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I Have Friends Whom Others Condemn

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    It Is Not My Job to Judge.

    I not only have friends whom others condemn, I am very likely condemned myself.  If I like you, I like you.  I do NOT care what other people think or say about me.  I do not judge people on the things they have done or the friends they have. It is not my job! ...
    Reality4Me Reality4Me 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    All That Matters

    Both here and in real life I have friends that others do not like, or that others avoid because of certain fetishes and/or their personalities.  I am a friend to the friendless, family to the family-less (ok I made up a word), and counselor to anyone who asks for my...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    And Always Will

    I will never allow society and its messed-up viewpoints to dictate who I will love and share my friendship with. I will treat everyone equally, and to hell with what society thinks of my friends.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 3, 2009

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    My Friend....

    It is easier to get around you Friends that everyone loves. Than being really friends with someone The whole people simply despise. Thus is life, everyone likes to see Surround yourself with people similar to ourselves This reassuring, it seems in the order of things And...
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Your Not Special Because You Have Friends Who Others Condemned

    every on accepts those who have failed in life the drinkers, those who do dope, prostitutes, sex affenders, killers, those who abandon thier families , all them are accepted and are not judged in fact they have all the friends in the world and they get food given to them money...
    cutie2christy cutie2christy 36-40, F Jan 5, 2012

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    And

    It saddens myself and all of the host of heaven.
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Hannah

    Hannah is my friend. Sure she's kinda odd, but then aren't we all? No one really likes her. She's just too weird in their eyes. But she isn't weird. She just has some family issues that make her that way. I'm the only one who is her real friend. She deserves it. She's loyal...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F Jun 16, 2013

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    Condemnation Masquerading As Honesty

    All my friends either are currently or have in the past condeming each other for one reason or another. Myself included. I'm currently condeming my most recent best friend for the shity things he says because of the "opinionated" (lol honest) things I say. He is now condeming...
    capriciousness capriciousness 26-30, F May 18, 2010

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    Beauty and the Beasts

    If you read my story, "The Fickle Ego", you get a glimpse into my personal self-image.  I find myself to be awkward, socially and politically incorrect, and often times looked down upon by average people.  Because of this (or perhaps it is the effect and not...
    Cade Cade 18-21 1 Response Feb 4, 2009

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    WildFlowerChild19 WildFlowerChild19 18-21, F Jul 6

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    That is correct for me through and through I used to have two friends they moved I made one or two friends but we grew apart because they thought I was "weird" and "secretive" and...
    MatildaBlack MatildaBlack 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I am an Indian TDH(Tall, Dark, Handsome) guy,inviting you to visit my country. There r so Many unique ancient sites n nature's beauty to explore in INDIA. So many National Park...
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    stillhavingfun123 stillhavingfun123 51-55, M 3 Responses Jul 2

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    It hurts when I have a terrible day, and I rely on the internet to get support
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    He was suppose to come over tonight but he hasn't texted me back in an hour ): .. Got ready for nothing 😒
    aaaxaaa aaaxaaa 18-21, F 21 Responses Jul 10

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    Yesssss. For decades. Some cant help. Most try. Why souwysiedal. Society aint run by them.
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 14

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    sv4894 sv4894 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I know a lot of people say that they don't have any regrets because all of their past experiences, choices, etc. has made them who they are today. I don't feel that way though; I...
    PunkinH2O PunkinH2O 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I'll start at the beginning, I started the year at a new school because I basically hated my old school. I hated this super annoying kid (to me) at the time, I'll call him Will...
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    Guys And Girls Can Just Be Friends! I have friends who are guys and friends who are girls. Guys and girls can just be friends, and it can work out just fine.
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    womandolin womandolin 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    babylyfe1998 babylyfe1998 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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