I Have Friends With Benefits

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    Lu24642 Lu24642
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Dec 6, 2014

    Coworker

    I met this coworker of mine over a year ago. We became fast friends, he was there for me when I started my divorce and through that we have become even closer. We have a weekly night of pool that we have every Tuesday. We have never talked about sex or even flirted. Next...
    lady1979 lady1979
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Sep 24, 2012

    (Read past fwb posts

    for context) I now have 3 female applicants for the open fwb spot. I'm interviewing one girl tonight. Her name is Sara. She's 25. This is a pic of her chest and smile (which I feel is all I'm allowed to reveal). In the comments below, please recommend any questions I can ask...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Jun 26, 2015

    I just started to have fun with one of my

    girlfriends in a van full of people :) girls message me for details
    youngtaylor youngtaylor
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Mar 8, 2015

    my ex bf that I've known

    for 13 years has been my friend with benefits. I am married and yes my husband knows. my husband is not very sexual or very affectionate. he knows I want intimacy and affection. it doesn't bother him that I continue my friends with benefits for the past 13 years. it's been...
    smashmouth4eva smashmouth4eva
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Feb 5

    This is something I have been wanting to explore

    for quite some time. It seems safe as far as avoiding heartbreak is concerned, but unstable and unpredictable in the long term. The fact that the connection is deep, still it is quite fragile that it makes me want to approach it with care.
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe
    41-45, F
    15 Responses Sep 12, 2015

    Dear **** buddy, This was your second chance.

    Once, shame on you, but twice? Shame on me. I shouldn't of let you in after the first problem. You clearly didn't learn anything. You still ignore me when all I want is a definite yes/no to meeting for "business". How fricken' hard is that? Apparently, for you, it's the most...
    findingfae findingfae
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 21, 2015

    I was telling my friend how I really wanted to

    meet someone new and how I wanted to get with someone. So the next day she introduced me to a guy. Well. we've been hanging out every day for almost the whole day and yesterday he made a move and we had sex. Anyways. it was good honestly. but I don't know how long it's going to...
    SnoopDoggsGrama SnoopDoggsGrama
    18-21, F
    Feb 24

    Well after having failed relationships with men

    and woman. I started having a friends with benefits relationship with a lovely girl. We met in the club, got wasted , kissed and after that happend we went on a few dates. Allot of talking and kissing further. i told her " i like you, but i dont want a relationship it has been...
    Nicolej94 Nicolej94
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 5

    I know to some my fwb interview process seems

    weird, but it's very kinky and fun for me and for the interviewee. Here's another girl I've interviewed tonight. After her, I'll have one more girl to interview and then one final night with the guy who is leaving my fwb group. Name: Jess Age: 21 Orientation: bi curious...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    I'm fwb with this guy I met on hot

    or not , his name is Tyler and I think I'm starting to get feels , tho he doesn't have any for me I'm guessing Bc he barely texts me , but looking back at this is gonna b funny B)
    ThatAwkwardFriend ThatAwkwardFriend
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Oct 18, 2015

    Side Lover

    I have a man who I can call for sex any time. My husband knows, mostly, as that part of our thing. My side man thinks I am cheating and likes the excitement of that.
    soni30 soni30
    31-35, F
    13 Responses Mar 30, 2013

    I am a extremely secret person

    so I think I enjoy this site most of all because I have a place I can let things off my chest yet still be anonymous to some degree. Anyways; with that said, I would say yes I do have a friends with benefit to some degree. He is my best friend in the world he is....talk pale...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 28, 2014
    Devonbaby Devonbaby
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Jan 23, 2015
    ILoveGirlAss ILoveGirlAss
    31-35, M
    Feb 5

    What does everyone REALLY think about this

    "hobby". Do you think its almost NSA? How do feelings not develop? I tried it with an exboyfriend and I seriously shouldn't gave done it coz he started getting stalky and now I don't speak to him and forget I did it. Anyone have any thoughts??
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 6
    smilezz211 smilezz211
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 8, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    carlyccaa carlyccaa
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 19, 2015
    AshleyNichole1995 AshleyNichole1995
    18-21, F
    20 Responses Mar 28

    I tend to keep no more

    than 5 fwb's at a time. And yes, we are actual friends that hang out together, but with the understanding that sex is always available between us and that it is strictly sexual (no relationship crap). I treat the 5 like VIP memberships. So there are a few rules and I even have...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    16 Responses Jun 8, 2015

    My fwb and I text or talk every week

    but may only see each other 1x a month or every couple of months. He is single, I am married and 15 years his Sr. We have a very unique relationship indeed. We laugh, have great conversation, watch a movie, share what has been going on in each other's lives and have great sex...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    13 Responses Sep 18, 2015

    Messin around with 4 girls right

    now on the regular.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 13

    Me and my friends (they're all boys) often go

    into my hot tub usually after school. There's usually 5 of us to start with but a few of them usually go leaving me alone with just 1. I know them all quite well but recently they've been getting soo ***** over me. I'm 17 and they're all 16. I know that they all find me...
    Gemma1997 Gemma1997
    18-21, F
    Mar 7, 2014

    Looking for a new FWB in Kansas City.

    ...I had one 2 years ago. It was fantastic as we both got our desires fulfilled. She is my best friend still.
    PTCdresser2158 PTCdresser2158
    56-60, M
    Feb 6

    Honestly I think the whole idea is a cesspool

    for the mentally weak. The latest greatest idea that is Tinder which was meant for speed dating has now become a McDonald's drive thru value menu for quickies with strangers who are too mentally weak to keep up a relationship with someone they admire. People are so damn lazy now...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 5

    I interviewed another possible fwb today.

    I'll share a few stats about her. Name: Jamey Age: 22 Orientation: bi Status: married Breast size: 38dd Pubic hair: shaved
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses Jun 27, 2015

    He was suppose to come over tonight

    but he hasn't texted me back in an hour ): .. Got ready for nothing πŸ˜’
    aaaxaaa aaaxaaa
    18-21, F
    41 Responses Jul 10, 2014

    Friends are themselves benefits to me.

    The ones I've had or do have are very nice to me. That's not a profound statement I guess, cause if they weren't friendly then they would be just acquaintances. My friends help me with my problems, perspective. When I was a kid they kept me company, were faithful playmates...
    9minute 9minute
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 5

    Losing My Virginity To An Air Force *******.

    I have started and deleted this story seven times now, I don't know why it's so hard for me to clearly express my emotions about this guy and explain the situation I been in. So from the beginning, we met almost a year ago from an app called Whisper. He approached me in the...
    PandaaMee PandaaMee
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Feb 14

    So, the fwb group is

    even now, with 3 guys and 3 girls (me included). My lesbian fwb, Beth, will not be involved with group stuff. We will be meeting as a group for the first time Thursday night. I'm gonna come up with a creative/naughty game as an ice breaker and just see where things go...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Jul 7, 2015

    I have decided upon the two new additions to my

    fwb group. Jamey and Natalie (see past posts for their pics). After giving the guy who is leaving the group a farewell favor last night, Jess stopped by. She didn't mind being rejected but still wanted to explore some of her curiosities. I let her touch and explore my body a...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jul 1, 2015

    I first met Liam in August 2013.

    We texted all the time for the first month we known each other. Then the day before I went on holiday, we basically went ahead and said we'll become friends with benefits. I was a virgin, so he said he'd be gentle and slow. When I came back from my holiday, we met up and he...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 23, 2014

    Friday I'm sleeping over his house with our son.

    our son is excited to have a sleep over with his sisters. I'm looking foward to being in bed with my ex and cuddle. I'm not expecting to be intimate with him. im just happy to be in his presence. it's not all about intimacy. he is my friend and our friendship is important over...
    smashmouth4eva smashmouth4eva
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 9

    I am in a FWB relationship.

    We both are married but I have fallen for her. It is hart to be away from her sometimes. Wish I had someone to talk to about it sometimes.
    Irishman69 Irishman69
    36-40
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2015

    Here is a nice basic picture of my lesbian fwb.

    Her name is Beth. Ask anything you want about her (and our fwb friendship) in the comments. Maybe if you're all lucky, she'll let me show a more revealing pic of her.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Jun 29, 2015

    Saw my fwb last night

    and it was very special. We have not seen each other in a while and I felt like last Sat he kinda teased me about getting together & then when I said I could make it happen, he said he couldn't. So I was a little put out with him to say the least. We talked yesterday and he...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Mar 26

    I’ve been friends with benefits with this guy,

    recently, whom I’ve noticed weird things about. But then again I might be paranoid, and it’s all fine. First red flag: We were texting and joking around, then I ended up cursing at him, saying, β€œ**** you”. Now my friends around me know I curse like a sailor. So does...
    Masquerade91 Masquerade91
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Feb 5

    Well, Just a week ago it changed from I want

    friends with benefits to I have friends with benefits. We are already friends and now we are friends with benefits...a lot of benefits. 😏
    MrAwesomeNiceGuy MrAwesomeNiceGuy
    16-17, M
    Oct 24, 2015

    Best Thing Ever

    I have a FWB. Met a few months ago really hit it off I thought I really liked him eventually realized I didn't he's just a great guy. So now we just hang out its not always sex but if I stay at his house it usually ends with that. We haven't really discussed it it just sort if...
    Hotsox11 Hotsox11
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 4, 2013

    Warning, this is long,

    but I feel as though I have to tell the full details of the story. Even if no one responds, I just need the catharsis of letting it all out for once. Eleven years ago, I met my one of my ex's good friends (let's call him Bill) and we in turn became great friends as well. He...
    sketchit sketchit
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 9, 2014

    I'm fwb with my best friend.

    We've known each other for 5 years and became super close within the last 2 or so. I started liking him my freshman year in college, but he was in love with another girl so I ignored my feelings for him, but that summer I realized I really did like him and so I told him. At that...
    forever21baby14 forever21baby14
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2015

    It started when I had emotionally checked out

    of my relationship with my verbally abusive ex. I went over my friends house to vent when we started wrestling but it turned into sex. We both had said we can't do that again and agreed it was a one time thing. I feel like that first time was a little awkward because 1) about a...
    RoseGradenn RoseGradenn
    22-25
    4 Responses Jan 22

    My FWB contacted me back

    after he disappeared for one year. I ignore his text messages and calls like how he ignored my text earlier (I was not needy, I sent him one "How are you?" text before..only one text message). I enjoyed the sex with you but I am not a piece of trash.
    Iittlepuppet Iittlepuppet
    26-30, F
    Mar 19

    Hi I'm Wolfie and yes I have friends with

    benefits:) Right hand ... Say hello to left hand :)-
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    Can it really be this easy?

    So on the same page that jealousy doesn't exist and the laughs never stop? Some might judge me because I'm married, but I have found the most perfect friend with benefits situation. I had a brief freak out earlier this week, worrying I might fall for him and end up hurt. But...
    ButterflyCatcher ButterflyCatcher
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Jun 11, 2014

    Many of you asked about my application process

    for my fwb's. Below are all the questions on the application. To clarify...this NOT an invitation/opportunity to full this out. The application is filled out ahead of time, and in the interview, I ask them to expand on their answers. Then they're allowed to ask questions...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    17 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    Looking for a girl to have friends with

    benefits with. I'm 16 years old, 5'10 and single. PM me!
    zachlkg zachlkg
    16-17, M
    Oct 24, 2015

    Both my wife and I have fwb.

    My sex drive is far more active than my wife's and she accepts that sometimes I need more than she can give. I have 3 fwb's. One is a 23 year student. Second is our 19 year old babysitter, and the third is a work colleague who is a 35 year old mother of two. My wife has 2 fwb...
    Aussie1986 Aussie1986
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Jan 18
    txchocolatefire txchocolatefire
    36-40, M
    Feb 5
    ElCharlotte ElCharlotte
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 15
    Ceaser55 Ceaser55
    18-21, M
    Jan 23

    Is there a limit to how often you can call on

    your friends with benefits? Is more than 2x a week too much? We're friends but right now we're more f*** buddies. I have lots of urges so I call him. But is it too much?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    16 Responses Dec 9, 2015

    My fwb and I have made plans to see each other

    tomorrow night and I'm so glad. It has been hard having nc with ex-MM for the past 3 months so I have valued having my friend to chat with and take my mind off the past. We both agree this relationship has worked well for us over the past two years. We have been a source of...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    Had a great time tonight with the fwb group

    and playing a very naughty version of poker. Then we paired up for the night based on some bets made at the table. We kept it pretty simple tonight. Maybe we will be more extreme next time.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jul 10, 2015
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