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    I know people who have nothing

    but disappointing stories about FWB relationships. I have had mostly positive experiences.
    HippieGuyInATie78 HippieGuyInATie78 36-40, M Aug 20

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sadaccaa sadaccaa 26-30, F Jun 5

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    I know to some my fwb interview process seems

    weird, but it's very kinky and fun for me and for the interviewee. Here's another girl I've interviewed tonight. After her, I'll have one more girl to interview and then one final night with the guy who is leaving my fwb group. Name: Jess Age: 21 Orientation: bi curious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jun 28

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    Lu24642 Lu24642 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    Fun while it lasted. Got to know each other

    last summer, got on a bit too well in Spain while she was still with her boyfriend. Luckily, that changed soon after we got home. Neither of us wanted a relationship, so friends with benefits suited us both down to the ground. The first morning after was awkward when I walked...
    neathiopian neathiopian 18-21, M May 20

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    So we had a conversation earlier

    and this shocked me...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Jun 8

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    Can it really be this easy?

    So on the same page that jealousy doesn't exist and the laughs never stop? Some might judge me because I'm married, but I have found the most perfect friend with benefits situation. I had a brief freak out earlier this week, worrying I might fall for him and end up hurt. But...
    ButterflyCatcher ButterflyCatcher 41-45, F 9 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    I am a extremely secret person

    so I think I enjoy this site most of all because I have a place I can let things off my chest yet still be anonymous to some degree. Anyways; with that said, I would say yes I do have a friends with benefit to some degree. He is my best friend in the world he is....talk pale...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    Dear **** buddy, This was your second chance.

    Once, shame on you, but twice? Shame on me. I shouldn't of let you in after the first problem. You clearly didn't learn anything. You still ignore me when all I want is a definite yes/no to meeting for "business". How fricken' hard is that? Apparently, for you, it's the most...
    findingfae findingfae 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 21

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    It's hard to draw the line with people

    who are good to have as friends with benefits. I have one good friend which occasionally we fool around. What's great is that we are good friends and we know what it is. We can see each other the next day and have it never come up, like it never happened. We talk about it...
    stella517 stella517 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    I probably had more fwb

    than bfs. Idk if it is my fault or I just haven't found the rite guy for me to trust and be happy with. I've been so use to being single and independent as I don't really rely on others for much. I've been able to have fwb without getting attached as I do not trust easily...but...
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Warning, this is long,

    but I feel as though I have to tell the full details of the story. Even if no one responds, I just need the catharsis of letting it all out for once. Eleven years ago, I met my one of my ex's good friends (let's call him Bill) and we in turn became great friends as well. He...
    sketchit sketchit 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    So I actually caught feelings

    for the guy I had friends with benefits with 😕 I know he doesn't see me like that but I just wish he did cause now I don't want to sleep with him again cause I don't want my feelings to get stronger! I'm just confused.
    ka216 ka216 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    There's this girl that I've been friends with

    for a while. A few days ago she told me that she wouldn't mind being friends with benefits. I told her I wasn't interested in that and after that I haven't heard from her. I think she doesn't want to be my friend no more
    BuickLesley BuickLesley 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I first met Liam in August 2013.

    We texted all the time for the first month we known each other. Then the day before I went on holiday, we basically went ahead and said we'll become friends with benefits. I was a virgin, so he said he'd be gentle and slow. When I came back from my holiday, we met up and he...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    I've been with my fwb

    for a little over a yr now. When we first hooked up he warned me he wasn't "a relationship" kind of guy, and at first that was great cause I didn't want the headache of anything more. Now though I'm thinking I'd like more from a guy, just hate to give up great sex not knowing if...
    lilldemen lilldemen 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    So there is this guy im seeing

    and the sex is amazing!! And things are getting serious but I do have a fwb and I don't know what to do
    Foreverloved85 Foreverloved85 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    Anything To Be Yours Again

    So recently I started sleeping with my exboyfriend. We never had sex while we were together but I don't think either one of us is completely over the other. So we've had sex 3 times now and we both are in relationships with people other than eachother. One of my friends decided...
    AlicebeneyisSilvereyes AlicebeneyisSilvereyes 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    Many of you asked about my application process

    for my fwb's. Below are all the questions on the application. To clarify...this NOT an invitation/opportunity to full this out. The application is filled out ahead of time, and in the interview, I ask them to expand on their answers. Then they're allowed to ask questions...
    deleted deleted 26-30 19 Responses Jun 11

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    Is it truly possible to have a FWB without

    getting feelings involved at some point? I have one, but I'm starting to feel my mind wander to him at various times throughout the day. How can you keep it truly just that without the relationship and emotions?
    kendall376 kendall376 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kyliecc11 kyliecc11 26-30, F Jun 10

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    I finally had a 3 some with two other girls!

    Best fun I've had in almost 5 years. I got to try so many things I had only fantasized about until last night. We literally were going at it for 4 hours on a dorm floor. A friend of mine was working at the RA stand monitoring the entrance and she caught me on my way out with an...
    Cephaloria Cephaloria 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    I just started to have fun with one of my

    girlfriends in a van full of people :) girls message me for details
    youngtaylor youngtaylor 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 8

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    Here is a nice basic picture of my lesbian fwb.

    Her name is Beth. Ask anything you want about her (and our fwb friendship) in the comments. Maybe if you're all lucky, she'll let me show a more revealing pic of her.
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jun 29

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    Yep, now if I find a good balance between,

    hey sup and txting EVERY minute I should be good
    NomadAngel117 NomadAngel117 18-21, M Jun 2

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    I have decided upon the two new additions to my

    fwb group. Jamey and Natalie (see past posts for their pics). After giving the guy who is leaving the group a farewell favor last night, Jess stopped by. She didn't mind being rejected but still wanted to explore some of her curiosities. I let her touch and explore my body a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 1

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    Me and my friends (they're all boys) often go

    into my hot tub usually after school. There's usually 5 of us to start with but a few of them usually go leaving me alone with just 1. I know them all quite well but recently they've been getting soo ***** over me. I'm 17 and they're all 16. I know that they all find me...
    Gemma1997 Gemma1997 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2014

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    Best Thing Ever

    I have a FWB. Met a few months ago really hit it off I thought I really liked him eventually realized I didn't he's just a great guy. So now we just hang out its not always sex but if I stay at his house it usually ends with that. We haven't really discussed it it just sort if...
    Hotsox11 Hotsox11 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    He was suppose to come over tonight

    but he hasn't texted me back in an hour ): .. Got ready for nothing 😒
    aaaxaaa aaaxaaa 18-21, F 45 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    Side Lover

    I have a man who I can call for sex any time. My husband knows, mostly, as that part of our thing. My side man thinks I am cheating and likes the excitement of that.
    soni30 soni30 31-35, F 17 Responses Mar 30, 2013

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    Had a great time tonight with the fwb group

    and playing a very naughty version of poker. Then we paired up for the night based on some bets made at the table. We kept it pretty simple tonight. Maybe we will be more extreme next time.
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jul 10

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    Janeccaa Janeccaa 26-30, F Jul 7

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    I'll be back at 11, you just act like a peasant.

    Got a bow on my panties cause my *** is a present. Let me see what you're workin with, if I'm ridin, I'm murkin it, slow grindin, I'm twerkin it, yeah I bagged him, I Birkin'd it Cause we are just animals, baby it's primal, I want you on all fours, and before I let you walk...
    findingfae findingfae 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    I interviewed another possible fwb today.

    I'll share a few stats about her. Name: Jamey Age: 22 Orientation: bi Status: married Breast size: 38dd Pubic hair: shaved
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jun 27

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    Coworker

    I met this coworker of mine over a year ago. We became fast friends, he was there for me when I started my divorce and through that we have become even closer. We have a weekly night of pool that we have every Tuesday. We have never talked about sex or even flirted. Next...
    lady1979 lady1979 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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    Devonbaby Devonbaby 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 23

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    Went for a staycation last week with Friend

    with Benefits after not seeing each other for 3 weeks. In the middle of intense sex he asked "Do you love me?" and i answered "yes" without thinking. No further discussion regarding that question but why the heck he asked anyway. is it spur of the moment man thingy?
    lovablepunk lovablepunk 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    (Read past fwb posts

    for context) I now have 3 female applicants for the open fwb spot. I'm interviewing one girl tonight. Her name is Sara. She's 25. This is a pic of her chest and smile (which I feel is all I'm allowed to reveal). In the comments below, please recommend any questions I can ask...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Jun 26

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    I had a friend who I was flirting with about a

    year ago contact me yesterday and out of the blue ask me if I'd be interested in being friends with benefits. We're both with other people and simply want an animal connection. I told her of course I'm interested! She's comparing our schedules now to find a weekly day to get...
    BlueEyedBob BlueEyedBob 31-35, M 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    tsmith0331 tsmith0331 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    So, the fwb group is

    even now, with 3 guys and 3 girls (me included). My lesbian fwb, Beth, will not be involved with group stuff. We will be meeting as a group for the first time Thursday night. I'm gonna come up with a creative/naughty game as an ice breaker and just see where things go...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jul 7

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    I'm finding this so hard.

    I became friends with a guy we got so close we been sleeping together on and off. He was so upfront can't blame him for my me having these feeling. I had to tell him the other day in order to save our friendship we must stop sleeping together. I am falling for him. I can't help...
    stupid28 stupid28 31-35, F 1 Response May 31

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    My life is complicated

    and super stressful. Work sees to that. I don't have time for nor do I want a relationship and honestly, who wants to be bogged down with all of that? However I have a strong desires and urges so I'm proud to have a "friend" that helps me out and I help them out. There's no...
    secretdesires78 secretdesires78 36-40, F 11 Responses May 17

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    I tend to keep no more

    than 5 fwb's at a time. And yes, we are actual friends that hang out together, but with the understanding that sex is always available between us and that it is strictly sexual (no relationship crap). I treat the 5 like VIP memberships. So there are a few rules and I even have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 22 Responses Jun 8

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    So my fwb just told me he's starting to try

    online dating. I didn't have an issue with this before but I felt that strong pang of jealousy in my stomach. That's basically a red flag and my cue to end this relationship. It sucks. I hate this feeling, it's been eating at me for a while. I thought I was able to get...
    WhatTheMEL WhatTheMEL 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 16

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    Met a girl at school.

    We been talking for a week. She said she wanted to be friends with benefits. I told her just friends i don't want to date or get into a bf/gf thing. She said just friends but she wants benefits too. I'm going to try but if she gets all weird and needy and wants me to be her bf...
    JulianNorwhich JulianNorwhich 18-21, M Jun 9