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I Have Hurt Others

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    I'm Sorry I Hurt Him, But...

    I broke up with someone four years ago. We were together for two years. Back then, I thought I loved him. But I know now that it wasn't true. I think he loved me, because I could see the tears in his eyes when I told him I don't want to be his girlfriend anymore. His heart was...
    MaybeSunshine MaybeSunshine 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2009

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    Tourette's

    It's not my intention, but I cannot control it. Well, a bus driver was rude to me, & I cursed him out. Hey, he hurt me 1st, & that triggered off my outbursts, & because of that, the company wants to ban me from their transportation services.
    otad12 otad12 26-30, F Oct 16, 2009

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    I Just Want To...

    Apologize to all that I have hurt. I was an insecure, immature and jealous little girl, that was not happy with herself and he live. I'm sincerely sorry to all. My self denial and doubt of certain things about myself caused me to take those angers and frustrations out on others...
    NewPersonUnderConstruction NewPersonUnderConstruction 18-21, F Jun 24, 2011

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    Haunted

    I can remember almost every moment that I hurt someone since kindergarten. In most instances I didn't mean to, and I regret every one of those moments. I'm certain the vast majority of them don't remember it at all, but my memories of it will haunt me for the rest of my days. I...
    FordPrefect42 FordPrefect42 36-40, M 6 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    It Hurts Just To Know It

    I have lived most of my life the way you may have or possibly will come to know me here. I have always taken great pride in my transparency as it allows people to see deeper and learn more and possibly even understand and believe they are not alone. However there was a period...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 14, 2011

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    I have this friend and

    for now let's just name her Eve. Well this past year I've been going through a lot and I have been asking her for help and guidance for over a year. She's delivered the help to me and made sure I was well. I kept coming back and forth to her for every little problem. At first...
    FutureMARSOCMarine FutureMARSOCMarine 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I don't write letters to those who have hurt me, I have to say. I strategise how I get my own back without using physical violence but emotional shattering pictures or people they...
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M Jul 29

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    Dear me, You are so unfair to yourself. How can you possibly get yourself in so deep? Everyday you wake up and go through the same routine of avoiding the mirror. I wish you could...
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F Aug 2

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    I hate when a certain person does things to make everyone else look bad. This person likes to not do things and then when others are around make it look like you were the one...
    Thokgirl82 Thokgirl82 31-35, F Aug 1

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    Yep. But. That may be their goal. My dad is such a cretin. He gets hurt. And retaliates. No exploration. No discussion. Just retaliation. And many copy...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 9

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    What you did hurt me in so many ways and when I confronted you about it, all you ever say is I'm trying to start ****. No, I'm unhappy in the relationship and I want a change. But...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    So I moved out of state. Months before my friend of ten years kept putting off hanging out with me. 7 months went by. Weeks before I moved, he planned a lunch. Then the day of...
    indigoK indigoK 36-40, F Aug 6

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    Today I arranged to go into the city centre with my new friend Sara-Jade to go shopping. As we left Topshop to go back into the mall, I saw a group of guys walk in our direction...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    I think the one thing I've always struggled with was my boyfriends forgetting my birthday 2 times in a row. We've been together for 3 years so it does hurt and it does make me feel...
    Anon2721 Anon2721 13-15, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I've only held one grudge and that's towards my mums brother and his son; my cousin. Although I was in the wrong I was happy to talk about the issue I realised they weren't the...
    heyitsabike heyitsabike 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    I have to admit that holding a grudge is one of my faults. I acknowledge it and try to temper it but that adage of fool me once always seems to stick in my head.
    Nuovinzi Nuovinzi 41-45, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    A lot of yall ************* need to cut the ****
    heyyo1234 heyyo1234 22-25, M Aug 9

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    They are scum. The caretaker here at the club claim fits. He does wrong. I report him. He does more wrong and says i lie. Scummy liar. Despise him so much...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 18

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    Yeah what's up with the world nowadays ??
    srilada srilada 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Those sick bastards just **** me of
    killerinstinke killerinstinke 13-15, F Aug 1

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    the day I die, I will go to hell. I will wait for you, once you will be in the flames with me, I will rip you body apart over and over............
    voslung voslung 36-40, M Aug 12

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    Dear Colridge & Chris, **** You. Sincerely, Sam. ( :
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F Aug 12

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    But. Omg. But when i try the pain hits. Or i succeed momentarily. Until i hear of jerks. Hypersensitive yes. Aware yes. Are they No. Never publicly...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hurt myself again. After several years, I hurt myself again. I chose to hurt myself rather than hurt others. Everything is coming back to me. The pain, agony, self-pity and...
    purplefreespirit purplefreespirit 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Not able to connect with my own emotion, I can't set straight my priorities. One thing I know is I was hurt. I need to move on. I broke out, it's peaceful and quite now by myself...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 6 hrs ago

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    Believe me, forget those peple who hurt you. They dont even remember you. They will not come back and opologize. The most people who hurt others, never opologize. So u can dwell...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    My pet peeve is when people say to others, "eww, you're ugly". It bothers me a lot. If someone says you're ugly, that is not true because your personality tells if you are...
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I've stated I don't believe in the traditional idea of forgiveness. I believe it's something one earns, a privilege and not a right. I also believe some simply go too far for...
    TheDivineParody TheDivineParody 22-25, M Aug 2

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    At least I'm pretty sure I do. I have not been diagnosed by a medical doctor but this would really make the most sense. I'm in a low phase right now, I'm moody, hate everything...
    123sotired 123sotired 31-35 Aug 3

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    I hate living on a planet of bad people who can do what ever they want and lie, all the nice people who tell the truth seem to end up worst out of everything, I can't wait til bad...
    Ameliaaaa Ameliaaaa 26-30, F Aug 7

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    To all those who have hurt me, It is beyond your understanding to comprehend how much I hate you. Your brain simply lacks the capacity to contain the words I have saved for you...
    TheSmartestManOnEarth TheSmartestManOnEarth 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    You try to hurt all these people who have hurt you. You end up hurting yourself the most. I'm sorry to myself. I've been working on being a better person and righting all the wrong...
    skybaby0 skybaby0 18-21 Aug 3

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    Its been about 45 days since u suddenly shattered my world by telling me u were tired of waiting, that there was some one else, that u thought it was best for me if we were just...
    Sharniab Sharniab 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    Im honest:- I do get attached, even online :). it doesn't matter to me where in the world you are, what you are or who you are - Its your character that had me keep coming back...
    Tonia248 Tonia248 51-55, F 5 Responses Aug 16

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    With all the people that have hurt me in my life i don't trust anyone. I don't need to feel any worse than what already do and i don't need to be falsely happy again.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    I hate myself for what has happened in the past. I have hurt my family with secrets.. But I don't know how to say anything... I was raped for a year by a guy who was obsessed...
    YoungLovee15 YoungLovee15 13-15, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    It's been a while since I have been truly active in EP. I have used this site as a place to vent out for years and it has helped me a lot in my journey for my personal growth and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 30

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    First of all, God has talked to me today and I know I need to forgive myself and people who have hurt me, but it seems so hard. Also I really want self-confidence I wish it wasn't...
    alyjrose alyjrose 18-21, F Aug 2

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    I've never been in love with anyone and have never been in a real relationship before. I've also met alot of guys who have hurt me in the past, but I'm over that as well. I"m glad...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    PART TWO: Emma I wrote about my trip to Ireland a week or so ago and promised a part two ( EP Link ). Part two here is not so much about Ireland as it is about one...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 11

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    As many of you know by now, I have an obsessed office stalker. She delights in getting off on my life, either in the office or outside of it. If there's any rumors about me in...
    deepscar deepscar 46-50, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    A Bridge Across the Pain. I remember one morning when I was three and sitting across the table from my father at breakfast, just he and I, when for no reason I could think of he...
    Steffi97 Steffi97 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    Did I already mention EP should make it easier to attach experiences to appropriate groups... I think so :pSo I'll put this motivational here. Although I'm more than slightly...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    I used to be so naive. Sometimes I wish I could have that innocence back...to be able to see the world through the eyes of a girl who only knew of sheltered happiness. Of course...
    SupernovaxGirl SupernovaxGirl 26-30 1 Response Aug 12

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    A SERIOUS MATTER NOT WORTH JOKING AROUND! It’s easy to see a person so bubbly, energetic, humorous and alive, thinking ‘wow that person has it all, a great life’ maybe they...
    imperfectedsoul imperfectedsoul 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Last night I had some friends over for drinks, and two of my so called male friends made some insulating comments at my X wife's expense behind her back. My X wife is a disabled...
    gordie60 gordie60 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I'm not exactly the girl I seem to be to others. I've taken drama classes and my teachers always said I should really pursue a career in acting, but I never believed it to be a...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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