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I Have Friends Whom Others Condemn

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    Your Not Special Because You Have Friends Who Others Condemned

    every on accepts those who have failed in life the drinkers, those who do dope, prostitutes, sex affenders, killers, those who abandon thier families , all them are accepted and are not judged in fact they have all the friends in the world and they get food given to them money...
    cutie2christy cutie2christy 36-40, F Jan 5, 2012

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    And

    It saddens myself and all of the host of heaven.
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Beauty and the Beasts

    If you read my story, "The Fickle Ego", you get a glimpse into my personal self-image.  I find myself to be awkward, socially and politically incorrect, and often times looked down upon by average people.  Because of this (or perhaps it is the effect and not...
    Cade Cade 18-21 1 Response Feb 4, 2009

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    Hannah

    Hannah is my friend. Sure she's kinda odd, but then aren't we all? No one really likes her. She's just too weird in their eyes. But she isn't weird. She just has some family issues that make her that way. I'm the only one who is her real friend. She deserves it. She's loyal...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F Jun 16, 2013

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    Condemnation Masquerading As Honesty

    All my friends either are currently or have in the past condeming each other for one reason or another. Myself included. I'm currently condeming my most recent best friend for the shity things he says because of the "opinionated" (lol honest) things I say. He is now condeming...
    capriciousness capriciousness 26-30, F May 18, 2010

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    My Friend....

    It is easier to get around you Friends that everyone loves. Than being really friends with someone The whole people simply despise. Thus is life, everyone likes to see Surround yourself with people similar to ourselves This reassuring, it seems in the order of things And...
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    And Always Will

    I will never allow society and its messed-up viewpoints to dictate who I will love and share my friendship with. I will treat everyone equally, and to hell with what society thinks of my friends.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 3, 2009

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    It Is Not My Job to Judge.

    I not only have friends whom others condemn, I am very likely condemned myself.  If I like you, I like you.  I do NOT care what other people think or say about me.  I do not judge people on the things they have done or the friends they have. It is not my job! ...
    Reality4Me Reality4Me 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    All That Matters

    Both here and in real life I have friends that others do not like, or that others avoid because of certain fetishes and/or their personalities.  I am a friend to the friendless, family to the family-less (ok I made up a word), and counselor to anyone who asks for my...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    Just watching, 3rd Rock From The Sun "So this is why we have friends, so we can hit them."
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 14

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    To be socially accepted you have to look the part, walk the walk or have a large enough group who have similarities. But what if someone doesn't have things in common with anyone...
    MaraIsNotKawaii MaraIsNotKawaii 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    Just excited about my new friends rowan james jacob because ive never really had good friends and one has been my best friend for nine years
    straylii straylii 13-15, F Sep 22

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    They all live in their college dorms, always hanging with their college friends and the friends I got online never here. I guess this is what you'd call being lonely right?
    TheSpookyPotato TheSpookyPotato 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    My sister had cancer when I was younger, Got diagnosed with being one of those people with a poor immune system(couldnt go out side, could be touched) There is a thing call camp...
    LLAMAAAA LLAMAAAA 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    So I’ve been in this weird friends with benefits relationship with a guy. Over time I secretly developed feelings for him and we’ve been texting each other excessively...
    Maude01 Maude01 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 14

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    We laugh everyday, just like the typical group of friends. But as soon as they're all gone within my eyesight, I go back to feeling numb again. What's wrong with me?
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    I've slowly been realising that even some of my closest friends have a very wrong idea of who I am? Like they can tell you certain things about me - I battled an eating disorder...
    LiaDawn LiaDawn 13-15, F Oct 14

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    I have a serious question, my friend with benefits is tired of having sex with me but I enjoy the sex what should I do to make it better? or keep him around.
    roseflower8 roseflower8 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 25

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    Noone ever needed me in my life. I was allways pleasing others. I was the first who called, pressured, asked others to go out with me, to visit me. Im realizing the hard true that...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    I have been lucky to have met people whom I consider family. One of my closest friends whom I have known from the credential program has become one of the few people who I consider...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F Sep 24

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    i don't know.. i have these twisted feelings about everything.. confusion on what is wrong based on what i know and what i feel tomorrow is the day that my mother gave birth to me...
    shenghuidai shenghuidai 26-30, F Sep 23

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    I am close friends with a whole bunch of people they are all different to me and all have different problems going on in their life that I haven't gone through. Two of my close...
    ScarM3 ScarM3 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    I have a few personal friends that I introduced to EP, one is a friend that works in a store close to mine and another is a couple that are great friends of my wife's and mine...
    IZZYNUDIST IZZYNUDIST 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 7

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    Yep! I have some great friends, whom I met on internet and then in person. They are a few, but my dogs. Haha
    LittleCreates LittleCreates 22-25, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    This is where I will unleash my anger again. Okay happy people who'd found love and told me "You'll find it too! Someone would accept you for who you are." I just want to say you...
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    I am in my early 20's, recently graduated college and I am friendless. Unfortunately, this isn't something that just dawned on me now.. I have realized this for a while ...5 years...
    Mela22 Mela22 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have 2 best friends. I am glad that they're my best friends because they are awesome,funny,amazing, they give really good advice lol. I'm also glad they're my best friends...
    Zay15 Zay15 13-15, F Sep 27

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    I get asked if I have friends quite a lot. One of my teachers, who I think just feels bad for me, asked me if I had any friends. She was concerned for me and wanted me to join FBLA...
    laurynnm43 laurynnm43 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    Hello! I moved to another place, for work, job, possible advancing, but it does nto seem I was accepted and one of local authorities told me humiliating that "I had no friends...
    DogBlog1 DogBlog1 41-45, F Sep 30

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    It sucks that I'm so shy but wanna make more friends. It's not that I don't have friends, it's just I want friends who I see on a more regular basis. With a similar schedule to...
    sayhellomelissa sayhellomelissa 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 10

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    I'm basically just looking for new friends to talk too. Yea I have a ton of friends on Facebook but I rarely talk to them and since I am a homebody type person I dont have friends...
    emelinda78 emelinda78 36-40, F a week ago

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    I think a lot of it has to go with the fact that society brainwashes people to think two people cannot be friends if they are opposite genders. 1. Clearly doesn't recognize the...
    TheComplication TheComplication 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    I have friends but it hurts me every day inside seeing people and their friendships. I've not connected with another human being on the level of other people. They usually think I...
    MysteriousBadWolf MysteriousBadWolf 13-15, F Sep 22

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    This is going to sound pretty sad but I honestly feel like I don't have any friends lmao well I have friends but I feel like they don't understand me. That sounds like such an...
    nubbking nubbking 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 24

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    I know I have friends but friends are so important. If I could just talk to someone and that would make their day better or make them feel special that would be close enough for me...
    Plungeintoadream Plungeintoadream 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 27

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    i literally don't even have people i can call friends. even over the internet i don't have friends. i'm pretty much just a shut in.
    cujo2020 cujo2020 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 30

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    I would consider myself fairly introverted. I am friendly and enjoy spending time with likeminded people, but I find it hard to open up to new people in unfamiliar situations...
    rosha77 rosha77 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 4

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    All my friends live far away from me, and I've pretty much forgotten what it's like to have friends to talk to.
    TimT76 TimT76 36-40, M Oct 7

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    I love making new friends. It's just that ever time someone messages me, all they want to do is talk about sex!! Haven't they seen my experiences?! I'm taken and I have a daughter...
    wish4love wish4love 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 8

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    I have friends in real life, but most of them don't understand my orientation. I just wish I would have some non Acephobic or transphobic friends irl or online.
    Makalaster Makalaster 18-21, T Oct 9

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    I have written about my dad and my step mother on here, and now I feel like I should start writing about my mother. The ***** that caused all my problems. She was 17 when I was...
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F Oct 11

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    Today as I realized that many of my classmates on campus go on many activities together. I am never invited. Not even once. I often find them going to music festivals and other...
    thekingspearl thekingspearl 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    Why is it so so hard to find faithful people to have as friends? These days it's so hard to come across loyal people.. As a child it seemed so easy to have friends and trust them...
    marilynnrox marilynnrox 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 11

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    As a sensitive, creative, artistic and brilliant child all I wanted was for my mother to love me. My mothers response to me when she first saw me as a baby was that I was "ugly and...
    lutqueet lutqueet 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    One of my grandmother's, my mom's mom, drives me crazy sometimes. She likes to think of herself as open-minded and worldly, but she isn't. Just because you have friends on the...
    rycbar10 rycbar10 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    I grew up being rejected, I had to get used to it when I was little. For years I was the only kid in the entire grade who was an only child and I was the only kid for years who had...
    Blackbirdy13 Blackbirdy13 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I have friends.. But I constantly feels that I'm not important to them.. It's like i have to be someone I'm not in order to fit in. I have to impress them or do something crazy to...
    NynnaDavis NynnaDavis 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Right now i have 0 friends in general cause in this world, you have to be confident, rich, handsome and smart to have friends! No one wants fat, dumb, ugly, lazy friend! I always...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 2 Responses 4 days ago