Post

I Have Given Up On Romantic Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10 People

    So Tired Of Trying...

    I'm tired of trying and getting nowhere. People telling me what I want to hear to get me to do what they want or go away. Or get my money... I have love in my heart. I hoped for the longest time to find a good person to share it with. Someone to cherish and value our...
    amikety amikety 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I have given up on my life, and life. I'm 20 years old, hate my job, my present, my home, my mistakes, ....so much more. I stopped going to college cause I lack motivation and dont...
    Somebodycares Somebodycares 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    First off for those who follow Myers Briggs im an INTJ. Through my childhood my parents were in what I would consider to be a loveless relationship. They divorced when I was 30...
    Iltcp Iltcp 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Let's get things straight. I am a highly educated, attractive, fit, financially stable professional. I am well-read, well-rounded and well-traveled. I just so happen to have become...
    bioprof34 bioprof34 31-35 1 Response Jul 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Between my 8th grade and freshman years of high school, I took an online class called "philosophy and pop culture." It taught basic theories and principles of philosophy as well as...
    WhimsicalWerd WhimsicalWerd 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I already know I'm going to die young so what's the point. I have nothing good left in my life all the thin si love most in the world have bee taken from me. I've stopped having...
    ywilliam31 ywilliam31 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I want the type of relationship that starts like a movie and lasts forever. I would be glad to put the time and work in, but such a thing would not work with just anyone. So i sit...
    xxxCL4Yxxx xxxCL4Yxxx 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was part of this program that allowed us to watch school plays and critique them( write reviews) I honestly just signed up for it because it would mean another good thing on my...
    neptunechild neptunechild 16-17, F Jul 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My MM has disrespected me one too many times. I have tried to be everything that he wanted but have lost myself. I've lost my spark, my enthusiasm for life and even sometimes my...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Just puppy love i can't wait to experience it I think it's a beautiful thing (':
    VictoriaKeepItReal VictoriaKeepItReal 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Last night I was freaking out, thinking I may be reaching that point where I either need to say good-bye to my best friend or I'm going to make a huge mistake. Today though, I feel...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My forbidden love He Makes Me Want.... I want, I need, I desire...... I want to taste your lips Feel your breath on my neck Inhale your scent Love you the entire time I want you to...
    ionlywanthim78 ionlywanthim78 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I happen to love two men. Is that a crime? It's not like I have to act on it, right? Why do I feel so guilty at times? Is it wrong to be friends with someone? This is my dilemma.
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's the worst kind of love. The kind that looks straight into your eyes as it stabs you in the back. There's someone I have loved for almost a year now. He doesn't know. I have...
    supersofie supersofie 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've dated guys and girls but I've never felt a powerful love for them. I want a relationship that is spontaneous!!:/ a lover who understands me and is my friend.
    stormyiscool stormyiscool 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've tried so hard it's exhausting. I've been dating in and off for years never met the right guy. Two years ago my friends were in my position for good few years too.two years on...
    starlightb7 starlightb7 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm quite shy and have Asperger's syndrome, and I desperately want to find someone who loves me for who I am. I doubt it'll be easy, but I hope I find them someday.
    Juri17 Juri17 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This was not supposed to happen. But it did. I love my wife. She is the standard against which all women are measured. She is my soulmate and my best friend. Yet, I'm falling for...
    Ashman13 Ashman13 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I fell in love with two people. Both on here. One left me and another one I'm still with. Idk what I would do without them both
    Cupcakalicious15 Cupcakalicious15 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am really torn and desperately need advice. I have been married to my husband for 8 years. We have two kids together. Our relationship has always been rocky and I was unhappy for...
    ok4u ok4u 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am A God fearing woman, but right now I am so confused. I have been married for 18 years. My husband has beat me, cheated on me and put me threw hell. I have a daughter that's...
    Sweetestrose Sweetestrose 41-45, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    And will never be. I hide from people. I locked my heart. There's no keys to it. No one can come near me. I push everyone away. I am the only person on earth who can't be loved...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Unrequited love. What does one do when the cure is the illness?
    BlackCatBoy BlackCatBoy 41-45, M 22 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So many strands to do with past present and future, hard to see where they begin and end, some get cut off before they reach there destination, others seem to be leading the wrong...
    strikeslucky strikeslucky 51-55, M Jul 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Looking for a specific male character based on a rl person, very sexy and kinky rp
    MissCaraCarnageTheGamingGambit MissCaraCarnageTheGamingGambit 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am thinking of doing this...been toying with the idea for a while
    StoneWall77 StoneWall77 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I met a lady in the subway, when I was in college, who was trying to get home to her children. She couldn't afford the fare for the DC Metro. I had my pre-paid metro card in my...
    Cindell Cindell 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just wish for a long lasting happy and a trustworthy relationship :) the rest will come automatically I believe 😊 good luck everyone !!
    queenbeebella queenbeebella 22-25, F Jul 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know how I feel anymore. My life has gotten too complicated to even handle sometimes.
    LM96753 LM96753 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You might think that people may hate you but deep in someone's heart is a secret lock that one day you will open it up
    luvanimals4ever luvanimals4ever 13-15, F Jul 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I remember the first day i met him! <3
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When my dad died a few days before we had a small fight and we were avoiding each other I just wish we were both happy with each other before he died since I'll never see him again...
    Battlescars1524 Battlescars1524 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    August 20. Honesty in Relationships. We can be honest and direct about our boundaries in relationships and about the parameters of a particular relationship. Perhaps no area of...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 12 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ok, so apparently even an OS can cheat on you. Romantic love is quite possibly dead.
    jbuggirl jbuggirl 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So basically I was instantly attracted to this guy the first time I laid eyes on him. He wasn't hot or anything but he was cute to me and just something about him had me hooked...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Views that Never Cease, To Keep Me From Myself - We Came As Romans I am so far away And it's more than I can take I haven't heard your voice in days I haven't heard your voice in...
    TheGordman TheGordman 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's beautiful how, some people we meet have amazing souls. Even those who are distance away from us, how we connect with them, the amazing understanding and exchange of thoughts...
    Starz93 Starz93 18-21, F 57 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can't sleep. I can't get over the pain of knowing my partner is depressed and is pushing me away. I don't know what else to do. I so desperately want to feel loved. I need to...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Aug 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm still with my abuser. Some of the things he's done to me caused me to have nightmares. I love him dearly and even though I know he is poisonous to my life I can't leave. Iv...
    Stiggyb Stiggyb 26-30, F 11 Responses Jul 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I used to hate myself. I took blame for everyone else's pain and mistakes. I thought that I was scum of the Earth and how could anyone like me or care about me. And I often felt...
    hazy6 hazy6 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Love is no longer valid, filled with twisted truths, broken lies that are stupid, promises but no proofs. Deception and self-centred hearts, romantic love is the rarest art...
    Ameliaaaa Ameliaaaa 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There you were just standing there ...In my heart I herd angels cry ....I left my heart and memories in my dreamsLet's runaway my lover ..Where ever you go I will follow ...I know...
    mintybear2 mintybear2 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    *sigh* It seems like it always happens this way. I don't think I'm in LOVE with her, per se (I don't know if I am mature enough to feel romantic love for anyone)... but I do know...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Today, it had just occurred to me that my entire life I have been living in a fantasy world. Nothing seems to be real to me anymore, and that I have a hunch that I might be slowly...
    dreamieicie dreamieicie 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sugar Momma Dating Site - SugarMommaWebsite.com Dating sugar mommies can be a very exciting experience for young men nowadays. It can also get quite intimidating if you are not...
    sugarmommawebsite sugarmommawebsite 31-35, F Aug 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sugar Momma Dating on SugarMommaWebsite.com Dating sugar mommies can be a very exciting experience for young men nowadays. It can also get quite intimidating if you are not fully...
    sugarmommawebsite sugarmommawebsite 31-35, F Aug 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    What a wonderful fantasy to live a life of feeling loved and appreciated by my significant other... What I wish for is simple, but perhaps it's more complex than what I envision...
    PlasticRobot PlasticRobot 36-40, F 5 days ago