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I Have Hurts I Won't Talk About

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 71 People

    It Helps To Let Out

    There are some-things in my life that I haven't talked to anyone about except very recently I talked about it with my best friend. This I did after keeping them inside me for 15 years. And it helped because she was not judgemental and helped me getting out of the vicious cycle of...
    solitudem solitudem 22-25, F Mar 24, 2011

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    The Truth

    Emotions and thoughts-- can they be trusted? Someone can feel something, think something so strongly, would die believing in it, yet in all actuality that which they believe and feel is not the truth. Then again, what is the truth but merely what the majority populace holds as...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2011

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    There's

    There's just some things I need to keep to myself.  As optimistic and as happy as I am.I do have a lot of hurts deep down inside me.  But I do not like showing that side.  I want there to be joys in life, something to look forward to.  You know so I focus my energies on that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 14, 2011

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    Some Things........

    ...........are better left unsaid. I'd be the first to tell you venting is healthy. Discussing your past hurts will help you get over them but, its easier said than done. There are things i refuse to talk about. Am getting to the point that im unsure if its because im...
    EdieQuinnz EdieQuinnz 31-35, F 18 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    I Won't

    I do and I will not say it here. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jun 25, 2011

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    Some Things Are Just Too Painful To Talk About

    I experienced sexual abuse at the hands of someone who was supposed to be protecting me from such things. I have never told anyone. It's something I keep inside, not even my husband knows. It's been eating at me for many years. But I believe in Karma and this person will pay for...
    moonshyne777 moonshyne777 31-35 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    Out Of Respect For Her....but Also Because It Is Too Hard

    And I worry I will be judged. My friendship history is appalling. As a child, I always had a lot of friends and was popular. In secondary school and college not so much so but I did have friends. At uni, I was also quite popular. I had a best friend from the age of 13 but now...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2011

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    Keeping It In

    I sometimes feel it's better to keep some hurt inside... rather than than telling someone and they using it against me.
    mysticallyinvisible mysticallyinvisible 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2011

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    i was diagnosed about a year and a half ago and as soon as i heard this i have been totally depressed about not being able to have a baby. my partner doesnt understand and tells me...
    mrdarcy2012 mrdarcy2012 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    cashetty69 cashetty69 51-55, M 6 hrs ago

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    When I was young and still confused about my sexuality, someone pressured me into giving him a hand job....never again...
    lilantboy lilantboy 16-17, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I always felt from a young age that I may not be able to have children. I don't know why, it was just always something that seemed right to me. I love babies and children, but...
    kitkat0216 kitkat0216 31-35, F 19 hrs ago

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    I feel like this should be a public service announcement. I am not afraid to talk not only about se x, but my se xuality (I am no prude!). There are adult ways to talk about se x...
    CurvyLibrarian CurvyLibrarian 22-25, F 11 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I've been in one room of the house and my family are in the room next door and talk badly of me behind my back but nice to my face.
    lupuslupus87 lupuslupus87 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    WTF!! People are just brainless or total jerks!! They ask a question and then berate every reply they get like a little b*tch. Why did you even ask anything if you're gonna be an...
    LostsoulLoner LostsoulLoner 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Whenever I think of connecting with my father, I make sure to make myself see how much he doesn’t deserve it, because you know what? My life is already empty of any love and I...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I feel complicit in making myself lonely and miserable, because I am surrounded by people who would be willing to listen but I just cannot talk to them. I was tortured at the age...
    aersibeth aersibeth 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I've known this for quite a while. But I am the type of person that cares WAY too much and when I feel someone needs my help or advice, I usually try to do everything I can. It...
    xWarriorPrincessx xWarriorPrincessx 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was walking past two girls and one of them looked at me, then pointed me out to her friend and said: "She looks like the sort of girl who would say 'yeah, I'm fine' if you asked...
    VioletSea VioletSea 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I can't talk to people about my problem because I don't like conflict must have time if I have problems I try and sit down and solve them by planting the amount. Plus I don't like...
    me0883 me0883 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    OK, so I've been friends with this guy for 30 years now, and he's a little bit slow, but he's been there through a lot of stuff for me and he's been an awesome friend. However for...
    goatonicon goatonicon 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    Tomorrows a big day for my country, they plan to overthrow the government. And I mean it. It's pretty scary and I wouldn't actually be to concerned about it, well, if I wasn't...
    SugarDoughnut SugarDoughnut 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's hard for me to "whine" or "vent" to others. As the oldest child, I was always expected to find my own answers and I did. I took pride in always being independent and never...
    kitkat0216 kitkat0216 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    What about when you discover yourself in a place of resistance, unable to shift your choices -Even Knowing that the course you're determined to chart Is Not Fulfilling Your Basic...
    AdoraGel AdoraGel 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Open up to me and tell me your deepest secrets. I am weird enough for me to not judge you. No matter how twisted your mind is I won't care, we're all different with different...
    AnonymousJSS AnonymousJSS 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    ignore, delete, block.....
    morganza504 morganza504 36-40 4 days ago

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    I'm a very open minded male looking for others that have this in common with me.
    harleyrider2009 harleyrider2009 56-60, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    My daughter may be 7 now, but I don't know everything. I'd love to have a group of moms who I can talk to about being a parent.
    brunettemomof1 brunettemomof1 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband told me that he cheated on me a month before our wedding.. too young to be dealing with such ****. I should never have gotten married so young. I feel trapped.
    zornes12 zornes12 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    ,so i write in an online journal. Im worried about being judge for the way i feel about stuff, or the way i think. I think i wrote more in 3 entries than i have told to my friends...
    zerofivenosh zerofivenosh 26-30 Aug 21

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    I do not think trying to change the world or others will improve ourselves. Thing is that more and more people is concentrated in trying to place the change they need to do in...
    oneiric13 oneiric13 26-30, M Aug 20

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    I will especially not marry a man who doesn't believe in Jesus. I'm not a woman to lead a man on. I'm going to be honest and cut to the chase here. If you Don't believe God is...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    Ok so my "friend" is in need of help, yet she won't let me. Anyone have any advice for me. Inbox me for the whole story.
    hunglow97 hunglow97 18-21, M Aug 16

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    I just wanted to say : I don't judge you, but I don't accept your actions and sayings. It is the similar when I can see how sick a psychopath killer is and I can understand his...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 16

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    Such as binge drinking and making bad decisions
    ireallylovetacos ireallylovetacos 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    I have a Hobby farm and breed purebred chickens. I have about 15 different pens with different breeds. In January I have 5 incubators going full time and hatch chicks. When I sell...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    im board and have no one to talk to even though i have an all time high of 17 of my people in my circle being here on ep. hahaha!
    dathglas dathglas 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    I am open about my sexuality, used to hide years ago but it is me my inner self who i am i am proud and pleased to live and have sexual activity with those who i love to please and...
    alexiswcd alexiswcd 56-60, T 4 Responses Aug 13

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    So I quit my job for personal reasons about 2 weeks ago, and I was just informed that these people have been constantly talking about why I left. Oh and I was like really new to...
    mavsgirl41 mavsgirl41 22-25, F Aug 13

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    Eager and willing to talk to women who don't judge. I am preferably looking for local but I am very open. I talk everyday to those in my circle granted may be small or short but we...
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M Aug 12

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