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I Have Hurt Others

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    I'm Sorry I Hurt Him, But...

    I broke up with someone four years ago. We were together for two years. Back then, I thought I loved him. But I know now that it wasn't true. I think he loved me, because I could see the tears in his eyes when I told him I don't want to be his girlfriend anymore. His heart was...
    MaybeSunshine MaybeSunshine 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2009

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    Tourette's

    It's not my intention, but I cannot control it. Well, a bus driver was rude to me, & I cursed him out. Hey, he hurt me 1st, & that triggered off my outbursts, & because of that, the company wants to ban me from their transportation services.
    otad12 otad12 31-35, F Oct 16, 2009

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    It Hurts Just To Know It

    I have lived most of my life the way you may have or possibly will come to know me here. I have always taken great pride in my transparency as it allows people to see deeper and learn more and possibly even understand and believe they are not alone. However there was a period...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 14, 2011

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    Haunted

    I can remember almost every moment that I hurt someone since kindergarten. In most instances I didn't mean to, and I regret every one of those moments. I'm certain the vast majority of them don't remember it at all, but my memories of it will haunt me for the rest of my days. I...
    FordPrefect42 FordPrefect42 36-40, M 6 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    I have this friend and

    for now let's just name her Eve. Well this past year I've been going through a lot and I have been asking her for help and guidance for over a year. She's delivered the help to me and made sure I was well. I kept coming back and forth to her for every little problem. At first...
    FutureMARSOCMarine FutureMARSOCMarine 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I Just Want To...

    Apologize to all that I have hurt. I was an insecure, immature and jealous little girl, that was not happy with herself and he live. I'm sincerely sorry to all. My self denial and doubt of certain things about myself caused me to take those angers and frustrations out on others...
    NewPersonUnderConstruction NewPersonUnderConstruction 18-21, F Jun 24, 2011

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    What you did hurt me in so many ways and when I confronted you about it, all you ever say is I'm trying to start ****. No, I'm unhappy in the relationship and I want a change. But...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F Aug 24

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    I read something sad today from a friend who is now in a similar situation as i was this time last year and my heart goes out to her. As it was a time when i myself felt so very...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    I think the one thing I've always struggled with was my boyfriends forgetting my birthday 2 times in a row. We've been together for 3 years so it does hurt and it does make me feel...
    Anon2721 Anon2721 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I understand what you did, I am not angel too, I have my flaws. I don't feel anger or hatred, we don't need that. But I want you to know, I forgave you. It still hurt, it's not a...
    voslung voslung 36-40, M Sep 7

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    They always say forgiveness isn't for the other person and I get that, but I still don't want anyone thinking it's okay to hurt me
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've only held one grudge and that's towards my mums brother and his son; my cousin. Although I was in the wrong I was happy to talk about the issue I realised they weren't the...
    heyitsabike heyitsabike 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I have to admit that holding a grudge is one of my faults. I acknowledge it and try to temper it but that adage of fool me once always seems to stick in my head.
    Nuovinzi Nuovinzi 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I've got so many reasons to be a bad person. From my father abandoning my mom and me to my mom allowing her new husband to abuse me. In the grand scheme of things, I guess my...
    LittleGirlCrissy LittleGirlCrissy 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    But. Omg. But when i try the pain hits. Or i succeed momentarily. Until i hear of jerks. Hypersensitive yes. Aware yes. Are they No. Never publicly...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    "THE MUD HOLE - The Story of a Premonition" Thursday evening to Friday morning, 1st November 2013 (after Halloween) I woke up, after a disturbing dream. In my dream, there was...
    TNTandCHOCOLATE TNTandCHOCOLATE 31-35 48 mins ago

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    I have a peaceful phlegmatic temperament, I found this description after taking an online personality test. It is me almost to the letter. It explains why I'm so forgiving and able...
    SignalSarge SignalSarge 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    Sometimes, I feel nothing at all. Nothingness. Numbing nothingness. Pain. I need it. The constant dull aching inside, I need it. It makes me feel human. It keeps me from wanting...
    SimonFlarerington SimonFlarerington 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    I think it's time for me to come out and admit this. I was diagnosed at 17 with Schizoaffective Disorder. I don't like to talk about it much because it's very personal and it tends...
    Shinook26 Shinook26 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Discovered by a family member, client, co-worker, or close friend on EP. I wonder how many people would be embarrassed by any of their posting on EP if they were...
    Jones47 Jones47 61-65, M 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Not able to connect with my own emotion, I can't set straight my priorities. One thing I know is I was hurt. I need to move on. I broke out, it's peaceful and quite now by myself...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F Aug 27

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    I hurt myself because it feels good to me and me and my best friend Alpha will continue to hurt other people see I like to make people feel my pain and my hurt that's why I hurt...
    dangerousperson dangerousperson 26-30, M Sep 1

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    That glowing energy from the joke I told you, that smirk you show when something amazing happens to you, that job promotion you got because of how hard working you are! I really...
    RainbowAdventurer12 RainbowAdventurer12 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    I have suffered with CVS my entire life, from age two to now (Im 17). Along the way I've learned how to cope and help my episodes. All these helpful tricks may work for you but are...
    Platinumryan Platinumryan 16-17 Sep 4

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    I told some horrible things to my dad today. I feel so bad. Is that why I put in this life for? To hurt others? And be ungrateful? I wish I wasn't so mean but I'm just unhappy with...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's too true! If I can tell that something I said has emotionally effected someone in a negative way. I want to die. I want to go back in time kill myself before I hurt that...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    With all the people that have hurt me in my life i don't trust anyone. I don't need to feel any worse than what already do and i don't need to be falsely happy again.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M Aug 21

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    I hate myself for what has happened in the past. I have hurt my family with secrets.. But I don't know how to say anything... I was raped for a year by a guy who was obsessed...
    YoungLovee15 YoungLovee15 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    There is a saying… the more it changes, the more it stays the same. Words pronounced, promises made, new encounters or old ones, activities, relationship, friendship, family...
    womanonly womanonly 41-45, F Sep 10

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    The Confession of a Drunk Driver In all my life I never thought that I would be that guy. I never thought that I would be one walking in a straight line at 3 a.m. I never...
    timmybee timmybee 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    I have a cut off. A person can hurt and hurt me and I'll take it and take it. Then something clicks. I can't control when it will be. I wish I could control it, I would cut off...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    Ok this a long text to my husband I felt like I needed to let this out. Excuse my language also, I only do it when I'm mad. I ******* spend 42 hours in the hospital 42 trying...
    Melissa0326 Melissa0326 18-21 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Breaking Benjamin- Polyamorous Let's go The day has come to an end The sun is over my head My polyamorous friend He got me in a mess of trouble again So just when you think...
    lmpulsive lmpulsive 18-21, M 10 hrs ago

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    My husband has been cheating on me with very young teenage prostitutes. We have been together 20 years. We are losing everything we worked for because of his drug, alcohol...
    taylorbubber taylorbubber 41-45, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Nothing feels as bad as you feel like a burden to someone else. My day got off to a rough start when the squabble this morning was about the transportation issues that made me...
    jessycarcher jessycarcher 22-25, F 8 hrs ago

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    I am a helper and a doer. It is always my pleasure to help others. I get great so much joy and complete satisfaction from helping others. I learned this at a very early age...
    marylou69 marylou69 41-45, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    People think I'm a heartless ***** for this, but I would say that I'm more selfish than heartless, which is not necessarily a bad thing. I think under certain circumstances its...
    ADargis ADargis 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I was meditating a while ago...meditation should calm the mind right but the second I close my eyes. A tear drop one after another constantly for so long I tried to stop it...I...
    Quentine Quentine 22-25, F 9 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    The worst kind of hurt is Betrayal, because it means someone was willing to hurt you, just to make themselves feel better.
    arit1 arit1 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    As many of you know by now, I have an obsessed office stalker. She delights in getting off on my life, either in the office or outside of it. If there's any rumors about me in...
    deepscar deepscar 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 26

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    I wish I could do more to truly help others. I try my best to inspire and council others. If I could I would have it so no person has to suffer in any manner and have all people...
    Feistywizard Feistywizard 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 6

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    I was not born with a whole brain. I was born physically disabled and physically able. I have been given natural talents and special inside gifts. I do not look disabled to many...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Sep 11

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    It all started out ordinarily. As I started in college, I got in class with this girl named Rosalina. She was this cute/nerdy type, often talking about games and anime. She was the...
    Zeddion Zeddion 18-21, M 57 mins ago

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    Now we have partnered with TripAdvisor, the globe's most significant journey Local community, to provide you even more traveller critiques.Website VIEWERS: As everyone knows...
    Willy52yt Willy52yt 31-35, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    When I said I promise I would change...lied... When I said I have a dream to be a writer, it's not mine I've stolen it from my sister. When I chose Journalism back in university...
    Quentine Quentine 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I never fit in or have any friends. I've always been bullied to this day, I'm still getting bullied. I always get picked on and get called names. They always spread rumours about...
    lifeishard112233 lifeishard112233 13-15, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Before I start, just want to say that nobody has to read this. I'm just venting a bit, and this will probably be long and boring, and the last thing I want to do is bore anybody...