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I Have Friends Whom Others Condemn

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    And Always Will - I will never allow society and its messed-up viewpoints to dictate who I will love and share my friendship with. I will treat everyone equally, and to hell with...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 3, 2009

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    Beauty and the Beasts - If you read my story, "The Fickle Ego", you get a glimpse into my personal self-image.  I find myself to be awkward, socially and politically...
    Cade Cade 18-21 1 Response Feb 4, 2009

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    And - It saddens myself and all of the host of heaven.
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Hannah - Hannah is my friend. Sure she's kinda odd, but then aren't we all? No one really likes her. She's just too weird in their eyes. But she isn't weird. She just has some...
    DivergentWolf DivergentWolf 18-21, F Jun 16, 2013

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    It Is Not My Job to Judge. - I not only have friends whom others condemn, I am very likely condemned myself.  If I like you, I like you.  I do NOT care what other people...
    Reality4Me Reality4Me 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    Condemnation Masquerading As Honesty - All my friends either are currently or have in the past condeming each other for one reason or another. Myself included. I'm currently...
    capriciousness capriciousness 26-30, F May 18, 2010

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    My Friend.... - It is easier to get around you Friends that everyone loves. Than being really friends with someone The whole people simply despise. Thus is life, everyone likes to...
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    All That Matters - Both here and in real life I have friends that others do not like, or that others avoid because of certain fetishes and/or their personalities.  I am a...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 8 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    I am so happy to have Friends who really care about me and who I really care about them too I love to have friends and if you want to be my friend come on and be my friend and talk...
    JadelynThompson2121 JadelynThompson2121 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    I have empathy for others, but why I always got betrays by people I have an empathy with? Or Empathy transform us to be stepping stones for others who don't have?
    andywei andywei 26-30, M Mar 19

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    I have one friend and I am so blessed to have her. She's the sister I never had 👯💁👑
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    Ihave a good friend with benefits. We are both enjoying despite having this relationship as an affair since we both have official lovers. We see each other in sneaking and escaping...
    feebiechichi feebiechichi 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I limit my friends to 2 or even just one because i know in the end,t he person would get bored because of me or doesnt even like me in the first place but became my friend to not...
    Amature14 Amature14 13-15, F Mar 18

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    It's kind of ridiculous. I'm lonely and don't have any friends besides my boyfriend but when I go in public I act like there's nothing more I want than to go back home and hide. I...
    jjoben jjoben 18-21, F Mar 20

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    I guess it's my fault. I moved around a lot as a kid and found it difficult to make friends, especially being a socially awkward ISTJ. I was never the popular "New Kid" or...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F Mar 23

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    We started a week ago and it's been quite the experience. He's too rough and is always trying to go further than I want. Ugh he's cute but I don't want to do this anymore with him...
    unthinkablesoul unthinkablesoul 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Yep and they're mostly from my previous forum. Funny cause I used to think they're better than my friends who can actually see me in person. They understand me, at least I think...
    kixisback kixisback 22-25 1 Response Apr 6

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    When I studied abroad last fall, I made friends from all over the world. It's pretty cool to see their posts and updates that involve culture and life. For example, on St. Patrick...
    queserasera22 queserasera22 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Hi. I'm new here, i kinda ran into the site when i was searching up some answers to somethings that has happened in my life. I'm trying to make friends that understand and can...
    dyingwish dyingwish 18-21, M Mar 27

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    Yesterday my friend moved back to her home town... I didn't realize it in the week before her move, but when I saw her get into a car and go, I got it then - she's gone. She won't...
    insanitycuresboredom insanitycuresboredom 22-25, F Mar 31

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    Some times I think you're an ******* but I know you really aren't. I just feel like I'm annoying you, that's why I try not to text you. I just don't want you to leave me alone. I...
    bethepea bethepea 16-17, F Apr 4

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    I was first friends with my boyfriend and we were fooling around before we started dating seriously and we tried but it didn't work. It has been 3 years now and after breaking up...
    Lovelifee22 Lovelifee22 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I may have lost my best friend, well one of them. It upsets me. It was over something completely stupid too. I guess things happen for a reason. Things were said now all he wants...
    NickRhodzz NickRhodzz 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I love the benefits that my friend gives me & I give her wish there was more fun people
    tom1851 tom1851 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    My FWB want to try having fun with a bi girl she really likes the idea & I'm cool but were to find someone & someone discreet ?
    tom1851 tom1851 46-50, M Mar 18

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    It's crazy.. I see everyone at school; I'm pretty popular; I'm liked a lot; Always being told I'm cute; yet I still go home on the weekends to be left alone and think about what I...
    prestisma prestisma 13-15, M Mar 19

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    Started a month ago we started off as co workers and now we are FWB! He is absolutely amazing I love it! Thank god for hot workers!
    Justanobody17 Justanobody17 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 31

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    What he says he wants and his actions are complete opposite, actions speak louder than words , but im starting to disbelieve that. :(
    ambss ambss 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    Maybe she will talk to me again, and maybe she wont. Im okay with it... I deserve it...
    nate2045 nate2045 18-21, T Apr 3

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    They made me understand what relationship is based on in reality and how important being independent is. I don't want to see it as all my fault anymore. I hate to dread myself from...
    Ssslm Ssslm 26-30, F Apr 4

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    This girl was my best friend from sixth grade to sophomore year of high school. I moved my junior year and she never even bothered to call, write, text. I was so confused and...
    karijune karijune 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    My best friend all through elementary recently moved away. She wasn't the kind of friend you talk to, though, she was just fun to be around. We had the same sense of silly, non...
    Marvilles Marvilles 13-15, F Mar 24

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    So I sat back and reflected on how much has changed over the past few years. A few years ago I was just coming into acceptance of my situation. I had got to a point where I was...
    AbbyVents AbbyVents 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    I don't entirely agree with that statement. I'm never excited to see my friends is a more truthful statement. I've always been very pisces-like, loyal and loving. But now I'm...
    Marvilles Marvilles 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I am 36 years old and am in a loving relationship, have 3 children (one of whom is actually my niece) but have lost the rest of my family to death in the last 10yrs and was primary...
    renoakahelen renoakahelen 36-40, F Mar 29

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    I have a close circle of friends in real whom I hold close to my heart. A few years ago I hit the pause button on my friendships, and started letting go of those who added no value...
    SagSunshine2014 SagSunshine2014 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Ive had friends at a point in my life and i thought i could always rely on them but these past few years have taught me a lesson. A lesson i learned the hard way, i now spend days...
    Loer Loer 26-30, M 20 hrs ago

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    I really don't know why I have trust issues. It doesn't make sense why I do. I mean, I don't think I had them before I met my friend Isaac. But I can't be sure. Isaac has been my...
    DeJeKlu DeJeKlu 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I know being single is a time to grow as a person and not rely on others....still tho I've relied on myself for so long even in relationships I didn't expect much not like I ask...
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I fear I've ruined my sister. I have the typical psychological build of someone who's younger sister has autism. (I fear my growing up with my sister, only a year younger than me...
    IsntHeSweet IsntHeSweet 18-21, M Mar 20

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    I can really only think of one thing. My mother always said that there are somethings that people are going to say to you, that you will never forget, that will haunt you forever...
    DeJeKlu DeJeKlu 18-21, F Mar 30

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    I believe friendship is a two way street and I have created this account because although I have account I do have friends in school and outside of school but I am struggling to...
    isobelhapcher isobelhapcher 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I really think most of my friends are fake, maybe a good 90%. These "Friends" only want to talk to you when they're bored or have no one else. They also bring you down with subtle...
    lonelyxsoul lonelyxsoul 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 21

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    So just started at university this year and realised how hard it is to make friends! As in proper friends, not acquaintances. I have friends with me, But they are literally on the...
    Dimples411 Dimples411 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I feel like I'm too old to make friends though. I read a story online that stated that once you hit 30 the friend you have are the friends you are probably going to have and while...
    THEINSIDER20 THEINSIDER20 31-35, M 6 Responses Mar 25

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    I have friends sorta... No one talks to me its always me talking to them when i say hi they even say stuff like what. I absolutly have no idea why people are so mean to me I try...
    Joshrayz Joshrayz 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    Hello I see this experience tag being more recently used so I decided it would be sort of best that I write things here. Well to start off yes I do have DID and I am a part of the...
    DarkHappiness DarkHappiness 13-15, F Apr 2

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    I'm getting so annoyed! I have friends, and they're very sweet respectful and loyal ... But they lack one thing I'm looking for.. And that's availability! Like wtf, I would LOVE...
    addictedtoashx3 addictedtoashx3 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I'm 26 have a husband, a beautiful two year old & plenty of acquaintances and feel completely alone. I've always had few friends and felt like the odd one out growing up. Seemed to...
    prayforpeace87 prayforpeace87 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I do have friends but they're boring at times. They don't like to go out or anything. Just stay at home and I'm sick of it! I can't wait until I'm in college and I can move into a...
    Flowergal3 Flowergal3 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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