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    Friends with benefits just

    as friends... I knew someone was going to have feelings and get their heart broken. I already had feelings for him. Thought I could handle them as I never was really jealous. But no... I felt heartbroken. Now I am accepting the fact he likes someone else, which made me feel...
    Sunnybychance Sunnybychance 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 17

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    Devonbaby Devonbaby 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 23

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    Not As Great As I Thought

    I have a friend with benefits.  He is my oldest daughter's biological father.  I hadn't seen him for over 10 years.  My daughter wanted to find him for her graduation and after 3 days of intensive internet searcing we found him.  his wife had just left him and...
    sunnyblues sunnyblues 36-40 5 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    Anything To Be Yours Again

    So recently I started sleeping with my exboyfriend. We never had sex while we were together but I don't think either one of us is completely over the other. So we've had sex 3 times now and we both are in relationships with people other than eachother. One of my friends decided...
    AlicebeneyisSilvereyes AlicebeneyisSilvereyes 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    Or shall I say HAD. So my old fwb's has started

    messaging me on Facebook. I keep getting harassed on my ask.fm account over my v-card and who I lost it to. He saw the questions and answers and he messaged me saying 'as if you get all that harassment on your ask.fm' and now he's basically complaining how he can't sleep and...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Feb 14

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    I Don'T, But I Have One Who Wants To

    I've known a fellow bartender for the last 3 years, she is about 37 or 38, (can't remember exactly)....but she is is single now...just within the last 6-8 months. Before that she was in a 1 year relationship with a guy whom I don't think she really cared about...at least her...
    jackdaniels1967 jackdaniels1967 46-50, M 5 Responses May 27, 2013

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    The moment when you realize it's 3 in the

    morning and your brother and you are both laying on the same girl's boob and licking her in the face to keep her awake before having to drive home
    DavidHamilton1 DavidHamilton1 16-17, M Apr 11

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    My Best FWB!!!

    I met my guy best friend 4 yrs ago,we were simple friends,we became close so fast.we used to talk for hours a day till 11 pm.we also talk about sex and stuff .once we started seeing eachother often we would touch eachother hug,love and he is my first kiss.i gave him the best gift...
    oslig oslig 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    I finally had a 3 some with two other girls!

    Best fun I've had in almost 5 years. I got to try so many things I had only fantasized about until last night. We literally were going at it for 4 hours on a dorm floor. A friend of mine was working at the RA stand monitoring the entrance and she caught me on my way out with an...
    Cephaloria Cephaloria 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Lu24642 Lu24642 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I am a extremely secret person

    so I think I enjoy this site most of all because I have a place I can let things off my chest yet still be anonymous to some degree. Anyways; with that said, I would say yes I do have a friends with benefit to some degree. He is my best friend in the world he is....talk pale...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Feb 23

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    He was suppose to come over tonight

    but he hasn't texted me back in an hour ): .. Got ready for nothing 😒
    aaaxaaa aaaxaaa 18-21, F 45 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    My husband and I met a couple about our age at

    a resort, by the bon fire. The 4 of us clicked right away and I felt super comfortable with him. I felt some kind of connection with him, not emotionally, but something and I couldn't place it. He asked my husband if he could take my hand and go for a stroll and he said yes. My...
    freenakedcouple freenakedcouple 31-35, F 10 Responses Feb 13

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    Dear **** buddy, This was your second chance.

    Once, shame on you, but twice? Shame on me. I shouldn't of let you in after the first problem. You clearly didn't learn anything. You still ignore me when all I want is a definite yes/no to meeting for "business". How fricken' hard is that? Apparently, for you, it's the most...
    findingfae findingfae 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 21

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    Warning, this is long,

    but I feel as though I have to tell the full details of the story. Even if no one responds, I just need the catharsis of letting it all out for once. Eleven years ago, I met my one of my ex's good friends (let's call him Bill) and we in turn became great friends as well. He...
    sketchit sketchit 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    Me and my friends (they're all boys) often go

    into my hot tub usually after school. There's usually 5 of us to start with but a few of them usually go leaving me alone with just 1. I know them all quite well but recently they've been getting soo ***** over me. I'm 17 and they're all 16. I know that they all find me...
    Gemma1997 Gemma1997 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    It really makes me sad

    that I have some friends with benefits because I realize that it feels like I'm unwanted in a way...just for my body and not my personality. But sex makes the pain go away for a while so I attempt to stay with it, pushing my real emotions away for a while so I can feel pure...
    Frostbitten09 Frostbitten09 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 15

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    I am a 16 year old male

    and I have a friend who is a 16 year old female. We are both single. She sleeps over at my house around every three weeks and I always have the best time when she does. There is nothing sexual between us, we are just friends, she sees me as her gay friend even though she knows...
    Coolguy11211 Coolguy11211 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 18

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    Can it really be this easy?

    So on the same page that jealousy doesn't exist and the laughs never stop? Some might judge me because I'm married, but I have found the most perfect friend with benefits situation. I had a brief freak out earlier this week, worrying I might fall for him and end up hurt. But...
    ButterflyCatcher ButterflyCatcher 41-45, F 10 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    I just started to have fun with one of my

    girlfriends in a van full of people :) girls message me for details
    youngtaylor youngtaylor 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 8

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    For those of you who have followed

    and read my previous stories, you would all know Liam and what he is to me. Okay, we've always kind of had communication difficulties when it comes to talking about our personal life but this time round, I was able to open my mouth and tell him a bit more about myself. Him too...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I told the guy I fell

    for with friends w benifits I just wanted to be friends and no sex at all because my feelings were getting attached and he doesn't feel the same . and he flipped out on me...but why?
    brijk20 brijk20 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 1

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    I've had several in the past,

    guys and girls, always a lot of fun
    bd693 bd693 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 15

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    God sake what is wrong with me!

    ? I'm over-analyzing every little thing! -.-
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    So there is this guy im seeing

    and the sex is amazing!! And things are getting serious but I do have a fwb and I don't know what to do
    Foreverloved85 Foreverloved85 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    So I'm extremely confused.

    I went to high school with a guys..let's call him "B". In high school, we didn't really talk at all, but I recently bumped in to him a couple of weeks ago, we exchanged numbers, so on and so forth. Anyway, to make a long story short...we went out, both of us got drunk...annnnd...
    goaldigger goaldigger 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2014

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    Hehehehehe, I have 4 right now!

    One is super close and treats me like a girlfriend for all intents and purposes. He knows about the others, and is fine. We just don't talk about it, unless he asks directly. The other 3 know they are side projects, but are happy to take what they can get. 2 of them are best...
    yppirt yppirt 31-35, F 8 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    Side Lover

    I have a man who I can call for sex any time. My husband knows, mostly, as that part of our thing. My side man thinks I am cheating and likes the excitement of that.
    soni30 soni30 31-35, F 17 Responses Mar 30, 2013

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    So, how long do you think a FWB should last?

    I've been fwb with a guy for almost 3 years now. We hang out, we talk all the time. But he always says that he doesn't think any girl could handle him in a relationship. I've been around for almost 3 years with him. I do everything for him. I've been told I need to just cut it...
    Dearrobynn Dearrobynn 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 14

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    So I’ve been in this weird friends with

    benefits relationship with a guy. Over time I secretly developed feelings for him and we’ve been texting each other excessively. Eventually the beneficial part of our relationship stopped after 6 months as he claims to have no feelings for me, and he says he cannot have sex...
    Maude01 Maude01 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    I've been with my fwb

    for a little over a yr now. When we first hooked up he warned me he wasn't "a relationship" kind of guy, and at first that was great cause I didn't want the headache of anything more. Now though I'm thinking I'd like more from a guy, just hate to give up great sex not knowing if...
    lilldemen lilldemen 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    My Fwb Delimma

    I sometimes think I have high hope for something that is not going to happen, but that hope is what keeps me going and is making me take the risks I'm taking. Like let's get real he's 40 and I'm 25 we are both very attractive people but I sometimes get the feeling that he just...
    LucyMason LucyMason 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    Best Thing Ever

    I have a FWB. Met a few months ago really hit it off I thought I really liked him eventually realized I didn't he's just a great guy. So now we just hang out its not always sex but if I stay at his house it usually ends with that. We haven't really discussed it it just sort if...
    Hotsox11 Hotsox11 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 15

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    I'll be back at 11, you just act like a peasant.

    Got a bow on my panties cause my *** is a present. Let me see what you're workin with, if I'm ridin, I'm murkin it, slow grindin, I'm twerkin it, yeah I bagged him, I Birkin'd it Cause we are just animals, baby it's primal, I want you on all fours, and before I let you walk...
    findingfae findingfae 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    What are the guidelines

    for FWB?? What are the things you DON'T DO comparing to a dating relationship.
    myheart99 myheart99 36-40, F 15 Responses Feb 24

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    So my fwb just told me he's starting to try

    online dating. I didn't have an issue with this before but I felt that strong pang of jealousy in my stomach. That's basically a red flag and my cue to end this relationship. It sucks. I hate this feeling, it's been eating at me for a while. I thought I was able to get...
    WhatTheMEL WhatTheMEL 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    I didn't know in which group should I write

    so I'll write here . Actually I don't have this kind of friend , but I do have ***ting friend. I asked him before if he's into me or not and he said he isn't, so we started to write dirtier.But I always wrote the laughing emoji Nd he aswell. We're talking about everything and...
    brojob brojob 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    To a certain degree, I love all of them.

    Really, I do. One of them loves the idea of me being with her after I’ve been with another. She also gets off on the idea of me being with someone else after she has been with me. Another one loves how I dominate her but enjoys the passion we have each time our lips...
    ConradHelix ConradHelix 31-35, M Feb 9

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    I probably had more fwb

    than bfs. Idk if it is my fault or I just haven't found the rite guy for me to trust and be happy with. I've been so use to being single and independent as I don't really rely on others for much. I've been able to have fwb without getting attached as I do not trust easily...but...
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    i had a fwb who was an ex girlfriend whom i

    believe had borderline personality disorder. It was a nightmare scenerio in which having never experienced romantic love in my life i was systematica?ly devalued until i was nothing more than a ***** and i lied to myself that this was enough. All the more difficult when you are...
    pedroantonius pedroantonius 46-50, M Feb 15

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    Yes and I'm not proud of it.

    Yeah I should've told my soon to be boyfriend from the start but I didn't. I've done everything you can imagine with this guy and well yeah... Somehow I'm shocked I'm not pregnant. Things happen when your bored at 1 am and parents aren't home :/
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    I have a cute little friend I **** every other

    day we are thinking about starting a relationship. I hope he wants to!!!
    1Thatonedudeyouknow 1Thatonedudeyouknow 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    I have quite a lot of these it's good knowing

    that there is normally always someone available to sort out me and my needs anytime. my bf isn't the biggest so I need someone who can satisfy my sex addiction better. luckily I have lots of guys who are happy to help me. some are married some are single but I don't care as long...
    CheatingTracy CheatingTracy 22-25, F 10 Responses Feb 25

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    :-( just found out my fwb is seeing someone now,

    so none for me. When we first got together over a yr ago he said he wasn't a "relationship" kind of guy, this is the 2nd girl he wanted to get to know better. What makes me not good enough? I never smothered him, always gave him his space, tried not sleeping over to often cause...
    lilldemen lilldemen 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 22

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