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I Have Friends Whom Others Condemn

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    Beauty and the Beasts

    If you read my story, "The Fickle Ego", you get a glimpse into my personal self-image.  I find myself to be awkward, socially and politically incorrect, and often times looked down upon by average people.  Because of this (or perhaps it is the effect and not...
    Cade Cade 18-21 1 Response Feb 4, 2009

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    Your Not Special Because You Have Friends Who Others Condemned

    every on accepts those who have failed in life the drinkers, those who do dope, prostitutes, sex affenders, killers, those who abandon thier families , all them are accepted and are not judged in fact they have all the friends in the world and they get food given to them money...
    cutie2christy cutie2christy 36-40, F Jan 5, 2012

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    And

    It saddens myself and all of the host of heaven.
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    All That Matters

    Both here and in real life I have friends that others do not like, or that others avoid because of certain fetishes and/or their personalities.  I am a friend to the friendless, family to the family-less (ok I made up a word), and counselor to anyone who asks for my...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    And Always Will

    I will never allow society and its messed-up viewpoints to dictate who I will love and share my friendship with. I will treat everyone equally, and to hell with what society thinks of my friends.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 3, 2009

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    It Is Not My Job to Judge.

    I not only have friends whom others condemn, I am very likely condemned myself.  If I like you, I like you.  I do NOT care what other people think or say about me.  I do not judge people on the things they have done or the friends they have. It is not my job! ...
    Reality4Me Reality4Me 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    Condemnation Masquerading As Honesty

    All my friends either are currently or have in the past condeming each other for one reason or another. Myself included. I'm currently condeming my most recent best friend for the shity things he says because of the "opinionated" (lol honest) things I say. He is now condeming...
    capriciousness capriciousness 26-30, F May 18, 2010

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    My Friend....

    It is easier to get around you Friends that everyone loves. Than being really friends with someone The whole people simply despise. Thus is life, everyone likes to see Surround yourself with people similar to ourselves This reassuring, it seems in the order of things And...
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Hannah

    Hannah is my friend. Sure she's kinda odd, but then aren't we all? No one really likes her. She's just too weird in their eyes. But she isn't weird. She just has some family issues that make her that way. I'm the only one who is her real friend. She deserves it. She's loyal...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F Jun 16, 2013

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    To be socially accepted you have to look the part, walk the walk or have a large enough group who have similarities. But what if someone doesn't have things in common with anyone...
    MaraIsNotKawaii MaraIsNotKawaii 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Friends. Those companions you speak of are only friends during those fun, yet unimportant times. When painful times come, they won’t be your ally.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F Sep 19

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    Just excited about my new friends rowan james jacob because ive never really had good friends and one has been my best friend for nine years
    straylii straylii 13-15, F a week ago

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    They all live in their college dorms, always hanging with their college friends and the friends I got online never here. I guess this is what you'd call being lonely right?
    Riukkuyo Riukkuyo 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have had the same fwb for two years now. We grew up together, our mothers were bestfriends, now we see each other every time we both come in from college. I love what we are, but...
    smalltowngirl12 smalltowngirl12 18-21, F Sep 1

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    We laugh everyday, just like the typical group of friends. But as soon as they're all gone within my eyesight, I go back to feeling numb again. What's wrong with me?
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Another experience i have had was fingering a girl in a movie theatre! It was so much fun!
    smallguy18 smallguy18 18-21, M Sep 3

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    I have a serious question, my friend with benefits is tired of having sex with me but I enjoy the sex what should I do to make it better? or keep him around.
    roseflower8 roseflower8 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    For all of you fighting this, I'm one of you, I write a blog, on how I fight my everyday life.. How I cope with being a full time student and at the same time fighting depression...
    Lily449 Lily449 18-21, F Sep 12

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    I have been lucky to have met people whom I consider family. One of my closest friends whom I have known from the credential program has become one of the few people who I consider...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    i don't know.. i have these twisted feelings about everything.. confusion on what is wrong based on what i know and what i feel tomorrow is the day that my mother gave birth to me...
    shenghuidai shenghuidai 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I am close friends with a whole bunch of people they are all different to me and all have different problems going on in their life that I haven't gone through. Two of my close...
    ScarM3 ScarM3 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Allot of people seem to know me and like me .small talk when I see them outside in malls or just near or sit together in class but most people always just say hi with little chat...
    moko212 moko212 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    The truth is that I actually wear my glasses to get through my life everyday. But maybe it was a mistake when I changed my profile picture on Facebook with a picture of myself when...
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    I have God, Jesus, and my angel. I have everything because I have them. I do not need a family or home or friends like others have, because they are my family, my home, and my...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Sep 18

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    I've always thought I'm different, cause I don't usually do what other people do or just simply by the way I'm, I have friends but they see me like if i was from another world.
    Blackwolf1604 Blackwolf1604 13-15, M 10 Responses Sep 15

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    I joined ep because I felt alone and upset even if I did have friends but eveythings so much better now and I don't feel like that anymore so I'm just on here to help others so if...
    xhumairax xhumairax 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    I've lived by this my whole live (close friends over many acquaintances), but I'm starting to wonder if I'd be happier with many fake friends? I mean, don't they seem happier? I've...
    Tory102 Tory102 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    The first thing you should know about me is that I am an outsider. Yes, I have friends. Yes, we hang out. Once a month. That's about it. Those are my friends. That's my social life...
    hunniebunney hunniebunney 18-21, F Sep 18

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    I'm so so so blessed. Like I never thought that I would be so lucky to have the people that I have. I have never had any good friends. I did think I had a best friend but when she...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I have friends online, but no friends in person. I lost them all. I dunno what happened ): I miss my friends ):
    HisDaysAreNumbered HisDaysAreNumbered 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 18

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    The other day in spanish I just suddenly started crying. It was when everyone had left and I was the only one left in the classroom. My teacher got me to sit down and talk to her...
    hermione118 hermione118 13-15, F 7 Responses Sep 19

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    I have 2 best friends. I am glad that they're my best friends because they are awesome,funny,amazing, they give really good advice lol. I'm also glad they're my best friends...
    Zay15 Zay15 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I get asked if I have friends quite a lot. One of my teachers, who I think just feels bad for me, asked me if I had any friends. She was concerned for me and wanted me to join FBLA...
    laurynnm43 laurynnm43 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I want to make friends but I am very shy I used to have friends but now they don't even talk to me any of them
    anestacia anestacia 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 30

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    I live 2 hours from any of my friends and I am a complete hermit. I don't even know HOW to have friends lately. I'm married with dogs. I am afraid of the phone. I'm socially...
    rainallthedays rainallthedays 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    Finding good friends is extremely hard! Sure, I have "friends" and people I know I can rely on and I am forever grateful to them. I just wish I could have more and hopefully make...
    Mang0Tree Mang0Tree 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I dont really have that many friends. When I do have friends its mostly girls. I would like more straight or gay friends my age or near it.
    GARLITH GARLITH 18-21, M Sep 5

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    I just wanna have friends here in EP. Just A good friend but not to entertain pervert people no offense meant please. I like many friends, the more the merrier. lol I hope I...
    smjuap21 smjuap21 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 12

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    I first met my best friend/soul sis in first grade. We studied together in nursery and KG but I would usually stay at home so I didn't really have friends. I have a lot of cousins...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 12

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    I can't believe that as I get older I can't have friends. Friends are very important for me, they help me grow and made my serious life bearable.
    nonichecliche nonichecliche 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    in my home town. Here. In real life. I hate that I went to a football game by myself last night. And that I'm going to dance in another town by myself tonight. And that I'm going...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 13

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    At the moment, I don't have any at all. It's strange, because I have friends. And we hangout daily, since we are all college students. But it just isn't as deep as I would like it...
    Truthseeker18 Truthseeker18 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 14

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    My best friends are my second-half, they're the only people that I act 100% myself around. We don't judge each other, we laugh at our imperfections. It's nice to have friends who...
    channy205 channy205 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    I wish I had friends who are more loyal to me, more thoughtful, more genuine. Right now I have friends that treat me like I don't exist sometimes.
    Ennevi Ennevi 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 21

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    I have friends but it hurts me every day inside seeing people and their friendships. I've not connected with another human being on the level of other people. They usually think I...
    MysteriousBadWolf MysteriousBadWolf 13-15, F a week ago

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    This is going to sound pretty sad but I honestly feel like I don't have any friends lmao well I have friends but I feel like they don't understand me. That sounds like such an...
    nubbking nubbking 16-17, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I know I have friends but friends are so important. If I could just talk to someone and that would make their day better or make them feel special that would be close enough for me...
    Plungeintoadream Plungeintoadream 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I made a joke on one of theses, do vampires get STDs? And have made several others since then. However the vampire post has received the most comments amd hearts than just about...
    Handyman25 Handyman25 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 30