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I Have Gaydar

I can guess your prefrences at 20 paces!!! 471 People

    Not Like I Care

    I generally don't care which way people go. But I have always had a knack for knowing. It isn't just stereotypes either. I've known people that had none of the stereotypical behaviors, but I knew. I know when people are bi - or even just a little bi. It has helped me a great deal...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 12, 2008

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    It was broken for that 2 weeks

    when I thought all my guy friends were gay
    chloeadams101 chloeadams101 13-15, F Mar 13

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    My instincts are usually correct,

    but wow, I have definitely been very surprised in certain instances! I try to steer clear of stereotypes and generalizations; they feed the hate. Really I believe that we all fall at a certain point on a spectrum, sort of like the bell curve. Very few are 100% gay or 100...
    lovely9me lovely9me 31-35, F Mar 26

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    So I've noticed over the last couple of months

    this guy always stares at me but when I look his way he looks the other way and pretend like he looking els where or when I'm in the hallways at my school I see him staring me down in the corner of my eye I think he might be gay or some thing because I'm openly gay at school so...
    merlin0748 merlin0748 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 14

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    Instinct

    I just do...I can sense gay vibes right away. Probably because I have been surrounded by gays ever since I was little. For example, I knew that my guy friend was gay before he even came out. I love gay people. They are so fun to be with. I think any gay person should come out...
    reset reset 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2009

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    My Gaydar

    It works on some occasions but i think it needs re-tuning. LOL
    shortsy shortsy 41-45, M Dec 29, 2012

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    I Am Attracted to Feminine Guys

    I get easily attracted to guys who are somewhat feminine. I've always been like that, and I've always known that (or at least since I got seriously interetsed in relationships) ... Still, looking back on my past and my relationships and crushes... I only just realised today that...
    Blumcsi Blumcsi 26-30, F 11 Responses Jul 7, 2008

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    So?

    Yes, I have gaydar.  It's very accurate.  So what?  Like all the other odd extra things I notice about people, I keep my gaydar's readings to myself.  I never know for sure if a person is in or out of the closet; no way in hell am I gonna out them!  No, I just heed what I...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    Crazy High School

    every since third grade I could all ways tell something diffrent about peope Iwasnt sure what it was, but now being in my third year of high skool I can.All I have to do is look at people and know that they're gay,Especially girls. There is this certain "sparkle"...
    caprioreoz caprioreoz 16-17, F Nov 9, 2008

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    I Am Bi. I...

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F Jul 4, 2012

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    I think I'm on to my Teacher...

     I haven't been proven right or wrong,YET.  The teacher for one of my courses is considered a ***** by almost everyone in classe. She's new to my school. When i was thinking about it last week,i realized that she does sound nice and all and her classes are not really...
    mocha39 mocha39 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2009

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    I Think It's Pretty Accurate

    Of course you can't just go up and ask people, and if you did it wouldn't prove anything. I can't say too much here without being un-PC, but it's all about body language, and speech, and also dress to a degree. When I put it all together I think it's about 60% accurate.
    cyberkitty cyberkitty 18-21 Sep 30, 2008

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    Im More Like A Magnet Than A Gaydar

    wherever I go I always meet gay people.. or bi.. and I love it!
    Irahh Irahh 22-25, F Jul 30, 2012

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    Mostly

     I tend to think that I have a pretty good gaydar. I only really mess up if I'm attracted to the person. If I'm attracted to the person I tend to think they're gay although it's more wishful thinking, lol. Other than that my gaydar tends to be pretty on the spot. I think it...
    LauraLovesYou LauraLovesYou 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 23, 2008

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    Yes I Do.... But It Not Always Pleasant.

    I have never told this... But yes I have gaydar. The thing is that until know it works properly, but not always to my benefit. Let's just see. I am always careful though. Don't get the wrong idea here. For someone to get to know ME is very difficult. Yep. gaydar excists, I...
    guestcy guestcy 22-25, M Nov 22, 2010

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    I have to be the only gay person without a 2014

    Gaydar. Mine is still stuck on the 2002 version. I can't pick up hot guys as quickly as everyone else with an outdated Gaydar!
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    Most Dykes Do

    at least i thought i was. Until i found out that Anthony Callea was gay, and i was COMPLETELY surprised. Everybody looked at me like.. duh. and now i look at him, ashamed i couldn't pick it up. i honestly had no idea. But it was only that one time, so i think i'm still safe in...
    Gomenasi Gomenasi 18-21, F Jul 6, 2008

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    Vibes...

    I'm a lesbian with a very accurate gaydar. My mother has a gaydar, too. My gaydar doesnt work with my mother, so I dont know if she's a lesbian, too. A lot of people claim to have a gaydar but I noticed that they can only detect butch lesbians...that's no gaydar! For instance my...
    indigofem1 indigofem1 46-50, F Jan 16, 2013

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    Oh Yeah

    I've got gaydar. I'm a bissexual transsexual woman, I have enough experience and knowledge of what gay people are like (as well as bisexual people, trans people and lots of others) to be able to pick up on who's what most of the time. it's not perfect, but is it on par or better...
    AngelaDark AngelaDark 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    Just Call Me "Grace"!

    I'm not 100% good at this, maybe around 70%, but after a short while I can pick up on this. AND... like the female character on the show "Will & Grace", I tend to fall for the guys who are gay... which I don't realize it, until I have my hopes up and they have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 10, 2008

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    yeah, you could say i have a gaydar.

    the trick to guessing someones sexuality or romantic orientation is by how they publicly express interest in certain genders. point is, no, you guys should not be making assumptions based on intuitions or stereotypes. if you want to know, just ask the person and understand that...
    CincinnatiSubway CincinnatiSubway 16-17, T May 31

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    But I Don't Listen To It

    My gaydar works just fine but I tend to ignore it. I have now dated 2 guys who were still in the closet. I really don't do it consciously but I think I knew they were gay and just didn't care. I think it shows that I was really looking for friendship and not a long term...
    wolfcon wolfcon 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 24, 2011

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    Shure Wish I Had Gaydar

    Lately have been trying to meet gay people(Tops) but I shure can pick up on who is or isn't gay! London Ontairo
    jettys jettys 56-60 1 Response Mar 27, 2013

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    I Think Soooo...

    I know I know, it's very sterotypical, but it's life. With my Dad being gay, I have met many gay men. Some not so stereotypical, and some, WOW. It's interesting.
    Ynahteb Ynahteb 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2008

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    Oddly Enough

    Yeah, I have it too. I'm a straight guy and my gaydar only works on women. Sure I can spot the obvious guys but I'm never as certain as with women. I think its because my Mom is a lesbian so I've been exposed to it from an early age. I'd say I'm about 95% or better at it. It...
    PHSensei PHSensei 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    I've Got It.

    I'm a straight guy with gaydar. My baby sister and her wife both say mine is better than theirs.
    CrazyWaterSpring CrazyWaterSpring 51-55, M Apr 25, 2012

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    Yes I have a gaydar..

    . I never said it worked
    13tides31 13tides31 18-21, M May 19

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