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I Have Friends Whom Others Condemn

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 49 People

    Condemnation Masquerading As Honesty

    All my friends either are currently or have in the past condeming each other for one reason or another. Myself included. I'm currently condeming my most recent best friend for the shity things he says because of the "opinionated" (lol honest) things I say. He is now condeming...
    capriciousness capriciousness 26-30, F May 18, 2010

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    And

    It saddens myself and all of the host of heaven.
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    My Friend....

    It is easier to get around you Friends that everyone loves. Than being really friends with someone The whole people simply despise. Thus is life, everyone likes to see Surround yourself with people similar to ourselves This reassuring, it seems in the order of things And...
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Hannah

    Hannah is my friend. Sure she's kinda odd, but then aren't we all? No one really likes her. She's just too weird in their eyes. But she isn't weird. She just has some family issues that make her that way. I'm the only one who is her real friend. She deserves it. She's loyal...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F Jun 16, 2013

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    All That Matters

    Both here and in real life I have friends that others do not like, or that others avoid because of certain fetishes and/or their personalities.  I am a friend to the friendless, family to the family-less (ok I made up a word), and counselor to anyone who asks for my...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    It Is Not My Job to Judge.

    I not only have friends whom others condemn, I am very likely condemned myself.  If I like you, I like you.  I do NOT care what other people think or say about me.  I do not judge people on the things they have done or the friends they have. It is not my job! ...
    Reality4Me Reality4Me 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    Beauty and the Beasts

    If you read my story, "The Fickle Ego", you get a glimpse into my personal self-image.  I find myself to be awkward, socially and politically incorrect, and often times looked down upon by average people.  Because of this (or perhaps it is the effect and not...
    Cade Cade 18-21 1 Response Feb 4, 2009

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    Your Not Special Because You Have Friends Who Others Condemned

    every on accepts those who have failed in life the drinkers, those who do dope, prostitutes, sex affenders, killers, those who abandon thier families , all them are accepted and are not judged in fact they have all the friends in the world and they get food given to them money...
    cutie2christy cutie2christy 36-40, F Jan 5, 2012

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    And Always Will

    I will never allow society and its messed-up viewpoints to dictate who I will love and share my friendship with. I will treat everyone equally, and to hell with what society thinks of my friends.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 3, 2009

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    This is kinda hard to write about just because it is embarrassing. .. I mean what 18 year old doesn't have friends?? I try and I have tried my whole life but nothing seems to...
    JaneEbony JaneEbony 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Where is the compassion for others? I've spent a while on and off reading various stories on here. The sadness and depression as a result of what others have endured or are...
    SmartSweet1 SmartSweet1 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 20

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    I'm friendly, but very very shy. Shyness is the biggest barrier of my life. I want to mingle with everyone, but shyness prevents me from that. I am shy even to talk with my own...
    coolhappyme coolhappyme 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I seriously don't have any local friends. I'm so desperate rn lol
    taylercm taylercm 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    I recently ended a 4 1/2 year relationship, but have been talking about being fwb's with two of my friends for a couple of months. Now that the relationship is over though, I get...
    Cephaloria Cephaloria 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 15

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    I'm shy and I'm ese ( special ed ) so every one thinks I'm dumb and gay because my long hair. I don't care what people think of me just I want friends, at school im the quite kid...
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 21

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    Since grad I feel as though I have grown up a lot more than any of my friends from Highschool, I mean I get along with people who are married better. I have changed a lot and got...
    kutiepie6 kutiepie6 18-21, F Jan 21

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    Dear **** buddy, This was your second chance. Once, shame on you, but twice? Shame on me. I shouldn't of let you in after the first problem. You clearly didn't learn anything. You...
    findingfae findingfae 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 21

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    Keyword for this problem is work. My friends are plenty but we all work and hardly see each other anymore. Life sucks lol
    josecee josecee 18-21, M Jan 22

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    today is my birthday. but i dont know why im not happy about that. i think ... god... i dont get what i want yet, god.. i know i can be like this forever, god... i realizr how poor...
    onikaa onikaa 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I been fwb for 5 years I love this man so much but I want more. one minute he's hot one minute he is cold. I feel I've have been patient long enough. and I've been reading up on...
    smittenkitten2015 smittenkitten2015 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I have a f*** buddy and I'm scared I'll catch feelings
    Devonbaby Devonbaby 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I didn't know in which group should I write so I'll write here . Actually I don't have this kind of friend , but I do have ***ting friend. I asked him before if he's into me or not...
    brojob brojob 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I've been with my fwb for a little over a yr now. When we first hooked up he warned me he wasn't "a relationship" kind of guy, and at first that was great cause I didn't want the...
    lilldemen lilldemen 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    someoneforyou12 someoneforyou12 22-25, F Jan 13

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    I'm sorry but it's true. I feel like I'm nothing to them. I'm starting to give up on everything and I just don't know what to do anymore.
    baconnater3000 baconnater3000 16-17, M Jan 21

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    I thought being in a relationship would help get rid of the lonely feelings but it hasn't. in fact I feel even more alone cause he spends all his time on the computer.
    asfm67 asfm67 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 21

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    only because I can't talk openly to them, even my oldest friend. all conversations steer back to them and I end up comforting them. not their fault, its the role I am most...
    littlesadone littlesadone 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    :-( just found out my fwb is seeing someone now, so none for me. When we first got together over a yr ago he said he wasn't a "relationship" kind of guy, this is the 2nd girl he...
    lilldemen lilldemen 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have new friends! It has been a while since I could really say that and have it mean something important and have a strong emotional feeling attached to the thought. With the...
    Wilddesires Wilddesires 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I take everything said to me to heart. Every bad word, every accusation, everything offensive or against my character. I listen to everyone, since I don't want to hurt anyone, it...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hey I don't really know many other gay guys so I am looking for some friends whom I can just chat and have a good time with
    unicornwrestler unicornwrestler 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 19

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    I really don't have friends. I find friends who are the most messed up people..head cases, psycho paths, or back stabbers. I don't fit in with clicky people at my kids school or...
    Iwalwjv Iwalwjv 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I know what could have made me like this. I've never been tested for reasons behind my problems, (I was told I have social phobia and I know that but I'm sure I also have APD too...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Jan 14

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    I just can't cope at the moment. I'm having counselling and "personality" has been mentioned, and, now I really think about it, perhaps my having a personality disorder would "fit...
    Chaleureuse Chaleureuse 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    Ever since I was a young child I have battled social anxiety disorder. Social situations always made me anxious and at times panicky. When I was a teen I came to realize that I was...
    tormentedinternally tormentedinternally 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    since I was 2 years old I've been diagnosed with RA... so I've been living with this for 20 years now. I have two hip replacements, but if i could i will gladly replace everything...
    anaecu92 anaecu92 22-25, F Jan 4

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    Every time I feel I may be getting closer to someone, I feel like a warning goes off in my head, and I suddenly wish I had never shared any information about myself. I start to...
    misscoffee misscoffee 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I do have friends at school, but what I mean is that I have no friends around where I live. I live on the edge of my school district and in a place where none of my friends live...
    Contranaut Contranaut 16-17, M Jan 10

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    I have friends but sometimes the word "friend" itself just does not seem very real or existent to me. Is it weird that even when I do have friends, I feel as if I have no friends...
    ohangela ohangela 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I don't know how to move past my DUI in my head My family and friends are being very supportive because they know what a good person I am and how much I contribute to society and...
    freespirit182 freespirit182 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    I am in an amazing relationship. I love him more than anything and I never thought that I would fall in love. The problem is, he's the only person I feel I have and I am terrified...
    UncannyPlane21 UncannyPlane21 18-21, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have friends inside and outside of school. My in school friends are unsupportive, rude, insensitive, and just plain annoying. My out of school friends are sweet, supportive...
    Anastasia429 Anastasia429 13-15, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I'm so lost in my life right now :( I don't know who are my real friends, I only have 2 and one of them are starting to do stuff without me.. I have other friends but not close to...
    Leannaax Leannaax 13-15, F 6 Responses Jan 6

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    My friends are all over the place most done live where we do but now we have friends not too far away , they feel like family I've been talking to them on the ph for 4 years and...
    wherethewildthingswere wherethewildthingswere 26-30, F Jan 6

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    I wanted to be normal so bad, but every time I tried to open my mouth, I froze up. My earliest memory of this was in 5th grade when my teacher tried to force me to read my...
    whisperedthing whisperedthing 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    I have been in treatment for a very long time, mostly with a therapist that was able to help me to survive for many years and not kill myself. actually she did a lot more than...
    mrecovery mrecovery 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 4