I Have Friends Who Do Not Talk to Me Anymore

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    I don't keep friends.

    That doesn't mean I don't like having friends. I am afraid that someday they would just stopped talking to me. I used to have this really good friend at school. We were like sisters. But when we graduated to high school, her attitude began to change. She started to ignore me and...
    imasurvivor92 imasurvivor92
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 7

    everyone goes away..in a few hours they say i

    won't go I won't hurt you the. they leave and every few days I message them I know they see the messages but they don't bother to even speak to me.. why can't I have anyone that cares.. I feel so cold.. I can't even make a profile right as my age is wrong on this dang thing am...
    zenishappy zenishappy
    22-25, M
    Dec 30, 2015

    They Were Like My Family!!

    I had what I thought was a BFF. Which turned outto be not true. We we friends for 10 years and did everything together. Her mom treated me like the mother that I never had. We spent alll of the holidays together, When are children were born they also became friends. Then she got...
    tashantodd1 tashantodd1
    22-25
    1 Response Mar 10, 2012

    And I Don'T Know Why

    Many people have dropped out of my life without a word of explanation. It would be so nice to know what I have done wrong so I can stop doing it. Or maybe it's not me it's them? It has left me not wanting to make new friends because I know from experience that I can spend years...
    iamherenow13 iamherenow13
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 23, 2013
    Shannycons Shannycons
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 27, 2015

    A Bit Of Nostalgia

    A few days ago I spotted a letter to the editor written by an old friend of mine on a certain magazine. I can't be one hundred percent sure, but her last name is quite rare, and it was about a subject I know she has a lot to say about: Gay marriage. The language reminded me of...
    Fearofsilence Fearofsilence
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2012

    PLEASE Read

    DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME ON PEOPLE WHO DO NOT APPRECIATE YOUR WORTH!
    retiredfather retiredfather
    61-65, M
    7 Responses Jul 27, 2009

    My supposed to be best friend turned her back

    on me twice. Once after high school and now. She had a controlling bf who told her not to associate with me. I kept trying to get in contact with her for years. Then one day out of the bleu she texts me and I forgave her and we were friends again. I had a controlling...
    DeeDoubleYoux DeeDoubleYoux
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 4, 2015

    yeah a lot over the years,

    my online friends basically, we used to be all in one group, we talked a lot and we would video chat, now I would lose them one by one, yes I still see what they post in their social media or talk to them once in a while but I really miss those day where we would also just play...
    bloodyzombie19 bloodyzombie19
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    I feel like lately I have to start conversations

    if I want them to happen at all...
    PanamanianPenguin PanamanianPenguin
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2015

    I got a group Facebook message about someone

    organizing a party night for my former good friend. The message began with saying my former friend is getting married, as we all knew (I didn't). It continued on mentioning the evening plans. I can't go because I work that evening. It's a weird feeling not wanting to go because...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 13, 2015

    I Have This Friend

    We met back in grade 4 and have been close ever since, she was a sister to me. We shared secrets and had many sleepovers. Than along came high school, for the first few months I seen less and less of her, than suddenly she was back. I couldn't have been happier to have my sister...
    JarredRay JarredRay
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2013

    Pretty Much All Of Them

    pretty much all the people i still talk to are more like acquaintences. every time i get a really good friend they seem to move away or something. i think this is why i have trouble letting people get close to me. its probably why i dont ever initiate anything with people.
    EdgeCrusher EdgeCrusher
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 28, 2011

    It's Been A While....

    Ever since we fought, I realized that I caused a lot of trouble for you. It all happened suddenly, from best friends to strangers again. Many times I wanted to reach you and tell you that I miss you so much, but there was no reply from you. I kept on waiting for a single message...
    nightarchangel nightarchangel
    22-25, F
    Oct 25, 2011

    I do have a lot of them

    but still they are not MY Real friend.
    Fariyal Fariyal
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jul 6, 2015

    Yep and they're mostly from my previous forum.

    Funny cause I used to think they're better than my friends who can actually see me in person. They understand me, at least I think they did. And we mostly just got along. They're a bunch of fun people -- behind the avatars -- but in reality, they're mostly shy and quiet human...
    kixisback kixisback
    22-25
    1 Response Apr 6, 2014

    Basically my whole grade.

    Actually, everyone I know.
    PierceTheMarua PierceTheMarua
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Mar 7

    Faded Friendships.

    I had a few things in high school that I hung around with. When I left some I never spoke to again and some I saw very occationally but we never really spoke. Now I don't really speak to most of them anymore. If I saw them in the street I'd probably say hi but nothing more. The...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Feb 14, 2011

    I miss having best friends.

    I love/hate movies just because I see all these people with life long best friends and they are like totally bff material together and it sucks that I dont have that anymore. I miss having a friend. Someone that will be there for me.
    ashhes ashhes
    18-21, F
    Jul 29, 2015

    Was It Something I Said?

    Or was it something I DIDN'T say?
    cyberkitty cyberkitty
    18-21
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2008

    This girl was my best friend from sixth grade

    to sophomore year of high school. I moved my junior year and she never even bothered to call, write, text. I was so confused and asking myself what I ever did wrong. One day I asked her. She said she was always so busy and never had time for anything- which I found through her...
    karijune karijune
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 4, 2014

    The most recent was an EP friend I thought.

    Only to learn that they were really not tuned in to our friendship like I was. My big mistake I confess it was my fault. The world can judge. I requested to have computer or texting conversation during the night if I woke up. They totally disagreed. I talk to Jesus before and...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy
    41-45, F
    Aug 27, 2015

    Though I suppose it's the choice of friend.

    But so far it seems like everyone eventually goes off the radar. I used to think it was me, that I drove them too it. So I changed myself, adjusted myself to the person I was taking to.. Because I wanted that person in my life. The results of that test, led me to find out that...
    twistedrope twistedrope
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 30, 2015

    Wishy washy! I am not going to

    even worry about EP neither anyone else for that matter with mood swings!
    Babeondwy Babeondwy
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 1, 2015

    I guess it's my fault.

    I moved around a lot as a kid and found it difficult to make friends, especially being a socially awkward ISTJ. I was never the popular "New Kid" or anything. By the time I'd moved to my final high school, I'd learned to create a more extroverted and "bubbly...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon
    18-21, F
    Mar 23, 2014

    To be socially accepted you have to look the

    part, walk the walk or have a large enough group who have similarities. But what if someone doesn't have things in common with anyone else? What if someone has matured or is just different to everyone else in general. What if? You do not just not fit in, it is not a moral...
    MaraIsNotKawaii MaraIsNotKawaii
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2014

    Some times I think you're an *******

    but I know you really aren't. I just feel like I'm annoying you, that's why I try not to text you. I just don't want you to leave me alone. I know we're getting older but that doesn't mean that we can't hang out anymore. I don't know. This is what you did to me. I should...
    bethepea bethepea
    18-21, F
    Apr 4, 2014

    I had a friend who moved away in fourth grade.

    She's been gone for over three years now. She had to move to Singapore(we both lived In Alabama) because her dad got a job over there and we haven't talked since the last day of school in 4th grade. I never even got to become that close to her but if she ever comes back I want...
    dinosandlions dinosandlions
    13-15, F
    Aug 28, 2015

    I feel like I'm becoming less

    and less important to you each and everyday. You don't make an effort to talk to me anymore. Once I say "Hi", you would respond but that's it. You wouldn't try to initiate a conversation with me. Do you not realize how much it's killing me? I miss us.
    queenmallow queenmallow
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    He used to... but then he found a better friend

    to replace me. he always been there for me, nobody could ever replace him.. but im replaced, once again. it's like everytime we talked he always brought up the topic about his new friend, until we don't talk anymore. I'm used to get replaced tho. people replaced me with someone...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 2, 2015

    It is what it is.....

    .....................................unfortunately
    sisi19 sisi19
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2014

    What Happened

     i tried to talk to them but they dont try to make conversation its like did i do something to ofend you ? or is it that were just to diffrent. oh well im starting highschool in september which is a great place to make new friends.   
    babypanther babypanther
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Jul 28, 2009

    Most of my "friends" I haven't talked to in

    about a year... either that or I don't hear from them for a month or two at a time.
    saigebeck101 saigebeck101
    13-15, F
    Dec 1, 2015

    Rejection. I have big issues with real/or

    perceived rejection. I feel like my friends reject me and I feel like I've lost everything I've ever truly loved. I mean I have friends but they do not value their friendship with me as much as I do with them and its a painful thing to be in for me because me expectations and...
    NotYourAverageAsianGuy NotYourAverageAsianGuy
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jun 21, 2014

    So I was with my friend

    and other people and we were making a cake and I double dipped into the icing. She got really mad and I told that if you can suck **** (which she did do) then you can let me fvcking double dip. Everybody else in the room felt shocked, plus she was really embarrassed ; and ever...
    megantamba megantamba
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 13, 2015

    I really don't but that's okay!

    ! It's normally after high school you see who your true friends are, but it's during high school I'm seeing it's NO ONE! I have people I talk to, but no one I can actually talk to about my feelings or problems. Because they no longer care and all walked away. But guess what...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt
    18-21, F
    Nov 15, 2015

    Yup .. Its only matter of time .

    For all friends to end up like that
    NOBODY0122 NOBODY0122
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Sep 29, 2015

    I never thought it would happen with some

    friends but it has and it saddens me.
    bzylady bzylady
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Feb 18, 2015

    For the past 6 months

    or so ive felt myself drifting from people because they have started acting differently towards me. By this i mean mainly not texting or calling me an not inviting me to places or to do things. They also talk about making plans and doing things while iam present and...
    lythiumg lythiumg
    18-21, M
    Jun 21, 2014

    All My Friends Are A Big Pain To Me

    In my local language there is a say called "pathoda pathinonu" meaning it is just another thing. Similarly are my friends list. Till 2005 I was okay with few or no friends because I was able to manage pressure and I was a one of the top student in my college. But after that I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 8, 2013

    I have recently moved

    and I am attending a new school. I made two great friends who I trust very much.but as soon as summer came they started ignoring me.they don't answer any of my texts or calls.they snapchat pics of them hanging out but they never invite me,why won't they talk to me?why do they...
    reg212 reg212
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Aug 12, 2014

    All the friends I had always left me.

    I don't know what's wrong with me.
    MissDarkside MissDarkside
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    Friends

    in life your friend will come and go , cause as hurman we grow and learn are hobbys charge, we have new thing and we ourself do charge
    ravennite44 ravennite44
    46-50, T
    2 Responses Jul 27, 2009

    What Is The Definition Of A Friend?

    I looked up the definition that Wikipedia has and it says this: A person other than a family member, spouse or lover whose company one enjoys and towards whom one feels affection. What I find funny about this definition is that many people have so many different definitions and...
    dejin1 dejin1
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Apr 19, 2011

    When I was in Elementary,

    everything was sunshine and rainbows. Apart from my best friend moving away in fourth grade however. Come sixth grade, things get a bit rocky. My relationships with them started to deteriorate. A few of them quit talking to me and I must admit, I was heartbroken. This is when I...
    SirShivers SirShivers
    13-15, M
    Mar 8
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