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I Have Had a Miscarriage

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    I didn't but my girlfriend at the time did.

    She was 2 and a half months pregnant. We were so happy. Both she and I always wanted to be parents. She was all glowing and perky.it felt good to see the woman you love happy everyday. Well we lived in a crappy apartment in a crappy neighborhood. Couldn't afford much better...
    dacraww dacraww 26-30, M Mar 15, 2014

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    The Day I want to forget today.

    I've never ever wanted to forget a day. There's been the coldest, The saddest, The most surprising of days, but never a day to forget. And today I want to forget. I know writing about it, makes it real. It gives it life. It makes it noted. But I have to somehow alleviate...
    aec02 aec02 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2014

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    I had a miscarriage of my first pregnancy

    while I was on a plane. I knew when I boarded that it was happening - lots of pain and bleeding but as I wanted to get home after month long vacay in a paradise with my spouse and friends I boarded trying not to give it away. My spouse ordered two meals and I was miscarrying in...
    blonde10 blonde10 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    One And Only

    In 2004, I was pregnant and had a painful and messy miscarriage. To be honest, I didn't even know I was pregnant. I had taken these store brought pregnancy test and each time, they all read negative. My now ex and I, had moved and the relationship was rocky, it was just so much...
    enchantedebonybutterfly enchantedebonybutterfly 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    Due date is coming up fast

    and my head is just full of what it's right now. it doesn't help that every single pregnant person around me is complaining and I just want to smack all of them. its like really be grateful I would take whatever pain you're in any day of the week. I just feel like it's a hole...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 3

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    I experienced a miscarriage over a week ago.

    The bleeding has pretty much stopped but my breasts are super sore. And still have mild aches in my tummy. I was about 7 weeks. The doctor says to wait it out the symptoms will subside, but I just don't know what to expect as this is my first miscarriage. Any advice or words on...
    Java2 Java2 36-40, F Jun 6

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    My Story

    This is the first time I have shared this with someone other than a mate. My ex and I had been together almost a decade and decided to have a child. A mutual friend agreed to father the child and I was insistent that he be close to the child because he is a wonderful dad with 5...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2008

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    I had a miscarriage a week ago

    and it's killing me. I keep blaming myself and I just feel depressed all the time. It's causing me and my fiancΓ© problems in our relationship. πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’
    cuttinggirl96 cuttinggirl96 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    I have no words , I was

    so prepared to be a mother.
    Brokenpiecesthatsmile Brokenpiecesthatsmile 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2014

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    Miscarriage

    I was just informed I expireienced a miscarriage ....
    maddykoch15 maddykoch15 18-21, F Sep 7, 2013

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    It was 2 years ago. I was only 2 months along.

    It was traumatizing because I lost the baby and the miscarriage itself took a lot out of me. I was at work when it happened. I was walking and blood started running down my legs. I went to the hospital and soaked 6 bed pads with blood. There was blood all over my feet and ankles...
    akrysrose akrysrose 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    My Nightmare Come True

    (Be warned if you upset easily don't read on) October 2012 two weeks before my wedding day I found out I was pregnant with our first child it was very exciting time. We got married went on our honeymoon I was on top of the world so happy that I was starting my new life with my...
    MelC144 MelC144 26-30, F 1 Response May 21, 2013

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    I had a miscarriage Feb 6th 2015 @ 5 weeks & 5

    days ( my first child ) , the bleeding started approx. 8:15am I woke up out of a deep sleep I had thought I urinated on myself but went to the bathroom to wipe I noticed spotting than it turned into period blood like bleeding, so I decided to go to the ER right away! When...
    GodChild77 GodChild77 26-30, F Mar 27

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    I Had A Miscarriage 2 Months Ago And I Cant Get Over It

    I am 18 years old. A few months ago I found out I was pregnant. I was scared because I still wanted to go to college and my parents are really old fashioned. But I was also excited. I told my boyfriend the news and he didn't take it very well. He tried to commit suicide. After...
    XtynxX XtynxX 18-21 1 Response Aug 14, 2011

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    We Were So Excited!! =)

    At first I was so scared! I was in a long distance relationship with the guy that I am now married too, and I was 18, I had no job... and I was living with my grandma. But after I told my boyfriend we grew more excited than scared! I started thinking of names, he moved closer to...
    graceysnheaven graceysnheaven 18-21 1 Response Jul 20, 2010

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    I'm so depressed, even

    though I wanted to get an abortion, having a miscarriage has destroyed me 😒😒😒😒😒
    someegiirl01 someegiirl01 18-21, F Apr 30, 2014

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    Confused and Lost

    Hi I am new to this sight glad I found it, sorry I had to look.  I am 5 months pregnant and went to my doctor's appt. like planned.  We were going to find out if our blessing was going to be a daughter or a son.  We were so excitted (my husband, myself, and...
    wldgreen wldgreen 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    Tomorrow with be five months

    since I had my miscarriage.
    kelleykingless kelleykingless 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    Nervous About Trying Again.

    My husband and I have decided to go ahead and try to get pregnant. We have been seeing a specialist who is sure that he can help us but honestly I am very nervous. I was previously married for ten years and I had four miscarriages one in 2000, one in 2007 one in 2008 and the last...
    perturbedpersephone perturbedpersephone 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    I was in a terrible car accident three weeks

    after my cousin died in one. I was pregnant, and had a miscarriage an hour later. I had to go to the doctors to make sure there wasn't anything left, but they informed me I was still pregnant, but the other baby had died too, so the next day I had to have a dnc.
    shellyseashore shellyseashore 26-30, F 1 Response May 16

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    Three Times In A Row

    when my youngest was 3 months old i got pregnant. i had to stop nursing my infant. i felt bad but now i had two babies to care about and a healing and now pregnant mother to care about. it ended five wks later. i wasnt so sad cuz i still had my little baby. i was annoyed that i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Feb 14, 2011

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    My Angel Baby Kirrah Elizabeth & Her Best Friend Bellarosa

    I was ninteen, engaged to a solider and very happy when i found out i was pregnant. Everyday my love for the child growing inside me grew and grew and for some reason i just knew she was a girl. when my soldier came home for the holidays we chose her name and talked about how we...
    HisDove2011 HisDove2011 18-21, F 1 Response May 11, 2012

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    I am seventeen years old right now

    but I had a miscarriage when I was just sixteen years old. I thought he loved me so he was my first. It became a habit and he was constantly reassuring me that we would be fine without protection. He found out I was pregnant and then left me for my best friend. He told me I wasn...
    SwooshZero SwooshZero 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2014

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    I was 16. My boyfriend was 15.

    We were gonna name her (assumed female) Skylar Grace Marie ): I still get depressed when I see anyone named Skylar, but I know it's for the best because of age
    spazzyc spazzyc 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2014

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    It's been almost 4 years

    since I had my miscarriage. It hit me like a ton of bricks how I'd have been the parent of a 3 year old right now.
    Torchic54440 Torchic54440 18-21, F Nov 18, 2014

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    I guess it was more of a chemical pregnancy

    but I do believe I was pregnant. I had two positive tests with first morning urine, got a blood test and it was negative, and then two days later came the period. I would only have been a few weeks along. My body rejected it within the week of my missed period and back to normal...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 1 Response May 4

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    I am okay if I don't think about it

    but as soon as the thought comes back or I hear of someone I know go through it too my heart breaks all over again. I can't look down the baby aisle in a store without letting out a sorrowful sigh or without thinking about what my baby would have looked like wearing those...
    MyLife0219 MyLife0219 22-25, F Jul 31

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    My Story.

    I found out i was pregnant in July,I was scared to face the facts..I didn't want to take a pregnancy test but when my ex left me he told my family that theres a posibility i could be pregnant because i told him i wasn't going to take a pregnancy test so he knew that if he told my...
    sissyash sissyash 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2011

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    Currently Having A Miscarriage

    I am currently having a miscarriage. I didn't even know that I was pregnant, but I had pain and bleeding. The doctors told me its too early to tell if its a miscarriage or if im still pregnant and i had to wait 3 days to get more blood work done. I finally found out its a...
    kristyb125 kristyb125 22-25 1 Response Jan 27, 2012

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    My itty bit. I just found out about you on

    March 9th. I was over the moon. I was reluctant about becoming a mommy, but upon seeing that positive pregnancy test all my doubts flew out of the window. I prayed that you would stay. I was terrified of losing you. Your father was nervous, naturally, but he was gearing to go...
    Optimystic85 Optimystic85 26-30, F Mar 15, 2014

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    In May of 2012, I miscarried what should have

    been my 2nd child. Secretly I blame my husband for all the stress I was under at the time. We're separating now.
    littleblackbuckethat littleblackbuckethat 26-30, F Jul 3, 2014

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    2nd miscarriage in less

    than 6 months. Grieving for the babies I never got the opportunity to meet
    Chelsea35 Chelsea35 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    I Was 6weeks And 2days

    Hi everybody, my husband and i have been together for 5 1/2 years, we've been married for 3years and and we've been trying to conceive for while, we've been to the doc and was told that we have a very low change of conceiving on our own. It was hard at first but then we kinda...
    seygirl seygirl 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    We'd been married and trying

    for 6 years. I was so happy that January. It was the worse thing I've ever been through... ...the following year we lost my uncle suddenly in his sleep. He was supposed to take my aunt to DC for her cancer treatment. The same week Obama was inaugurated. For 4 more years...
    teadiva teadiva 31-35, F 1 Response May 4

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    During The Holidays.

    I graduated high school on my 18th birthday; in the middle of June 2010. I was thrilled to be moving forward in life. My high school had an article written about me in the paper, and I ended up getting a few job offers because of it. I ended up signing up to do a year of service...
    dreamerinwa dreamerinwa 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5, 2013

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    I have had 3 miscarriages.

    .. ive never told anyone but my ex which was the dad and my best firends I have had 3 1girl Aundrea maire..... 2 boys Timothy lee and Able Elijah my first son timothy would be 3 ,my daughter would be 2 almost 3 and so would my other son they were all around echother
    TheFemaleAlpha TheFemaleAlpha 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I Was Broken..

    I had a son at 20, married a different man at 23 and we just assumed we would have children.  When we were married for 4 years and finally concieved we were ecstatic!  We had been praying for years and when I started bleeding, I gasped. I'll never forget it. ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 16, 2008

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    My Amazing Angel Baby Tia-mae

    When i was 16 and a half, I found out that I was pregnant with my first child with my then boyfriend who was 20. I went to the doctor who confirmed the pregnancy and gave me the expected day of delivery being the 31/10/2007 (my mother's birthday). As the weeks went by I was happy...
    tiasmummy2013 tiasmummy2013 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    I've never been able to talk about with the

    people I know. my told me to keep it to myself, because my family was still getting through my cousins death, so I suffered through this alone. I just wanted to get it off my chest.
    shellyseashore shellyseashore 26-30, F May 16

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    I was fifteen when I conceived,

    19 now, and though years have passed, it's all I think about. I'm in college and can't relate to my peers because all I want is to start a family. The guy who got me pregnant was awful and abusive but his family was good to me, unlike my own who never even knew I was pregnant...
    Remi561 Remi561 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    I recently had a miscarriage at 10 weeks

    pregnant. One week later my boyfriend broke up with me. I've been put on antidepressants and still each day is worse than the last
    hightimescanada hightimescanada 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2014

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    What If It Happens Again...

    When I was 11, I became pregnant. I was both terrified and excited at the same time. I had hoped to have a pretty little baby girl that I could dress up in cute little dresses. But at 2 1/2 months, I felt intense pain in my lower back and abdomen and started bleeding. My mom...
    MamaBreanne MamaBreanne 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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