I Have Gay Friends

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    It Never Mattered To Me

    I have about ten gay friends and I love them so much, its never bothered me or gotten in the way of our friendship. Each and everyone of them are such amazing people and I love having them apart of my life they listen to me and definitely care me.
    UnforgettableEyes UnforgettableEyes
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 15, 2011

    They're not my friends,

    they're my best friends. I only have two best friends and both of them happen to be gay. They are the peanut butter to my jelly. They mean everything to me and I can't imagine a day in my life without them. LOVE YOU GUYS!!!
    Vagabond01 Vagabond01
    18-21, F
    Jan 27, 2015

    I Have No Problem With That

    I work part time in design business so gay people are lots in here, I also have close friend that gay, he is kind, funny, a nice person, I knew him since middle school only as school mate, then meet him again in college since we are lives in same neighborhood now we close...
    Rhyinlander Rhyinlander
    26-30, M
    1 Response Nov 15, 2013

    I met 2 guys lastnight,

    I kissed one of them, the other one was Blonde and said he was straight and even got angry when I touched his ***... And then later everyone left and we had to sleep in the same bed and the Blonde one kissed me and we had sex, I was the TOP, and he said it was his first time...
    TheBelovedMan TheBelovedMan
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 3, 2015

    I have a gay guy friend

    that always wants to hook up to hang out, but I don't know how my boyfriend would feel if I was to ask if it's ok if my gay friend tags along on a few dates with us.
    LookingForYou89 LookingForYou89
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    Okay so this weekend I'm going to visit my

    cousin at Indiana University. My gay best friend, Troy, who've I have had gay sex with since 8th grade also goes there. Troy and I already want to see each other and have rough sex, but what happens if my cousin wants to come with? They actually know each other from travel...
    BrendanJMeyers BrendanJMeyers
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2015

    My lesbian friend has got to be my bestie.

    We seem to have a marriage where we raise our fictional children together, mostly Data from Star Trek.
    fireraven23 fireraven23
    22-25, M
    Mar 2, 2015

    I have a crazy, gay friend named Cyrus.

    He has a love for spanish people. He has about 10 crushes at any given time (can somebody say sluuuuuuuuuuuuuuuttt?). Sometimes hes a bit too crazy for me. But he is my best friend. His gay *** needs a guidance counselor. ❀️
    Kittenfire Kittenfire
    18-21, F
    Jan 10, 2014

    My Lesbian Friend Is The Coolest ^_^

    She really knows how to treat a girl teehee. Shes one of my funnest friends, she always wants to have sleepovers and wants hangout everyday. The only bad thing is she cant keep her hands off of me, no matter where we are shes always touching some aspect of my body. But I never...
    Sc00tal00 Sc00tal00
    18-21, F
    Jun 9, 2012

    I have a closeted gay friend

    and he is in love (like reaaallyyy in love) with a (i assume straight) guy. He talked to this guy before without saying that he is a guy and since than the only thing he cares is this guy. Its been a few years since they stop talking and he still talks about how one day they...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 16, 2016

    and I'm homophobic. How weird is that?

    lol. I've no problem with lesbians, I kinda even like it. But seeing 2 guys kissing I feel so disgusted. It's almost like a phobia. I absolutely hate it. I've nothing against them neither do I judge or criticize. I just don't like it. I find it so repulsive. My gay friends know...
    unknownpoetx unknownpoetx
    31-35, M
    5 Responses Mar 26, 2015

    Be Yourself

    Gender is an irrelevant inconvenience and nothing more. love between two men or two women is beautiful. I am straight but I can appreciate bonds of love and attraction between two people and I believe it should be embraced and not frowned upon. People who go through their...
    tiredofreality tiredofreality
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 13, 2013
    amitrai619 amitrai619
    22-25, M
    Apr 26, 2015

    I have a gay friend and he is one of my closest

    friends and that's ok to me once he happy.😎😎 his boyfriend is older than him but that's cuz I met him.
    mrduncombe mrduncombe
    18-21, M
    Jul 30, 2015
    Alextheauthor Alextheauthor
    36-40, M
    1 Response Apr 6, 2015

    I have a gay friend who only came out to his

    closest friends. Now we are in different colleges in different citys. And now he is texting me about a boy he likes asking for my advice, and I love it. But secretly I'm Bi myself and understand exacly what he's going trough.
    JasonSmithTroye JasonSmithTroye
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 13, 2016


    My friend Devin has always been my closest friend and he meant the world to me.. And in 7th grade he told me he was sexually confused and i didn't completely understand.. and he told me he was gay.. and i was okay with it but i didn't know if i should be against it or with it...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings
    18-21, F
    Jan 24, 2013

    I was straight but I got many friend gays

    and bis So I had gf but my friend Alan told me that he liked to me So tht was sweet So he kissed to me I liked what I felt
    Seankeaton Seankeaton
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Dec 25, 2013

    I have gay friends didn't notice it

    until 3rd grade ive know em my whole life we grew up together then I see them checking out a guy were still friends and we will always be freinds :)
    IloveAj2345 IloveAj2345
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2015

    I Have Straight Friends

    I know...shocking, right? But even though they're a little strange - always going on about their no-neck little rugrats ad nauseum and telling me about their opposite sex partners - I always smile and never let on that I don't really approve of heterosexual relationships. I guess...
    joesdog joesdog
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Dec 1, 2010

    This Just Makes Me Sick...

     My cousin and I were raised like we are sister's, so I support her 100%. Her girlfriend also happens to be my best friend on this planet. Well this morning, my bestie sends me this via email from her bank job: "My night was okay.  Pretty uneventful.  My...
    tasteofink tasteofink
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 27, 2009

    One of my best friends is gay,

    he told me some time ago. I am completely accepting in every way of this, and it changes nothing between me and him, the only thing that made me sad, was that he thought, even for a second, that one of his oldest and best friends would ever not accept him, as if I wouldn't like...
    Axelerator3000 Axelerator3000
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2014

    What my gay friends do in their house is none

    of my business. It isn't. I'm not going to tell a gay couple they can't wed because its against my religion. I wouldn't wan't a vegan/vegetarian telling me I can't eat meat because they don't believe in eating meat. I live my life, they live theirs.
    djag2007 djag2007
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 13, 2014

    My Bestfriend is bi,

    and she acts soooo lesbian towards meπŸ˜‚πŸ˜­, she's always grabbing my butt and holding my hand and hugging me and stuff but I don't mind because she's my bff lol and she has a boyfriend.
    amazinghuh amazinghuh
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Oct 12, 2015

    My best friend was gay.

    I say was cause he moved. I miss him so much!
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    Mar 7, 2016
    deleted deleted
    Jul 22, 2015

    I have a closeted gay friend

    and he is in love (like reaaallyyy in love) with a (i assume straight) guy. He talked to this guy before without saying that he is a guy and since than the only thing he cares is this guy. Its been a few years since they stop talking and he still talks about how one day they...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 16, 2016

    I have walked in on my friends doing it

    and only went in the room to ask where the tv remote was lol.
    gaygamer9376 gaygamer9376
    18-21, M
    6 Responses Jan 16, 2015

    Just got invited to a gay club 😱 omg yeas I'm

    so going to goooo and not just to be there with my friend but to have fun :)
    CallMeFaye CallMeFaye
    18-21, F
    Mar 27, 2015

    Shouldn't Matter

    It has never bothered me, and probably won't ever. I don't mind if they're gay or straight, they're still people and deserve to be treated like it. So what, yeah, they have sex and are attracted to people of their same gender, it doesn't matter. It shouldn't ever matter.
    Luangi Luangi
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2007

    I knew by my former best friend who's lesbian,

    that my former best friend guy is gay..... Ahahahaha! Best duo of former best friends! Now I feel like I'm the weird one for not being gay lol! XD
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 15, 2016

    Love them all no matter what,

    they are human just with different taste, thats how i see it.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 26, 2015

    Everyone girl needs a gay best friend ( male )

    I think they're the best people ever....
    Sunshineh13 Sunshineh13
    26-30, F
    Apr 17, 2015

    I have no straight friends

    and I love it . ^_^
    justthatnormal justthatnormal
    16-17, T
    3 Responses May 24, 2015

    My friend is on the verge of suicide cause his

    family says he's a sin and taking him to church every day and saying they need to get the demons out of him... It just is sad.. I really wish he'd be okay but I don't know what to tell him
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 22, 2015

    I have many friends and some are gay they are

    just as great friends as my straight friends are plus we have many more things in common..
    alexiswcd alexiswcd
    56-60, T
    Jan 30, 2016

    I don't know how I feel about the actual act of

    being gay. What is the point of it? Do I believe it's a choice? No. Could it be a brain chemistry aberration fed by a certain upbringing or life events? I think so. To research that scientifically probably holds too many societal taboos for anyone to get anywhere. The point is...
    NerdyNudist NerdyNudist
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Aug 26, 2015

    Ok lemme set something straight

    for all the girls. Just because someone like me or anyone else is gay doesn't automatically mean that we want to be your gay pal. It is very selfish to ask us to help you with your problems about you getting dumped by your weeklong bfs or that your dad won't let you get a nose...
    camjames9876 camjames9876
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 10, 2014

    I Am Bi . I....

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 4, 2012

    I have two gay friends,

    one of them lives next to my house..... One of them is my best friend..... )
    000Thallensjaan 000Thallensjaan
    18-21, M
    Mar 15, 2016

    To me, it doesn't matter

    who you choose to or want to have sex with. I value your heart. I am straight in which gender I prefer. I have had good and bad dealings with gays I met the same as with straight people I met. Who turns you on doesn't make or break whether I am your friend or not. It's your...
    loveismyfriend loveismyfriend
    36-40, F
    Mar 20, 2015
    cinemakid93 cinemakid93
    22-25, M
    Dec 31, 2014

    Ever since I could remember I've always had

    friends that were gay, lesbian, bi and trans. I always felt I had more in common with my gay friends than I did with my straight friends. Nothing against my straight friends! I love all my friends. It doesn't matter if you are straight or not, I cherish you all.
    Perseph0ne Perseph0ne
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 25, 2016

    Hey everyone, I know you guys are probably

    gonna ignore this but my gay friend really needs this questionnaire done for his research project about gays on TV. I swear it’s not a virus, the survey was made using Google drive. http://goo.gl/forms/QaxKkJo7Ap
    joyce0607 joyce0607
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 23, 2015

    I M In Love With Gay Friends...!!!

    I m a bisexual right from my childhood. I had boy and girl friends with whome I had sexual relations. But after my schol and college days were over and got employed away from my place of education, I got away from all of them. Then I got married to one of the girls I had...
    geminians12155 geminians12155
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Jul 11, 2011
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