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I Have Jealousy Issues

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    I hate girls that are prettier

    than me. I also hate that I feel this way
    LauraF328 LauraF328 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    Court24 Court24 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    I need to learn to control my jealousy issues

    but I don't know how. I'm pushing my boyfriend away but I can't keep my mouth shut when something is bothering me. This is going to be a never ending problem unless I can make it stop!!! Any advice from someone who has recovered from jealousy?
    mbroderson mbroderson 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    I don't get jealous of people like

    if they have something that I don't or if they have a better body than me I actually tend to be happier for them what I do have a problem with IS people that I care about like sometimes I feel replaced or like I'm not as important as I was before they got someone new or when...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F Aug 27, 2014

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    I do have issues ... I would

    rather think of them as challenges lol .. at any rate my jealousy is on par with the passion and love that I have for that ONE very special woman and I am thankful that she puts up with me ... I am a very VERY lucky man, to the point where her circle should be very jealous of me...
    don45here don45here 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    Jealousy Is A Feeling I Try To Avoid

    i hate the feeling of jealousy :( when im jealous it gets to be the best of me. Is it that im not good enough? What could i be doing wrong? Would i just have to approach the situation differently? EHH!!!!!!! :( Sometimes it leads me to  lose some of my self confidence and it...
    chevonsmith chevonsmith 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    Its really ad when your crush names off his

    contacts list and they're mostly girls with hearts next to. He says he likes to talk to them. Yeah right bullshit. It makes me wanna cry. And I cut so it makes me wanna cut too. A lot of things make me wanna cry and cut but I sometimes do.
    loveyanoone loveyanoone 18-21, F Feb 8, 2014

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    I'm hyperjealous of all teenagers.

    There are moments I would want to relive and enjoy more, like graduating high school, my prom, feeling immortal...literally.
    Firecandy Firecandy 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    My jealousy issue is driving the best

    relationship i have in my life to the brink of an end. I just cannot trust. I've tried. I've been trying my hardest to change and try trusting but I keep failing to do it. If I had a chance I do not want to be me. I am hurting the love of my life. I never have had a peaceful...
    SapphireSol SapphireSol 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    heavenmescud heavenmescud 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2014

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    It Ruined Everything

    I have too much insecurities. I love it when people praise me or get attracted to me. I think that was one of the reasons I made out with someone behind my bf's back. I hate my insecurity. Having someone like me or want me really made my ego better. I hate it and I regret it. I...
    ColorMe101 ColorMe101 18-21, F Nov 27, 2013

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    I get jealous easily.

    .. Although sometimes, it's really nothing to be jealous about. But when i am, i don't try to show it. I keep it in... I just don't want others to see it. I find it embarrassing for me to feel this way.
    Shimmerz479 Shimmerz479 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 7

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    Jealous Over His Ugly Ex

    My issue is this: I am jealous of my fiance's ugly ex girlfriend. I can say that some of this is me, my insecurities, but I also feel like he had a lot to do with it by comparing us almost continously for the first few months of our relationship. All I heard from him is...
    kissmybutt kissmybutt 36-40 7 Responses Jul 26, 2009

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    How I've Gotten Over These Things

    a big moment for me is when i realized that i had been wasting my time feeling resentful, feeling unhappy, feeling frustrated instead of improving my life.  seeing how accomplished my former peers were, snapped me out of it somewhat.  it didn't make resentment and...
    pheinix pheinix 26-30 2 Responses May 20, 2008

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    I Hate My Boyfriend

    I am supposed to marry him. But my whole intuition tells me not to trust the guy.
    Vvxx Vvxx 22-25 2 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    And Hiding From This.... Won't Do A Damn Bit Of Good.

    I hate the fact that I get jealous. In the past, my jealously was justified, because it was more being sick of getting ignored by a boyfriend. Introducing me as a friend, and then working an entire shift with him, and he doesn't even look at me, say hi....nothing, just walks...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F Nov 18, 2012

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    Insecure And Unhealthy

    Hi my name is Gene and I have jealousy problems to the core. I can't stand myself, therefore how can he. When you sit back and think why you have these problems its because you feel your not good enough, pretty enough, interesting enough to deserve his/her full heart. I am the...
    Gene86 Gene86 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 29, 2012

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    Every girl I look at is someone I'm jealous of,

    knowing I'm never going to look like them makes me annoyed at myself.
    younginsecuregirl younginsecuregirl 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2014

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    I need someone to help me please !

    I've been thinking about committing suicide a lot and it's all because a small thing , which is my sister she's prettier and everything !! It ****** me off a lot that she gets and has everything I want , I hate her most of the times , everytime we go to a place or to a new...
    Snowwhite5424 Snowwhite5424 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    I am married and have a pretty wonderfully

    blessed life. My husband Adores me (even though sometimes I wonder why, because I am really crazy a lot), we have a great family support system and both have full time jobs and will be buying our own house soon, however...I am jealous of random people for the dumbest reasons...
    KoukiKat4 KoukiKat4 18-21, F Feb 17

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    Possessive Much!

    I am selfish, very possessive and jealous.. I know it is a big thing but I can't stop myself. Everytime I saw my bestfriend, Having a good time, smiling together with other friends Makes me want to cry but I can't show others I am hurting like that Beating myself out, asking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 9, 2013

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    I just don't like sharing people

    if I knew you for 5 years and u met my other friend y'all shouldn't become best of friend and you talk about her all day. I think it makes perfect sense but sometimes it causes me to get really sad about things. I have a problem
    Justme2396 Justme2396 18-21, F Mar 5, 2014

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    Oh. This is me. If I am not invited to

    something.. Or if I see a close friend hanging out with her other friend and not me. Like God. Jealous cloud follows me around the WHOLE day. Anyone else? It means time to hit the gmy and work it off!
    ntupy12 ntupy12 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2014

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    I Can Only Blame The Past For So Long

    I am currently in a great relationship with a wonderful man. He's extremely patient with me, very open and loving, and makes me feel very safe when I've spent most of my life not able to do so. To spite these facts, I find myself acting like a wronged lover with little to no...
    SleeplessInOrlando SleeplessInOrlando 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2013

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    I kinda get jealous of someone

    who is like a brother to me. But I never ever get jealous of any of my boyfriends before, I never felt real jealousy before I guess. But to him its like he is mine. I won't share him. I don't feel attracted to him or be in love. I just love him like a brother but I can not stand...
    Loreshoji Loreshoji 16-17, F May 14, 2014

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    Among my siblings , I received the most

    expectations from my family. So my siblings often get jealous of me.. But the weird thing is , I'm jealous of them.. I wouldn't want myself to disappoint anyone especially when that person expected so much from me. My parents/relatives expected me to be a better lawyer...
    Sharlita Sharlita 18-21, F May 20, 2014

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    Primrosa Primrosa 26-30, F Feb 1

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    I have jealousy issues with people.

    I hate that they can have things that I can't. You only live once, and sometimes you don't get to experience what they have. It makes me feel upset. I believe that you work for what you have, but it hard because there is a lot of stuff around you that you want.
    PepToeHeels PepToeHeels 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2014

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    Why

    I'm jealous of have everyone has friends or girls friends. I jealous of how their have better body oh, to be skinny I've never had the privilege to  know what that feels like . Some of my friend try to get away from me ... who needs them any way i don't even like half of them...
    angelperson0 angelperson0 18-21, M 2 Responses May 4, 2012

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    Jealousy is irritating .

    ... I have had so many jealousy issues this past week it's so hard to control it all ... Eh...
    hitthelightsnow hitthelightsnow 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    One day I discovered

    that my boyfriend was writing with another woman, I became very upset and asked him what was that. he became anger and closed down his pc. I started to cried and wanted to talk. He left me alone go way to the cinema all afternoon left me with my feelings. when he came back...
    pattybravo pattybravo 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    This has come as a shock to me since,

    I have never had this "jealousy" problem before. I have been married and divorced twice, cheated on, beaten and made fun of and anything else you can think of. When my fiance and I got together we were a match made in heaven we still are, and I thank the gods for him and my kids...
    Texascutie84 Texascutie84 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 23, 2014

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    I'm so scared that my crush will fall out of

    love with me. He likes me back too. But I get jealous when I see him with other girls. I'm always comparing them to myself. What should I do?
    Candice321 Candice321 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    To be honest I do have some jealousy issues

    with my bestfriend.. And when I do I start acting all mean and I don't mean to but I don't know.. What should I do?
    itzlexx itzlexx 13-15, F Apr 16, 2014

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    My boyfriend has a child with this girl ,

    I have none it causes me to constantly feel jealous , I want a baby of my own , I cry over this all the time , today I was on Facebook , my boyfriend posted a picture of is daughter today , his baby momma commented talking about how they have sucha beautiful baby and blah blah...
    brookieboo8090 brookieboo8090 18-21, F 1 Response May 10, 2014

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    I am envious all the time.

    I get jealous over the stupidest stuff. I don't know why it just kills me like the littlest things. Ugh
    Uhilikepizza Uhilikepizza 13-15, F Feb 7

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    I really don't get how come some people don't

    have any facial or chest or pubic hair even at the age of 35 or around. I got hair when I was 13.
    AksharGoyal AksharGoyal 16-17, M Dec 23, 2014

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    I Can't Be Happy Unless They're Not?

    It's what I consider couple competition that's bothering me again! However... no one else feels it but me. My boyfriend and I hardly celebrate our monthly anniversaries because they're not that eventful anymore and I think that's fine. What I don't think is fine is celebrating...
    xxLizRockszz xxLizRockszz 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2010

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    Problem With Wife And Male Physicians

    I too have an obsession about my wife possibly seeing a male physician. She is a very beautiful woman and I'm sure it would make any male DR day to examine her disrobed. It's weird to explain, i'm not happy about it. Too embarrassed  ask my male friends if...
    happykansan1977 happykansan1977 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 4, 2010

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    I Get Jealous Easily

    I'm currently in a long distance relationship and it's very hard for me to over come jealousy issues because of the distance my partner and I has. If I'm jealous I get to think of lotsa things, I get sensitive and very moody. Hell, I really wanna eliminate this kinda issue of...
    wifeynijim wifeynijim 18-21, F Sep 7, 2008

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    I recently lost my best girl friend due to my

    jealousy. We met while she was still in a relationship. It all started really well, we talked a lot, told each other stuff, a real good friendship started to develop. She was/is a person where I instantly felt, that I could tell her everything, secrets, problems, all those...
    GR4YF0X GR4YF0X 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 11, 2014

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    Does Anyone Have Any Advice?

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a while...we are both at university and since we met we have spent pretty much every day together. we moved in together but for our final year he decided to move in with some friends without me....(If he's happy about it I will fully support him...
    captainoftheundead captainoftheundead 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    I am not naturally a jealous person

    but with this amazing woman that I have in my life I find myself getting jealous over silly little things that I have no control over and it's driving me mad that I can't control my issue as it is my issue but I have never loved or cared for anyone like I do her all I want to do...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2014

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    You have them and they are just not working

    with us anymore....ladies....its will never work anymore... your just not ambitious women to us.......your not popular all your cnn garbage was taken care of... You play your game and I win
    wearethechampions5050 wearethechampions5050 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2014

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    One Small Step In the Right Direction

    I know how I react, I know what provokes my jealousy and I know what I should do to reduce it and try to stop the casscade effect it has, however I find it so hard to do. I try to involve my partner into helping me break the cycle as I feel he can with the littliest of...
    lanikita lanikita 26-30 4 Responses Apr 16, 2008

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    This piece was dedicated from Pfloyd121,

    I thank him for the time he took to share his views on a matter that's specially personal to me, and by sharing it hopefully it will benefit others with the same issue :) " If we set aside the issue of amorous jealousy for a moment, jealousy signifies the negative emotion we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 15, 2014

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