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    I interviewed another possible fwb today.

    I'll share a few stats about her. Name: Jamey Age: 22 Orientation: bi Status: married Breast size: 38dd Pubic hair: shaved
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Jun 27, 2015

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    Is there a limit to how often you can call on

    your friends with benefits? Is more than 2x a week too much? We're friends but right now we're more f*** buddies. I have lots of urges so I call him. But is it too much?
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Dec 9, 2015

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    How does one go about in finding a FWB

    or let's just call it what I really want a F-buddy? I'm an almost 38yr old single mom, going back to school and working. I don't have time for a relationship I just need an occasional hookup to scratch an itch so to speak. I don't want to hookup with a bunch of different guys I...
    MyKidsAreMyWorld MyKidsAreMyWorld 36-40, F 12 Responses Dec 5, 2015

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    smilezz211 smilezz211 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 8, 2015

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    I'm fwb with my best friend.

    We've known each other for 5 years and became super close within the last 2 or so. I started liking him my freshman year in college, but he was in love with another girl so I ignored my feelings for him, but that summer I realized I really did like him and so I told him. At that...
    forever21baby14 forever21baby14 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 12, 2015

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    He was suppose to come over tonight

    but he hasn't texted me back in an hour ): .. Got ready for nothing 😒
    aaaxaaa aaaxaaa 18-21, F 44 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    natalieccaa natalieccaa 26-30, F Jan 5

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    I have sex with this girl every now

    and then who is gf of my friend, She's my friend too though. She kinda fell for me ,but it's strictly sexual from my side and she knows that,still she conveys her feeling towards me. And that kinda irritate me sometimes
    simpleguy9 simpleguy9 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 29, 2015

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    What does everyone REALLY think about this

    "hobby". Do you think its almost NSA? How do feelings not develop? I tried it with an exboyfriend and I seriously shouldn't gave done it coz he started getting stalky and now I don't speak to him and forget I did it. Anyone have any thoughts??
    CJC78 CJC78 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    ILoveGirlAss ILoveGirlAss 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    Warning, this is long,

    but I feel as though I have to tell the full details of the story. Even if no one responds, I just need the catharsis of letting it all out for once. Eleven years ago, I met my one of my ex's good friends (let's call him Bill) and we in turn became great friends as well. He...
    sketchit sketchit 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    Can it really be this easy?

    So on the same page that jealousy doesn't exist and the laughs never stop? Some might judge me because I'm married, but I have found the most perfect friend with benefits situation. I had a brief freak out earlier this week, worrying I might fall for him and end up hurt. But...
    ButterflyCatcher ButterflyCatcher 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    It started when I had emotionally checked out

    of my relationship with my verbally abusive ex. I went over my friends house to vent when we started wrestling but it turned into sex. We both had said we can't do that again and agreed it was a one time thing. I feel like that first time was a little awkward because 1) about a...
    RoseGradenn RoseGradenn 18-21 5 Responses Jan 22

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    Honestly I think the whole idea is a cesspool

    for the mentally weak. The latest greatest idea that is Tinder which was meant for speed dating has now become a McDonald's drive thru value menu for quickies with strangers who are too mentally weak to keep up a relationship with someone they admire. People are so damn lazy now...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm fwb with this guy I met on hot

    or not , his name is Tyler and I think I'm starting to get feels , tho he doesn't have any for me I'm guessing Bc he barely texts me , but looking back at this is gonna b funny B)
    ASA15 ASA15 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 18, 2015

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    Ceaser55 Ceaser55 18-21, M Jan 23

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    This is something I have been wanting to explore

    for quite some time. It seems safe as far as avoiding heartbreak is concerned, but unstable and unpredictable in the long term. The fact that the connection is deep, still it is quite fragile that it makes me want to approach it with care.
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 20 Responses Sep 12, 2015

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    I'll be back at 11, you just act like a peasant.

    Got a bow on my panties cause my *** is a present. Let me see what you're workin with, if I'm ridin, I'm murkin it, slow grindin, I'm twerkin it, yeah I bagged him, I Birkin'd it Cause we are just animals, baby it's primal, I want you on all fours, and before I let you walk...
    findingfae findingfae 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 1, 2015

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    Well, Just a week ago it changed from I want

    friends with benefits to I have friends with benefits. We are already friends and now we are friends with benefits...a lot of benefits. 😏
    MrAwesomeNiceGuy MrAwesomeNiceGuy 16-17, M Oct 24, 2015

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    txchocolatefire txchocolatefire 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    Side Lover

    I have a man who I can call for sex any time. My husband knows, mostly, as that part of our thing. My side man thinks I am cheating and likes the excitement of that.
    soni30 soni30 31-35, F 17 Responses Mar 30, 2013

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    I need help with a friends with benefits

    situation that I want to be more.. I have hung out with a guy three times, about a month apart each and have made major dating mistakes every time. We have a lot of fun together, and I didn't care that I was making mistakes at first because I didn't want a relationship. Now I do...
    shoffman22 shoffman22 22-25, F 11 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi I'm Wolfie and yes I have friends with

    benefits:) Right hand ... Say hello to left hand :)-
    wolffive wolffive 51-55, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

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    There's no relationship drama.

    Just two people enjoying each other's company. Dinners, movies, concerts and a bed.
    NowWhat41 NowWhat41 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 4

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    I tend to keep no more

    than 5 fwb's at a time. And yes, we are actual friends that hang out together, but with the understanding that sex is always available between us and that it is strictly sexual (no relationship crap). I treat the 5 like VIP memberships. So there are a few rules and I even have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Jun 8, 2015

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    My fwb and I have made plans to see each other

    tomorrow night and I'm so glad. It has been hard having nc with ex-MM for the past 3 months so I have valued having my friend to chat with and take my mind off the past. We both agree this relationship has worked well for us over the past two years. We have been a source of...
    forbidden67 forbidden67 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 5, 2015

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    Lu24642 Lu24642 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    carlyccaa carlyccaa 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2015

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    Devonbaby Devonbaby 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 23, 2015

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    I know to some my fwb interview process seems

    weird, but it's very kinky and fun for me and for the interviewee. Here's another girl I've interviewed tonight. After her, I'll have one more girl to interview and then one final night with the guy who is leaving my fwb group. Name: Jess Age: 21 Orientation: bi curious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 28, 2015

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    So, the fwb group is

    even now, with 3 guys and 3 girls (me included). My lesbian fwb, Beth, will not be involved with group stuff. We will be meeting as a group for the first time Thursday night. I'm gonna come up with a creative/naughty game as an ice breaker and just see where things go...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jul 7, 2015

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    Both my wife and I have fwb.

    My sex drive is far more active than my wife's and she accepts that sometimes I need more than she can give. I have 3 fwb's. One is a 23 year student. Second is our 19 year old babysitter, and the third is a work colleague who is a 35 year old mother of two. My wife has 2 fwb...
    Aussie1986 Aussie1986 26-30, M 4 Responses Jan 18

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    Looking for a new FWB in Kansas City.

    ...I had one 2 years ago. It was fantastic as we both got our desires fulfilled. She is my best friend still.
    PTCdresser2158 PTCdresser2158 56-60, M 22 hrs ago

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    Many of you asked about my application process

    for my fwb's. Below are all the questions on the application. To clarify...this NOT an invitation/opportunity to full this out. The application is filled out ahead of time, and in the interview, I ask them to expand on their answers. Then they're allowed to ask questions...
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Jun 11, 2015

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    Here is a nice basic picture of my lesbian fwb.

    Her name is Beth. Ask anything you want about her (and our fwb friendship) in the comments. Maybe if you're all lucky, she'll let me show a more revealing pic of her.
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Jun 29, 2015

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    Dear **** buddy, This was your second chance.

    Once, shame on you, but twice? Shame on me. I shouldn't of let you in after the first problem. You clearly didn't learn anything. You still ignore me when all I want is a definite yes/no to meeting for "business". How fricken' hard is that? Apparently, for you, it's the most...
    findingfae findingfae 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 21, 2015

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    Coworker

    I met this coworker of mine over a year ago. We became fast friends, he was there for me when I started my divorce and through that we have become even closer. We have a weekly night of pool that we have every Tuesday. We have never talked about sex or even flirted. Next...
    lady1979 lady1979 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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    Had a great time tonight with the fwb group

    and playing a very naughty version of poker. Then we paired up for the night based on some bets made at the table. We kept it pretty simple tonight. Maybe we will be more extreme next time.
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jul 10, 2015

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    Looking for a girl to have friends with

    benefits with. I'm 16 years old, 5'10 and single. PM me!
    zachlkg zachlkg 16-17, M Oct 24, 2015

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    My best friend. Let's just say we hit third

    base, skipped first base, but I LOVE giving him head. I suck him off in public, meaning so in the car, in a parking lot, at the library, almost in school.
    celeryandcarrots celeryandcarrots 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2015

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    Anything To Be Yours Again

    So recently I started sleeping with my exboyfriend. We never had sex while we were together but I don't think either one of us is completely over the other. So we've had sex 3 times now and we both are in relationships with people other than eachother. One of my friends decided...
    AlicebeneyisSilvereyes AlicebeneyisSilvereyes 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    I am in a FWB relationship.

    We both are married but I have fallen for her. It is hart to be away from her sometimes. Wish I had someone to talk to about it sometimes.
    Irishman69 Irishman69 36-40 1 Response Dec 21, 2015

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    Unfortunately, most of them think they are

    benefiting me by analyzing my life and pointing out my flaws. I don't think they understand the concept.
    Gladhander Gladhander 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 22, 2015

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    I first met Liam in August 2013.

    We texted all the time for the first month we known each other. Then the day before I went on holiday, we basically went ahead and said we'll become friends with benefits. I was a virgin, so he said he'd be gentle and slow. When I came back from my holiday, we met up and he...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    I just started to have fun with one of my

    girlfriends in a van full of people :) girls message me for details
    youngtaylor youngtaylor 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 8, 2015

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