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I Have Had My Life Perspective Altered Because of Debijean

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    I Love Debijean!

    We have all met this wonderful lady at EP. Her name is Debijean and she has end stage esophogeal cancer. Debijean has been the most positive force here in EP and in my life. She has taught me that no matter what adversities we face in life, we should face them head on with a...
    JojoWazoo JojoWazoo 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 19, 2009

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    Thank You!

    God sent this special woman to me...in order to show me that my 'petty' little problems are simply that.  I must appreciate and be thankful for every gift of breath i've been given, and to grasp, hold on tight to everything that is important to me.  You are forever in...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2009

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    Thank You

    Thank you for showing me what dignity and joy really are. Thank you for teaching me about patience and living for the moment and compassion and kindness...thank you for sharing yourself with us here. Thank you for being who you are. You are my hero.  
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 14, 2009

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    That Smile

    I wake up around 4:00 AM every morning.  I don't get up; I lie in bed and let the thoughts come in undirtied by the petty grievances that often come into my day.  My thoughts often go to Debijean.  I wonder how she's feeling, if she had a good day, and if her...
    Myonis108 Myonis108 56-60, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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