I Have 'friends' Who Don't Know The 'real' Me

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    Friends, Family, Even Myself At Times

    I think it's a facade' exactly.I'm not being fake. I think it's just a different part of the same person. I tend to act differently around different people. I know I'm not the only person who does. Some people say I'm really outgoing (too much in fact) some say I'm kind of shy...
    wack1985 wack1985
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2010


    "you look at me and see the girl, who lives inside the golden world. but don't believe that's all there is to see. you'll never know the real me..." bf.
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi
    31-35, F
    Mar 20, 2010


    They don't know how insecure and sad i feel sometimes......bf.
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2010

    I'm pretty sure strangers know more about the

    real me than half of my friends
    Nyx5 Nyx5
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 9, 2015

    I feel like they don't know me.

    Like a girl that i introduce to my group of friends and now she doesn't even talk to me,just when she needs something.I always been nice to the people but it seems that they are not even aware of that.I do something wrong and they remember just that.A friend of mine,who is really...
    loveandmorelove loveandmorelove
    16-17, F
    Jun 11, 2015

    Outside of EP, no one knows the "real me,

    " and since I want it to stay that way, even my friends here don't get details or even know what I look like. It sounds depressing and it really is that way a lot of the time. On the other hand, it makes my EP friends really special.
    mickitg mickitg
    46-50, T
    Aug 13, 2015

    no one knows me 100% I would love to trust

    others enough to share myself but I just can't.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 19, 2014

    I used to have this one friend

    that was nice in grade 4 and 5. Then he changed he was a complete and udder douchebag just to fit in with his new friend. I felt useless and cheap. All he wanted was credit, it was like those two years together didn't mean anything. And soon enough he made fun of me and my name...
    FarrelTaylor FarrelTaylor
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Jul 4, 2015

    Yes I have a lot of such friends

    who don't know the real me. I don't share the real me with everyone as people don't take it very well. I don't talk about myself to a person unless I know they will accept me as I am.
    littlestars littlestars
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 9, 2015

    i am a *****.....my friends luv me a lot.

    ... am not trying to understand them or being funny with them.....Am so afraid that if I lose my friendship bcoz of my own faults.... bcoz they actually tease me by just fooling me abt the things I believe easily....the thing is that...Now am not able to figure out which one is...
    polu26 polu26
    18-21, F
    Dec 19, 2014

    You Don't Know The Real Me...

    I have friends who don't know the "real" me, they don't see the "real" me, because I choose not to show it, I don't let people see the "real" me, because i know once i do, that is going to leave me opened up to get hurt all over again. I'm not going to open myself up to that hurt...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 30, 2010

    None of my friends in school knew the real me.

    None. They knew a tiny bit of my personality: shy and quiet. Antisocial. I never talked about my depression and they never really asked. They never knew I was hospitalized in a mental hospital for 2 weeks when I was 17 and they didn't know I was in a similar home 9 or 10 months...
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2015
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    Only a few know what kind of a person I truly

    am. Rest of them are the people I socialise with.
    Tawheed1994 Tawheed1994
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 20, 2014

    It's hard for me to show the real me around

    everyone except certain people. I know I hide behind a '***** facade' so that I won't be judged but I'm getting tired of it, I wish we didn't live in a world so judgmental.
    Living2Heights Living2Heights
    18-21, F
    Dec 18, 2014

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