I Have Feelings For Someone I Shouldn't

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    How To Stop Feelings For A Friend?

    I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. I had always been happy and never even looked at another man until last summer. We had just moved in together but he was away with work for a few weeks. I was feeling lonely and sad. One night at a bbq at a friend's house a mutual...
    inhauntdattics inhauntdattics
    22-25
    2 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    amelcc11 amelcc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 3, 2015

    I was totally in love with this one guy

    thinking we would last forever. He was very religious and turns out I guess god told him to stop. So then our relationship ended and he never dated another but has kissed, held hands, etc with others. One of my best friends to be exact (she gave me crap for being good friends...
    Sparklefuck Sparklefuck
    16-17, F
    Jul 1, 2014

    Missing you everyday.

    Not being around you two hurts everyday. I feel like I'm getting the run around from you. You can't ask me certain things. Certain things you shouldn't k know. We're just not there yet. I'm still in love with you and I hated you know it. Every day I look. for new ways to stop...
    TaurasiWade TaurasiWade
    22-25, F
    Aug 3, 2015

    Now I Am Really Worried

    Since May this year the feelings I have had towards someone came over me again. Stronger this time, but I still haven't told this person how I feel. What worries me now is I am not sure that I should allow myself to feel this way. He is not married but I am not sure if he would...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 8, 2009

    Not Now, Not Ever

    My best friend and I have always been close. People have always assumed that we were lesbian lovers, but that is only my wish. Just this year I have comes to terms with the fact that I am in love with my best friend. I have spent the last couple years trying to stop people from...
    suffocating suffocating
    16-17, F
    Aug 31, 2010

    It's not really accurate to say I love my

    husband's best friend. I don't know him well enough, and being "in love" is really just infatuation anyway. Well, whatever you call it, I do have feelings for Jorge. I can't help how I feel. I know it's wrong, but when he's around, I feel happy and connected. I feel more alive...
    jennytressler jennytressler
    41-45
    Jul 1, 2015

    Beautiful Disaster

    hello my EP friends, I come here today to tell everyone it is ok to be confused, lost, sad, scared, lonely, alone, angry, depressed, and/or broken. It is when we accept these negative feelings that we have the capacity to understand why we feel this way and can then attempt to...
    happyadventurer happyadventurer
    26-30, F
    May 8, 2013

    I love her. I miss her.

    I thought I was with my other half till I found my heart
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 2, 2015

    I Dont Know How To Get Over Him Move On!

    Right i dont even know where to start when i was 8 i developed a crush on a teacher in my school he was not even my teacher by 11 i was in his class and my feelings grew dramaticaly for him. after that year i went ontohigh school and he left school to move to another part of the...
    lonelygirl1998 lonelygirl1998
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2011

    Torn

    I like my roommate and we get along great, and i think we are both intrested in eachother, but theres a girl who makes me flustered when im around her. She's my girl best friend and i've talked to her about all my relationship problems. She crazy beautiful, shes funny and smart...
    ChandlerBing33 ChandlerBing33
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jul 11, 2012

    You Were The One I’D Run To, You Were The Thing That Blinded Me

    Looking in your eyes, is like looking in the sun Burning in my mind, a vision of the pain Take away the pain, take away the sight, of you Is easier for me, then to see That every day we play, the same game, of just being strangers...... From a song I wrote about someone very...
    NJguitarist NJguitarist
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 21, 2013

    Open Letter To My Roommate

    That is the one thing I will never get over, is that night. The night when you and my ex got **** *** drunk, and after everyone else went to bed, you and I stayed up and talked in the semi-darkness. I will never get over that night, Liz, because that was the night you gave me...
    Nereida13 Nereida13
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 17, 2011

    I can't help feeling like I let true love slip

    away. I have a boyfriend, but about a year ago someone else come into my life and he turned it upside down. He started working with me. We had an instant connection, I can't even explain it. But we were inseperable. Every time I saw him, I left smiling. I debated leaving my...
    laurennhem laurennhem
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 1, 2014

    Im Going Crazy Over Here..

    Im 41 years old and going crazy. I have been married for 10 years and have three kids. I would do anything for my kids in life. Me and My husband have been having the typical marriage fights and things have just not been good for a few years relationship wise. I cant remeber the...
    lovethem3 lovethem3
    41-45
    3 Responses Jul 8, 2009

    I have feelings for my in-game guild boss.

    He's a great guy, but he's monogamous, and I am polyamorous.. It's complex.
    TenderBeauty TenderBeauty
    26-30, F
    Feb 26, 2015

    I recently become single

    and went to a party with a coworker who I've kind of had a crush on. I knew he had a girlfriend so I didn't try anything and kept it very friendly. That night I got extremely drunk and I ended up back at his place, my coworkers. He made obvious moves to have sex with me. At...
    arielm11878 arielm11878
    22-25, F
    Oct 30, 2014

    He Hates My Guts....So Why Do I Like Him?

    We are enemies, we will always be enemies. He is a sneaky little worm who hates my guts and is just waiting for the perfect opportunity to try and break me. His MO is mind game tactics that have yet to work on me.......or have they? Because I don't understand why, although I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 9, 2013

    so... i have a male friend

    that comes to visit for a few nights once every couple of weeks if you get my drift... i know it will never be anything more than it allready is but lately i have started to miss him... and want to talk to him more and im worried im catching feelings for him and i know im going...
    Luliana Luliana
    18-21, F
    Apr 18, 2015

    Ugh I'm so bipolar lol.

    . I can't like Jackie, I know myself to well. All I'm going to do is keeping telling myself I'm going to talk to her but I know I'm not, and she has a boyfriend.. I can't like her.. But I know I'm going to. I wish I could stop feeling💔😔
    iamj iamj
    18-21, F
    Mar 14, 2014

    It Would Be Better If...

    I wish I would just feel NOTHING when I thought of him, instead of feeling either love or hate. Sometimes, I miss him, and my heart fills with the love we had.  I rembember how it was, how we were together, and I want it again.  I know, I know, I should be over it...
    Bluebie Bluebie
    46-50, F
    30 Responses Feb 22, 2010

    I once made a vow to never fall

    for someone I work with. The line of work I dabble in isn't a typical job, nor is it really a job at all. Regardless, in the group of people I work with, I knew I'd never fit in with any of them outside of what we do. I was a fool to think that I would ever be with anyone, even...
    RegicideJester RegicideJester
    22-25, M
    Oct 31, 2014

    I met her here six months ago

    and have fallen pretty hard for her. Shouldn't be but it happened and I am paying the price now. So many reasons why not to be but I ignored them all and here I am. I left her here and deleted my account on EP as though that would delete my feelings for her. Didn't work and here...
    boldtimer boldtimer
    66-70, M
    Jan 4

    Nearly A Year Now

    She and I have very similar interests. We're both RPG nerds, and attend the same D&D groups. We have many classes together at school. We both enjoy music and movies and all the standard things one compares a potential partner to. And we get along fairly well, though at times I...
    Autokrator Autokrator
    16-17, M
    Jul 4, 2010

    I have a huge crush on my boss

    but he's 13 years older than me and dating is strictly forbidden within the company. I want to get over him but it's really hard when I see him almost everyday.
    nine10 nine10
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2015

    Unfinished Business

    I don't think I have feelings for him, that would be going too far. But this seemed like the group that best fits my situation. Where do I start? I'm in a long, draining relationship that I seem unable to get out of. I care about my boyfriend a lot, but he's a suffocating, all...
    PreRaphaeliteEyes PreRaphaeliteEyes
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2013

    I Know I'm Being Stupid

    I "met" someone that.. well.. i think about frequently. i wouldn't say I "love" him, obviously im not that easy, but when I think of him my heart flutters and I wish I could be in his arms and I wish I could know what it feels like to be cared about in this...
    DavesDaughter DavesDaughter
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Jul 6, 2009

    Not really suppose to have feelings

    for a guy. But It's just he's cute, funny, sarcastic and when I'm around him I can't keep eye contact but I have to stop myself from looking at him when he's around.
    JohnoCA JohnoCA
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

    Is this the time when I finally understand

    Taylor Swift's "I knew you were trouble when you walked in"? I am really starting to like Mr. Tattoo Guy but I know, I think, maybe I should't. Today, I missed his call so I texted him. Me: You called, why? *He called again. Me: So, you're calling, why? Him: Nothing, just want...
    PieceOfSummer PieceOfSummer
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2014

    Ashamed And Confused, Please Help

    I have been dating this girl for 3 years now. When we first met she was my world, she actually was the first girl I have ever dated. I have always been interested in guys, and I still am. Our relationship got bad and I decided that i wanted to see other people. One of those...
    abrownxo abrownxo
    22-25, F
    Jul 26, 2013

    we talk as friends but sometimes it feels like

    more, she knows me in a different light. I look forward to texting her when I wake up and until I fall asleep, even though we're only friends. she hasn't lead me to believe that she wants anything more than friendship and I don't want to bring it up and make the situation weird...
    notthatweird notthatweird
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 3, 2015

    I Don't Want To Like Him! I Have A Boyfriend. It's Serious!

     I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. We're both going to college and we get along great! We've been through a lot together to become the very trusting, loving, fun-loving couple that knows how to give eachother space now. We used to be the opposite...
    Lila1152 Lila1152
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2009

    I like you. There's no reason to tell you this

    but I have to because if I don't, it's going build up until I explode. You tilt your head when you think as if you're inviting all the thoughts in the world to witness how cute you are when you crease your forehead. The heavy breath that escapes your lung when you're worried...
    PieceOfSummer PieceOfSummer
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 8, 2015

    Makes No Sense

    I met this guy online. I think he's gorgeous...he's got a great job, nice house, etc. I went to his house to watch a movie with him...I gave him a massage and we talked about random things. Trouble is he acted so sketchy most of the time...didn't return my texts/calls...
    eekimateacher eekimateacher
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Jan 20, 2010

    and I know it shall just remain that- feelings.

    it's been a long time since I felt like this, I was confused I figured it was just infatuation but I know it is much deeper. this person not only gets all of my many quirks and believe me there are many he accepts me in spite, he makes me laugh, he is a good friend and I think...
    snoopymg snoopymg
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2015

    I Take That Back

    When I joined this group, I was in a really low place. I'm not saying I'm completely gung ho now, but there is one thing that's changed, and that's my perspective. I used to think I had feelings for someone I shouldn't have feelings for. Now, I'm not so sure. I AM sure that I...
    fadingvioletdawn fadingvioletdawn
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2011

    Nathan

     i have feelings for someone i shouldnt because they are not approved of by family and friends even though i enjoy it all he wants is sex and i dont want to get pregnant
    citcge09 citcge09
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 26, 2009

    Trying To Find My Smile Again

    Life is so beautiful - - I see it's marvels everyday. Biking down the road, looking that the flowers, trees, the sun in my face. I have made so many mistakes in my life, that I can't even count them. I have loved very foolishly, I've worked my *** off and didn't achieve what I...
    happyadventurer happyadventurer
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 27, 2013

    I have feelings for two men actually.

    Neither are my husband. I haven't had feelings for him for a few years now. Anyway, I have more feelings for one than the other. I've never met either of them, but have become good friends with both of them. I know I shouldn't have feelings for either of them especially since I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 13, 2014

    Wish I'd Never Gotten To Know Him

    I remember the first time I ever truly got to know him.  We were just having some lunch with friends and he kept staring.  He has absolutely gorgeous blue eyes so why would I not stare back.  We started talking and laughing and I thought he was great.  It...
    kbs409 kbs409
    18-21, F
    Mar 29, 2010

    NOW CASTING: HELP! I'M IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WHO

    IS ENGAGED/MARRIED! Is the man/woman that you think is your soulmate about to get married to someone else? Can you not stand the thought of the person you believe to be your soulmate marrying someone else? Do you want to stop the wedding and confront your soulmate? If you...
    nowcasting nowcasting
    22-25, F
    Dec 4, 2013

    I cant believe im going this again.

    Crushing on ANOTHER close friend in my circle. Being my circle is a party of four, with one of them female, that would make all male members an unfortunate victim of my "love". Now we all "love" each other since we've all been a group for now 8 years the four of us. None of us...
    LetsBeHonest LetsBeHonest
    22-25, M
    Jan 14

    I Dont Know What To Do

    I dated this guy for three years and he has put me through hell and back. But no matter how hard i try i always go back to him. Ive dated three people since him and less than a year but i always want him still. my relationships were great but i still always want him and i dont...
    lolo1227 lolo1227
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2013

    I'm starting to have feelings

    for a co-worker. I know that he would never look at me that way, but I can't help but fall deeper.
    shortstackshell shortstackshell
    26-30, F
    Aug 29, 2014

    So as I have written

    before I am a cheater. I have cheated on my husband multiple times, but this time was different... It was deeper and alot more personal and now I am positive I have more feelings for the other guy than I should...
    EmoCinderella94 EmoCinderella94
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 8, 2015

    Well here it is....we spend our time together

    when he can. I get the dumbest grin on my face when I get his text. As many times as I wanna tell him lets just move on, it never seems to happen. The past few times things have changed. He's seems to be more open holding me next to him rubbing his hands across my back and...
    Gd10 Gd10
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 7, 2015

    I have feelings for this guy

    and I shouldn't. What do I do ?
    BigAss101 BigAss101
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 19, 2015
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