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I Have Jealousy Issues

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    The girl I have a huge crush on hooked up with

    someone and she told me about it. She's not even my gf or anything. She asked if I was jealous she said she would feel bad if I was jealous. I lied and said I was only a lil jealous we laughed about it but really I'm just so ******* jealous that she didn't hook up with me but I...
    andreaandy andreaandy 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    One day I discovered

    that my boyfriend was writing with another woman, I became very upset and asked him what was that. he became anger and closed down his pc. I started to cried and wanted to talk. He left me alone go way to the cinema all afternoon left me with my feelings. when he came back...
    pattybravo pattybravo 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Possessive Much!

    I am selfish, very possessive and jealous.. I know it is a big thing but I can't stop myself. Everytime I saw my bestfriend, Having a good time, smiling together with other friends Makes me want to cry but I can't show others I am hurting like that Beating myself out, asking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 9, 2013

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    I just don't like sharing people

    if I knew you for 5 years and u met my other friend y'all shouldn't become best of friend and you talk about her all day. I think it makes perfect sense but sometimes it causes me to get really sad about things. I have a problem
    Justme2396 Justme2396 18-21, F Mar 5

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    I do have issues ... I would

    rather think of them as challenges lol .. at any rate my jealousy is on par with the passion and love that I have for that ONE very special woman and I am thankful that she puts up with me ... I am a very VERY lucky man, to the point where her circle should be very jealous of me...
    don45here don45here 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    I kinda get jealous of someone

    who is like a brother to me. But I never ever get jealous of any of my boyfriends before, I never felt real jealousy before I guess. But to him its like he is mine. I won't share him. I don't feel attracted to him or be in love. I just love him like a brother but I can not stand...
    Loreshoji Loreshoji 16-17, F May 14

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    My boyfriend has a child with this girl ,

    I have none it causes me to constantly feel jealous , I want a baby of my own , I cry over this all the time , today I was on Facebook , my boyfriend posted a picture of is daughter today , his baby momma commented talking about how they have sucha beautiful baby and blah blah...
    brookieboo8090 brookieboo8090 16-17, F May 10

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    Uncomfortable With His Female Friend

    While attending my husband's office event about this time last year, a woman tipped me off that she thought something could be going on with my husband, Noah, and Andrea, his coworker. It turns out they were just good friends, but I hadn't picked up on that until the office event...
    goodwifetales goodwifetales 36-40, F Aug 7, 2013

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    Jealousy Is A Feeling I Try To Avoid

    i hate the feeling of jealousy :( when im jealous it gets to be the best of me. Is it that im not good enough? What could i be doing wrong? Would i just have to approach the situation differently? EHH!!!!!!! :( Sometimes it leads me to  lose some of my self confidence and it...
    chevonsmith chevonsmith 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    This piece was dedicated from Pfloyd121,

    I thank him for the time he took to share his views on a matter that's specially personal to me, and by sharing it hopefully it will benefit others with the same issue :) " If we set aside the issue of amorous jealousy for a moment, jealousy signifies the negative emotion we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 15

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    It Ruined Everything

    I have too much insecurities. I love it when people praise me or get attracted to me. I think that was one of the reasons I made out with someone behind my bf's back. I hate my insecurity. Having someone like me or want me really made my ego better. I hate it and I regret it. I...
    ColorMe101 ColorMe101 18-21, F Nov 27, 2013

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    I hate when I'm with my boyfriend

    and rather than talking to me he is on his phone. He will ignore what I'm saying because he's so wrapped up in twitter, Facebook, articles off google. It makes me feel so insignificant. So then I start going on his page and if I see that he was talking to a girl while ignoring...
    Lostgirl133 Lostgirl133 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    How I've Gotten Over These Things

    a big moment for me is when i realized that i had been wasting my time feeling resentful, feeling unhappy, feeling frustrated instead of improving my life.  seeing how accomplished my former peers were, snapped me out of it somewhat.  it didn't make resentment and...
    pheinix pheinix 26-30 2 Responses May 20, 2008

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    I hate it. Getting jealous is an everyday thing

    for me which I hate having to deal with. I'm so jealous of a guys' ability to go pee standing up. Whenever my boyfriend goes pee standing I get jealous because I can't and it makes me upset. I have no clue why I get so jealous, and that upsets me even more. I don't like being a...
    anonymousXuser anonymousXuser 22-25, F Jan 2

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    Jealousy/insecurity/depression Issues About My Boyfriend's Ex-girlfriends :(

    I posted this in another section of this site and got rather rude answers and very little support, so I thought I would post it in here where people actually understand lol... My boyfriend was trying to be nice by saying that his friends think I'm gorgeous. And while we were...
    princesscaroline87 princesscaroline87 22-25, F 8 Responses May 17, 2010

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    Should I Be Jealous?

    Okay...I lost my virginity to this guy that I loved. I learned to love him, I didn't fall in love with him. The whole relationship I missed my TRUE love, and I still do. Well the guy I learned to love, his crazy family is freaky and weird so we broke it off. They found out we...
    NotTheAmericanAveragexx NotTheAmericanAveragexx 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2013

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    I recently lost my best girl friend due to my

    jealousy. We met while she was still in a relationship. It all started really well, we talked a lot, told each other stuff, a real good friendship started to develop. She was/is a person where I instantly felt, that I could tell her everything, secrets, problems, all those...
    GR4YF0X GR4YF0X 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    I Can Only Blame The Past For So Long

    I am currently in a great relationship with a wonderful man. He's extremely patient with me, very open and loving, and makes me feel very safe when I've spent most of my life not able to do so. To spite these facts, I find myself acting like a wronged lover with little to no...
    SleeplessInOrlando SleeplessInOrlando 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2013

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    This has come as a shock to me since,

    I have never had this "jealousy" problem before. I have been married and divorced twice, cheated on, beaten and made fun of and anything else you can think of. When my fiance and I got together we were a match made in heaven we still are, and I thank the gods for him and my kids...
    Calibabe84 Calibabe84 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I Am Jealous Of People Who Are Pregnant Or Have Children

    I wanted a child of my own for so long I have pretty well given up on it. Everyone says I should wait to have children and I understand why. Now my ex-girlfriend is pregnant with her second child and I broke down and cried. Pretty much every girl or guy I knew from my high school...
    needsomehelp20 needsomehelp20 18-21 Apr 20, 2013

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    I Don'T Like To Share My Friend

    I don't know whether it is bad or not but I don't like to share my friend.. I am so possessive that am afraid of losing him.. If the person who I thought of having as best friend have good time with some other ones, I get angry with both he and the other one. But I don't express...
    FriendsForEverandEver FriendsForEverandEver 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    Every girl I look at is someone I'm jealous of,

    knowing I'm never going to look like them makes me annoyed at myself.
    younginsecuregirl younginsecuregirl 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I hate girls that are prettier

    than me. I also hate that I feel this way
    LauraF328 LauraF328 22-25, F Jul 16

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    Problem With Wife And Male Physicians

    I too have an obsession about my wife possibly seeing a male physician. She is a very beautiful woman and I'm sure it would make any male DR day to examine her disrobed. It's weird to explain, i'm not happy about it. Too embarrassed  ask my male friends if...
    happykansan1977 happykansan1977 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 4, 2010

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    Why

    I'm jealous of have everyone has friends or girls friends. I jealous of how their have better body oh, to be skinny I've never had the privilege to  know what that feels like . Some of my friend try to get away from me ... who needs them any way i don't even like half of them...
    angelperson0 angelperson0 18-21, M 2 Responses May 4, 2012

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    My boyfriend has just recently made a new

    friend. It's been about a little over a month now I think. At least that's what he's told me. I don't know for sure how long exactly they were talking for. But, anyway, fact is, I get jealous of her. I feel like I shouldn't because to be honest she doesn't seem as "cool" as he...
    thesecretme11 thesecretme11 18-21, F 2 Responses May 6

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    I have jealousy issues with people.

    I hate that they can have things that I can't. You only live once, and sometimes you don't get to experience what they have. It makes me feel upset. I believe that you work for what you have, but it hard because there is a lot of stuff around you that you want.
    PepToeHeels PepToeHeels 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Insecure And Unhealthy

    Hi my name is Gene and I have jealousy problems to the core. I can't stand myself, therefore how can he. When you sit back and think why you have these problems its because you feel your not good enough, pretty enough, interesting enough to deserve his/her full heart. I am the...
    Gene86 Gene86 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 29, 2012

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    I Can't Be Happy Unless They're Not?

    It's what I consider couple competition that's bothering me again! However... no one else feels it but me. My boyfriend and I hardly celebrate our monthly anniversaries because they're not that eventful anymore and I think that's fine. What I don't think is fine is celebrating...
    xxLizRockszz xxLizRockszz 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24, 2010

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    And Hiding From This.... Won't Do A Damn Bit Of Good.

    I hate the fact that I get jealous. In the past, my jealously was justified, because it was more being sick of getting ignored by a boyfriend. Introducing me as a friend, and then working an entire shift with him, and he doesn't even look at me, say hi....nothing, just walks...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F Nov 18, 2012

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    I have a boyfriend and I'm pretty sure this is

    a cliche experience. I'm jealous. But I think I need help. I'm overly jealous. He talks to his friends (females), I get jealous. He talks to his mom, I get jealous. It's stupid and it hurts me. I don't like being jealous and I really wish I wasn't. He even says that I'm always...
    thesecretme11 thesecretme11 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    Oh. This is me. If I am not invited to

    something.. Or if I see a close friend hanging out with her other friend and not me. Like God. Jealous cloud follows me around the WHOLE day. Anyone else? It means time to hit the gmy and work it off!
    ntupy12 ntupy12 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Does Anyone Have Any Advice?

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a while...we are both at university and since we met we have spent pretty much every day together. we moved in together but for our final year he decided to move in with some friends without me....(If he's happy about it I will fully support him...
    captainoftheundead captainoftheundead 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    To be honest I do have some jealousy issues

    with my bestfriend.. And when I do I start acting all mean and I don't mean to but I don't know.. What should I do?
    itzlexx itzlexx 13-15, F Apr 16

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    Stuck in a place that's like limbo.

    ..I'm just wandering around aimlessly looking for answers that continue to be unanswered or go unnoticed. I feel this hole inside me that grows bigger and wider but when it's filled...it's filed with anger and jealousy like where is this coming from? I am happy so why don't I...
    HazelEyedWolf HazelEyedWolf 18-21, F Dec 16, 2013

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    Its really ad when your crush names off his

    contacts list and they're mostly girls with hearts next to. He says he likes to talk to them. Yeah right bullshit. It makes me wanna cry. And I cut so it makes me wanna cut too. A lot of things make me wanna cry and cut but I sometimes do.
    loveyanoone loveyanoone 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    I Am Jealous Of My Wife Visits To Her Doctor.

    It is probably obvious that what I'm jealous is the fact that her doctor is her gynecologist and a male.  So are his two associates and she has been to all three of them.  The idea of her up on their exam tables and in those stirrups drives me crazy.  She was 20...
    whatisitlike whatisitlike 26-30, M 21 Responses May 31, 2010

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    Jealous Over His Ugly Ex

    My issue is this: I am jealous of my fiance's ugly ex girlfriend. I can say that some of this is me, my insecurities, but I also feel like he had a lot to do with it by comparing us almost continously for the first few months of our relationship. All I heard from him is...
    kissmybutt kissmybutt 36-40 7 Responses Jul 26, 2009

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    So my boyfriend is really big into music

    and him and he writes songs and records them. So my friend sings really well and he wants to record a song with her. She's beautiful, has huge boobs , beautiful eyes and has a great voice . I'm so jealous and I can't get over it. Should I be jealous or am I overreacting , I feel...
    Greeneyes144 Greeneyes144 16-17, F Dec 12, 2013

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    Among my siblings , I received the most

    expectations from my family. So my siblings often get jealous of me.. But the weird thing is , I'm jealous of them.. I wouldn't want myself to disappoint anyone especially when that person expected so much from me. My parents/relatives expected me to be a better lawyer...
    Sharlita Sharlita 18-21, F May 20

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    This morning my church buddy called me

    and told me she isn't coming. I'm mad because she is my church buddy. She is out there with this boy that she barely knows. I'm jealous and I want her here with me... Not with anybody else.
    BrainsBeautyBrianna BrainsBeautyBrianna 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Maybe Just A Little Too Much...

    I tend to be very possesive with the people I love. Its not that I am insecure or afraid that they will leave me. I just know what I want and sometimes I can be reallly greedy with my friends. I have one close friend and she knows how I get when she shares herself with other...
    makesmewonder02 makesmewonder02 18-21, F Jun 27, 2013

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    I Hate My Boyfriend

    I am supposed to marry him. But my whole intuition tells me not to trust the guy.
    Vvxx Vvxx 22-25 3 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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