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I Have Friends With Benefits

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    I am a extremely secret person

    so I think I enjoy this site most of all because I have a place I can let things off my chest yet still be anonymous to some degree. Anyways; with that said, I would say yes I do have a friends with benefit to some degree. He is my best friend in the world he is....talk pale...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    So there is this guy im seeing

    and the sex is amazing!! And things are getting serious but I do have a fwb and I don't know what to do
    Foreverloved85 Foreverloved85 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    (Read past fwb posts

    for context) I now have 3 female applicants for the open fwb spot. I'm interviewing one girl tonight. Her name is Sara. She's 25. This is a pic of her chest and smile (which I feel is all I'm allowed to reveal). In the comments below, please recommend any questions I can ask...
    amyadventurous amyadventurous 22-25, F 14 Responses a week ago

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    So my fwb just told me he's starting to try

    online dating. I didn't have an issue with this before but I felt that strong pang of jealousy in my stomach. That's basically a red flag and my cue to end this relationship. It sucks. I hate this feeling, it's been eating at me for a while. I thought I was able to get...
    WhatTheMEL WhatTheMEL 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 16

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    Anything To Be Yours Again

    So recently I started sleeping with my exboyfriend. We never had sex while we were together but I don't think either one of us is completely over the other. So we've had sex 3 times now and we both are in relationships with people other than eachother. One of my friends decided...
    AlicebeneyisSilvereyes AlicebeneyisSilvereyes 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    I tend to keep no more

    than 5 fwb's at a time. And yes, we are actual friends that hang out together, but with the understanding that sex is always available between us and that it is strictly sexual (no relationship crap). I treat the 5 like VIP memberships. So there are a few rules and I even have...
    amyadventurous amyadventurous 22-25, F 23 Responses Jun 8

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    Met a girl at school.

    We been talking for a week. She said she wanted to be friends with benefits. I told her just friends i don't want to date or get into a bf/gf thing. She said just friends but she wants benefits too. I'm going to try but if she gets all weird and needy and wants me to be her bf...
    JulianNorwhich JulianNorwhich 18-21, M Jun 9

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    Ok so my new FWB girl i met.

    I like her but she is terrible at sex. i want to be friends but maybe not with benefits. She keep asking for sex but how you tell her she is not good?
    JulianNorwhich JulianNorwhich 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 14

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    Friends with benefits just

    as friends... I knew someone was going to have feelings and get their heart broken. I already had feelings for him. Thought I could handle them as I never was really jealous. But no... I felt heartbroken. Now I am accepting the fact he likes someone else, which made me feel...
    Sunnybychance Sunnybychance 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 17

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    What are the guidelines

    for FWB?? What are the things you DON'T DO comparing to a dating relationship.
    myheart99 myheart99 36-40, F 15 Responses Feb 24

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    I first met Liam in August 2013.

    We texted all the time for the first month we known each other. Then the day before I went on holiday, we basically went ahead and said we'll become friends with benefits. I was a virgin, so he said he'd be gentle and slow. When I came back from my holiday, we met up and he...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 23, 2014

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    My friend with benefit cheerlexi we're going to

    make love tonight so excited lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 9

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sadaccaa sadaccaa 26-30, F Jun 5

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    So we had a conversation earlier

    and this shocked me...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Jun 8

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    Side Lover

    I have a man who I can call for sex any time. My husband knows, mostly, as that part of our thing. My side man thinks I am cheating and likes the excitement of that.
    soni30 soni30 31-35, F 17 Responses Mar 30, 2013

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    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 15

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    I just started to have fun with one of my

    girlfriends in a van full of people :) girls message me for details
    youngtaylor youngtaylor 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 8

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    Yep, now if I find a good balance between,

    hey sup and txting EVERY minute I should be good
    NomadAngel117 NomadAngel117 18-21, M Jun 2

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kyliecc11 kyliecc11 26-30, F Jun 10

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    I interviewed another possible fwb today.

    I'll share a few stats about her. Name: Jamey Age: 22 Orientation: bi Status: married Breast size: 38dd Pubic hair: shaved
    amyadventurous amyadventurous 22-25, F 14 Responses 6 days ago

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    Me and my friends (they're all boys) often go

    into my hot tub usually after school. There's usually 5 of us to start with but a few of them usually go leaving me alone with just 1. I know them all quite well but recently they've been getting soo ***** over me. I'm 17 and they're all 16. I know that they all find me...
    Gemma1997 Gemma1997 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2014

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    Lu24642 Lu24642 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I have decided upon the two new additions to my

    fwb group. Jamey and Natalie (see past posts for their pics). After giving the guy who is leaving the group a farewell favor last night, Jess stopped by. She didn't mind being rejected but still wanted to explore some of her curiosities. I let her touch and explore my body a...
    amyadventurous amyadventurous 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Here is a nice basic picture of my lesbian fwb.

    Her name is Beth. Ask anything you want about her (and our fwb friendship) in the comments. Maybe if you're all lucky, she'll let me show a more revealing pic of her.
    amyadventurous amyadventurous 22-25, F 13 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am a 16 year old male

    and I have a friend who is a 16 year old female. We are both single. She sleeps over at my house around every three weeks and I always have the best time when she does. There is nothing sexual between us, we are just friends, she sees me as her gay friend even though she knows...
    Coolguy11211 Coolguy11211 13-15, M Apr 18

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    The moment when you realize it's 3 in the

    morning and your brother and you are both laying on the same girl's boob and licking her in the face to keep her awake before having to drive home
    DavidHamilton1 DavidHamilton1 16-17, M Apr 11

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    I'm finding this so hard.

    I became friends with a guy we got so close we been sleeping together on and off. He was so upfront can't blame him for my me having these feeling. I had to tell him the other day in order to save our friendship we must stop sleeping together. I am falling for him. I can't help...
    stupid28 stupid28 31-35, F 1 Response May 31

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    Dear **** buddy, This was your second chance.

    Once, shame on you, but twice? Shame on me. I shouldn't of let you in after the first problem. You clearly didn't learn anything. You still ignore me when all I want is a definite yes/no to meeting for "business". How fricken' hard is that? Apparently, for you, it's the most...
    findingfae findingfae 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 21

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    I finally had a 3 some with two other girls!

    Best fun I've had in almost 5 years. I got to try so many things I had only fantasized about until last night. We literally were going at it for 4 hours on a dorm floor. A friend of mine was working at the RA stand monitoring the entrance and she caught me on my way out with an...
    Cephaloria Cephaloria 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    Fun while it lasted. Got to know each other

    last summer, got on a bit too well in Spain while she was still with her boyfriend. Luckily, that changed soon after we got home. Neither of us wanted a relationship, so friends with benefits suited us both down to the ground. The first morning after was awkward when I walked...
    neathiopian neathiopian 18-21, M May 20

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    Warning, this is long,

    but I feel as though I have to tell the full details of the story. Even if no one responds, I just need the catharsis of letting it all out for once. Eleven years ago, I met my one of my ex's good friends (let's call him Bill) and we in turn became great friends as well. He...
    sketchit sketchit 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Feb 23

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    Many of you asked about my application process

    for my fwb's. Below are all the questions on the application. To clarify...this NOT an invitation/opportunity to full this out. The application is filled out ahead of time, and in the interview, I ask them to expand on their answers. Then they're allowed to ask questions...
    amyadventurous amyadventurous 22-25, F 20 Responses Jun 11

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    He was suppose to come over tonight

    but he hasn't texted me back in an hour ): .. Got ready for nothing 😒
    aaaxaaa aaaxaaa 18-21, F 49 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    I probably had more fwb

    than bfs. Idk if it is my fault or I just haven't found the rite guy for me to trust and be happy with. I've been so use to being single and independent as I don't really rely on others for much. I've been able to have fwb without getting attached as I do not trust easily...but...
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    My life is complicated

    and super stressful. Work sees to that. I don't have time for nor do I want a relationship and honestly, who wants to be bogged down with all of that? However I have a strong desires and urges so I'm proud to have a "friend" that helps me out and I help them out. There's no...
    secretdesires78 secretdesires78 36-40, F 12 Responses May 17

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    I've been dealing with a guy

    for a year now "friends with benefits" and I caught feelings for him and I let it be known...but he does not feel the same. how can you not catch feelings for someone for over a year? how can he just get a girl friend behind my back and not want me? He's confused me , told me...
    brijk20 brijk20 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    I told the guy I fell

    for with friends w benifits I just wanted to be friends and no sex at all because my feelings were getting attached and he doesn't feel the same . and he flipped out on me...but why?
    brijk20 brijk20 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 1

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    Devonbaby Devonbaby 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 23

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    I've been with my fwb

    for a little over a yr now. When we first hooked up he warned me he wasn't "a relationship" kind of guy, and at first that was great cause I didn't want the headache of anything more. Now though I'm thinking I'd like more from a guy, just hate to give up great sex not knowing if...
    lilldemen lilldemen 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I had a friend with whom I shared my heart

    for a while, we kissed, we talked, we sang, we laughed, we fought and we made love. Those days were unforgettable, she took my loneliness away from me. Those sweet memories are beautifully enclosed in my heart and I often find myself reading the pages from it time to time.....
    crazihilary crazihilary 26-30, M 2 Responses May 18

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    Can it really be this easy?

    So on the same page that jealousy doesn't exist and the laughs never stop? Some might judge me because I'm married, but I have found the most perfect friend with benefits situation. I had a brief freak out earlier this week, worrying I might fall for him and end up hurt. But...
    ButterflyCatcher ButterflyCatcher 41-45, F 10 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    So, how long do you think a FWB should last?

    I've been fwb with a guy for almost 3 years now. We hang out, we talk all the time. But he always says that he doesn't think any girl could handle him in a relationship. I've been around for almost 3 years with him. I do everything for him. I've been told I need to just cut it...
    Dearrobynn Dearrobynn 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 14

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    I have a cute little friend I **** every other

    day we are thinking about starting a relationship. I hope he wants to!!!
    1Thatonedudeyouknow 1Thatonedudeyouknow 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Yes and I'm not proud of it.

    Yeah I should've told my soon to be boyfriend from the start but I didn't. I've done everything you can imagine with this guy and well yeah... Somehow I'm shocked I'm not pregnant. Things happen when your bored at 1 am and parents aren't home :/
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 21

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    Coworker

    I met this coworker of mine over a year ago. We became fast friends, he was there for me when I started my divorce and through that we have become even closer. We have a weekly night of pool that we have every Tuesday. We have never talked about sex or even flirted. Next...
    lady1979 lady1979 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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