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I Have Issues With My Mother

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    Today is my birthday. I called my paren... - on skype. Instead of wishing me happy birthday my mother asked me why did I delete her post on my wall on facebook. I said I didn't...
    diablicaca diablicaca 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    My Mother Has Never Liked Me - I remember reading the story "The Whipping Boy", and wondering how someone could treat a child so bad. Especially their own child. Years later I...
    Belle59 Belle59 56-60 2 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    Mother. - As I grew up I knew you as The woman who loved Church Who made no time or had no time to live life the way that she should have I knew you as the woman who demanded that...
    Mirabal19 Mirabal19 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    To Put It Nicely... - I have issues with my mom. I long ago gave up any semblance of getting what I wanted from her, which was unconditional love and approval. But yes, I still...
    kittysoftpaws kittysoftpaws 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    Not Good Enough - My mother expects me to b her shadow,to like things she does & we couldn't b more different. I'm like my dad who my mother know I picked over her-he's dead now...
    BrokenNayana BrokenNayana 22-25, F Jul 2, 2012

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    Seriously, Just Stop. - my mum is like night and and day, she's so nice and caring sometimes and the next, a monster. it's like she was never there the real her. she tells me...
    CuriousIronButterfly CuriousIronButterfly 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2013

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    My Mom Is Driving My Crazy! - My mom and I have always had a difficult relationship.  I try very hard to get along with her and she tries most of the time to get along with me...
    greenpeople greenpeople 41-45 1 Response Feb 13, 2012

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    My Mom Is My Own Enemy - I love my mom, she has done so mucho for me. But it's just never enough for her. She is always making me feel like ****, like I'm the biggest crap in this...
    JadeSanctuary JadeSanctuary 22-25 Feb 2, 2013

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    My Mom Acts Like I'm The One With The Problem... - So many times, my mom has told me how terrible I am to her and that I don't treat her right at all. However, I just recalled a...
    animallover110293 animallover110293 18-21, F Sep 13, 2013

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    My Mom And I Haven't Gotten Along The Last 10 Years. - the last  ten years of my life have been hard. i don't think my mom understood what i was going through. because for the...
    capricornlily capricornlily 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2011

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    From a very young age I've always been told t... - atch what I say to my mother. Not really allowed to have an opinion. She can talk to people however she likes but whenever...
    PrincessPhie PrincessPhie 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    My Mom Is Always Angry. - From the moment she wakes up to the moment she goes to bed she is looking for an excuse to be angry. Every-single-little-thing is a problem to her, and...
    TheRelentlessOne TheRelentlessOne 18-21, M 8 Responses Oct 18, 2012

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    Her Love Hurts More Than Here Hate... - I know that the abuse I suffered at her hand and will as a child, is no longer an issue as an adult, but the pain from the past never seems...
    brokenandlost brokenandlost 41-45, F Sep 13, 2013

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    my mother is loving kind woman - who whent through allot more than any human being should go through i will not say what over the internet or outside my own life. since i was a...
    curtdav92 curtdav92 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    Ok... I left my husband in 2009 - . I left my husband in 2009. It was terrible. I went to school, made something of myself. Was working at a hospital. I got involved with a...
    DeeDee32 DeeDee32 31-35 14 hrs ago

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    Mentally Retarded Mother? - As a child, my siblings and I, lived alone with my mum (if you read my other story you'll see that my father left), which probably made my mother suffer...
    Lavishedivygates Lavishedivygates 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2012

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    I'll start this off with some background:<br ... - My mother grew up the youngest of three sisters, in a tiny house in the bay area. Her dad (my grandpa) walked out on them...
    cassidysc cassidysc 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    Sick as a dog and my mom still yells at me - , when will this madness end. I genuinely have no one and no one cares about me, not even when I'm sick :'(
    TheRouge TheRouge 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Ammi and Me - Even now, as a 60 year old woman, I have problems with my Ammi (mother). Ammi was young when she had me, 15, similar to the age I was when I had my first daughter...
    rasia1 rasia1 56-60 1 Response Jan 7, 2013

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    Hadn't Talked To My Mother In 5 Years - My mother got pregnant with me when she was 20, studying abroad in England. When I was young I wanted to know who my father was, but she...
    cosmicspeck cosmicspeck 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2011

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    Ughhh She's At It Again - I'm so Pi$$ed OFF right now. My mother just spent the better part of the evening AGAIN on the phone to the middle sister blabbling about me and my family...
    HeadHeldHigh HeadHeldHigh 46-50, F 1 Response May 20, 2011

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    She Expects Too Much. - Somedays, we're fine. We can get along, joke around and love each other like mothers and daughters should. But on most not we,ut she is always in my hair...
    xspamadvice xspamadvice 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 30, 2012

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    I have had a strained relationship with my mum - since I was 11. I had a great childhood until then and she was a good mum. However we moved house far from my hometown and my dad...
    steveburns04 steveburns04 22-25, M Jan 1

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    My mum is always angry at me. During m... - o or what I don’t do. During my teenage years, we often fought. Then at the age of nineteen, I left home for university. Since I...
    Nikolala Nikolala 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    Before. - We always had food on the table, clean clothes on our backs. We went to school looking tidy and presentable. We got made a fuss of on our birthdays and Christmas time...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    Why Are You So Controlling? - This is exactly how I feel- I'm tired of being what you want me to be.. Feeling so faithless, lost under the surface Don't know what you're expecting...
    starlit11 starlit11 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    My mom and I are the complete opposite - . I MEAN THE COMPLETE OPPOSITE. We have different point of views and everything. I would honestly say that we have an argument more than...
    allytoledodiaz allytoledodiaz 13-15, F Mar 29

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    A week ago I saw on my mum's phone all of the... - dirty messages between her and someone she had listed as 'B'. I had suspected my mother of having some kind of flirty thing going...
    hypomaniac hypomaniac 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    Too Early For The Drama.... - I have posted once before that my mother wasn't talking to me until her birthday came around. Now the friday before her birthday came she had called...
    reene198321 reene198321 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 16, 2011

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    Making Our Own Family Connections - I grew up thinking that I wasn't good enough or worthy of a good family or true friends. I was alone, lonely, and self hatred had gotten to me...
    Hugsdirector Hugsdirector 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2013

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    Jade Corine Fin - Over a span of 18 years my mother has broken me down and turned me into a frail shell void of any sense of humanity. Its astonishing that a woman could just...
    aliceXIONU aliceXIONU 18-21, F Aug 2, 2011

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    Negative Mother - My mother is very negative. I can't disagree with her or she will get very angry. Even if it is about things that are not that important. Yet she can say whatever...
    Thursday2013 Thursday2013 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    My mother lied to me my whole youth about - who my father was. I was told my father was my mother’s first husband. Meanwhile my mother married my step father when I was just 20...
    dwc294 dwc294 46-50, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I Have A Love/hate Relationship With My Mom - I love my mother but she gets on me nerves....I had invited her to dinner on a Sunday, but something came up and she came by anyway...
    reene198321 reene198321 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2011

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    Where Do I Start... - How do you sum up the most frustrating relationship in the world. I guess at the beginning. My mother has never been happy in her life. I can understand where...
    thehoodedartist thehoodedartist 26-30, F 10 Responses Jun 20, 2009

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    I Have Issues With My Mother - i find that my Mom has an attitude problem.Shes quite controlling and aggressive.Its like she is always looking for an argument.. she has no...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    She abandoned me when i was eight years old - . Because of her, i'm terrified of abandonment from every person i get close to. But i don't distance myself, because that's not me. I...
    BrokenRecord101 BrokenRecord101 18-21, F Feb 28

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    Well,actually - , I disowned her a few years ago and she is in jail now. She was very verbally and emotionally abusive towards me and my siblings and also(sometimes)physically...
    caisymay caisymay 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 25

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    Still Not The Victim - Shut up SHUT UP Because I'm allowed to feel whichever way I want There is no excuse for anything that happened No way to validate ABUSE Because that's...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 5 Responses May 8, 2013

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    I have this issues that I - even when don't want it to happen always happens. We fought a lot from one thing to the other and it seems like she always think I'm underestimating...
    Mininyaa Mininyaa 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I Wish - I wish I could communicate with my mother. Every time I try to share something with her she always has reasons why its my fault. I wish she would just listen without...
    VioletUtopia VioletUtopia 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26, 2013

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    She Is Lost - I feel so bad for her, but seriously I can't be her emotional punching bag any longer. My mom is going through a lot, I totally understand that, I just wish she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    Mother And Daughter Differences - Every since I was 17 my Mother and I have completely butted heads and not got along. I'm 38 years old now and she just left 4 days early to fly...
    MelIsAMess MelIsAMess 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    I Don't Know How To Deal. - The way my mother acts is confusing and tearing our family apart. Confusing for her children because as I have gotten older and as I been exposed to...
    beautifulSTORM beautifulSTORM 18-21, F Aug 24, 2013

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    How can a woman - , who gave birth to you and should treasure you, hate you so much ? My mother likes to leave me at Train Stations with no way home or stop on the side of the...
    JmeSmith JmeSmith 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    I'm About To Scream - Though me and my mom don't have that bad of a relationship with each other we do have some issues with each other she can act like such a child sometimes...
    Klong91 Klong91 22-25, F May 19, 2010

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    I Think My Mom Doesn't Like Me - Hey I'm 21, I'm the youngest of 5 kids, I have a sis and 3 brothers who my mom loves deeply and shows all kind of affection and attention to no...
    cherrypie92 cherrypie92 18-21 2 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    We'll Probably Never Get Past It - Every since I was a small child, there has been an invisible wall between me and my mother. It's a strange form of rejection, being cared for...
    Infinite9 Infinite9 70+, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    I Sometimes Feel Like A Mistake. - My mother makes me feel like a mistake. She never wants to spend time with me, she'd rather spend her time with her fiance. I don't believe that...
    CowgirlBebop CowgirlBebop 18-21, F Mar 22, 2012

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    Mom Hates Me And Dad Doesn't Want To See Me - My mom is very controlling. She would tell me where to go, what to do,what to wear, who to talk to. shes turning me into someone im...
    ihatemylife2402 ihatemylife2402 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    She Is Mentally Killing Me - I don't know what to do. She makes me miserable and makes me hate myself. Being with her for more than a minute means having to deal with her insults...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 23, 2009