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I Have Had My Heart Broken and Am Afraid to Love Again

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 105 People

    Big Concrete Walls

    I'm a male musician, have a lot of attention from females. That's really good, I like the attention. But when it's getting cozy and close, I'm doing something stupid to get rid of her, before I get attached (mostly when it's still in flirt-mode). I'm attracted to kind of "girls...
    VK078 VK078 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    One day I may, but right now,

    my heart is picking up the pieces. I spent 18 years with the same person. I'm still apprehensive to let people in. I can't understand how it's difficult for people to take their time to get to know you. It seems like the minute they meet you, they want your entire life story...
    Hugmybear Hugmybear 46-50, F Dec 6, 2013

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    So I dated a guy for almost 1 year

    and he broke up with me because we can't be Inlove (because we were only 12/13)and he said he has been flirting and cheating on me with my best friend and he only dated me to get really close to my friend so he could marry her when they get a bit older and have 3 kids. All...
    jazzy0191 jazzy0191 13-15, F Apr 2, 2014

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    I fell in love with this guy

    when i was 16 , i used to be a shy person he helped me be more open and made me fall in love ..but he never loved me ... he spent a lot of time with me but never committed.one day he would say he loves me , but then the next day he would act like he said it accidently ... It...
    Iamme804 Iamme804 18-21, F Jan 14, 2014

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    THE Day My Heart Got Broken

    MY X BOYFRIEND OF  ALMOST TWO YEARS TURN HIS BACK ON ME BECAUSE OF MY PARENTS. DURING THE FIRST MONTH OF DATING WE AGREE TO KEEP OUR MALE AND FEMALE FRIENDS AROUND AND NOT THINK THERE'S ANYTHING GOING ON BUT MY FATHER DIDN'T LIKE HIM SO HE TOLD MY MOTHER TO FIND AWAY TO KEEP...
    BIKERGIRL99 BIKERGIRL99 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2008

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    I have had my heart broken more like shattered.

    I spent eight years of my life loving someone unconditionally...all to find out he didn't love me back. I gave him my heart and he broke it. He lied to me and always promised he would never hurt me. Told me he loved me and would never leave me. Told me he wanted to spend his...
    Angela1989 Angela1989 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2014

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    Jaded

    I guess you could say that I'm jaded. I have been hurt badly by a woman how I thought was my love. It's not a new story but it seems to happen time and time again. I'm scared of gettin to close to someone that I go out of my way to end the relationship. I don't mean too but...
    jadedheart96 jadedheart96 41-45, M 7 Responses Dec 7, 2009

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    Intimate Anxiety

    I've had my heart broken on several differnt times from one person. First was my Ex-girlfriend Rebecca, in the seven years off and on that she and I had been together everytimes it was her that hurt me. The I dated Dawn Ex-girlfriend #2 she and I hadnt been together been together...
    martymcfly1274 martymcfly1274 36-40, M 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    You Know, Usual Stuff Like Self Doubt, Once Bitten, Twice Shy.

    But is it really so bad if I'm comfortable alone? I know I don't want to be a parent, I've always paid my own way, I love having a whole bed to myself, and, I'd dread the idea of doubling the amount of family celebrations and events in my schedule. Besides, I'm better the devil...
    AskB82 AskB82 31-35, F Dec 3, 2013

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    It hurts but I wish you the best. It just sucks that I had the perfect girl and it wasn't the perfect time. Time to disappear for awhile. I spent last night high out of my mind in...
    xoxoxxooxoxo xoxoxxooxoxo 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    My ex and I broke up three months ago in April. He had been going through a lot of personal stress and thought I couldn't help. He also thought I was being too clingy. It was...
    Kadessa00 Kadessa00 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    I've never had a serious relationship. But when I was fifteen, a sophomore in high school, I dated this guy I really like but was a year older than, a junior. After about three...
    KellerKing13 KellerKing13 18-21, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Such a wonderful feeling! I was in love with a man that turned me on by just the thought of him. He was intelligent, sexy and fun. We laughed, talked, watched movies, ****, sports...
    FelicitySmoak FelicitySmoak 31-35, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I wanna fall in love again but real love this time :) not that fact disneyworld stuff
    roes55 roes55 56-60, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I think I fixed your marriage It was broken ... You had been tossed aside for over a year ... When we had our first date When you said wow As you walked up my steps You were so...
    momacods momacods 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have had many panic attacks. I have take xanax twice a day, just to prevent them from happening. I have social anxiety, and it gets pretty bad sometimes.
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    To me there is no greater feeling then being in love. If it is Gods plan for me I will be able to fall in love again. I will be loved and be able to love. I am ready to have me...
    Manlo29 Manlo29 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Everyday I wake up and I think about him , every night I go to sleep and think about him All the time :( it recks my head and my heart and my life . Yes he is good for me but...
    Irishgirl1605 Irishgirl1605 26-30, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    Marriage is sacred.Vows must be forever.But there are cheating hearts.Who love to betrayTheir promises go astrayBlinded eyes seek no oneA man suddenly found his womanLong lost...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Not very technologically savvy and I just stumbled onto old emails from an online love that still stings to think about. I left them in my little folder, still unable to delete...
    lonelybrandi lonelybrandi 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've had my heart broken by a guy I've never dated...
    hails4 hails4 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I always wondered if "love" was possible, and people truly "love" one another or if what is termed "love" is merely a sublimated form of self-interest. Well... I almost died in a...
    spankediapered spankediapered 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Others have had worse things happen to them. I have a hard time realizing that the things that have happened to be me are minor compared to the things that have happened to other...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have felt pain and betrayal and I'm so afraid to feel it again.. It's like once you been hurt, you're so scared to get attached again. Like I have this fear that this person I...
    Pinaybarbie Pinaybarbie 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Since my marriage is over and has been for sometime, I want to really fall in love again with anther man. I have been thinking for some time now that I would love to fall in love...
    familybeachparty familybeachparty 41-45, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Though it saddens me to break our relationship but I think both of us just don't deserve each other. We started as being friends and eventually fell in love with each other. I...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have had hypnosis before and its scary how easy it worked. Hypnotist said I was a natural lol. I had it to get rid of a phobia and it worked. Only problem was it was all so...
    dancingamy dancingamy 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Radius, 7th grade, cast for like 6 months.
    havingfun89 havingfun89 16-17, M Jun 25

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    Even I'm a grown man I felt in LOVE again and it's stronger than any LOVE before. Jaanu, I LOVE YOUR SEXY VOICE I LOVE YOUR BEAUTIFUL FACE I LOVE YOUR BIG AND WET LIPS I LOVE...
    boobiliciousfan boobiliciousfan 46-50, M 3 Responses Jun 25

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    It's a nice feeling. Just knowing you have someone. Not to mention you get attention from someone constantly instead of randomly from different people. Also cuddles and kissing...
    Gabbysam Gabbysam 16-17, F Jun 25

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    I have had several surgeries. One was for my leg and the others were for my dental stuff .
    crazyram45 crazyram45 22-25, M Jun 24

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    I've broken a bone . I broke my femur as a result of a medicine I was told to take by a doctor. My upper left leg hit the ground after I flew in the air for a few second as a...
    crazyram45 crazyram45 22-25, M Jun 24

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    Yet again when will I ever learn.
    simple2468 simple2468 26-30, M 4 Responses Jun 24

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    When will it get better? When will I be able to feel anything other than hurt? When...why...how... - are some of the questions I find myself asking over and over again to that...
    cocomenow cocomenow 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    Recently, I broke my tibia and my fibula (biggest bones in your lower leg) while jumping at this indoor trampoline place called Skyzone. All I did was jump off the wall...
    dinorap1 dinorap1 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Maybe it was the way he smiled at me... Maybe it was the way he laughed with me Maybe it was the way he spoke to me Maybe it was the way he loved me Maybe it was the way he looked...
    SophieAlvaKasaei SophieAlvaKasaei 18-21, F Jun 22

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    There is so much in life to love but being alone feels like the rest doesnt matter at all. Ive been in relationships that i have had no feelings for. I want love that is a mutual...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 21

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    If there are 20 ways to fall in love again. I want someone who can show me.
    consequential consequential 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    Today is another day that I begin alone. I haven't had a love in my life since 2007, the end of a 5 year abusive relationship. The years that followed brought me an image of love...
    takieaa takieaa 41-45, F Jun 21

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    3 ribs.. 2 knuckles and my nose twice :3 That might not be a good thing tho.
    3st3ll3 3st3ll3 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Haven't broken leg yet but feel like I just did :( but think I bruised the bone instead :(
    Smurfette1 Smurfette1 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 21

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    I should actually say I've had a LOT of broken bones. I've broken an arm, a foot, my collar bone, a few ribs, and all of my fingers and toes (many of them twice, and a few three...
    WalkingMyOwnPath WalkingMyOwnPath 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 20

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