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I Have Friends Who Do Not Talk to Me Anymore

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    All My Friends Are A Big Pain To Me

    In my local language there is a say called "pathoda pathinonu" meaning it is just another thing. Similarly are my friends list. Till 2005 I was okay with few or no friends because I was able to manage pressure and I was a one of the top student in my college. But after that I...
    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 8, 2013

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    A Bit Of Nostalgia

    A few days ago I spotted a letter to the editor written by an old friend of mine on a certain magazine. I can't be one hundred percent sure, but her last name is quite rare, and it was about a subject I know she has a lot to say about: Gay marriage. The language reminded me of...
    Fearofsilence Fearofsilence 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2012

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    Weird Friendship

    All my life I never had a best friend, I have had friends who are best friends of others. I trusted two friends and they both went off their own way. In college, I have this friend I knew go in with me. We were friends but then she made others and I got left alone. Sometimes she...
    SeeingSashax SeeingSashax 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2012

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    They made me understand what relationship is

    based on in reality and how important being independent is. I don't want to see it as all my fault anymore. I hate to dread myself from the moment I wake up and look at the mirror every day just as every other one hates me. Rather than thinking that my behavior/appearance...
    Ssslm Ssslm 26-30, F Apr 4, 2014

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    It Hurts

    He was my best friend. He meant the world to me, than he found this girl. She and I use to be my friends as well. But over time, things changed. His calls were less and less, and his visits were non-existant. I completely lost him and her as friends.... The only time he contacts...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 2, 2012

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    Homophobia!

     And others things about me> When i was growing up, my family had money and we were able to go to nice 4 and 5 stars resort at least 3 times a year. So i met this girl and we became best friends [BFF]. She was always there for the ride! everywhere we went she came along...
    andreinac13 andreinac13 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2008

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    I have recently moved

    and I am attending a new school. I made two great friends who I trust very much.but as soon as summer came they started ignoring me.they don't answer any of my texts or calls.they snapchat pics of them hanging out but they never invite me,why won't they talk to me?why do they...
    reg212 reg212 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Yep and they're mostly from my previous forum.

    Funny cause I used to think they're better than my friends who can actually see me in person. They understand me, at least I think they did. And we mostly just got along. They're a bunch of fun people -- behind the avatars -- but in reality, they're mostly shy and quiet human...
    kixisback kixisback 22-25 1 Response Apr 6, 2014

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    I never thought it would happen with some

    friends but it has and it saddens me.
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 7 Responses Feb 18

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    Because I Cut the Ties First

    I had a small group of friends in highschool that I was very close too. We hung out at church, movies, etc.  Two years after being introduced of one of my friends' cousin, he (the cousin) asked me out. Immediately, my friend, who through who I had met my now...
    lardyboys lardyboys 22-25, F Mar 23, 2009

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    Trying To Ask A Female Friend If I Could Sit Down With Them.

    I'm Jonah and I live in Weslaco,Texas. I go to weslaco high school. Beside I hope y'all read this carefully and responsively. Okay during lunch period I asked my female friend if I could sit down with her. She said "um it not up to me, it up to my friend". I asked her "who your...
    jadyer2014 jadyer2014 18-21, M Aug 30, 2013

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    Rejection. I have big issues with real/or

    perceived rejection. I feel like my friends reject me and I feel like I've lost everything I've ever truly loved. I mean I have friends but they do not value their friendship with me as much as I do with them and its a painful thing to be in for me because me expectations and...
    NotYourAverageAsianGuy NotYourAverageAsianGuy 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 21, 2014

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    If Only I Could Turn Back Time

    I am grown up now- I would listen-I would give more-I would know what I was looking for- I would know who to be, how to live up to your expectations-I would have chosen my friends wisely-I would have taken the time to figure myself ou-I would have stopped to look and listenand...
    boredbylife boredbylife 26-30, F Jan 7, 2011

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    I Have This Friend

    We met back in grade 4 and have been close ever since, she was a sister to me. We shared secrets and had many sleepovers. Than along came high school, for the first few months I seen less and less of her, than suddenly she was back. I couldn't have been happier to have my sister...
    JarredRay JarredRay 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2013

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    Her Name Was Jade.

    Her name was Jade and from April 2006 till January 2010 she was my best friend or so I thought, it all started to go wrong when I turned 15, up until then it was great, she was supportive and really nice and we did everything together. I always really struggled at home because of...
    elpatitofeo elpatitofeo 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 15, 2011

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    Because My Medical Problems

    when i was able to help move all the stuff they couldn`t and had plenty of money,oh yeah you couldn`t beat them away.now that i`m more less crippled i never see them.the last time i saw one of them was 3 years ago.AND IT IS THER LOSS.i am glad.i don`t like pepole that are that...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 4 Responses Mar 19, 2009

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    What Happened

    I don't know what happened to our friendship. They were like my family and now we don't even talk. It hurts because we were all so close and now its like we never even met. I know things have to change but shouldn't have to lose friends because of it.
    Darkfarey Darkfarey 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 21, 2009

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    To be socially accepted you have to look the

    part, walk the walk or have a large enough group who have similarities. But what if someone doesn't have things in common with anyone else? What if someone has matured or is just different to everyone else in general. What if? You do not just not fit in, it is not a moral...
    MaraIsNotKawaii MaraIsNotKawaii 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    What Is The Definition Of A Friend?

    I looked up the definition that Wikipedia has and it says this: A person other than a family member, spouse or lover whose company one enjoys and towards whom one feels affection. What I find funny about this definition is that many people have so many different definitions and...
    dejin1 dejin1 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    Pretty Much All Of Them

    pretty much all the people i still talk to are more like acquaintences. every time i get a really good friend they seem to move away or something. i think this is why i have trouble letting people get close to me. its probably why i dont ever initiate anything with people.
    EdgeCrusher EdgeCrusher 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 28, 2011

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    Don't Know Why

    Wow! This experience has happened to me so much it's incredible. I had friends from my old school and when I changed schools we basically talked for a few months after and then just stopped. Now, I haven't seen them in two years. I was never mean to them, I tried to stay in touch...
    rubyrougexoxo rubyrougexoxo 18-21, F Jan 8, 2011

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    Friends

    I have alot of friends from my past that do not talk to me anymore, weather its the things ive been through, or the troubles i was facing on my own, or just because they didnt want to be my friend...i really dont know and dont care anymore i can always make new friends...and i...
    MissUnperfect MissUnperfect 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 18, 2011

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    I Lied For Him. He Lied About Me.

    I lied to my best friend in the world, Saf, to save one of my other friend's reputation with her. We, the other friend and I, kissed after he told me he liked me, but my best friend liked him a lot, so I asked another friend what she thought i should do (keep it to myself or...
    lovessmiles lovessmiles 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2012

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    And I Don'T Know Why

    Many people have dropped out of my life without a word of explanation. It would be so nice to know what I have done wrong so I can stop doing it. Or maybe it's not me it's them? It has left me not wanting to make new friends because I know from experience that I can spend years...
    iamherenow13 iamherenow13 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2013

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    Friends

    in life your friend will come and go , cause as hurman we grow and learn are hobbys charge, we have new thing and we ourself do charge
    ravennite44 ravennite44 46-50, T 2 Responses Jul 27, 2009

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    It is what it is.....

    .....................................unfortunately
    sisi19 sisi19 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    They Were Like My Family!!

    I had what I thought was a BFF. Which turned outto be not true. We we friends for 10 years and did everything together. Her mom treated me like the mother that I never had. We spent alll of the holidays together, When are children were born they also became friends. Then she got...
    tashantodd1 tashantodd1 22-25 2 Responses Mar 10, 2012

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    It's Been A While....

    Ever since we fought, I realized that I caused a lot of trouble for you. It all happened suddenly, from best friends to strangers again. Many times I wanted to reach you and tell you that I miss you so much, but there was no reply from you. I kept on waiting for a single message...
    nightarchangel nightarchangel 22-25, F Oct 25, 2011

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    I Went To Rehab...

    and i left, after 3 months. i'm restless, bored, irritated, depressed, alone.
    ShawnaDawn ShawnaDawn 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2010

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    She Never Gave Me A Chance To Speak

    I lied to public safety and took the blame for everything. The professor denied knowing who i was or my friend because she knew what she had done was wrong. According to public safety, they were gonna arrest me and my friend. So i panicked! I took the blame and said i was behind...
    khushali11 khushali11 26-30, F Aug 1, 2012

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    Was It Something I Said?

    Or was it something I DIDN'T say?
    cyberkitty cyberkitty 18-21 2 Responses Oct 15, 2008

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    Maybe she will talk to me again,

    and maybe she wont. Im okay with it... I deserve it...
    nate2045 nate2045 18-21, T Apr 3, 2014

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    PLEASE Read

    DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME ON PEOPLE WHO DO NOT APPRECIATE YOUR WORTH!
    retiredfather retiredfather 61-65, M 7 Responses Jul 27, 2009

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    I Am So Alone...please Help Me.

    About a year ago, the friends group i was in just wasn't right for me. I just didn't fit in, and sometimes they were really rude to me. And on top of that, having the group of socially awkward friends I had meant no parties, no new friends, and never having fun, so i left. I...
    Claireinok Claireinok 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    Faded Friendships.

    I had a few things in high school that I hung around with. When I left some I never spoke to again and some I saw very occationally but we never really spoke. Now I don't really speak to most of them anymore. If I saw them in the street I'd probably say hi but nothing more. The...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 14, 2011

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    What Happened

     i tried to talk to them but they dont try to make conversation its like did i do something to ofend you ? or is it that were just to diffrent. oh well im starting highschool in september which is a great place to make new friends.   
    babypanther babypanther 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    toots01 toots01 56-60, F Jan 12, 2014

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    Well, This Is How It Is...

     Growing up I ws in this super strict church and homeschooled etc, so I only was in contact with a few people who were my friends, but then as a young adult I joined a religious cult and lost all my previous friends. I made new friends in the cult tho.    ...
    Gelfwings Gelfwings 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2008

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    I feel like I'm becoming less

    and less important to you each and everyday. You don't make an effort to talk to me anymore. Once I say "Hi", you would respond but that's it. You wouldn't try to initiate a conversation with me. Do you not realize how much it's killing me? I miss us.
    queenmallow queenmallow 13-15, F Mar 1

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    It Saddens Me

    I hate to say this because its not that I pushed them away, I just have a lot of issues and family and they are a handful all the time, I don't have time to socialize and I'm lonely and depressed over it
    shannisparty shannisparty 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 13, 2012

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    Why My Friends Hate Me

    Im a senior in high school. I had two friends who I was pretty close too. One I had met since Freshmen year (lets call her Marie) and another who i met during sophomore year. Lets say her name is Olivia. Marie, Olivia, I were all really excited to finally be seniors and to be...
    ForeverAlone95 ForeverAlone95 18-21 1 Response May 12, 2013

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    This girl was my best friend from sixth grade

    to sophomore year of high school. I moved my junior year and she never even bothered to call, write, text. I was so confused and asking myself what I ever did wrong. One day I asked her. She said she was always so busy and never had time for anything- which I found through her...
    karijune karijune 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 4, 2014

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    My supposed to be best friend turned her back

    on me twice. Once after high school and now. She had a controlling bf who told her not to associate with me. I kept trying to get in contact with her for years. Then one day out of the bleu she texts me and I forgave her and we were friends again. I had a controlling...
    DeeDoubleYoux DeeDoubleYoux 22-25, F Apr 4

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    I guess it's my fault.

    I moved around a lot as a kid and found it difficult to make friends, especially being a socially awkward ISTJ. I was never the popular "New Kid" or anything. By the time I'd moved to my final high school, I'd learned to create a more extroverted and "bubbly...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F Mar 23, 2014

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    It's Funny

    We used to be closer than family- spent holidays together and everything. Now we barely talk. It sucks. Why can't people stick together anymore?
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 7, 2011

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    And This Is My Effort To Make New Ones.

    I have friends from the real world, but for some strange reason... They evaporated from my life. And honestly, I don't understand. I make my efforts of communication, I dilute my schedule, apologize for any mistakes I've made, all the while giving them their space. But what the...
    JeuneCirque JeuneCirque 18-21, F Jun 6, 2013

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