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I Have Hurts I Won't Talk About

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 70 People

    Some Things Are Just Too Painful To Talk About

    I experienced sexual abuse at the hands of someone who was supposed to be protecting me from such things. I have never told anyone. It's something I keep inside, not even my husband knows. It's been eating at me for many years. But I believe in Karma and this person will pay for...
    moonshyne777 moonshyne777 31-35 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    It Helps To Let Out

    There are some-things in my life that I haven't talked to anyone about except very recently I talked about it with my best friend. This I did after keeping them inside me for 15 years. And it helped because she was not judgemental and helped me getting out of the vicious cycle of...
    solitudem solitudem 22-25, F Mar 24, 2011

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    There's

    There's just some things I need to keep to myself.  As optimistic and as happy as I am.I do have a lot of hurts deep down inside me.  But I do not like showing that side.  I want there to be joys in life, something to look forward to.  You know so I focus my energies on that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 14, 2011

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    Keeping It In

    I sometimes feel it's better to keep some hurt inside... rather than than telling someone and they using it against me.
    mysticallyinvisible mysticallyinvisible 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2011

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    The Truth

    Emotions and thoughts-- can they be trusted? Someone can feel something, think something so strongly, would die believing in it, yet in all actuality that which they believe and feel is not the truth. Then again, what is the truth but merely what the majority populace holds as...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2011

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    I Won't

    I do and I will not say it here. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jun 25, 2011

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    Out Of Respect For Her....but Also Because It Is Too Hard

    And I worry I will be judged. My friendship history is appalling. As a child, I always had a lot of friends and was popular. In secondary school and college not so much so but I did have friends. At uni, I was also quite popular. I had a best friend from the age of 13 but now...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2011

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    Some Things........

    ...........are better left unsaid. I'd be the first to tell you venting is healthy. Discussing your past hurts will help you get over them but, its easier said than done. There are things i refuse to talk about. Am getting to the point that im unsure if its because im...
    EdieQuinnz EdieQuinnz 31-35, F 18 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I read some post on here about God, why do people even argue about him/her (covering all angles). I'm one of those girls who just have to say, if you believe in him then trust in...
    AlexandriaAnnRowe AlexandriaAnnRowe 18-21, F Oct 18

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    I read some post on here about God, why do people even argue about him/her (covering all angles). I'm one of those girls who just have to say, if you believe in him then trust in...
    AlexandriaAnnRowe AlexandriaAnnRowe 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 18

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    Today I realized that I have a problem I've been putting aside since forever. But I can't ignore it anymore its ruining my life and making me so freaking depressed. I am so...
    elly668 elly668 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16

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    I have a Christian friend she always brings up her Christianity whenever we talk I don't mind it at all because I believe in god too. It's just when she talks about not supporting...
    elly668 elly668 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 11

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    It's a bit different though. I do have someone I tell everything to and she knows who she is. Aside from that I really can't be bothered to talk about my problems. Sometimes I post...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 16

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    I know that most people keep asking and pushing hard on me to say what is wrong with me, but unfortunately i became so frustrating most of the time by people who take advantage of...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    Why not have a normal clean conversation? Is that too much to ask for? Am I shooting for the stars here? I don't talk about sex, I know nothing about sex, nor do I care to learn.
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F Oct 13

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    Liars are the absolute worst. If you lie to me once I'll probably never trust you the same way again. I won't lie to you because I know how much it hurts to be lied to.
    anonymoussouthernbabe anonymoussouthernbabe 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    It wasn't *that* bad really...nothing I haven't heard before and nothing that I don't acknowledge myself already. But...still kinda sucks. Tonight at work I was sitting at a desk...
    SpilledSecrets SpilledSecrets 22-25, F 17 hrs ago

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    So, the story starts off a few years earlier than described (18) . I can't say what happened before I give a bit of a backstory. So, I was in High School, and since I had a bunch...
    shadow2233 shadow2233 18-21, M Oct 20

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    It hurts a lot. You find someone who becomes a big part of your life, and you need them. Then one day, they aren't there anymore and you're left with that empty space feeling lost...
    rirxalri rirxalri 16-17, F Oct 1

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    Ok I don't know where to start. Pretty much my sex life sucks and has for the last few months. I'm not really the cheating kind but I guess when my needs are not getting met I can...
    Kayloves060814 Kayloves060814 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 21

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    I don't know what I should do ? My dad and step mum are now moving to a different state in Australia, it's amazing over there, so stunning on the block of land they now own, I'm...
    eking18 eking18 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 6

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    If I change, they will win. If I walk away, I will lose my pride. All I care about is my pride. I don't care about friendships, romance or whatever. I just want to hold on to what...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    well, I'm so heart broken, idk why some people keep saying lies and bullshits on here, i was about to leave, but i still see some people here who makes the staying motivation in me...
    Martin7470 Martin7470 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 2

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    You know. This is suppose to be 'Experience Project'. And all I've ever seen was people judging others of what they say or what they've been through. I'm that person who won't...
    SarahLouise98 SarahLouise98 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    It came to reading a post about how EP resembles more of an adult chat site than an experience sharing site to make me look at what my profile says. While it is true that I escape...
    roleplayerjust4fun roleplayerjust4fun 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    I won't lie to you unless I think it's best for you. If I know your upset then yes, I'll say I'm fine when you ask.
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    Even if my future is shriveled and my life right now is a void, I won't stop believing in the new, better world I will be a part of. I do believe people will become better...
    InvolutionWolf InvolutionWolf 13-15, M Oct 2

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    Frost. It covers plants in a cold coat killing them before they had a chance to bloom in the spring. Just like my life the seasons change and winter changed to spring and spring to...
    CrimsonButtefly CrimsonButtefly 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    Today is his birthday. I didn't talk to him for a year. He got caught cheating on my mum a few years ago then after that, he became a complete jerk and tried to sue my mum for...
    Eugene214 Eugene214 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    I accept criminals, terroists and cunning people as they are but I won't approve what they do
    arun0312 arun0312 22-25, M Oct 13

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    I won't lie, if you want me to be honest I will be, I'd be straight forward or id make it constructive so I don't hurt your feeling (well I try me best to)
    MidNightSightX MidNightSightX 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I can talk about what i want and not get judged for it here on EP i love it when i want to talk about depression to my sister she will not text me back :( but now i have you all to...
    uvet123 uvet123 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    I like and respect my country with all its faults and shortcomings considered, but I'm not nationalist or rascist at all. And I like to talk about my country and its culture with...
    RevSnowfox RevSnowfox 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My wife is impossible to talk about sex with. She says she has no fantasies and when I ask her what's the wildest thing she would do she drops the conversation. It's so strange, I...
    henry2118 henry2118 26-30, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    ATTENTION MEMBERS if weneedtotalk1 contacts you. BAN AND BLOCK him hes going thru peoples contacts and tells them he and other people have talked about you. ITS A BLUF. get rid of...
    christlerscott christlerscott 56-60, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Don't know why people are always surprised about the government and their bad decisions, it's been going downhill for ages and when you value the things that don't matter this is...
    lostCake lostCake 22-25, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I know many people out there wonder how a person can be non judgmental. The trick is simple in theory (not always in practice I admit). First recognize your own faults and...
    Snowhat Snowhat 31-35, M Oct 14

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    I know that seems odd. But in a way I feel I don't belong here. This is YOUR site, not necessarily mine. This isn't about me adding a lot of people for some sort of ego trip...
    dadhereforyou dadhereforyou 51-55, M Oct 13

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    Hi, So I have this have this worry for a few years now that I have never been able to make sense of, I want to though because I need to know I'm not the only one who thinks like...
    BeeKay20 BeeKay20 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    I don't lie or cheat to get ahead. Rather than lie I will say nothing. It's not about being brutally honest when people are more concerned with the brutality.
    fiendforlife fiendforlife 31-35, M Sep 30

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    You, worker from the third floor of the palace I work in, can't just hurt the feeling of a sweet lady, the receptionist lady, that is a delicate one I always have some interesting...
    psycopower90 psycopower90 22-25, M Oct 9

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    My parents are divorced and were never really together in the first place. I was a mistake that my mom grew to love. My dad ran off to find another chick or something. I've only...
    SammiSakura SammiSakura 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 17

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    Well I had a dream about my aunt being a mad scientist trying different crazy tests on everyone, terrifying consequences when someone gets too involved and deep ibto science...
    TetraZL TetraZL 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I think about dying a lot.
    tagmepurple tagmepurple 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm what people call satanist and most people don't even know what that is or what's it's about.
    tagmepurple tagmepurple 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I can't stand people that bring others down because of their past. I didn't realize that there were perfect people in this world...ever!
    TheMeBMini25 TheMeBMini25 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    Dude whoever cyber bullies need to get their act together cause even is you delete something bad on the internet the government will always have it do be careful cause you're...
    dancerwithheart dancerwithheart 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    Sadly, I've seen some pretty judgmental posts by members who have this experience listed. I'd recommend all adult content have that little checkbox for adult content checked....and...
    ThatWasUnexpected ThatWasUnexpected 36-40 2 Responses Oct 9