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I Have Jealousy Issues

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    I Can't Be Happy Unless They're Not?

    It's what I consider couple competition that's bothering me again! However... no one else feels it but me. My boyfriend and I hardly celebrate our monthly anniversaries because they're not that eventful anymore and I think that's fine. What I don't think is fine is celebrating...
    xxLizRockszz xxLizRockszz 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2010

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    Problem is, I try not to show how jealous I am

    of someone and I end up annoying them. If I get jealous of someone, I instantly hate that person just like that. Insecurity issues
    ReemNoctis ReemNoctis 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    I am not naturally a jealous person

    but with this amazing woman that I have in my life I find myself getting jealous over silly little things that I have no control over and it's driving me mad that I can't control my issue as it is my issue but I have never loved or cared for anyone like I do her all I want to do...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2014

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    heavenmescud heavenmescud 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2014

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    Problem With Wife And Male Physicians

    I too have an obsession about my wife possibly seeing a male physician. She is a very beautiful woman and I'm sure it would make any male DR day to examine her disrobed. It's weird to explain, i'm not happy about it. Too embarrassed  ask my male friends if...
    happykansan1977 happykansan1977 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 4, 2010

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    Jealous Over His Ugly Ex

    My issue is this: I am jealous of my fiance's ugly ex girlfriend. I can say that some of this is me, my insecurities, but I also feel like he had a lot to do with it by comparing us almost continously for the first few months of our relationship. All I heard from him is...
    kissmybutt kissmybutt 36-40 7 Responses Jul 26, 2009

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    I need someone to help me please !

    I've been thinking about committing suicide a lot and it's all because a small thing , which is my sister she's prettier and everything !! It ****** me off a lot that she gets and has everything I want , I hate her most of the times , everytime we go to a place or to a new...
    Snowwhite5424 Snowwhite5424 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    I Hate My Boyfriend

    I am supposed to marry him. But my whole intuition tells me not to trust the guy.
    Vvxx Vvxx 22-25 2 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    YOUR BLOCKED YOUR BLOCKED YOUR BLOCKED YOUR

    BLOCKED YOUR BLOCKED YOUR BLOCKED FROM BLUE CROSS BLUE SHIELD YOUR BLOCKED FROM FINANCIAL DEPOSITS 7 BANK BOOKS TRAVELLING IN THE PAST YOUR BLOCKED YOUR BLOCKED YOUR BLOCKED GO HANDLE YOUR PROBLEMS YOUR A NUT AT THIS POINT YOU CANNOT SEE DEPOSIT FOR YEARS GO AWAY YOU...
    LOOKATONEOFTHEBLOCKSH LOOKATONEOFTHEBLOCKSH 51-55, F Mar 7

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    I am married and have a pretty wonderfully

    blessed life. My husband Adores me (even though sometimes I wonder why, because I am really crazy a lot), we have a great family support system and both have full time jobs and will be buying our own house soon, however...I am jealous of random people for the dumbest reasons...
    KoukiKat4 KoukiKat4 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    This has come as a shock to me since,

    I have never had this "jealousy" problem before. I have been married and divorced twice, cheated on, beaten and made fun of and anything else you can think of. When my fiance and I got together we were a match made in heaven we still are, and I thank the gods for him and my kids...
    ImOnlyMe84 ImOnlyMe84 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 23, 2014

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    Possessive Much!

    I am selfish, very possessive and jealous.. I know it is a big thing but I can't stop myself. Everytime I saw my bestfriend, Having a good time, smiling together with other friends Makes me want to cry but I can't show others I am hurting like that Beating myself out, asking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 9, 2013

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    It Ruined Everything

    I have too much insecurities. I love it when people praise me or get attracted to me. I think that was one of the reasons I made out with someone behind my bf's back. I hate my insecurity. Having someone like me or want me really made my ego better. I hate it and I regret it. I...
    ColorMe101 ColorMe101 22-25, F Nov 27, 2013

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    I've only known them

    for about 9 months, but they've been friends for years. I am starting to have feelings for him, and getting jealous of how close she is to him.
    CamdenCoffee CamdenCoffee 26-30, F Jul 22

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    When my best friend and he "close"friend were

    friends with me before the friendship got ruined. When we lose to argued when I brought up something I was bothering me, they always say I was jealous I always declined it but I think they were right all a long. :(
    mblan11 mblan11 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    And Hiding From This.... Won't Do A Damn Bit Of Good.

    I hate the fact that I get jealous. In the past, my jealously was justified, because it was more being sick of getting ignored by a boyfriend. Introducing me as a friend, and then working an entire shift with him, and he doesn't even look at me, say hi....nothing, just walks...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F Nov 18, 2012

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    The thing with jealousy is

    that it eats you inside out. You feel there is something amiss with how hungry he seemed for her in that photo. That tiny grain of bad feeling nags you until you begin creating stories in your mind which call for urgent validation. You scour whatever you can get your hands on...
    VinylEyes VinylEyes 70+, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I just don't like sharing people

    if I knew you for 5 years and u met my other friend y'all shouldn't become best of friend and you talk about her all day. I think it makes perfect sense but sometimes it causes me to get really sad about things. I have a problem
    Justme2396 Justme2396 18-21, F Mar 5, 2014

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    One Small Step In the Right Direction

    I know how I react, I know what provokes my jealousy and I know what I should do to reduce it and try to stop the casscade effect it has, however I find it so hard to do. I try to involve my partner into helping me break the cycle as I feel he can with the littliest of...
    lanikita lanikita 26-30 4 Responses Apr 16, 2008

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    I swear I make myself

    so ******* mad by getting jealous over someone or people who don't even want me anymore. I hate that I still feel close to certain people when all they are gonna do in return is **** me over. Again and again and again... I need to teach myself to let that **** go and that maybe...
    xMellowButterflyx xMellowButterflyx 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I have extreme jealously issues ,

    like to the point where I want to scream cry , throw a complete temper tantrum .. Depending on the situation . Or I get extremely hurt , my heart burns , aches , my body tenses up my mind races I just get so jealous , as if I can feel myself turning into a complete different...
    Rs668009 Rs668009 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I hate the way I get jealous.

    it gives me a stomach ache and anxiety. it's rediculous. I often say things I don't mean, I turn into a jerk but I also feel justified at the same time...wtf
    Mega87 Mega87 26-30, F Jul 11

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    I don't get jealous of people like

    if they have something that I don't or if they have a better body than me I actually tend to be happier for them what I do have a problem with IS people that I care about like sometimes I feel replaced or like I'm not as important as I was before they got someone new or when...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F Aug 27, 2014

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    I have jealousy issues

    and I can't make sense of where the roots are I believe that if you know where a problem comes from then that's one major step to change and I want to change I don't know when it started though I know that in the back of my mind some people are deserving of your trust based on...
    theincarnated1 theincarnated1 31-35 May 24

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    To be honest I do have some jealousy issues

    with my bestfriend.. And when I do I start acting all mean and I don't mean to but I don't know.. What should I do?
    itzlexx itzlexx 13-15, F Apr 16, 2014

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    I am envious all the time.

    I get jealous over the stupidest stuff. I don't know why it just kills me like the littlest things. Ugh
    Uhilikepizza Uhilikepizza 13-15, F Feb 7

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    When I was younger I was always jealous of my

    girlfriends because all the guys would like them instead.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 21

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    My boyfriend and I were watching basketball,

    then an uncomfortably long shot of cheerleaders smiling and jumping around for the camera filled the screen for the longest 5-10 seconds. It filled me with rage and I left for the other room. I am so jealous and insecure, I don't know what to do.
    bomvida bomvida 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    How I've Gotten Over These Things

    a big moment for me is when i realized that i had been wasting my time feeling resentful, feeling unhappy, feeling frustrated instead of improving my life.  seeing how accomplished my former peers were, snapped me out of it somewhat.  it didn't make resentment and...
    pheinix pheinix 26-30 2 Responses May 20, 2008

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    My jealousy issue is driving the best

    relationship i have in my life to the brink of an end. I just cannot trust. I've tried. I've been trying my hardest to change and try trusting but I keep failing to do it. If I had a chance I do not want to be me. I am hurting the love of my life. I never have had a peaceful...
    SapphireSol SapphireSol 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    I need to learn to control my jealousy issues

    but I don't know how. I'm pushing my boyfriend away but I can't keep my mouth shut when something is bothering me. This is going to be a never ending problem unless I can make it stop!!! Any advice from someone who has recovered from jealousy?
    mbroderson mbroderson 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    I really don't get how come some people don't

    have any facial or chest or pubic hair even at the age of 35 or around. I got hair when I was 13.
    Maaren Maaren 16-17, M Dec 23, 2014

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    Primrosa Primrosa 26-30, F Feb 1

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    jealousy moment #88:

    when your friends post their dinner on instagram and you immediately hate them...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I can't stand someone better at thinks

    than me! So three years ago, I auditioned for a place at my college. They said I was pretty good but I didn't make the play at all. This girl from high school that I was extremely jealous is a very good and talented actress. She's a natural. I spied on ber on Facebook with a...
    BigGirlWithLove BigGirlWithLove 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I Get Jealous Easily

    I'm currently in a long distance relationship and it's very hard for me to over come jealousy issues because of the distance my partner and I has. If I'm jealous I get to think of lotsa things, I get sensitive and very moody. Hell, I really wanna eliminate this kinda issue of...
    wifeynijim wifeynijim 18-21, F Sep 7, 2008

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    Insecure And Unhealthy

    Hi my name is Gene and I have jealousy problems to the core. I can't stand myself, therefore how can he. When you sit back and think why you have these problems its because you feel your not good enough, pretty enough, interesting enough to deserve his/her full heart. I am the...
    Gene86 Gene86 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 29, 2012

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    Oh well, problems gone psychological

    and personal. I see other pretty, sexy and beautiful girls anywhere I go, even being a girl myself with an acceptable, slim figure I can't seem not to bother about people with looks like that. But of course I'm only 14 1/2, hopefully I'll see changes in the future, I do have a...
    iTetraZazicII iTetraZazicII 18-21, F Jul 28

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    Why

    I'm jealous of have everyone has friends or girls friends. I jealous of how their have better body oh, to be skinny I've never had the privilege to  know what that feels like . Some of my friend try to get away from me ... who needs them any way i don't even like half of them...
    angelperson0 angelperson0 18-21, M 2 Responses May 4, 2012

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    I hate girls that are prettier

    than me. I also hate that I feel this way
    LauraF328 LauraF328 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    My boyfriend left his tablet at home.

    I looked through it I'm not sure what I was looking for but I looked through his ex's Facebook page. I can't get over the fact she existed and its extremely adolescent and immature it makes my stomach sick I get anxiety and ANY little thing that reminds me of her can **** up my...
    Kikiana1 Kikiana1 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I do have issues ... I would

    rather think of them as challenges lol .. at any rate my jealousy is on par with the passion and love that I have for that ONE very special woman and I am thankful that she puts up with me ... I am a very VERY lucky man, to the point where her circle should be very jealous of me...
    don45here don45here 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    One day I discovered

    that my boyfriend was writing with another woman, I became very upset and asked him what was that. he became anger and closed down his pc. I started to cried and wanted to talk. He left me alone go way to the cinema all afternoon left me with my feelings. when he came back...
    pattybravo pattybravo 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    So guys... My boyfriend is away working on a

    cruise for a week and I just moved to his country and don't really know anyone here. I know that he is really having a great time, he has free food, gym, swimming pool plus they will go with the cruise round Italy and Malta... I am scared/jealous/worried that he will meet...
    KoalaMars KoalaMars 22-25, F 1 Response May 2

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    I'm so scared that my crush will fall out of

    love with me. He likes me back too. But I get jealous when I see him with other girls. I'm always comparing them to myself. What should I do?
    Candice321 Candice321 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    Jealousy is irritating .

    ... I have had so many jealousy issues this past week it's so hard to control it all ... Eh...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 24, 2014