I Have Few Friends

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 266 People

    chris7379 chris7379
    41-45, M
    Feb 7, 2016

    Why I Have Few Friends

    I have always had few friends, but only recently, as I have been exploring life and learning about myself, have I learned why. I have low self esteem. Rather, I HAD low self esteem. It was not easy to get it, but it's here now. I realized that I would shy away from social...
    brianman3 brianman3
    26-30, M
    Oct 17, 2011

    I Miss Girl Times

    I miss having girlfriends.After college it just seems like most of my friends vanished.Ever since, it has been so hard to get new girlfriends!My boyfriend is pretty much my best friend/ confident/shopping buddy.we Do EVERYTHING together. When he hangs out with his guy friends, i...
    Lisa333 Lisa333
    2 Responses Jan 26, 2011

    But it's not because I choose not to make

    friends. I'd just rather have a few close friends who really actually understand me and listen to me. Right now I have two. One is my twin sister. I LOVE her!!!
    TheMobip TheMobip
    16-17, F
    May 19, 2014

    My best friend all through elementary recently

    moved away. She wasn't the kind of friend you talk to, though, she was just fun to be around. We had the same sense of silly, non-sensical humor and would spend days giggling nonstop. In elementary school, that was great, but now I'd rather have friends whom I can talk to. We...
    Marvilles Marvilles
    16-17, F
    Mar 24, 2014

    Hi I'm New...

    Hello... Well, I just googled "people with few friends" a few minutes ago and found this lovely site...I'm impressed, it looks like fun! Anyway, maybe It's just my mood, but I do feel that I have few friends in my life right now. I am not a loner as such, but I like...
    Ladyhazasecret Ladyhazasecret
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 21, 2009

    Don't Know About Friends..

    I don't have any friends.  People ask me all the time to come and hang out.  I always tell em no.  I would rather just chill alone.  I don't know how to make friends anymore because they will always just fade away.  Do we really need friends?
    unkownnothing unkownnothing
    2 Responses Nov 19, 2009

    My Friends

    I have always been a bit of a loner. Friends are very hard for me to make. I can honestly say that I have only two friends that I actually would consider being a real frind and not just an acquaintance. It sometimes bothers me, because I live an hour away from these two...
    neemeeneemee neemeeneemee
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2008

    Welcome To Reality

    Over a lot of years, I have become more and more isolated. I would say this stems back to my teenage years. Prior to joining the Army in the mid 80's I had a lot of friends. I socialised with a couple of different groups of friends as each group had different interests. One of...
    Kirrie45 Kirrie45
    41-45, M
    Jan 13, 2013


    It's funny how it happens. I thought I had friends. Yet over the years I found that I was always the one trying to keep in touch. Since then, I've stopped and I haven't heard from anyone in a long time. I can't fault them. They have lives of their own. New worries, new hopes...
    baka baka
    31-35, M
    Jan 30, 2008

    Alone on Friday Night

    It is extremely hard for me to find and keep friends. I don't know if it's what I say or what I don't say. Maybe it's how I act. Maybe it's all in my head that people think I am akward and weird. I never have anything to say. I have to think really hard about what to say next. It...
    aaviance36 aaviance36
    26-30, F
    May 6, 2011


    This last summer I ended up being homeless.  Nobody was there to help pick me up, that wasn't really so bad though.  The worst part was that the few friends I did have left, the two that stayed spent the little cash I could work up daily.  To hell with friends...
    nobodyatall nobodyatall
    2 Responses Nov 21, 2009

    The Best Ones At Hand

    I know a lot of people, have all these acquaintances, but there are only a few who  really have a special place in my heart ad whom i really trust. I find it hard to trust people... But it's not like i'm gonna treat everybody badly, no, i treat them in the nicest way...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 13, 2009

    'IRL' Very Few, In Fact Two Now.

    I have left a lot of aquaintances behind. They were never really friends. A lot of them were simply using me. I always picked-up another somwhere tho, and got used again. I have also left behind some really great friends becuse I was stupid and thought that they all hated me...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 18, 2009

    Just a few...and i'm not 100% sure about them.

    I'm 32...at this point in life while I'm making new friends, my core friends should already be established but they aren't. My definition of a friend is Doc Holiday. He got up out of his death bed to go to a gun fight to keep Wyatt Earp from getting killed. You know how you...
    BronzeJamesBond BronzeJamesBond
    31-35, M
    Mar 10, 2016

    Its Better??

    SO who ever said having few friends is bad? It is good to have a few TRUE friends. When you have true friends you should know that they would always be there for you no matter what. Now I have only 3 friends and i am still happy because they always had my back. So intentionally...
    cute4me cute4me
    18-21, T
    2 Responses Sep 2, 2012

    I Have Few Friends

    I have never had very many friends mainly because they make bad descions. but i dont let it affect my life. ialso am pretty shy when it comes to new people and im notone for talking. but in those few friends i do have they are probally the best friends i could have...
    bloodtooth1wildtiger bloodtooth1wildtiger
    13-15, M
    Apr 23, 2011

    I Have Very Few Friends

    I am at a private high school. I'm being bullied because of my religion (I'm Christian) and my classmates aren't. So they bully me and hit me and I can't do nothing. I have few friends (just 2). I don't know them. I have just talked to them. Their names are Aaron landon and...
    Gabexx Gabexx
    26-30, M
    Oct 24, 2013

    People Not Liking Me Too Much, Or Me Not Liking Them Very Much?

    I've been told that, when I mention that I'm concerned about not making too many friends, perhaps it's me that doesn't want to be friends with those people I think I "should" be friends with. I think this may be true. However, it makes me feel like I may be kind of snooty or...
    meowkittykitty meowkittykitty
    2 Responses Nov 23, 2012

    I really just have two people my age

    who have been good to me. I have, or HAD school "friends" who decide to forget me and ignore me after I leave my school. I have been a good friend to them. For the whole two years. Then they treat me like this. **** those ********. **** them!!!
    NeonPurple NeonPurple
    18-21, F
    Apr 3, 2014

    I lost my phone so I lost all my friends

    numbers. I don't really have any friends that want to hang out with me on Facebook. But still like every hour at home I go on my Facebook hoping that someone would have said something to me. Though every time no one has. I just crave for that feeling I get when someone messages...
    kevin1080123 kevin1080123
    18-21, M
    Jul 28, 2014

    Afraid Of Dying Alone

    " />It seems I have always been a loner. Seems kind of a curse. I remember when I was a kid, usually I got along well with older people, as my Grandma, than with kids my own age. At school I was bullied and it made me really sad.As I grew older I learnt to kind of shield myself.I...
    LonelyBrazilianGirl LonelyBrazilianGirl
    31-35, F
    Jun 26, 2012

    I Have Few Friends (My only current friend is my dog)

    I have almost no friends. Although I used to have one or two good friends in the past, once I entered high school I became a total social recluse. I started becoming hateful of people and developed a phobia for interacting with people. I shunned crowded places and social...
    ihavefewfriends ihavefewfriends
    Oct 29, 2012

    Trouble Keeping Friendships Long Term.

    I am a very blunt person.  I call things the way that I see them & I get so tired of everyone's whining.  I feel as though all of my friendships are toxic as the relationships mostly revolve around them.  I am also a very good listener.  The problem is...
    onlychild72 onlychild72
    Apr 13, 2009

    Another Friday Night Alone.

    So, here we are again. Another Friday Night Alone. Reminds me of high school. I was never popular or cool in high school, but I tried to change that in college. I would speak up, talk to people, get to know others. I know a lot of people, but I don't think they don't...
    RavenCroft RavenCroft
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Nov 20, 2009
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