years since we first met. I still remember the day. I had been back in my home town for a few months after I'd convinced myself to stay because I'd missed it...
    minernick minernick 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    I'm 22. Aren't I suppose to know what to do with my life? I'm not meant to be coach surfing. Homeless. And jobless. I should have a job, a home and a life that isn't a disaster...
    nonnygirl13 nonnygirl13 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Its been a year and he asks me advice on what to do about different girls he likes. PFFT, that totally doesn't sting at all . . .
    Desi17 Desi17 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's never happened to me before, but talking to a friend here on EP has made me realise that in fact, it is happening to me. I have a crush on someone I never should have feelings...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 4

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    So I like this girl who is a friend of a friend, and she used to like me back. But then I did some **** that I'm not proud of and she found out through the grapevine. I didn't have...
    rssooch rssooch 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    It's like a weird relationship between me and him. We hate each other but why the **** do I like him? Makes no entire sense. I mean, we practically fight every time we see each...
    plasticnarwhals plasticnarwhals 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    My first post... Well, I'm french, 18 and I'm black. You know, I always knew I loved girls; their perfume, their bodies, their attitudes. I've been in love with one of them and...
    TheSweetChris TheSweetChris 18-21, M Jan 13

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    Yea I miss you but, I know I shouldn't. I know you damn well don't miss me or care that I'm breathing. So I'll continue to hold my head high and move forward. Cause there's no...
    candij1983 candij1983 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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