I Have Had Some Really Bad First Dates

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    Round two! The clinger.

    .. This one is more of a series of dates that occurred within one week. On my way to my apartment one day a guy that lived in the place below me stopped me to talk and asked if we could hang out some time. I said yes, apparently we had went to elementary school together though I...
    SolitarySummer SolitarySummer
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 30, 2014

    So I meet a guy online,

    we do the online chat, exchange numbers, do some texts and phone calls. He seems really nice so we decide to meet in person. He was really sweet, but I was so nervous I was practically a basket case. Needless to say the phone calls and text messages practically dried up. I even...
    verylonely1 verylonely1
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Sep 7, 2014

    One of Many....

    I actuallly went out with this guy twice. First date we meet at a bar/grill type place. He seems to know a couple of the servers. We're there talking and he's telling me about some people he knows. The he proceeds to tell me that they frequently go into restraunts and act like...
    DietIcedTea DietIcedTea
    36-40, F
    3 Responses May 1, 2009

    So few months ago somebody asked me out.

    We have been planning about the date because first of all he was around my place for a job and his boss' pretty strict about having leisure time. The day came. I was really happy about how it turned out. It was sexy and i was just glowing and still about to glow more just when...
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 9, 2015

    My date lied about his height.

    He turned out to be considerably shorter than what he had told me. His eyes reached my neck. I like men that are taller than me. That's not my problem here, it's that he lied. Marched straight back into my house.
    xMissTix xMissTix
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 26, 2014

    So over the weekend I had a bad Tinder date.

    About a week ago I began messaging a guy on tinder who seemed to be normal. I am new to the app and was probably talking to about 6 other eligible bachelors at once. This guy seemed to stand out and since we chatted so much on the app, I decided to give him my number when he...
    heavensent88 heavensent88
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 11, 2016

    I Was Stood Up By My Stalker.

    This title sounds funny haha. But in a way it's true. So I've been in this weird on and off relationship with this dude we'll call Mike. Mike has always been my idea of my "dream guy" he has everything I'd ever want in a guy. And I mean EVERYTHING. Unfortunately as far as I was...
    Ihatebryan Ihatebryan
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 1, 2013

    I was 15 she was 16. We went out to lunch

    after a long day of finals. During lunch I went to grab her hand and I hit a spoon. The spoon had food on it and got all over her shirt. She surprisingly went out with me again, but needless to say not out to eat.
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 1, 2014

    Just came back from the worst date ever.

    She shows up at the mall, 3 hours late, with her friends. She met up with me, bought a bunch of stuff (spent all my money) then gave me a hug and left. She won't call or text me, she only said "hi" and "bye" and now I'm broke and some girl just made off with a lot of stuff
    Sabrebel Sabrebel
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Nov 21, 2015

    Not What I Expected

    I've been on some pretty crappy first dates, but this one was the most embarrassing! I was a senior in high school at the time. I was friends with this guy named Mackenzie and he was really sweet. One day he asked me out on a date. The plan was: he'd pick me up, we'd go to the...
    ABittersweetTragedy ABittersweetTragedy
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Apr 6, 2013

    I had a blind date once with a guy a few months

    before I met my boyfriend. The guy was shorter than me. 'Nuff said.
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 14, 2015

    I literally fell asleep

    while at a restaurant because all he wanted to talk about was history
    unbrokenground unbrokenground
    41-45, F
    Sep 20, 2015

    I also had another date with a guy

    who sent me a picture of when he was young. When he met me for the first time, I lost my appetite completely. He had many wrinkles and he had some missing teeth and the teeth he did have were all shades of brown, black, and gray.
    unbrokenground unbrokenground
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2015

    Date With A baseball Bat And A Stove

    I met this girl out at a bar where my friends and I hung out at frequently. She was pretty and funny and did everything that would catch my attention. I ran into her when I was getting a drink for my table of friends. It was lots of fun. We got to chatting and found that we had a...
    mythos52003 mythos52003
    41-45, M
    10 Responses Apr 14, 2011

    My first date! Went out to the theater to

    watch Ender's Game hahaha I suck at being romantic. :<
    ChasingNovelty ChasingNovelty
    18-21, M
    Feb 11, 2014

    I went on a date my freshman year of college

    with a guy I met online, he turned out to be 5 inches shorter than me (I'm 5'2") and the entire time kept talking about the "blue butterflies in his stomach". He introduced me to his mom on our first date who must have been high on meds, because she looked at me all glazed over...
    CaseyAlyssa CaseyAlyssa
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 22, 2014

    Thanks! 'my Yiddisher Momma'

    Being a single dad, (was widowed with two small kids) and having been on my own for a couple of years, my mum (God Bless her!) thought that it was high time that I 'got back in the saddle' and remarried. She and my dad, (who had died years earlier and escaped this devious scheme...
    Cherpee Cherpee
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Jul 1, 2009

    When your gunna meet up with a guy

    for the first time and yall r texting and he says that he had a dream about you the night before and you haven't even met him or know what he looks like, which I think is kinda weird and most likely gunna be an awkward date and to say the least it really was! Uhmm one first and...
    ImaCuteLoseR ImaCuteLoseR
    22-25, M
    Jun 5, 2015

    I had some douche accuse me of stealing change

    from his van AFTER I paid for dinner. Seriously? Lol
    Lovingmyselffirst Lovingmyselffirst
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Dec 28, 2013

    I went on a date with a guy

    who drove a lifted truck and after a couple drinks I fell face first onto the asphalt when he dropped me off hahahaha!! We went out one more time after that but I was too embarrassed to even look at him hahaha!!!
    Clumsy25 Clumsy25
    26-30, F
    Mar 21, 2014

    Blind date turns out to be considerably older.

    Shows up wearing tight white jeans (before guys started wearing skinny jeans...this was in the 90's) and he had a big brown stain on his butt. I assume he sat in chocolate or something like that but it was pretty awkward none the less. We go to dinner, he excuses himself to...
    Happiness11 Happiness11
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2014

    Actually, I always had decent dates.

    ... Until last night. It was pretty bad... I was nervous and I would say silly things and laugh a lot and the he would look at me in this perturbed way and it would make me more nervous so I would laugh more. At least I got a free meal out of it??? I don't know... We ended the...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    hard to pick just one.

    .. but yeah my worst one was this guy i'd been talking to for about 2 months.. online, phone calls and everything. He really wanted to meet up so i took him to London and payed for a whole day out. When we met i was drawn back straight away... (i'm never the type to judge a...
    cupcakes1995 cupcakes1995
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2015

    I've wanted to go on this date with this guy

    for the longest time. We finally go and he is so touchy feely, controlling, and was treating me like I was 4. Like excuse me sir, are you lost ? After our movie finished I had him drive me home because I didn't want to be around him any longer. As he tried kissing me goodnight I...
    cheyennerainn cheyennerainn
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 2, 2014

    Crazies Coming Out Of The Woodwork!

    Let me first start things off by saying that I'm 26, a woman, and I've had some of the worst first-and-last dates imaginable. It really makes me wonder sometimes where all the normal men are! Person A: Set up with this guy by a friend of a friend. I was told that he had a...
    urielsparsile urielsparsile
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2013

    A friend set me up with a date,

    said he was exactly my type, that we'd hit it off, etc, etc. What a disaster. He tried to order for me, frowned when I insisted on ordering for myself, frowned at what I ordered, lectured me on sustainable food, frowned when I ordered wine... and on it went. Ninety minutes of...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Dec 21, 2015

    I had this really really really awkward date

    and his name was mason and we just sat there not saying anything so in the mean time we ordered a milkshake so he was like y don't we just get a large and only one large one so I said sure and after that he drank it all:( it was gross! After our "date" heres the a act words...
    Strangerdanger47 Strangerdanger47
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Sep 7, 2014

    I'm soooo tired of bad dates!

    ! This is why I prefer dried cranberries/cherries. Don't care 4 raisins either....
    pyeito pyeito
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 8, 2014

    I just did a post on my tumblr about what's okay

    and not okay on first date. Here is the link http://chanelconoco.tumblr.com My tumblr name is chanelconoco
    someoneforyou12 someoneforyou12
    22-25, F
    Oct 15, 2014
    Strangerdanger47 Strangerdanger47
    16-17, F
    Sep 19, 2014
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy
    22-25, F
    Mar 16, 2014

    I've had some really interesting blind dates

    but the one that has taken the cake was the last one I went on. First, he lied about where he lived, then he lied about telling me he was an EMT. When we finally met he looked nothing like his profile picture and spent the entire dinner talkig about himself. I literally got...
    SolitarySummer SolitarySummer
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Apr 30, 2014

    The Accidental Date I was madly in love with

    my boyfriend, who ended up leaving me for my best friend. I was completely heart broken by this and the entire school knew that. This boy's best friend, Nick, waited less than a week to move in on me. I politely explained to him that I was heartbroken and not interested in...
    SwooshZero SwooshZero
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 30, 2014

    Worst date I've been on.

    .. We met through our mutual friend and for 2 months we talked via Cell, Texting, FaceBook, Skype, SnapChat.. really thought we had a connection. Finally we set up our first date and she completly blows off our plans. I drive to her place Forty-five minutes away from my town!! An...
    AustynMonroe AustynMonroe
    18-21, M
    Mar 13, 2015

    so Friday I went out on a date with this guy.

    of course it wasn't even really a date. just the first time I saw him in person. we really got along. had fun. had more fun. and I left feeling hopeful and happy. he told me to call when I made it safely home so I did. he starts talking about his ex and these other girls he is...
    ZombieBaitMaiden ZombieBaitMaiden
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2015

    My first kiss was with a dude.

    So this story starts off bad. I was dating a guy a bit older than me and we had gone to the movies with at least eight friends to see a horror film. At the the scariest part, my hand flew up and I hit him in the face. Oops. Then he tried to kiss me at the end and it was the...
    MaybeJuli MaybeJuli
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 27, 2014

    I got bitten by a dog,

    so I bit him back!!
    pyeito pyeito
    31-35, M
    Jan 12, 2014

    Really Bad First Date

    Ok last night was horrible. It was a guy I met online here on EP. He seemed fine on here. Not a member of crazy groups. So I figured what the hell right? Oh it was so wrong. He picked me up at my house and as I came down the stairs I could see him flirting with my 16 year old...
    rachelmac919 rachelmac919
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Mar 23, 2013
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