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I Have Friends Whom Others Condemn

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    Both here and in real life I have friends that others do not like, or that others avoid because of certain fetishes and/or their personalities.  I am a friend to the friendless, family to the family-less (ok I made up a word), and counselor to anyone who asks for my...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    And

    It saddens myself and all of the host of heaven.
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    It Is Not My Job to Judge.

    I not only have friends whom others condemn, I am very likely condemned myself.  If I like you, I like you.  I do NOT care what other people think or say about me.  I do not judge people on the things they have done or the friends they have. It is not my job! ...
    Reality4Me Reality4Me 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    Hannah

    Hannah is my friend. Sure she's kinda odd, but then aren't we all? No one really likes her. She's just too weird in their eyes. But she isn't weird. She just has some family issues that make her that way. I'm the only one who is her real friend. She deserves it. She's loyal...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F Jun 16, 2013

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    Beauty and the Beasts

    If you read my story, "The Fickle Ego", you get a glimpse into my personal self-image.  I find myself to be awkward, socially and politically incorrect, and often times looked down upon by average people.  Because of this (or perhaps it is the effect and not...
    Cade Cade 18-21 1 Response Feb 4, 2009

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    My Friend....

    It is easier to get around you Friends that everyone loves. Than being really friends with someone The whole people simply despise. Thus is life, everyone likes to see Surround yourself with people similar to ourselves This reassuring, it seems in the order of things And...
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Condemnation Masquerading As Honesty

    All my friends either are currently or have in the past condeming each other for one reason or another. Myself included. I'm currently condeming my most recent best friend for the shity things he says because of the "opinionated" (lol honest) things I say. He is now condeming...
    capriciousness capriciousness 26-30, F May 18, 2010

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    Your Not Special Because You Have Friends Who Others Condemned

    every on accepts those who have failed in life the drinkers, those who do dope, prostitutes, sex affenders, killers, those who abandon thier families , all them are accepted and are not judged in fact they have all the friends in the world and they get food given to them money...
    cutie2christy cutie2christy 36-40, F Jan 5, 2012

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    And Always Will

    I will never allow society and its messed-up viewpoints to dictate who I will love and share my friendship with. I will treat everyone equally, and to hell with what society thinks of my friends.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 3, 2009

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    On top of school, work, and some breather room for myself, as well as a roof over my head, money for clothes and food to eat, it'd be nice to have friends to share my day with...
    tempe100 tempe100 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hehehehehe, I have 4 right now! One is super close and treats me like a girlfriend for all intents and purposes. He knows about the others, and is fine. We just don't talk about...
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    So I hooked up with a guy I met at a Korean spa. We texted about what we were looking for. We both said friends with benefits. We got together and it was good. Yesterday i took a...
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 1 Response Aug 18

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    Working on being friends. I grew up lonely and bullied. Recently I have some new FWB. I really enjoy the benefits but I want to work on the friends part and learn to be a good...
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 Aug 19

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    I have had many women I have dated and especially two that became friends with benefits. I was more serious on my end with these two and was contemplating initiating the "L" &"M...
    xmannos xmannos 36-40, M Aug 29

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    I have had the same fwb for two years now. We grew up together, our mothers were bestfriends, now we see each other every time we both come in from college. I love what we are, but...
    smalltowngirl12 smalltowngirl12 18-21, F Sep 1

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    Another experience i have had was fingering a girl in a movie theatre! It was so much fun!
    smallguy18 smallguy18 16-17, M Sep 3

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    Went out with Pete (My FWB) and his two roommates. grabbed pizza. Ryan commented on my nail polish again.
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 Aug 20

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    We were really close a while back but now it seems like we're just drifting away. Well. It seems like I'm drifting away from them. I hate being alone so knowing this makes me...
    musicislifeandlove musicislifeandlove 13-15, F Aug 23

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    For all of you fighting this, I'm one of you, I write a blog, on how I fight my everyday life.. How I cope with being a full time student and at the same time fighting depression...
    Lily449 Lily449 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Okay, I haven’t written much lately but I have to air my views about how I see our headlines in the world these days. I sometimes feel we are in the end times of humanity. Every...
    HikingGuy HikingGuy 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 21

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    The first thing you should know about me is that I am an outsider. Yes, I have friends. Yes, we hang out. Once a month. That's about it. Those are my friends. That's my social life...
    hunniebunney hunniebunney 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    I have friends online, but no friends in person. I lost them all. I dunno what happened ): I miss my friends ):
    NegativePulse NegativePulse 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I had this group of friends whom i was very close to. One day i had an argument with one of them over something very stupid. And we stopped talking. Over a couple of weeks i...
    AreebaHussain AreebaHussain 13-15, F Aug 19

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    I just stumbled across this site, and think it's an absolutely wonderful idea. I have spent much of my time wondering if there are any individuals in the world that think similarly...
    jd6742 jd6742 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I used to be the person who can turn the tables around, to be the sun in the party, and to turn anyone into a friend. I used to enjoy everything "extrovert" but one day I don't...
    anon152 anon152 13-15, F Sep 6

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    Allot of people seem to know me and like me .small talk when I see them outside in malls or just near or sit together in class but most people always just say hi with little chat...
    moko212 moko212 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    Dear ----, I am writing to express my confused feelings about our relationship. I know we have gone through a lot in the past two years and we have both felt like there was no...
    ILoveYouVeryMuch ILoveYouVeryMuch 18-21, F Aug 18

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    The truth is that I actually wear my glasses to get through my life everyday. But maybe it was a mistake when I changed my profile picture on Facebook with a picture of myself when...
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    Wtf? what is happening? this loneliness feeling is cracking my soul like a cracking hammer. :( i like to have friends here and find a person to be my best friend. :(
    Martin7470 Martin7470 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I've always thought I'm different, cause I don't usually do what other people do or just simply by the way I'm, I have friends but they see me like if i was from another world.
    Blackwolf1604 Blackwolf1604 13-15, M 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    I joined ep because I felt alone and upset even if I did have friends but eveythings so much better now and I don't feel like that anymore so I'm just on here to help others so if...
    xhumairax xhumairax 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Well it is a difficult proposition.So many factors are responsible to achieve happiness,To get happiness we must be content with what we have.To make others happy ,that person must...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F Aug 21

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    I've lived by this my whole live (close friends over many acquaintances), but I'm starting to wonder if I'd be happier with many fake friends? I mean, don't they seem happier? I've...
    Tory102 Tory102 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    There were some people I met in my life that if I knew now, I'd love to be around. I'm a different person. I want to engage. I wish I had maintained relationships with certain...
    shameinnoshame shameinnoshame 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I have friends, but I want new friends! Friends who are up for anything, but still be responsible at the same time I want friends who like experiencing new stuff. Not friends who...
    emilytello emilytello 16-17, F 10 Responses Aug 25

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    I'm so so so blessed. Like I never thought that I would be so lucky to have the people that I have. I have never had any good friends. I did think I had a best friend but when she...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I want to make new friends online. I have friends in my real life, but I know their stories, where they came from, and have learned all about them. I want to make new friends that...
    nursingstudentxo nursingstudentxo 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 18

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    When I was younger, friends took advantage of things I had. Wether it was my snacks, or my intelligence. Now, I have friends, but... I don't feel that we are close. That I can tell...
    DashedStars DashedStars 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I just want to make friends I don't want girlfriend or boyfriend I'm good single and I love my all friends they're so cool it cool to have friends :* if your good be my friend
    hmkspain hmkspain 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I want to make friends but I am very shy I used to have friends but now they don't even talk to me any of them
    anestacia anestacia 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 30

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    I live 2 hours from any of my friends and I am a complete hermit. I don't even know HOW to have friends lately. I'm married with dogs. I am afraid of the phone. I'm socially...
    rainallthedays rainallthedays 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 4

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    Finding good friends is extremely hard! Sure, I have "friends" and people I know I can rely on and I am forever grateful to them. I just wish I could have more and hopefully make...
    Mang0Tree Mang0Tree 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I dont really have that many friends. When I do have friends its mostly girls. I would like more straight or gay friends my age or near it.
    GARLITH GARLITH 18-21, M Sep 5

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    I just wanna have friends here in EP. Just A good friend but not to entertain pervert people no offense meant please. I like many friends, the more the merrier. lol I hope I...
    smjuap21 smjuap21 22-25, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    I can't believe that as I get older I can't have friends. Friends are very important for me, they help me grow and made my serious life bearable.
    nonichecliche nonichecliche 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    At the moment, I don't have any at all. It's strange, because I have friends. And we hangout daily, since we are all college students. But it just isn't as deep as I would like it...
    Truthseeker18 Truthseeker18 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    don't get me wrong, i do have friends, but i just want someone knew to talk to, someone who doesn't mind staying up all night talking about anything, someone who i can tell...
    samosborne12 samosborne12 18-21, M 6 Responses Aug 21

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    Shall I warn people that I'll be spamming this experience group during all of my waking hours today? I shall. Maybe it would be a good idea to just group my "random thoughts...
    Friability Friability 18-21 1 Response Aug 21