I Have Issues With My Mother

I wish I could communicate with my mother.

Every time I try to share something with her she always has reasons why its my fault.

I wish she would just listen without judging.

I have been having a difficult time recently. As a result...

I have issues with my mom.

I long ago gave up any semblance of getting what I wanted from her, which was unconditional love and approval.

But yes, I still have issues with her.

I cannot change her. I can’t. I don’t want to...

I am so pissed at her right now.
She never liked any of my bf’s. The first one she hated so much, that every time I came home she would yell at me, and be mad for no particular reason. I tried to talk with her about it. My sister...

My mother thinks we have such a great relationship, but if she knew half of the feelings I've kept to myself, she'd know differently. She seems to be dependent of me, and she is pushing me away. Sometimes it feels like she is smothering...

I hate the way she has to communicate what she wants. She's not clear, she doesn't say anything, or she yells, she starts something to make you feel guilty or she blackmail you.

I just don't like it! I don't want to 'fix' these ways...

I feel so bad for her, but seriously I can't be her emotional punching bag any longer.

My mom is going through a lot, I totally understand that, I just wish she would not be so hateful and mean towards me.

She has done this for years...

My mother expects me to b her shadow,to like things she does & we couldn't b more different. I'm like my dad who my mother know I picked over her-he's dead now. He had 6other kids but I'm her only one. If she is not comparing me to...

Every since I was a small child, there has been an invisible wall between me and my mother. It's a strange form of rejection, being cared for from a distance, but still living in the same house. I won't say why the rejection became...

This is a very difficult thing for me to admit, even anonymously. I don't like the way my feelings about my mother make me feel about the kind of person I am. But...

I am 36. My mother is 64. She was never an abusive mother...

How do you feel YOUR the victim? I don't get it...

How can you blame the way I felt about you on me? One can only give you a REASON to feel such a way... I have plenty of reasons...

8th grade prom- no mom

Freshman year admissions...

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I have posted once before that my mother wasn't talking to me until her birthday came around. Now the friday before her birthday came she had called me but I was in clinical (im in nursing school) so I wasn't able to answer the phone...

Somedays, we're fine. We can get along, joke around and love each other like mothers and daughters should. But on most not we,ut she is always in my hair. Telling me this, telling me that, nag nag nag. Sure I love my mom, but she has to...

How do you sum up the most frustrating relationship in the world. I guess at the beginning. My mother has never been happy in her life. I can understand where some of her issues come from because my grandma was alchoholic the whole time...

Never was I allowed to have any problems without them being her problems. I sensed early on that I was supposed to keep out of the way and be on my toes so she could have it easy. If I was having problems, she seemed to think I was...

Okay, my Mom and have almost NEVER gotten along well... We can't be around each other longer than about 4 hours before fighting.. Housework has always been an issue with her and I. It seems like I'm always cleaning up after her. I have...

This is exactly how I feel-

I'm tired of being what you want me to be..
Feeling so faithless, lost under the surface
Don't know what you're
expecting of me..
Put under the pressure of
walking in your shoes..
Every step that I take is...

Shut up

SHUT UP

Because I'm allowed to feel whichever way I want

There is no excuse for anything that happened

No way to validate ABUSE

Because that's what it was

ABUSE

It was ugly and cruel and wrong

I shouldn't have to defend...

Recently I have made some really bad choices and im trying to hide them but its breaking me. Me and my mum have been arguing alot recently like everything we start ends in shouting, She says its my disgusting attitude and i need to fix...