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I Have High Ambitions, But Lack Motivation

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    I Will Never Get There

    well i dont have high ambitions for myself. right now its like, "you made it through the day?", "nice job!". everyone around me seems to want me to accel at everything. i used to be an A student and play sports and play the violin somewhat decently and i was always pleasent and...
    hurtingforever hurtingforever 13-15, F Jul 29, 2012

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    I Will Never Get There

    well i dont have high ambitions for myself. right now its like, "you made it through the day?", "nice job!". everyone around me seems to want me to accel at everything. i used to be an A student and play sports and play the violin somewhat decently and i was always pleasent and...
    hurtingforever hurtingforever 13-15, F Jul 29, 2012

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    There are so many things I want to do,

    but just can't find the motivation to actually do them. XD
    KimTin33 KimTin33 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29

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