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I Have Friends With Benefits

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    So I need some advice- Last year I hooked up

    with this girl and then a week later her friend They both got really pissed off at me even though they asked me if I wanted to do it Recently the same girl has asked me if we want to do it all again. I know she'll be annoyed at me after but I'm very tempted to do it? Should...
    Justcuriousxox Justcuriousxox 13-15, M 3 Responses May 23

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    My Fwb Delimma

    I sometimes think I have high hope for something that is not going to happen, but that hope is what keeps me going and is making me take the risks I'm taking. Like let's get real he's 40 and I'm 25 we are both very attractive people but I sometimes get the feeling that he just...
    LucyMason LucyMason 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    There's this one guy.

    I had a crush on him for like six months, but I got over it. After that we became just friends. We went camping with two of our friends the other day, and in the middle of the darkest night, he and I went for a walk. We started making out, and I gave him a *******. He told me to...
    JustAnotherHopeless JustAnotherHopeless 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Confused About My Friend With Benefits.

    not once did I think i'd ever be in this situation, however the irony stands that |I knew I was always more friend material than girlfriend material. I knew from the start he was a lad and that he had possibly already slept with half my friends, including male friends and that i...
    sanfranciscotripping sanfranciscotripping 22-25 3 Responses Jul 1, 2010

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    Anything To Be Yours Again

    So recently I started sleeping with my exboyfriend. We never had sex while we were together but I don't think either one of us is completely over the other. So we've had sex 3 times now and we both are in relationships with people other than eachother. One of my friends decided...
    AlicebeneyisSilvereyes AlicebeneyisSilvereyes 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    Experience With Friends With Benefits... Part 1

    Looking back my actions were not always good guy behavior, matter of fact I purposely manufactured bad boy behavior- to get the girl. Did I get the girl. That is something I am still trying to figure out. Historically I have been really bad in the girl department. I never...
    sunofice sunofice 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    I fell in love with my fwb,

    he's always been a really close friend of mine. We connect on a physical and emotional level. Should I tell him how I feel? If so, how should I tell him without ruining our relationship?
    Destinyyyh7 Destinyyyh7 16-17, F 4 Responses May 5

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    This topic really interests me.

    I have had a couple but unfortunately they have fallen for me. At the moment I have a potential two, it's difficult to find someone who does all things so this way I can choose depending on my mood. I look forward to the challenge of deciding. 😉
    formieyesonly formieyesonly 41-45, F 10 Responses Aug 16

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    Still looking... Used to have one,

    but life happened and she moved away. I'm open to having them in multiple cities so I can be shown a good time wherever I happen to be. If any lovely ladies are interested, feel free to get in touch. :)
    TooHorny86 TooHorny86 26-30, M Jun 27

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    Want More

    I hooked up with my friend of 8 yrs for the first time a couple days ago and now I cannot get him off my mind. I don't even think I like him as more than a friend. I just want to be with him again. I want to please him and make him happy. I get so turned on when I think about him...
    ashooshoo ashooshoo 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Working on being friends.

    I grew up lonely and bullied. Recently I have some new FWB. I really enjoy the benefits but I want to work on the friends part and learn to be a good friend. Any suggestions
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 Aug 19

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    I have had a fwb for a few months now,

    at first he was just a mate but now we literally speak everyday, as if we were dating. I feel as if he has caught stronger feelings than me and he recently asked if I loved him, but i replied "I think you're a nice boy" which he was offended by & when I asked the question back...
    onlinebae onlinebae 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I was first friends with my boyfriend

    and we were fooling around before we started dating seriously and we tried but it didn't work. It has been 3 years now and after breaking up he says he wants to be physically committed. I mean he is an amazing person and he did so many things I couldn't repay him back for and he...
    Lovelifee22 Lovelifee22 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I probably had more fwb

    than bfs. Idk if it is my fault or I just haven't found the rite guy for me to trust and be happy with. I've been so use to being single and independent as I don't really rely on others for much. I've been able to have fwb without getting attached as I do not trust easily...but...
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    So I'm extremely confused.

    I went to high school with a guys..let's call him "B". In high school, we didn't really talk at all, but I recently bumped in to him a couple of weeks ago, we exchanged numbers, so on and so forth. Anyway, to make a long story short...we went out, both of us got drunk...annnnd...
    goaldigger goaldigger 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    So I am in my first friends with benefits

    relationship. Could use your advice. I feel like I'm keeping my head on my shoulders about the whole thing. But. Am I going to get hurt? Full disclosure, I'm still married. It's beat the end, and I'm just tired of being lonely. So I met somebody online that has...
    ButterflyCatcher ButterflyCatcher 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 8

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    I am a extremely secret person

    so I think I enjoy this site most of all because I have a place I can let things off my chest yet still be anonymous to some degree. Anyways; with that said, I would say yes I do have a friends with benefit to some degree. He is my best friend in the world he is....talk pale...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    This question is for the men,

    preferably those somewhat in my age range. How many fwb do you typically have going at one time? Is it normal or abnormal to have just one?
    ButterflyCatcher ButterflyCatcher 36-40, F 14 Responses Jun 9

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    Straight With Benefits

    I'm 17 and I'm bi. I've had for FWBs (2 guys, 2 girls). My first one was a friend of mine who was trying to explore his sexuality. Currently my FWB is "straight". We make out and have sex every once in a while when he's not in a relationship and he says that it's just for...
    JerseyBoy333 JerseyBoy333 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2012

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    I would really appreciate some input here,

    i know this is kind of long but I would be glad to hear from anyone who has any advice for me. I'm 18 years old, I just graduated from high school, and am about to leave for college on August 10th. I'm going to school out of state, its about 1,200 miles away, about a 21 drive...
    sidkyd99 sidkyd99 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 25

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    I ended things. We are

    now friends only. The events leading up to that were convoluted and confusing as usual. So a few days ago we went over to some friends of ours. Our friends know about our situation. They have wished that we would date in the past and- I think out of curiosity to see what he...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Just joined here yesterday.

    Interesting place, EP. Good to read about random things, and also things that relate to what's going on in my life. Feeling fantastic today. Met up with my guy for an unexpected Sunday visit, after just seeing him on Thursday. Now it looks as though I will see him again...
    ButterflyCatcher ButterflyCatcher 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 9

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    It is a friend with benefits

    rather than multiple like the title suggests. I have never done it before. Probably wouldn't do it again. But now I feel trapped and I think he does too. How it got started was back in February. We had been room mates and friends without benefits for 4 months. He was a...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Coworker

    I met this coworker of mine over a year ago. We became fast friends, he was there for me when I started my divorce and through that we have become even closer. We have a weekly night of pool that we have every Tuesday. We have never talked about sex or even flirted. Next...
    lady1979 lady1979 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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    I just broke it off..

    .again. I realized that none of his friends knew about it, they just thought we were friends. I mean I stayed overnight at his house in his bed when his son was there. But I am a secret to his friends. Then on Saturday, I was over at his house with a bunch of people and...
    phoenix2011 phoenix2011 36-40, F 4 Responses May 26

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    I have a friend with benefits he is a 44yr old

    man. Single dad of an 6 yr old. He has been divorced for years and I am newly divorced. We meet once a week for some sexual fun. Sometimes I want more and I try not too. Our kids go to the same places for fun, we even shop at some of the same places and we run into each other...
    Beautifulnbroken Beautifulnbroken 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    Fwb

    I've been celibate for the last 6 months, I just got tired of having meaningless sex. I've been praying for a husband so I've been pretty good while waiting. I met this guy a couple months ago and I just want to hang out, he fun and cute, but not boyfriend material. I feel like...
    MsChic79 MsChic79 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    :o

    My friends with benefits has just told me that he likes me. . . more than a friend. . . more than a friends with benefits. To be honest. . . i dont know what to think. Most of you probably haven't read my other stories; so to make long story short. When me and my FWB became...
    simplyawesome3 simplyawesome3 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2011

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    Ihave a good friend with benefits.

    We are both enjoying despite having this relationship as an affair since we both have official lovers. We see each other in sneaking and escaping moments and enjoy each others company very much. We get jealous if each other's partners at times but we conpromise and continue with...
    feebiechichi feebiechichi 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    Great Friends

    I have a friend that has been my friend since we were kids. I've seen her as anything more than a friend. About a year ago she was going through a bad break up and was feeling bad so she asked if I would come over to her place and keep her company. I went over and brought...
    JAIROO7 JAIROO7 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 1, 2013

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    I have a guy friend who's willing to help me

    with my sexual needs. But I also my have my bestie to have fun with if we feel inclined to indulge in some girly fun. I love having these options especially if I don't want a relationship at the moment.
    lacess lacess 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    My Best FWB!!!

    I met my guy best friend 4 yrs ago,we were simple friends,we became close so fast.we used to talk for hours a day till 11 pm.we also talk about sex and stuff .once we started seeing eachother often we would touch eachother hug,love and he is my first kiss.i gave him the best gift...
    oslig oslig 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    Surprise!

    I was having sex with my fwb and he told me to close my eyes so i did. His friend, who had apparently been hiding in the closet, came out and tried to put his penis in his mouth. Once i realized there was a third presence in the room i was apparently in a surprise *********. I...
    ladyduck ladyduck 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2013

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    I have a friend with benefits,

    and I think I am falling for him. I think he is too, but I am not sure. I don't want to get hurt!
    leayce9 leayce9 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    I Should Walk Away Now

    6 months ago I met this guy on a dating website.  We went out a few times, but we were both pretty fresh out of relationships with other people, so we didn't really click or take it anywhere, but we stayed friends. He got back together with his ex for a bit, but they split...
    bripeace bripeace 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    He was suppose to come over tonight

    but he hasn't texted me back in an hour ): .. Got ready for nothing 😒
    aaaxaaa aaaxaaa 18-21, F 28 Responses Jul 10

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    Best Thing Ever

    I have a FWB. Met a few months ago really hit it off I thought I really liked him eventually realized I didn't he's just a great guy. So now we just hang out its not always sex but if I stay at his house it usually ends with that. We haven't really discussed it it just sort if...
    Hotsox11 Hotsox11 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    He has been busy. I've been cooking

    for him and our other room mate a lot. He's been eating everything and going back for seconds. He's normally very picky and not a big eater. So this is strange. He ended up going camping with another guy of ours and a different hike. So we didn't go to the lake together...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F Jul 30

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    I remember the first question you asked me,

    I remember when you walked me home and told me you were afraid of the sea, I remember how we told each other what we wanted to be, I remember we talked about relationships and our flaws, I remember not thinking of the pain this kind of a relationship could cause, I remember...
    sv4894 sv4894 18-21, F Jul 18

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    Me and my friends (they're all boys) often go

    into my hot tub usually after school. There's usually 5 of us to start with but a few of them usually go leaving me alone with just 1. I know them all quite well but recently they've been getting soo ***** over me. I'm 17 and they're all 16. I know that they all find me...
    Gemma1997 Gemma1997 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    I first met Liam in August 2013.

    We texted all the time for the first month we known each other. Then the day before I went on holiday, we basically went ahead and said we'll become friends with benefits. I was a virgin, so he said he'd be gentle and slow. When I came back from my holiday, we met up and he...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    Me and my best friend have been very close

    for a while and our conversations get very sexual and we know everything about each other. What makes our friendship special is that cause we are both single, we occasionally do stuff with each other, as friends. So far we've only been snogging and touching, but if we are single...
    Diggerzdabeast Diggerzdabeast 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 18

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    I love having a friends with benefits

    but it can be so nerve wracking. In the past, I have had feelings for a friend with benefit & that didn't turn out so well. I would go over to his house, hang out, watch movies, and cuddle. My feelings got so bad, I would dream about him while I was there! I wouldn't do...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Things have taken a different turn

    than I thought they would. Its felt like he was mad at me for a while. We kind of blew up the night before last. The other night he picked out a movie and it was playing. I was getting texts and he said "This is one of my favorite movies and its a big part of what's shaped my...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    Hehehehehe, I have 4 right now!

    One is super close and treats me like a girlfriend for all intents and purposes. He knows about the others, and is fine. We just don't talk about it, unless he asks directly. The other 3 know they are side projects, but are happy to take what they can get. 2 of them are best...
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was left with this guy alone

    while everyone was buying bud and we ended up having sex, then he asked me if I want to be fwb and I was down but yesterday was kinda awkward ... He said he wanted to stop because he was just experimenting and he might catch feelings. After that I think I might've catched...
    mariaababieexo mariaababieexo 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I Don'T, But I Have One Who Wants To

    I've known a fellow bartender for the last 3 years, she is about 37 or 38, (can't remember exactly)....but she is is single now...just within the last 6-8 months. Before that she was in a 1 year relationship with a guy whom I don't think she really cared about...at least her...
    jackdaniels1967 jackdaniels1967 46-50, M 6 Responses May 27, 2013

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    Side Lover

    I have a man who I can call for sex any time. My husband knows, mostly, as that part of our thing. My side man thinks I am cheating and likes the excitement of that.
    soni30 soni30 31-35, F 13 Responses Mar 30, 2013

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    So I hooked up with a guy I met at a Korean spa.

    We texted about what we were looking for. We both said friends with benefits. We got together and it was good. Yesterday i took a risk. I've never really had friends but I decided I would text this guy and see if he wanted just to go get some breakfast with me. I was shocked...
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 1 Response Aug 18

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    I Had No Idea

    I met this very attracted older guy who found me cute. we met in a walgreens when i was with my mom buying cough syrup. he was just staring at me. i could tell that he was attracted to me. i did not know his name and about 2 days later i was walking home, i saw him again. we...
    zowiebowie zowiebowie 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2012

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    Can it really be this easy?

    So on the same page that jealousy doesn't exist and the laughs never stop? Some might judge me because I'm married, but I have found the most perfect friend with benefits situation. I had a brief freak out earlier this week, worrying I might fall for him and end up hurt. But...
    ButterflyCatcher ButterflyCatcher 36-40, F 11 Responses Jun 11

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    Not As Great As I Thought

    I have a friend with benefits.  He is my oldest daughter's biological father.  I hadn't seen him for over 10 years.  My daughter wanted to find him for her graduation and after 3 days of intensive internet searcing we found him.  his wife had just left him and...
    sunnyblues sunnyblues 36-40 5 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    Went out with Pete (My FWB)

    and his two roommates. grabbed pizza. Ryan commented on my nail polish again.
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 6 days ago

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