I Have Gained From Being Bullied

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 44 People

    Homophobia Mainly..

    Mainly the good ol' ****** poofter treatment here. Even when i was in primary school i would get teased because i played with barbie dolls and hung out with the girls. Ive never not been name called, however ive done my fair share of bullying. When i do it, its directed at...
    michaael18 michaael18
    18-21, M
    Sep 16, 2009

    Gained

    I have been bullied.  In the end, I have gained from it!
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 3, 2011

    Mine was mostly name-calling.. Didn't know that name calling is bullying?

    I saw the poll on EP asking I've ever been bullied and if I had been, does it affect me now.  I never asked myself that question, in fact, I always believed before this I was never bullied before, because I always thought of bullying as something extreme.  But I...
    anonymousgw1001 anonymousgw1001
    18-21
    Feb 28, 2009

    Mostly My Brother

    Well, when I was a really sensitive little kid, my older brother would mock me mercilessly. All day, everyday. After a while, I got used to it and even started saying comebacks and stuff. Now, if someone insults me, i always have a really good comeback and I'm a lot more...
    happysarcasm happysarcasm
    13-15, F
    Apr 26, 2010

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