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I Have Hurts I Won't Talk About

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 69 People

    Some Things........

    ...........are better left unsaid. I'd be the first to tell you venting is healthy. Discussing your past hurts will help you get over them but, its easier said than done. There are things i refuse to talk about. Am getting to the point that im unsure if its because im...
    EdieQuinnz EdieQuinnz 31-35, F 18 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    There's

    There's just some things I need to keep to myself.  As optimistic and as happy as I am.I do have a lot of hurts deep down inside me.  But I do not like showing that side.  I want there to be joys in life, something to look forward to.  You know so I focus my energies on that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 14, 2011

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    Some Things Are Just Too Painful To Talk About

    I experienced sexual abuse at the hands of someone who was supposed to be protecting me from such things. I have never told anyone. It's something I keep inside, not even my husband knows. It's been eating at me for many years. But I believe in Karma and this person will pay for...
    moonshyne777 moonshyne777 31-35 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    The Truth

    Emotions and thoughts-- can they be trusted? Someone can feel something, think something so strongly, would die believing in it, yet in all actuality that which they believe and feel is not the truth. Then again, what is the truth but merely what the majority populace holds as...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2011

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    It Helps To Let Out

    There are some-things in my life that I haven't talked to anyone about except very recently I talked about it with my best friend. This I did after keeping them inside me for 15 years. And it helped because she was not judgemental and helped me getting out of the vicious cycle of...
    solitudem solitudem 22-25, F Mar 24, 2011

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    Keeping It In

    I sometimes feel it's better to keep some hurt inside... rather than than telling someone and they using it against me.
    mysticallyinvisible mysticallyinvisible 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2011

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    Out Of Respect For Her....but Also Because It Is Too Hard

    And I worry I will be judged. My friendship history is appalling. As a child, I always had a lot of friends and was popular. In secondary school and college not so much so but I did have friends. At uni, I was also quite popular. I had a best friend from the age of 13 but now...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2011

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    I Won't

    I do and I will not say it here. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jun 25, 2011

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    The brilliant ones who don't think just about themselves are always taken first. However the world cannot forget them. 😊
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    I don't even know what's wrong with me sometimes. All of my emotions are so piled up, and it's hard to know what is actually causing me to feel the way I do. So when people ask me...
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    I have so many secrets from people who have held me for them! Yes, any topic, no matter what, I am a loyal friend! And what is said in secret, stays a secret!;)
    Spitbak Spitbak 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    Is it normal to feel like killing everyone that's hurt me? It 's like, I dont care if they have a family, life, people who love them, nothing. I just want them to die. I think...
    kardelen kardelen 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Sometimes it's not so much that I don't want to, but that my mind won't let me.
    SqueezeTheLemon SqueezeTheLemon 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I would like a female to talk to. I love sex and talking about it, but I have no one I can share experiences with that won't judge me. I am married, so talking to males about it...
    luvnursing2016 luvnursing2016 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I really like holding genuine conversations with people. To me, one of the best things someone can give to me is the priviledge to know their day, and allow me to be a part of it...
    Birdielle Birdielle 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I only have one boyfriend and he only has one girlfriend, but we are both allowed to do whatever we want with other people. The way we see it, having a relationship with another...
    Yeonico Yeonico 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    If anyone needs someone to talk to, you can message me. I promise I will not judge or criticize. I am a good listener.
    FTDFTL79 FTDFTL79 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have a friend she is the same age as me and I don't now I just don't feel like she and I have any thing in common so I can't tell her about somethings even if these thing are...
    saryaah saryaah 16-17, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Yes I've cybered in the past. No, I don't need to cyber again, just one more time to see if I'd like to cyber again. And no, I didn't waste your time, because you already knew I...
    insanityrunsinthefamily insanityrunsinthefamily 51-55, F 3 days ago

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    I'm looking for more poly triads and poly families to connect with and share experiences with. we've been a triad for almost six months and we've only been able to come out to two...
    RowmanTriad RowmanTriad 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm so stubborn I won't even change for me.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    I really won't because I am interested in two things. One being, to hear and know your story of who you are. I don't mind hearing your life story. I can listen for hours, until I...
    Hexatiler Hexatiler 18-21, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    23 years and lived like I was single the last eight... I didn't want to admit defeat, but it does take two to want it to work, what I didn't know and wasn't looking foe was that...
    manofintegrity manofintegrity 56-60, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It's so easy to judge someone, and assume things about them that we have no facts on. I try to keep an open mind and place myself in someone's shoes, I try not to judge them...
    FierceFox FierceFox 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    And I don't expect you to change for me.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    Ever since my early teenage years I have been struggling to make head or tail of my life, I have been bounced from counsellors to doctors, then psychotherapists and back more times...
    alphapuppy alphapuppy 18-21, T 1 Response 6 days ago

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    No one to talk :( my life is like I don't know whom to talk. I don't have anything right now. The things I used to have are now vanishing day by day. things and life are slipping...
    April2016 April2016 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm a person plagued by insecurity and self-loathing. If I described other people like I describe myself in my head, you would think I was a horrible monster, a bully of the...
    magdeleina magdeleina 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Leaving my door open like all you have to do is move your arm and close it. Not locking the bathroom door. And phones being cracked
    aby2015 aby2015 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    Okay well I won't judge u probably! Lol I try not to be a judge mental person by any means but sometimes I can't help it. When people are purposely and knowingly hurting others...
    KaClovesU KaClovesU 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    I don't understand these people at all and have very little tolerance of them I usually block them
    CODECRACKER2014 CODECRACKER2014 41-45, M Jan 28

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    I'm generally able to talk, but sometimes I feel like I don't have the will to muster up the effort to try engaging in conversation. It's like having all your limbs going numb and...
    asurakeji asurakeji 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I know It has been a long time sense I have been here migraines and other health problems kept me away but now I am back for a while. Today I have to tell of something heart...
    geminigirl54 geminigirl54 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    I'm a single dad. I don't have many friends who have kids so it'd be nice to have some people who can relate.
    Northwoodsdad Northwoodsdad 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 24

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    Apparently some people have had an issue with the fact that I post off-color comments on friends stories. Yes, I like to flirt and tease, I don't get graphic though. Some people...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F Jan 23

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    I have strong family values... Although I don't know for the life of me where they come from. Family values WERE NOT instilled in me... Rather, I was taught the opposite. My...
    StarLily71 StarLily71 41-45, F Jan 23

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    I won't chase anyone for anything. If you don't want to be a friend, or apart of my life, then fine. If you do, then for Petes Sake show it! I'm worth more than that.
    Gypsytrails Gypsytrails 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    Should I feel bad about having sex with a married woman even tho she's young and married ( 26 )
    megamalik76 megamalik76 36-40, M 4 Responses Jan 21

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    I have had the tendency to ignore my feelings. Been doing it for so many years to cover my memories of the emotional abuse by my mother and few times sexual abuse by the father...
    belleverano belleverano 22-25, F Jan 20

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