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I Have Jealousy Issues

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 402 People

    Wife

    She is suspicous, jealous and posessive ! This green monster is killing me
    ryksteman ryksteman 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 25, 2010

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    I do have issues ... I would

    rather think of them as challenges lol .. at any rate my jealousy is on par with the passion and love that I have for that ONE very special woman and I am thankful that she puts up with me ... I am a very VERY lucky man, to the point where her circle should be very jealous of me...
    don45here don45here 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    I Can't Be Happy Unless They're Not?

    It's what I consider couple competition that's bothering me again! However... no one else feels it but me. My boyfriend and I hardly celebrate our monthly anniversaries because they're not that eventful anymore and I think that's fine. What I don't think is fine is celebrating...
    xxLizRockszz xxLizRockszz 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24, 2010

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    It Ruined Everything

    I have too much insecurities. I love it when people praise me or get attracted to me. I think that was one of the reasons I made out with someone behind my bf's back. I hate my insecurity. Having someone like me or want me really made my ego better. I hate it and I regret it. I...
    ColorMe101 ColorMe101 18-21, F Nov 27, 2013

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    And Hiding From This.... Won't Do A Damn Bit Of Good.

    I hate the fact that I get jealous. In the past, my jealously was justified, because it was more being sick of getting ignored by a boyfriend. Introducing me as a friend, and then working an entire shift with him, and he doesn't even look at me, say hi....nothing, just walks...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F Nov 18, 2012

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    So my boyfriend is really big into music

    and him and he writes songs and records them. So my friend sings really well and he wants to record a song with her. She's beautiful, has huge boobs , beautiful eyes and has a great voice . I'm so jealous and I can't get over it. Should I be jealous or am I overreacting , I feel...
    Greeneyes144 Greeneyes144 13-15, F Dec 12, 2013

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    This has come as a shock to me since,

    I have never had this "jealousy" problem before. I have been married and divorced twice, cheated on, beaten and made fun of and anything else you can think of. When my fiance and I got together we were a match made in heaven we still are, and I thank the gods for him and my kids...
    Calibabe84 Calibabe84 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I recently lost my best girl friend due to my

    jealousy. We met while she was still in a relationship. It all started really well, we talked a lot, told each other stuff, a real good friendship started to develop. She was/is a person where I instantly felt, that I could tell her everything, secrets, problems, all those...
    GR4YF0X GR4YF0X 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    I Can Only Blame The Past For So Long

    I am currently in a great relationship with a wonderful man. He's extremely patient with me, very open and loving, and makes me feel very safe when I've spent most of my life not able to do so. To spite these facts, I find myself acting like a wronged lover with little to no...
    SleeplessInOrlando SleeplessInOrlando 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2013

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    Jealousy Is A Feeling I Try To Avoid

    i hate the feeling of jealousy :( when im jealous it gets to be the best of me. Is it that im not good enough? What could i be doing wrong? Would i just have to approach the situation differently? EHH!!!!!!! :( Sometimes it leads me to  lose some of my self confidence and it...
    chevonsmith chevonsmith 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    Why

    I'm jealous of have everyone has friends or girls friends. I jealous of how their have better body oh, to be skinny I've never had the privilege to  know what that feels like . Some of my friend try to get away from me ... who needs them any way i don't even like half of them...
    angelperson0 angelperson0 18-21, M 2 Responses May 4, 2012

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    To be honest I do have some jealousy issues

    with my bestfriend.. And when I do I start acting all mean and I don't mean to but I don't know.. What should I do?
    itzlexx itzlexx 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Maybe Just A Little Too Much...

    I tend to be very possesive with the people I love. Its not that I am insecure or afraid that they will leave me. I just know what I want and sometimes I can be reallly greedy with my friends. I have one close friend and she knows how I get when she shares herself with other...
    makesmewonder02 makesmewonder02 18-21, F Jun 27, 2013

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    Problem With Wife And Male Physicians

    I too have an obsession about my wife possibly seeing a male physician. She is a very beautiful woman and I'm sure it would make any male DR day to examine her disrobed. It's weird to explain, i'm not happy about it. Too embarrassed  ask my male friends if...
    happykansan1977 happykansan1977 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 4, 2010

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    Oh. This is me. If I am not invited to

    something.. Or if I see a close friend hanging out with her other friend and not me. Like God. Jealous cloud follows me around the WHOLE day. Anyone else? It means time to hit the gmy and work it off!
    ntupy12 ntupy12 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    This piece was dedicated from Pfloyd121,

    I thank him for the time he took to share his views on a matter that's specially personal to me, and by sharing it hopefully it will benefit others with the same issue :) " If we set aside the issue of amorous jealousy for a moment, jealousy signifies the negative emotion we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 15

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    Its really ad when your crush names off his

    contacts list and they're mostly girls with hearts next to. He says he likes to talk to them. Yeah right bullshit. It makes me wanna cry. And I cut so it makes me wanna cut too. A lot of things make me wanna cry and cut but I sometimes do.
    loveyanoone loveyanoone 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    I Want To Move On

    I feel like I've never moved on since I was 7. This girl I befriend since the first grade is the friend who is most damaging to my self-esteem. I am not quite sure why I am jealous of her, I think it started when I was 9 or 10. There were friends in my group who were far more...
    SolitarySol SolitarySol 31-35, F Apr 7, 2013

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    Body Issues To :|

    I hate my fat body and my ugly brown hair, I can't even grow it the way I want to cause my freaking parents, I envy skinny people, people with blonde hair, cute people, short people , you name them I'm jealous of them for what ever reason I can find things to be jealous of no...
    holyflapjacks holyflapjacks 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    Green-eyed Monster

    i have many weaknesses and jealousy is one of them. but i try not to be selfish and controlling. my demands are quite few and simple. just be sensitive to each other's feelings
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 18 Responses Nov 28, 2007

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    Should I Be Jealous?

    Okay...I lost my virginity to this guy that I loved. I learned to love him, I didn't fall in love with him. The whole relationship I missed my TRUE love, and I still do. Well the guy I learned to love, his crazy family is freaky and weird so we broke it off. They found out we...
    NotTheAmericanAveragexx NotTheAmericanAveragexx 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2013

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    Left Out of Husband's Hug to Friend

    I've been working on Jealousy issues for years.....but every now and then something comes up that just puts me over the  edge.  My husband is a great guy and very patient EXCEPT when it comes to this.  He's sick of reassuring me and now I can't even mention...
    secretlygreen secretlygreen 46-50 8 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    I'm Starting To Feel Like I Might Be Crazy...

    First off, as I think it lends itself to the story, I work as an Investigative Researcher for the Media. So finding hidden information is my job. Following a rocky and abusive past with one specific man, I broke up with him, and have been with the same (new) guy for over 5...
    BabyBear1981 BabyBear1981 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2010

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    I Get Jealous Easily

    I'm currently in a long distance relationship and it's very hard for me to over come jealousy issues because of the distance my partner and I has. If I'm jealous I get to think of lotsa things, I get sensitive and very moody. Hell, I really wanna eliminate this kinda issue of...
    wifeynijim wifeynijim 18-21, F Sep 7, 2008

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    I hate when I'm with my boyfriend

    and rather than talking to me he is on his phone. He will ignore what I'm saying because he's so wrapped up in twitter, Facebook, articles off google. It makes me feel so insignificant. So then I start going on his page and if I see that he was talking to a girl while ignoring...
    Lostgirl133 Lostgirl133 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    How I've Gotten Over These Things

    a big moment for me is when i realized that i had been wasting my time feeling resentful, feeling unhappy, feeling frustrated instead of improving my life.  seeing how accomplished my former peers were, snapped me out of it somewhat.  it didn't make resentment and...
    pheinix pheinix 26-30 2 Responses May 20, 2008

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    Uncomfortable With His Female Friend

    While attending my husband's office event about this time last year, a woman tipped me off that she thought something could be going on with my husband, Noah, and Andrea, his coworker. It turns out they were just good friends, but I hadn't picked up on that until the office event...
    goodwifetales goodwifetales 36-40, F Aug 7, 2013

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    One day I discovered

    that my boyfriend was writing with another woman, I became very upset and asked him what was that. he became anger and closed down his pc. I started to cried and wanted to talk. He left me alone go way to the cinema all afternoon left me with my feelings. when he came back...
    pattybravo pattybravo 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I Don't Share Friends

    I have a serious jealousy issue. I Know it's impossible but I want to keep my friends all for myself. I hate sharing friends! I get jealous if my friends hanged out with other groups of friends. I hate it and I unknowing sorta dislike that group of friends. Lol it's really tiring...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 8, 2012

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    My Jealousy

    Its hard being at the same age with your cousin, who is your best friend. who is more beautiful than you. ever since we were a child, they always compare us together and I'm always left out. I wanna cry, I wanna shout and I wanna separate from my cousin. When we became high...
    sumire sumire 16-17 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    Possessive Much!

    I am selfish, very possessive and jealous.. I know it is a big thing but I can't stop myself. Everytime I saw my bestfriend, Having a good time, smiling together with other friends Makes me want to cry but I can't show others I am hurting like that Beating myself out, asking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 9, 2013

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    Insecure And Unhealthy

    Hi my name is Gene and I have jealousy problems to the core. I can't stand myself, therefore how can he. When you sit back and think why you have these problems its because you feel your not good enough, pretty enough, interesting enough to deserve his/her full heart. I am the...
    Gene86 Gene86 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 29, 2012

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    I Hate My Boyfriend

    I am supposed to marry him. But my whole intuition tells me not to trust the guy.
    Vvxx Vvxx 22-25 2 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    One Small Step In the Right Direction

    I know how I react, I know what provokes my jealousy and I know what I should do to reduce it and try to stop the casscade effect it has, however I find it so hard to do. I try to involve my partner into helping me break the cycle as I feel he can with the littliest of...
    lanikita lanikita 26-30 4 Responses Apr 16, 2008

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    I Don't Share My Guy...

    When I'm in a relationship that I feel strongly for the guy, I tend to get jealous easily.  Even though I know it's hella self -destructive, and ultimately I'm going to push him away, I can't seem to help it.  I'm not jealous in the sense of him having a life or friends...
    Gemi Gemi 31-35, F 3 Responses May 24, 2008

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    Jealousy/insecurity/depression Issues About My Boyfriend's Ex-girlfriends :(

    I posted this in another section of this site and got rather rude answers and very little support, so I thought I would post it in here where people actually understand lol... My boyfriend was trying to be nice by saying that his friends think I'm gorgeous. And while we were...
    princesscaroline87 princesscaroline87 22-25, F 8 Responses May 17, 2010

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    Jealous Over His Ugly Ex

    My issue is this: I am jealous of my fiance's ugly ex girlfriend. I can say that some of this is me, my insecurities, but I also feel like he had a lot to do with it by comparing us almost continously for the first few months of our relationship. All I heard from him is...
    kissmybutt kissmybutt 36-40 Jul 26, 2009

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    I Don'T Like To Share My Friend

    I don't know whether it is bad or not but I don't like to share my friend.. I am so possessive that am afraid of losing him.. If the person who I thought of having as best friend have good time with some other ones, I get angry with both he and the other one. But I don't express...
    FriendsForEverandEver FriendsForEverandEver 18-21, M 6 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    Does Anyone Have Any Advice?

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a while...we are both at university and since we met we have spent pretty much every day together. we moved in together but for our final year he decided to move in with some friends without me....(If he's happy about it I will fully support him...
    captainoftheundead captainoftheundead 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    Stuck in a place that's like limbo.

    ..I'm just wandering around aimlessly looking for answers that continue to be unanswered or go unnoticed. I feel this hole inside me that grows bigger and wider but when it's filled...it's filed with anger and jealousy like where is this coming from? I am happy so why don't I...
    HazelEyedWolf HazelEyedWolf 18-21, F Dec 16, 2013

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    I just don't like sharing people

    if I knew you for 5 years and u met my other friend y'all shouldn't become best of friend and you talk about her all day. I think it makes perfect sense but sometimes it causes me to get really sad about things. I have a problem
    Justme2396 Justme2396 16-17, F Mar 5

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    Jealous Over His Ugly Ex

    My issue is this: I am jealous of my fiance's ugly ex girlfriend. I can say that some of this is me, my insecurities, but I also feel like he had a lot to do with it by comparing us almost continously for the first few months of our relationship. All I heard from him is...
    kissmybutt kissmybutt 36-40 7 Responses Jul 26, 2009

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    Jealous Over His Ugly Ex

    My issue is this: I am jealous of my fiance's ugly ex girlfriend. I can say that some of this is me, my insecurities, but I also feel like he had a lot to do with it by comparing us almost continously for the first few months of our relationship. All I heard from him is...
    kissmybutt kissmybutt 36-40 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    I Am Jealous Of People Who Are Pregnant Or Have Children

    I wanted a child of my own for so long I have pretty well given up on it. Everyone says I should wait to have children and I understand why. Now my ex-girlfriend is pregnant with her second child and I broke down and cried. Pretty much every girl or guy I knew from my high school...
    needsomehelp20 needsomehelp20 18-21 Apr 20, 2013

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    I Am Jealous Of My Wife Visits To Her Doctor.

    It is probably obvious that what I'm jealous is the fact that her doctor is her gynecologist and a male.  So are his two associates and she has been to all three of them.  The idea of her up on their exam tables and in those stirrups drives me crazy.  She was 20...
    whatisitlike whatisitlike 26-30, M 19 Responses May 31, 2010

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    I hate it. Getting jealous is an everyday thing

    for me which I hate having to deal with. I'm so jealous of a guys' ability to go pee standing up. Whenever my boyfriend goes pee standing I get jealous because I can't and it makes me upset. I have no clue why I get so jealous, and that upsets me even more. I don't like being a...
    anonymousXuser anonymousXuser 22-25, F Jan 2

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