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I Have Hurt Others

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    Tourette's

    It's not my intention, but I cannot control it. Well, a bus driver was rude to me, & I cursed him out. Hey, he hurt me 1st, & that triggered off my outbursts, & because of that, the company wants to ban me from their transportation services.
    otad12 otad12 26-30, F Oct 16, 2009

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    I Just Want To...

    Apologize to all that I have hurt. I was an insecure, immature and jealous little girl, that was not happy with herself and he live. I'm sincerely sorry to all. My self denial and doubt of certain things about myself caused me to take those angers and frustrations out on others...
    NewPersonUnderConstruction NewPersonUnderConstruction 18-21, F Jun 24, 2011

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    It Hurts Just To Know It

    I have lived most of my life the way you may have or possibly will come to know me here. I have always taken great pride in my transparency as it allows people to see deeper and learn more and possibly even understand and believe they are not alone. However there was a period...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 14, 2011

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    I'm Sorry I Hurt Him, But...

    I broke up with someone four years ago. We were together for two years. Back then, I thought I loved him. But I know now that it wasn't true. I think he loved me, because I could see the tears in his eyes when I told him I don't want to be his girlfriend anymore. His heart was...
    MaybeSunshine MaybeSunshine 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2009

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    I have this friend and

    for now let's just name her Eve. Well this past year I've been going through a lot and I have been asking her for help and guidance for over a year. She's delivered the help to me and made sure I was well. I kept coming back and forth to her for every little problem. At first...
    FutureMARSOCMarine FutureMARSOCMarine 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Haunted

    I can remember almost every moment that I hurt someone since kindergarten. In most instances I didn't mean to, and I regret every one of those moments. I'm certain the vast majority of them don't remember it at all, but my memories of it will haunt me for the rest of my days. I...
    FordPrefect42 FordPrefect42 36-40, M 6 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I don't write letters to those who have hurt me, I have to say. I strategise how I get my own back without using physical violence but emotional shattering pictures or people they...
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    If you dont take care of your feelings and manage to understand the good and the bad...you end up lost when feeling sad or miserable. I really believe people hurt another people...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F Jul 9

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    Yeah it really hurts. I realize your hurting but I'm just trying to help. Stop taking me for granite. And she doesn't even notice it hurt me afterwards. She acts like nothing...
    Britt199b Britt199b 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Im not sure if its true. I was hurt all my life by several people. They werent unhappy, not all of them. The biggest emotional pain i had as my ex- boss female started to be rude...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Without going into too much detail....from last September until about February or March was one of the darkest periods of my life for exactly this reason. My husband, people I had...
    Env06 Env06 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    so earlier I was hanging out with my cousin and we were going to the park so we came back to the house to grab a few waters my sisters fiancé passes by us and my cousin greets...
    muffinpowers muffinpowers 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I don't understand why we let our "friends" **** us over. Why do we put up with their **** when all you is put up with theirs. Is it worth it? The pain? The drama? I don't believe...
    Todayisadream Todayisadream 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    And for those people I only have one thing to say... ***** off!!
    hadiwasii hadiwasii 13-15, F Jul 9

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    05:30am So today is my 17th, and it feels like my friends don't remember my special day....no texts, no phone calls, no chat...... Urghhh! Wth I think I need to have new...
    yalalast yalalast 16-17, F 8 Responses Jul 11

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    I guess it's because I don't have the heart. I just don't understand their perspective. What makes them so bold to deliberately cause harm?
    AprilBurden23 AprilBurden23 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Dear Colridge, All I asked for was a relationship with a guy that would accept me in terms of personality; both appearance and character and wouldn't hurt me, but you did. A few...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F Jul 19

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    Hello everyone I'm new to the site and have never done anything like this before but I really feel like I need to get this off my chest ... I'm not the kind of guy who talks about...
    GreatSouthernTrendKill GreatSouthernTrendKill 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    Hey, im new to all of this but uh, i have been feeling so worthless lately, i have no one to talk to and my life is a mess. its one big fight after another. and im just very tired...
    jenly jenly 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    LeelMx LeelMx 26-30, F Jul 5

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    But people are selfish it's who they are!
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F Jul 5

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    Short story, I was talking to some EP guy here then we were chatting out in another chatting service , we were having a good friendship till I said kinda joking that I though he...
    Dannuhunter Dannuhunter 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    When I read this story " 'Hell is Love': Inside the toxic world of CEO daughter turned 'call girl killer' Alix Tichelman accused of killing Google exec with heroin overdose...
    rajblr1970 rajblr1970 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 16

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    “That which doesn’t kill us makes us stronger.”
    joyevaa joyevaa 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Me and my older cousin used to be best friends. We did everything together as kids and we were so close. Now he'll barely spare me a glance, and when we're in the same house, he'll...
    weby667 weby667 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I hate when your parents always say be the better person do the right thing step up to the plate but then when it comes to having a conflict with them you the child are the one who...
    tearsintime tearsintime 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I try to think that all people aren't the same and not base or judge them on past experiences but now it's just getting harder and harder.
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F Jul 22

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    That's why I finally went off on my boyfriend last night. He actually apologized to me. It felt good. I deserved that apology, and I'm glad I got it.
    stillYDGN stillYDGN 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So, I'm a very skiddish person. I don't leave the house much. I work from home. I just don't do well with much social interaction. I'd love to travel the world but I'm just so...
    theallknowing theallknowing 61-65, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My ex boyfriend is getting married .. And i am invited ... I am still not over him though .. He cheated on me.. You think I should go ?
    Fraand Fraand 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is a big part of who I am. I never want to hurt anyone. I've always put that before myself, always watching what I say and how I react and do things so I don't hurt others. I...
    KilljoyTillTheEnd KilljoyTillTheEnd 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I know a lot of people say that they don't have any regrets because all of their past experiences, choices, etc. has made them who they are today. I don't feel that way though; I...
    PunkinH2O PunkinH2O 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    i hv always tried to seek an answer fr this question-why?why hurt others? if u dont like someone,its okay but at least dont make a joke of the person. just saw a "stud" in...
    happinesslieswithin happinesslieswithin 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    So why is it worth it to some people to hurt others feelings, just to feel like they are right about something? Even if I was wrong (I wasn't, and google confirmed it), there's no...
    Env06 Env06 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm afraid of getting close to others or having a new best friend because my best friend died over a year ago. Not only that, I have had lots of friends who have died. Others, I...
    ninathecat ninathecat 31-35 Jul 18

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    I hate it. I do. I don't know why I do it though. I'm not a very good person. I'm really negative and I brush off anyone that offers me help on anything. I'm trying to find a job...
    silverwolf25 silverwolf25 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Its been about 45 days since u suddenly shattered my world by telling me u were tired of waiting, that there was some one else, that u thought it was best for me if we were just...
    Sharniab Sharniab 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    This song has always struck a chord with me. Not because of the girls bouncing on the bed. Not because of the window onto an underwater scene, Not because it’s by Leonard...
    BeauDaddy BeauDaddy 61-65, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Coming from a dysfunctional/toxic family, I have come to realize that my lack of friends is due to my mistrust and fear of rejection. I've had a few good friends that have hurt me...
    Learning2LiveAgain Learning2LiveAgain 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Well, not quite yet. I was adopted when I was only a couple days old. I didn't know until I was about 7 or so, that I was adopted. Then when I turned 18 I found my birth mom. I had...
    kasi09 kasi09 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Gardenia lover for over forty years. Favourites, I actually have several: Veil by Vera Wang "V" by Valentino; I have loads of scents with white floral light esp gardenia. I tried...
    merrym637 merrym637 51-55, F Jul 20

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    I have been to emotional hell and back. I have been cheated on, used, abused mentally, and stabbed in the back by "friends", But I will not be a bitter women like I used to be. I...
    strawberry38 strawberry38 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    It's been a while since I have been truly active in EP. I have used this site as a place to vent out for years and it has helped me a lot in my journey for my personal growth and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Treat others the way you want to be treated! Pay it forward!
    graeff120 graeff120 36-40, F 4 hrs ago

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    Everyone that has shared a similar experience all have one thing in common, we all say 'but I love him'. I hear your stories and can relate deeply to them. There would be nothing...
    Smiles4u2014 Smiles4u2014 41-45, F 10 hrs ago

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    Why Mother? Why do you have to ruin everything? Why do you do these to me? Why do you always see me as the bad one? Why!? Remember when i was a child and you almost gave me to my...
    PartyPoison04 PartyPoison04 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I am sad that I have lost my faith in God. I used to be a very strong, Christian until I started questioning and becoming involved in leadership in the church. I saw so much...
    Katiegirlwasagirl Katiegirlwasagirl 26-30, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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