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I Have Hurts I Won't Talk About

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    Some Things Are Just Too Painful To Talk About

    I experienced sexual abuse at the hands of someone who was supposed to be protecting me from such things. I have never told anyone. It's something I keep inside, not even my husband knows. It's been eating at me for many years. But I believe in Karma and this person will pay for...
    moonshyne777 moonshyne777 31-35 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    There's

    There's just some things I need to keep to myself.  As optimistic and as happy as I am.I do have a lot of hurts deep down inside me.  But I do not like showing that side.  I want there to be joys in life, something to look forward to.  You know so I focus my energies on that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 14, 2011

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    It Helps To Let Out

    There are some-things in my life that I haven't talked to anyone about except very recently I talked about it with my best friend. This I did after keeping them inside me for 15 years. And it helped because she was not judgemental and helped me getting out of the vicious cycle of...
    solitudem solitudem 22-25, F Mar 24, 2011

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    Out Of Respect For Her....but Also Because It Is Too Hard

    And I worry I will be judged. My friendship history is appalling. As a child, I always had a lot of friends and was popular. In secondary school and college not so much so but I did have friends. At uni, I was also quite popular. I had a best friend from the age of 13 but now...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2011

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    The Truth

    Emotions and thoughts-- can they be trusted? Someone can feel something, think something so strongly, would die believing in it, yet in all actuality that which they believe and feel is not the truth. Then again, what is the truth but merely what the majority populace holds as...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2011

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    Keeping It In

    I sometimes feel it's better to keep some hurt inside... rather than than telling someone and they using it against me.
    mysticallyinvisible mysticallyinvisible 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2011

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    Some Things........

    ...........are better left unsaid. I'd be the first to tell you venting is healthy. Discussing your past hurts will help you get over them but, its easier said than done. There are things i refuse to talk about. Am getting to the point that im unsure if its because im...
    EdieQuinnz EdieQuinnz 31-35, F 18 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    I Won't

    I do and I will not say it here. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jun 25, 2011

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    Well, he can't. I could find a boy one. I'm literally to warn him from being cheated on, lied to or from heartbreak again. He defends her. I find it sad. :( So now, I'm making him...
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    If one refuse to listen and won't take advice what is the point of me trying to help? If you won't help yourself and don't change your life for the better then you can't get help...
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    I won't forgive you my ******* ***** of a ex.You used me.Lied to me.Ill never forgive you.Never.
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    It kind of varies. I care about everything, and then all of a sudden you can throw anything at me and I won't react much as if it takes too much effort. I probably do care at one...
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    so a few months ago my dad started heightening his abuse of me, it's verbal and emotional but sometimes it even gets like physical not like hurting me but more like forcing me out...
    atinyratsy atinyratsy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I have never understood why it is so much easier to talk to another woman. Talk within a marriage seems to get restricted to talking about the kids, the finances and the extended...
    clutterbuck clutterbuck 51-55, M 4 Responses Jul 19

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    matt0030 matt0030 22-25, M a week ago

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    There are days where I don't say more than a couple words. Sometimes if someone talks to me, my voice will be hoarse for a moment, and I'll realize it's because I haven't talked...
    Aikin2 Aikin2 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I'd like to talk about reincarnation and past/future lives. I have some memories and possible visions of the future I need to talk about as well.
    dazedreamer dazedreamer 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    I need to rant I don't care anymore, i don't give a ****. I don't care about some so called friends (you know who you are you sick MoFos .!.) i don't care if you "care" for me...
    MayaMoonShadow MayaMoonShadow 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I hate when someone adds me and just wanna talk about Sex...! But I haven't any problem with girly chats ;-) Feel free...
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    I'm a generally anxious person who has a severe stutter and deals with social anxiety, so it's understandable that I wouldn't talk to people easily. o_o Offline I generally give...
    Ridiculousity Ridiculousity 18-21 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Yes....I have a few. Only in the last few years have I thought of actually bringing one or two of them to real life. Some things are best left to the imagination and I feel that...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I feel down at the moment:( I've got a lot going on in my life right now including an eating disorder and depression and really need someone who will generally understand my...
    Bethh98 Bethh98 13-15, F Jul 22

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    Someone wanna talk , anyone I'm bored and wanna be chill :P
    jadetumbler jadetumbler 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jul 7

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    Ok so let me tell you about this girl I met on EP. So it was late and I was looking for girls to talk to as usual anyway I find this one girl on EP and she is way out of my league...
    ZekeFrost ZekeFrost 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    firefly2610 firefly2610 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I need to remind myself about that everyday.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F a week ago

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    Potter66 Potter66 13-15, F 23 hrs ago

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    McKnight94 McKnight94 18-21, M Jul 4

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