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I Have Gone Through Many Phases

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    Phases Oh Don't Remind Me. Phew.

    Phases was my kind of business in highschool. Isn't it with every kid that goes to highschool. Well mine was a bit more extreme all my life. When I was a kid I wanted to be a fashion designer, painter, then a singer/pianist, then a dancer, then a playwright, then an actor. Wasted...
    ladynau ladynau 19-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8, 2008

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    And am always glad for more.

    No more phases I think would mean the start of closed minded ness.
    dalmor9899 dalmor9899 41-45, M Jan 29, 2014

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    The List That Just Keeps On Growingggg :)

    birth to age 5 = violent chicaage 5-8 = popstar wannabeage 8-10= tomboyage 10-12 = emo/sceneage 12-13 = rebellious artistage 14 = happy go luckyage 15 = political gurucurrent day = freedom fighterrrrrrrr :)(i still don't know who the real me is) :OPS. i HATED the emo/scene phase...
    anonymous182 anonymous182 18-21, F Dec 31, 2010

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    I'm Currently In My Best One!

    Most of the phases I have gone through are normal. Some brief, others lasted longer than they probably should have. I am in the peace love and no conflict phase and I am liking this one a lot. I am thinking of staying right here.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 17, 2011

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    What's Next?

    I have gone through a few phases. I'm emotionally and socially a bit of a late developer. Held a girls hand for the first time when 17. First kiss at 20. Had long hair years after my peers did. But I did all the kids' stuff. My early twenties were about finding, exploring and...
    vinceBx vinceBx 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 24, 2008

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    Ha I Think I've Finally Landed

    After spending my early teens asking the age old question of "how am i?" I went through so many phases like a goth/emo phase now  I hate them haha well not goths and stuff I mean just when people are lyk "LAWL I <3 Edward...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 22, 2009

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    Going Through the Changes

    Well my mind and feelings have gone and are going through many changes.  Like the body as we go through puberty......I was born right fist first, like I was striking out at the world as told to me by my Mom...seeing the unjustice done to her through the violence acts of my...
    PoppaBear53 PoppaBear53 56-60, M Apr 8, 2009

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