I Have Had Very Few Sexual Partners

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    What Qualifies As Very Few?

    One does and probably two, what about three? Five? Ten or less? How about an even dozen? Yes, I wrote this partly in jest, but only partly as I would really like to know others opinions and will delete it if it offends any members of the group.      
    outercalm outercalm
    51-55, M
    Oct 22, 2009

    Just One

    I have had one partner. I am a straight female. I had a long term relationship for six years and my only sexual partner was my boyfriend. I don't regret having more. I have heard people say that it can make you seem "inexperienced" or too innocent but I would take that over being...
    annemarquess2012 annemarquess2012
    26-30
    Sep 4, 2012

    Two, To Be Exact

    Yep, just two. I lost my virginity when I was 18 to a man I was dating. Then a few months later, I met my now husband, and that was that! 
    VendettaVita VendettaVita
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 31, 2010

    My current girlfriend

    since 2 years is my first, we're both 24 at the moment, but she has been with a considerable number of partners which included casual sexual encounters. I would have never expected that to be a problem in the past, because I always theoretically knew that this shouldn't matter...
    InMyLife InMyLife
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 26, 2014

    One

        i have had very few sexual partners. i have had only one .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 8, 2009

    Very Very Few....

    I have had very very very very very very very very very very very few sexual partners, as in, just ONE!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 22, 2009

    My boyfriend is my only sexual partner,

    and I'm his only one as well. I lost my virginity at 21, and only after being together a year (and only after I decided I wanted him to be my one-and-only!) I don't know why people seem to think having few partners is shameful--I think it's beautiful.
    Rikki911 Rikki911
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 11, 2014

    I Only Got Five

    I am find with that i wish it had been on two beause 3 out of the five were just meaninless sex.. I used to think as a guy i needed to have more to fit it. Now i am glad i don't fit in
    mulder mulder
    26-30
    May 17, 2012

    Little Me;

    I have had 2 partners...  1 when I was 17, dated for 4 months had fun for 5....     Now I`m whit the man of my dreams :) enugh said really...
    nime25 nime25
    22-25, F
    May 7, 2010

    Well, I lost my virginity about 4 months ago

    with one guy, it was okay but I didn't feel anything & I never had an ******. I thought it was normal cause it was my first time. About three weeks ago I started having sexual encounters with this other guy. We have done it 4 times already & with him I don't feel pain at the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2014

    Yes, This Is True

    Count them on to hands. But I have been very very satisfied by the men in my life. As have they by me, since I never received a complaint but rather parise from my partners. Not bragging in any way. Just know that if it is worth doing ... it is worth doing well! Wonderful...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    Sep 27, 2010
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