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I Have Friends Whom Others Condemn

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    My Friend....

    It is easier to get around you Friends that everyone loves. Than being really friends with someone The whole people simply despise. Thus is life, everyone likes to see Surround yourself with people similar to ourselves This reassuring, it seems in the order of things And...
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Beauty and the Beasts

    If you read my story, "The Fickle Ego", you get a glimpse into my personal self-image.  I find myself to be awkward, socially and politically incorrect, and often times looked down upon by average people.  Because of this (or perhaps it is the effect and not...
    Cade Cade 18-21 1 Response Feb 4, 2009

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    All That Matters

    Both here and in real life I have friends that others do not like, or that others avoid because of certain fetishes and/or their personalities.  I am a friend to the friendless, family to the family-less (ok I made up a word), and counselor to anyone who asks for my...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 8 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    Condemnation Masquerading As Honesty

    All my friends either are currently or have in the past condeming each other for one reason or another. Myself included. I'm currently condeming my most recent best friend for the shity things he says because of the "opinionated" (lol honest) things I say. He is now condeming...
    capriciousness capriciousness 26-30, F May 18, 2010

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    Hannah

    Hannah is my friend. Sure she's kinda odd, but then aren't we all? No one really likes her. She's just too weird in their eyes. But she isn't weird. She just has some family issues that make her that way. I'm the only one who is her real friend. She deserves it. She's loyal...
    DivergentWolf DivergentWolf 18-21, F Jun 16, 2013

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    And

    It saddens myself and all of the host of heaven.
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    It Is Not My Job to Judge.

    I not only have friends whom others condemn, I am very likely condemned myself.  If I like you, I like you.  I do NOT care what other people think or say about me.  I do not judge people on the things they have done or the friends they have. It is not my job! ...
    Reality4Me Reality4Me 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    And Always Will

    I will never allow society and its messed-up viewpoints to dictate who I will love and share my friendship with. I will treat everyone equally, and to hell with what society thinks of my friends.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 3, 2009

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    I am so happy to have Friends who really care about me and who I really care about them too I love to have friends and if you want to be my friend come on and be my friend and talk...
    JadelynThompson2121 JadelynThompson2121 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Ihave a good friend with benefits. We are both enjoying despite having this relationship as an affair since we both have official lovers. We see each other in sneaking and escaping...
    feebiechichi feebiechichi 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    Me and my best friend have been very close for a while and our conversations get very sexual and we know everything about each other. What makes our friendship special is that...
    Diggerzdabeast Diggerzdabeast 16-17, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    We started a week ago and it's been quite the experience. He's too rough and is always trying to go further than I want. Ugh he's cute but I don't want to do this anymore with him...
    unthinkablesoul unthinkablesoul 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Yep and they're mostly from my previous forum. Funny cause I used to think they're better than my friends who can actually see me in person. They understand me, at least I think...
    kixisback kixisback 22-25 1 Response Apr 6

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    When I studied abroad last fall, I made friends from all over the world. It's pretty cool to see their posts and updates that involve culture and life. For example, on St. Patrick...
    queserasera22 queserasera22 18-21, F Apr 14

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    Hi. I'm new here, i kinda ran into the site when i was searching up some answers to somethings that has happened in my life. I'm trying to make friends that understand and can...
    dyingwish dyingwish 18-21, M Mar 27

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    Yesterday my friend moved back to her home town... I didn't realize it in the week before her move, but when I saw her get into a car and go, I got it then - she's gone. She won't...
    insanitycuresboredom insanitycuresboredom 22-25, F Mar 31

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    Some times I think you're an ******* but I know you really aren't. I just feel like I'm annoying you, that's why I try not to text you. I just don't want you to leave me alone. I...
    bethepea bethepea 16-17, F Apr 4

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    I was first friends with my boyfriend and we were fooling around before we started dating seriously and we tried but it didn't work. It has been 3 years now and after breaking up...
    Lovelifee22 Lovelifee22 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    "Replacement" may as well be my name since that's what I am. No one bothers with me unless they need something from me. They use me shamelessly and then stuff me into the corner to...
    damedesu damedesu 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I may have lost my best friend, well one of them. It upsets me. It was over something completely stupid too. I guess things happen for a reason. Things were said now all he wants...
    NickRhodzz NickRhodzz 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    I have one friend and I am so blessed to have her. She's the sister I never had 👯💁👑
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I have a friend with benefits, and I think I am falling for him. I think he is too, but I am not sure. I don't want to get hurt!
    leayce9 leayce9 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Started a month ago we started off as co workers and now we are FWB! He is absolutely amazing I love it! Thank god for hot workers!
    Justanobody17 Justanobody17 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 31

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    What he says he wants and his actions are complete opposite, actions speak louder than words , but im starting to disbelieve that. :(
    ambss ambss 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    Maybe she will talk to me again, and maybe she wont. Im okay with it... I deserve it...
    nate2045 nate2045 18-21, T Apr 3

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    They made me understand what relationship is based on in reality and how important being independent is. I don't want to see it as all my fault anymore. I hate to dread myself from...
    Ssslm Ssslm 26-30, F Apr 4

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    This girl was my best friend from sixth grade to sophomore year of high school. I moved my junior year and she never even bothered to call, write, text. I was so confused and...
    karijune karijune 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    My FWB came over the other night. As we were starting to get intimate, he told me "don't let me hurt you". But it was amazing as usual, he kept trying to just please me, and was...
    leayce9 leayce9 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    My best friend all through elementary recently moved away. She wasn't the kind of friend you talk to, though, she was just fun to be around. We had the same sense of silly, non...
    Marvilles Marvilles 13-15, F Mar 24

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    I have online friends whom I value a lot.I have not met any of them but I enjoy talking to them online.I do not want to lose my friends.Some have left suddenly.I wish them well...
    mona87 mona87 46-50, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Just looking back at my life and I really don't remember having any friends. Sure i had people I knew and I get along with, but when it came to actually having memories of them, I...
    Inasda Inasda 18-21, M 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I am 36 years old and am in a loving relationship, have 3 children (one of whom is actually my niece) but have lost the rest of my family to death in the last 10yrs and was primary...
    renoakahelen renoakahelen 36-40, F Mar 29

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    I have a close circle of friends in real whom I hold close to my heart. A few years ago I hit the pause button on my friendships, and started letting go of those who added no value...
    SagSunshine2014 SagSunshine2014 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    Ive had friends at a point in my life and i thought i could always rely on them but these past few years have taught me a lesson. A lesson i learned the hard way, i now spend days...
    Loer Loer 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    I really don't know why I have trust issues. It doesn't make sense why I do. I mean, I don't think I had them before I met my friend Isaac. But I can't be sure. Isaac has been my...
    DeJeKlu DeJeKlu 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I know being single is a time to grow as a person and not rely on others....still tho I've relied on myself for so long even in relationships I didn't expect much not like I ask...
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I can really only think of one thing. My mother always said that there are somethings that people are going to say to you, that you will never forget, that will haunt you forever...
    DeJeKlu DeJeKlu 18-21, F Mar 30

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    Yep. I had 400 friends yesterday. I am down to 50 today. If I removed you, it was not anything personal. And it may have been an accident but I removed the ones that just seemed to...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    I feel like I'm too old to make friends though. I read a story online that stated that once you hit 30 the friend you have are the friends you are probably going to have and while...
    THEINSIDER20 THEINSIDER20 31-35, M 6 Responses Mar 25

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    I have friends sorta... No one talks to me its always me talking to them when i say hi they even say stuff like what. I absolutly have no idea why people are so mean to me I try...
    Joshrayz Joshrayz 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    Hello I see this experience tag being more recently used so I decided it would be sort of best that I write things here. Well to start off yes I do have DID and I am a part of the...
    DarkHappiness DarkHappiness 13-15, F Apr 2

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    I'm getting so annoyed! I have friends, and they're very sweet respectful and loyal ... But they lack one thing I'm looking for.. And that's availability! Like wtf, I would LOVE...
    addictedtoashx3 addictedtoashx3 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I'm 26 have a husband, a beautiful two year old & plenty of acquaintances and feel completely alone. I've always had few friends and felt like the odd one out growing up. Seemed to...
    prayforpeace87 prayforpeace87 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    i know how people say they don't have friends and their all alone and no one cares. but they're just saying that so their 10+ friends will give them attention. well its like that...
    stupendouscat stupendouscat 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Actually I have no friends right now. But when I did have friends it used to be more guys than girls. Not because girls suck or anything(no pun intended)but because of my own...
    nekerd nekerd 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I grew up in the center of two warring parents. Two stubborn pigheaded people who not once thought of putting aside their differences so that I could possibly have some semblance...
    AGothicOdyssey AGothicOdyssey 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 25

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    I live in a happy house with parents who love me. I love them too. I feel safe with them. I have a brother who I jokingly say I hate because of his annoyance, I love him however. I...
    varixtic varixtic 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    My friends are the ****. Sometimes I wonder why I even have friends in the first place because im weird as frick xD
    MajorasAngel97 MajorasAngel97 16-17, F Mar 30

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    I have friends but no real close friends and I'm really sad about this.
    mogilem mogilem 13-15, M Mar 30

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    I am able to accept that I don't have any friends. I have acquaintances. Sometimes I do wish I had people to go out with on my off days but other than that I am content. I am not...
    PinkDolphins PinkDolphins 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    I have friends that treat me like crap because I am crazy and I help them with problems but they don't return the favor and if I unfriend them then their is no one else to be...
    nmhusker11 nmhusker11 18-21, M Mar 30

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