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I Have Friends Who Don't Understand

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    most of the time I'm glad they don't understand.

    I wouldn't put my worst enemy through a meth addiction- but it is impossible to understand what you've never experienced. so why do they try to tell me it's easy? my friends have noticed and acknowledged how much I've changed since I started using two years ago. you would think...
    addictionbarbie addictionbarbie 18-21, F Jan 9

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    Friends Who Don't Understand Military Relationships

    This is for those people who are in a relationship with someone in the military, and is friends with people who just don't understand. They don't know how it feels to have that special person gone for long periods of time, not being able to communicate for days, weeks, or even...
    itsamby itsamby 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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