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I Have Had My Heart Broken Time and Time Agian

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    How To Fall In Love

    I write this as a form of therapy for myself, moreover I write this as a piece of advice to anyone seeking guidance about how SOME relationships operate. While everyone is entitled to their own opinions as to how seriously to take most relationships, mine is that falling in love...
    mangkok4 mangkok4 22-25 Jul 4, 2010

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    Why?

    While I dated Katie, she was excited about being in a relationship with me with things going well and she told me first that she: a) loved me one evening after being intimate and b) would never ever cheat on me; and I was at the same point as well so I reciprocated - it was...
    Troll1014 Troll1014 26-30, M Jun 21, 2012

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    Be Strong

    It's hard to be strong all the time. I know I should be strong and not to think about him every time my mind is free but I cannot help it. I love him but he won't have me for reasons I can barely understand. Did he just not love me at all if he can leave me for such a reason. Was...
    Egizia Egizia 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2012

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    Hurting

    My fiance left to go on a trip that was suppose to be a three day trip which turned into almost two weeks now. I cant help but feel in my heart that something's going on. I wanna trust him but the lies art starting to build up i just dnt know what to say without pushing him away
    kya1111 kya1111 22-25 1 Response Oct 14, 2012

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    How At Last I Thought I Found My True Love

    I am heartbroken.  After 4 years of marriage my wife has told me she wants to leave me because I can't give her a baby.  2 years ago I was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes. The doctors said it was the stress of work that probably did it.  Too many sleepless nights, too many...
    lylepatrick lylepatrick 56-60 1 Response Aug 16, 2011

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    Hurt So Bad .. Why This Happened To Me

    I love my ex so much i would love to die with him we ere going so well, we like same things, hes the one who can make me and my heart smile all the times i never had this real feeling with anyone before,,, he was single for 7 years before dating me.. our family know all friends...
    candiiclair candiiclair 22-25, F Aug 28, 2013

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    All I Ever Wanted

    “I had to get over him. For months now, a stone had been sitting on my heart. I'd shed a lot of tears over him, lost a lot of sleep, eaten a lot of cake batter. Somehow, I had to move on. Life would be hell if I didn't shake loose from the grip he had on my heart. I most...
    lovelywings lovelywings 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2013

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    Dont Know Why It Happens

    the stories that are on here are great, you get to express yourself freely and you dont have to worry about how anyone feels. i can only say that reading some of those stories make me sad and sort of sick to my stomach, yet i dont know why unless i fell for someone and the...
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2009

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    When Will I Find Someone For Me

    I   have  three  son  who  have  so  many  problems I  find  men  who  wants  to  be  with  me but  never  want  to  help  with  my  disabled  sons ...
    rockybear397 rockybear397 47, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2009

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    Love Is Painful, Love Is Blind...

    Yes, I have fallen in love a few times, and yes, most of them ended up with me getting hurt so bad that I want to curl up in a ball and just cry my heart out till I have no more tears left, but no matter how much i got hurt, I will fall in love again... besides, it's one...
    LionPrincess03 LionPrincess03 18-21, F May 21, 2012

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    I Don't Understand

    I don't understand. All my life I have been raised to think that Love conquers all. That as long as there is love any obstacles can be overcome. Now why do you insist on saying that love is not enough. A love which you insist is pure and fulfilling is just not enough for you...
    Egizia Egizia 26-30, F Aug 17, 2012

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    Over It !

    I've had my heart broken a lot of times i am over it.. Love doesn't get you anywhere besides heartache and stress.. All you get is depressed and people trying to tell you it's going to be ok but in fact its easy for them to say its ok but they don't know how you feel until they...
    Desirablelady Desirablelady 22-25, F Jun 25, 2011

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    Again?

    Why can't everyone be happy? 7 months, 1 year, 2 month.. 6 years? This 6-year guy? I thought his the one na eh that would really love me, that would accept me and will be there for me forever. But, i just realized that feelings change as time goes on. It's not how long or what...
    yoww yoww 22-25, F 1 Response May 7, 2013

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    Love's Obituary

    A momentcaughtfrozen in timewith the click of a camera.Capturing the shine in those eyesthe shine that representedhappinesscontentmentpeaceabove all, love. At that timea lovethat couldn't be improveda lovethat wrapped itself around usheld usnurtured usmade us happysmilingcontent...
    Miluna Miluna 36-40, F May 11, 2011

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    Screw The Screwers

    No matter where I am at in life, or what I do for others, somebody breaks my heart. It's not enough I do it once, but somebody expects more. There is no reason for it, and I find it necessary to put a stop to it. Just last night, an old friend called from out of the blue. She...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Over and Over and Over And...

    I've had my heart broken, er "shattered", into millions of tiny pieces. then those pieces got shattered before any of it had a chance to heal. then the shattered pieces of the shattered pieces got shattered. etc etc etc... all by one person. in 8 months. he tells me...
    thedreamisover thedreamisover 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 23, 2008

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    Broken Heart, Mixed Emotions.

    I know you guys don't really like people who complain. last time i vented, i was told i was just seeking attention, and that i should get off this website and get a life, i can't honestly remember which user that was, but after 7 months, i have returned to this website. ...
    Kiwipanda Kiwipanda 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 5, 2010

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    A Person Who Dosent Have Love Witihn Cantgive Love

    I think we should take love and dating like a hunting exexperience we are out there to find the person we can live with and in the process we come across a lot of prospects but does it mean that after we catch or meet one there are no more game in the wild ofcourse not
    concerned35 concerned35 31-35 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    Sad

    hi would love to hear fro anone like me on my own im battling depression have been for 25 years married for 32 years a good man but he could not cope whit me because of my depression iv been on my own now for 7 years and its a nightmare
    sugerbab165 sugerbab165 51-55, F 3 Responses Aug 12, 2007

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    Without You I Am Nothing..

    I am still very much in love with my ex-girlfriend. And it still breaks my heart every minute that I breathe to know that she doesn't want me the same way I want her. She told me to move on and I did. I found a boy that’s nice to me; all I ever wanted was for someone to just be...
    ckspna ckspna 18-21, F Sep 17, 2013

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    I Feel Nothing Now

    I have had my heart broken so many times that I can't count. I always seem to attract these fools that are bored and need something to do. At first everything is good and then there is a problem later on. The games, the lies, the manipulation to get what they want just floors me...
    Simplelady4U Simplelady4U 36-40, F May 17, 2012

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    I Pulled Out Of The Abuse

    We were both fifteen. We were engaged to be married. He had been saving up for my dream engagement ring for over six months: A Victorian silver inlay with Sapphires and Diamonds. It was beautiful, and was the one thing I had waited my whole life to wear. I was excited, for we...
    Aminathius Aminathius 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2012

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    Ii Have Had My Heart Broken Again

    AMBER and i were very good friends it got to the point where she was having problems with her bf and she ran to me and said she would neverleave mei have tried to show her kindness and love at every turn i was very supportive of her for she has been abused and since i know how...
    mycuzinvinni mycuzinvinni 46-50, M 3 Responses Oct 27, 2011

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    Forever Broken

    I met this great guy.  We hit it off the first time we met.  He had to leave the country for a job and I suggested we try long distance relationship.  He said we can try it.  He was coming back to visit in July.  We emailed each other once a week. ...
    Nikita2008 Nikita2008 36-40, F 7 Responses May 6, 2010

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    How Many Times Will I Pick Up The Pieces Left Of My Heart

    I was deceived, lied to and conned. I feel like I was used by a selfish man. Now that its over I can see how selfish he was. He wanted to have me by all costs and was ready to lie to get me. I didn't deserve it. This heartbreak caused me to go into depression, I cried everyday...
    bella86 bella86 26-30, F Aug 12, 2012

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    He Is Cheating

    we been together 7 months he says he is affraid of love and affraid to be alone and afraid to loose me but i dont understand why would that make him cheat??? he has my heart and he is ripping it to shreds
    Kodirivera Kodirivera 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2012

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    I Am Done.

    I have had the only person I have ever truly loved with me for 8 years, I made sure that she never lifts a finger, She did not cook so I did it. Every day. I made sure she never paid a bill or ever had to go get groceries. She "over time" became very hurtful with name calling...
    MesaKK MesaKK 31-35, M 3 Responses May 9, 2012

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    No Such Thing As "True Love"

    i believe that there is no such thing as "true love". now, before you completely stop reading this and comment this story with some crap on how you found YOUR "true love" let me first explain: they can promise you everything.ANYTHING! just so you'll stay with them They will...
    monstrum monstrum 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2008

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    Done

    I've Been Treated Like **** For Too Long Get Used For Sex Till Something Better Comes Along Used Because The Person Doesnt Want To Be Single And Lonely Some Where Just Out To Hurt Me Worse Than Anyone Possibly Could I've Been Beaten And No One Knew Till The End When A Friend...
    Zimmerman1024 Zimmerman1024 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    It Still Hurts How Can He Move On So Fast

    I was with my fiancé for 2 1/2 years (off and on). We were in love with each other, he said he wanted to marry me and that I had his heart. We have a child together. He left me in the beginning of my pregnancy for another female and a few months later came back crying saying...
    03hope 03hope 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    Deja Vu

    I am sure I am not alone when it comes to heartbreak, but my life is tragically comical. I say comical to add something positive to the mix. I have been toyed with too many times to count. Ever since I can remember liking boys, there has been rejection, humiliation, and sadness...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    New And Confusing

    The good News is im not pregnant. yay i guess and hes nice again... um thats bad isnt it? I dont want to get back at him but for somereason i cant NOT be with him i miss him everyday and its kinda drive me crazy and i kinda sick of this feelings. im ok i guess.. like now we...
    nonazakiyah nonazakiyah 18-21, F Jun 28, 2012

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    Love Him? Or Forget Him?

    My dad. He is the kind of dad that I love with all my heart. Will do anything to get daddy's approval. When he doesn't really care about what i do, say and especially how i feel. I have many personality disorders, Bi-Polar disorder and a depression that only gets worse as the...
    WhenSuicideIsntTheAnswer WhenSuicideIsntTheAnswer 18-21, F Aug 25, 2013

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    I Just Want To Know The Answer . Please .

    Hey ,  I'm anna . this is the first time im here . and i hope that i can find the answer that i've been searching for . I know it's going to be long , and a lot of grammatical error since I'm an asian . but i beg for ur help.=( Well, I was in love with a guy . but I just...
    anna92 anna92 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 31, 2010

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    Insane

    Doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different outcome is the very definition of insanity.... or so I've heard.So I must be insane to trust people and expect them not to hurt me, to care for people and expect them not to let me down, to love and expect not to get...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 9, 2012

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    Only Dreams

    Is it love at first sight? Hell no, i don’t even think that exists, but one thing I am sure of is that it’s love. I have known her for four years now, we kicked off as class mates and two years later we were best friends, best friends she says, but all i see is the love of my...
    ibahc ibahc 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 18, 2012

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    Saying it shattered into a million pieces...

    The people I know i will fall in love with I avoid. I avoid them because i know they will break my heart in not understanding how i feel for them. Nobody has ever understood me. In my eyes..i have faith in the person i love..never would i do anything that would hurt them..but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 23, 2008

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    Heartbreak Is Your Best Friend.

    You know what it feels like to have your heart broken? It feels like a million wheels turning in your stomach, a pressure setting inside your gut that kills everything inside of you. Your life is ****, you loose some of your friends and your ex... that ONE EX that said they would...
    Alice18 Alice18 16-17 Nov 28, 2012

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    My Story..

    There was a guy I was madly in love with... But he is 18 and I am 15 (Teens love too.. We have feelings!) so he had to leave... It was the worst thing ever... I cried for weeks... He then got with another girl soon after and now we barely talk... He promised none of this would...
    AleksaGoesRawrr AleksaGoesRawrr 13-15, F Mar 25, 2012

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    It Hurts, But Not As Bad.

    I've had my heart broken so many times that when it happens it really doesn't hurt as bad. But it still hurts.
    iloveschoultzki iloveschoultzki 22-25, F 2 Responses May 19, 2012

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    A Poem I Wrote

      i sit and wonder how it is that you can be so distant so uncaring, unfeeling, unwilling to reach out a hand of kindness, frienship even to someone you at least once loved   the walls you have built are so high so thick that i can't see you, feel you or know...
    BellaButterfly BellaButterfly 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    A Broken Heart

    I'm going thru a very bad break up. I feel that I'm so empty inside and my heart has been ripped out of my chest and stomp on overe and over. I just want to meet someone to have fun with. And to make me like a whole person. So please help me..
    apittsburghguy apittsburghguy 36-40, M 11 Responses May 4, 2009

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    Blue Eyes Blue..

    i dont know how or where to start my story im sure this is not new at all..well i never thought i could fall for this kind of man that many would not u know y coz hes a family man a married man...but how cud i ever resist not to fall for he is so kind, understanding and most of...
    sweetseptember sweetseptember 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2009

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    Hurting Too Bad To Ever Try Again

    It seems as though each time I try to share my heart, it gets thrown right back at me. For the longest time I thought a happy life was achievable, now I don't think it is. My heart has been ripped out of my chest so many times and shattered. Each time has been harder to pick up...
    lajj8 lajj8 46-50, F 13 Responses Oct 8, 2010

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    By The Same Guy

    First post. I don't really know how to start this. I'm bad at sharing things that make me feel weak about myself. I always want to be a strong woman, and I am. This just makes me feel so powerless. The guy I fell in love with my freshman year of college and have been with on and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    How Can I Learn To Love Myself Again?

    Time and again someone's broken my heart I've been cheated on and just plain ignored. I feel used I wish to die but I don't want to hurt my parents by doing so How can I forget the past and just learn to love myself?
    p0o9i8u7y6 p0o9i8u7y6 22-25 Apr 9, 2012

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    Do You Really Want To Get Relief From Break Up?

    I am just being concerned with your situation. I REALLY want you to be successful at getting back the love of your life…I will take you by the hand and... -Get you in the right frame of mind. (panic mode won't work) -Assess where you are in the heart and mind of your ex. -based...
    andyandyto andyandyto 22-25, F Jul 23, 2012

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    I Get My Heartbroken By Myself :(

    I hate to admit it, yet i cant deny that i havent experienced heartache and i'm usually breaking my own heart. its not fun at all!
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 19, 2009

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    All of the Sudden the Heart Broke

    It always happens the same way without fail. It goes sort of like this. I'm walking along, daydreaming in my own little world. Then, from out of the blue, all the air I have began to trust and rely on to breathe disappears. I find myself in a daze. My thoughts...
    marksonwalls marksonwalls 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 6, 2008

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    No More

    I have been hurt and abused and betrayed by every single person who has meant anything to me in this life. My family was first- I won't go into all of that in detail, but basically I never developed a sense of trust in my family. They are users, manipulators, thieves, liars, and...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 27, 2010

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    Lots Of Hated Love

        I have been married twice and had 6 promises of marriage.  My first marriage was for 13 yrs, and the second was for 2 yrs, my heart was ripped into two  both times, all of the others I think look for imperfections to judge us by because they were given a false idea of...
    docvoodoo docvoodoo 31-35, M 2 Responses May 31, 2012

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    Too Many Times ....Too Painful

    My ex-bf of 4 1/2 years and the guy who I thought I would spend the rest of my life with cheated on me while studying for Marine Biology in Australia. He came back asked for a second chance and I was stupid enough to believe him. No later than three months after we got together...
    swisslobster swisslobster 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    People Don't Get Me

    I'm in my 20's and been hurt a lot since I was small no one knows what I have been through and I can never be the real me I try but I can't when I think I found the right man I tell him something about me and when I think he understands he doesn't he leaves me even though I havnt...
    steph10111xx steph10111xx 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2013

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