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I Have Hurts I Won't Talk About

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 68 People

    The Truth

    Emotions and thoughts-- can they be trusted? Someone can feel something, think something so strongly, would die believing in it, yet in all actuality that which they believe and feel is not the truth. Then again, what is the truth but merely what the majority populace holds as...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2011

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    I Won't

    I do and I will not say it here. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jun 25, 2011

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    It Helps To Let Out

    There are some-things in my life that I haven't talked to anyone about except very recently I talked about it with my best friend. This I did after keeping them inside me for 15 years. And it helped because she was not judgemental and helped me getting out of the vicious cycle of...
    solitudem solitudem 22-25, F Mar 24, 2011

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    Out Of Respect For Her....but Also Because It Is Too Hard

    And I worry I will be judged. My friendship history is appalling. As a child, I always had a lot of friends and was popular. In secondary school and college not so much so but I did have friends. At uni, I was also quite popular. I had a best friend from the age of 13 but now...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2011

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    There's

    There's just some things I need to keep to myself.  As optimistic and as happy as I am.I do have a lot of hurts deep down inside me.  But I do not like showing that side.  I want there to be joys in life, something to look forward to.  You know so I focus my energies on that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 14, 2011

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    Some Things........

    ...........are better left unsaid. I'd be the first to tell you venting is healthy. Discussing your past hurts will help you get over them but, its easier said than done. There are things i refuse to talk about. Am getting to the point that im unsure if its because im...
    EdieQuinnz EdieQuinnz 31-35, F 18 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    Some Things Are Just Too Painful To Talk About

    I experienced sexual abuse at the hands of someone who was supposed to be protecting me from such things. I have never told anyone. It's something I keep inside, not even my husband knows. It's been eating at me for many years. But I believe in Karma and this person will pay for...
    moonshyne777 moonshyne777 31-35 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    Keeping It In

    I sometimes feel it's better to keep some hurt inside... rather than than telling someone and they using it against me.
    mysticallyinvisible mysticallyinvisible 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2011

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    Sometimes I wonder what is the point of me. I can't remember the last time I felt truly wanted. I know I have family and friends that love me, and I know they would be there for me...
    rycbar10 rycbar10 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    I would end up hurting others if I said what hurts me. I've learned to just keep my mouth shut.
    Raewyn95 Raewyn95 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I suffered form this anxiety- importance deficiency anxiety. Yes I made that up! I don't know how I got this disease. But it was really painful. It still is some times. So what is...
    im1whoknocks im1whoknocks 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It takes a really special person to sit and listen objectively to someone else's issues. Even more so if a person has years worth of compiled issues. We who suffer with those...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 4

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    What about never? We think of it but superficially and with foreboding. We certainly don't talk about it--I mean REALLY talk about it. ..as if engaging in the conversation itself...
    OnlyLoveKeepsTrying OnlyLoveKeepsTrying 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    If it bothers you to be judged, it means you can't ignore that inner voice. You're judging yourself. Typically, someone only judges you when they feel threatened. Would you say...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 days ago

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    I won't ever forgive you. For making me fall in love with you, for making me feel like it was you I was meant to be with forever. I hate the way you made me want to get dressed up...
    H3lt3rSk3lt3r H3lt3rSk3lt3r 18-21, F Jan 14

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    Ok so here goes, I was diagnosed with PCOS in July 2014 and I feel its about time I shared my story and hopefully hear from people who feel the same way. After searching through...
    genna genna 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    I mean, I talk to people , very often , but eventually they get tired of me , and it would just be nice to have someone to talk to about anything and them not get annoyed or slowly...
    sommer02 sommer02 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    I'm in the mood to listen to someone right now. So if you have a story you want to tell, a problem u need want to talk to someone about...don't hesitate to pm me. I won't judge you...
    lookingatthelights lookingatthelights 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    If anyone wants to talk about their sexuality, I am here. :D I won't judge unless you want me to.
    geminidragon geminidragon 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Normally I don't post these types of things but I found this exchange hilarious. And perhaps it will be a lesson to all you men out there, if a woman is going to cyber in 2...
    Recklessdesires Recklessdesires 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Hey, real sociopath here. I won't waste my time trying to convince you of it because what is the point. Believe me or not it's up to you. but I am bored and willing to answer...
    JasonGrayson JasonGrayson 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 14

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    Unless I know the person really well I probably won't be the one to walk up and say hi. Two reasons why. 1. I don't want to embarrass myself. 2. They might not want to talk to me...
    Girlinpink0075 Girlinpink0075 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    No, honestly I am letting go. I just read a plethora of superficial, vain and petty stories and comments. I can't even begin to fathom how stupid and immature people my age are. It...
    Deadlynightshade5 Deadlynightshade5 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    The overworked cashier decided to unload on me. I know it's hard to enter numbers into the computer. But I have just worked a twelve hour shift at the gunpowder factory, head full...
    rustyskills rustyskills 41-45, M 3 days ago

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    You get incredible questions from strangers; when they discover you're an astrologer. It's kind of like being a Doctor at a cocktail party. People will walk up and say, "I've got...
    bcvegas4u2 bcvegas4u2 66-70, M Jan 21

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    He's so worried and so am I... We just can't talk to each other about it. The possibilities of becoming young parents. But it's our mistake. Our fault. We need to be in this...
    IvyRed15 IvyRed15 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    Apart from my normal problems.... Well my car isn't working and turns out it's going to take $1000 to fix, it's freezing outside, a water pipe broke in my house so I officially...
    AshleyWCSloth AshleyWCSloth 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    Please message me. I've been feeling this and other weird things for a while now. Sometimes I feel like I have a connection with the world around me, like I can sense people and...
    BlackholeEP BlackholeEP 18-21, M 54 mins ago

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    This is a true story- Truth be told, I am not in the story, but my family is, and I thought I'd change up my posts a little. So, instead of telling of MY life, I'll tell you about...
    ThisIsJustForFun ThisIsJustForFun 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I want to talk to you about how I feel. But I can't. And you don't know that I want to talk because I haven't said anything but I wish you would talk so I wouldn't have to feel bad...
    hxlils hxlils 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    Okay, this is the last entry on R. Goodbye R. Thank you for your time 'chasing' me. You did not try hard enough, but you persisted. :) Thanks. I don't deserve u and u deserve...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I'm in pain.I've been like this for so long. I miss you and I worry about you.Wherever you are, be safe my love. Be with someone who knows your value. I wish you a happy life.
    baxer4005 baxer4005 18-21, M Jan 7

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    Stayed up till midnight last night playing UNO with new friends. The guy across the table smiled at me, he has a nice smile, he's kind and funny. The old me would have hit on him...
    b1tch2u b1tch2u 31-35 Jan 14

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    There is absolutely nothing you can tell me that I haven't seen, done, or heard about. I may not want to associate myself with particular activities, but in all honesty, that isn't...
    PoliteDeviance PoliteDeviance 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have no friends or Family I can talk to about my issues.
    funnyquirky funnyquirky 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    It seems like ever since I started college I've been talking to less and less people. All my "friends" have gone off somewhere else in their lives and I'm in a new place with...
    Raewyn95 Raewyn95 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Some people here just want to moap around in their unhappiness without actually wanting to fix anything or be grateful, hopeful, and happy for what they do have and what could be.
    rumblingheart rumblingheart 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    Exactly, the best intentions are worthless if the person isn't receptive.
    hal48 hal48 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    I always feel bad for forgetting people's real names from Ep and other things like where they live, ages, and jobs. It's not on purpose. I promise. That is the type of...
    wintershawl wintershawl 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 2

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    You are there all the time in my thoughts but I can never call you mine. I can’t call you my Ex nor even my friend cos I never got you beside me in need or distress then who are...
    trappedwings trappedwings 26-30, F Jan 3

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    It's common sense that people aren't going to like everything that one writes. It's not like they can choose your words for you or make your experiences in life to what they like.
    hallow1331 hallow1331 13-15, F Jan 4

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    Every one work outs to eventually become more fit and healthier, but there are various notions about which programs might be greatest. The proper fitness program has to enable you...
    Andrew8508imq2 Andrew8508imq2 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    When I feel depressed the thought of eating sickens me. If I am severely depressed I could starve myself for days on end up to a week, instead I drink up to 4 V cans a day (a drink...
    WokenandOpen WokenandOpen 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    So if you're here for that, please don't bother me with it. I am here to express myself and meet friends, nothing more.
    JJjenniejones JJjenniejones 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I have been judged before and i didn't like having to feel that way so i don't want people i first meet to feel that feeling. No one has the right to judge a person unless they...
    Horse10202 Horse10202 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Don't light yourself on fire to keep others warm.
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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