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I Have Jealousy Issues

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    Green-eyed Monster - i have many weaknesses and jealousy is one of them. but i try not to be selfish and controlling. my demands are quite few and simple. just be sensitive to each...
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 18 Responses Nov 28, 2007

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    Problem With Wife And Male Physicians - I too have an obsession about my wife possibly seeing a male physician. She is a very beautiful woman and I'm sure it would make any...
    happykansan1977 happykansan1977 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 4, 2010

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    I Don'T Like To Share My Friend - I don't know whether it is bad or not but I don't like to share my friend.. I am so possessive that am afraid of losing him.. If the person who I...
    FriendsForEverandEver FriendsForEverandEver 18-21, M 6 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    Jealousy Is A Feeling I Try To Avoid - i hate the feeling of jealousy :( when im jealous it gets to be the best of me. Is it that im not good enough? What could i be doing wrong...
    chevonsmith chevonsmith 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    To be honest I do have some jealousy issues with my bestfriend.. And when I do I start acting all mean and I don't mean to but I don't know.. What should I do?
    itzlexx itzlexx 13-15, F 13 hrs ago

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    And Hiding From This.... Won't Do A Damn Bit Of Good. - I hate the fact that I get jealous. In the past, my jealously was justified, because it was more being sick of getting...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F Nov 18, 2012

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    Oh. This is me. If I am not invited to something.. Or if I see a close friend hanging out with her other friend and not me. Like God. Jealous cloud follows me around the WHOLE day...
    ntupy12 ntupy12 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Maybe Just A Little Too Much... - I tend to be very possesive with the people I love. Its not that I am insecure or afraid that they will leave me. I just know what I want and...
    makesmewonder02 makesmewonder02 18-21, F Jun 27, 2013

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    I recently lost my best girl friend due to my jealousy. We met while she was still in a relationship. It all started really well, we talked a lot, told each other stuff, a real...
    GR4YF0X GR4YF0X 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    This piece was dedicated from Pfloyd121, I thank him for the time he took to share his views on a matter that's specially personal to me, and by sharing it hopefully it will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 15

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    It Ruined Everything - I have too much insecurities. I love it when people praise me or get attracted to me. I think that was one of the reasons I made out with someone behind my...
    ColorMe101 ColorMe101 18-21, F Nov 27, 2013

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    Uncomfortable With His Female Friend - While attending my husband's office event about this time last year, a woman tipped me off that she thought something could be going on with...
    goodwifetales goodwifetales 36-40, F Aug 7, 2013

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    Insecure And Unhealthy - Hi my name is Gene and I have jealousy problems to the core. I can't stand myself, therefore how can he. When you sit back and think why you have these...
    Gene86 Gene86 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 29, 2012

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    Wife - She is suspicous, jealous and posessive ! This green monster is killing me
    ryksteman ryksteman 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 25, 2010

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    One day I discovered that my boyfriend was writing with another woman, I became very upset and asked him what was that. he became anger and closed down his pc. I started to cried...
    pattybravo pattybravo 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Should I Be Jealous? - Okay...I lost my virginity to this guy that I loved. I learned to love him, I didn't fall in love with him. The whole relationship I missed my TRUE love...
    NotTheAmericanAveragexx NotTheAmericanAveragexx 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2013

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    Left Out of Husband's Hug to Friend - I've been working on Jealousy issues for years.....but every now and then something comes up that just puts me over the  edge.  My...
    secretlygreen secretlygreen 46-50 8 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    I Don't Share Friends - I have a serious jealousy issue. I Know it's impossible but I want to keep my friends all for myself. I hate sharing friends! I get jealous if my friends...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 8, 2012

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    I Hate My Boyfriend - I am supposed to marry him. But my whole intuition tells me not to trust the guy.
    Vvxx Vvxx 22-25 2 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    How I've Gotten Over These Things - a big moment for me is when i realized that i had been wasting my time feeling resentful, feeling unhappy, feeling frustrated instead of...
    pheinix pheinix 26-30 2 Responses May 20, 2008

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    I hate when I'm with my boyfriend and rather than talking to me he is on his phone. He will ignore what I'm saying because he's so wrapped up in twitter, Facebook, articles off...
    Lostgirl133 Lostgirl133 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Its really ad when your crush names off his contacts list and they're mostly girls with hearts next to. He says he likes to talk to them. Yeah right bullshit. It makes me wanna cry...
    loveyanoone loveyanoone 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    I just don't like sharing people if I knew you for 5 years and u met my other friend y'all shouldn't become best of friend and you talk about her all day. I think it makes perfect...
    Justme2396 Justme2396 16-17, F Mar 5

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    Does Anyone Have Any Advice? - I've been dating my boyfriend for a while...we are both at university and since we met we have spent pretty much every day together. we moved in...
    captainoftheundead captainoftheundead 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    I do have issues ... I would rather think of them as challenges lol .. at any rate my jealousy is on par with the passion and love that I have for that ONE very special woman and I...
    don45here don45here 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    So my boyfriend is really big into music and him and he writes songs and records them. So my friend sings really well and he wants to record a song with her. She's beautiful, has...
    Greeneyes144 Greeneyes144 13-15, F Dec 12, 2013

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    I Can Only Blame The Past For So Long - I am currently in a great relationship with a wonderful man. He's extremely patient with me, very open and loving, and makes me feel very...
    SleeplessInOrlando SleeplessInOrlando 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2013

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    Why - I'm jealous of have everyone has friends or girls friends. I jealous of how their have better body oh, to be skinny I've never had the privilege to  know what that feels...
    angelperson0 angelperson0 18-21, M 2 Responses May 4, 2012

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    My Jealousy - Its hard being at the same age with your cousin, who is your best friend. who is more beautiful than you. ever since we were a child, they always compare us together...
    sumire sumire 16-17 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    I Want To Move On - I feel like I've never moved on since I was 7. This girl I befriend since the first grade is the friend who is most damaging to my self-esteem. I am not quite...
    SolitarySol SolitarySol 31-35, F Apr 7, 2013

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    Stuck in a place that's like limbo...I'm just wandering around aimlessly looking for answers that continue to be unanswered or go unnoticed. I feel this hole inside me that grows...
    HazelEyedWolf HazelEyedWolf 18-21, F Dec 16, 2013

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    I Can't Be Happy Unless They're Not? - It's what I consider couple competition that's bothering me again! However... no one else feels it but me. My boyfriend and I hardly...
    xxLizRockszz xxLizRockszz 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24, 2010

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    This has come as a shock to me since, I have never had this "jealousy" problem before. I have been married and divorced twice, cheated on, beaten and made fun of and anything else...
    Calibabe84 Calibabe84 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    Body Issues To :| - I hate my fat body and my ugly brown hair, I can't even grow it the way I want to cause my freaking parents, I envy skinny people, people with blonde hair...
    holyflapjacks holyflapjacks 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    I Don't Share My Guy... - When I'm in a relationship that I feel strongly for the guy, I tend to get jealous easily.  Even though I know it's hella self -destructive, and...
    Gemi Gemi 31-35, F 3 Responses May 24, 2008

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    I Get Jealous Easily - I'm currently in a long distance relationship and it's very hard for me to over come jealousy issues because of the distance my partner and I has. If I'm...
    wifeynijim wifeynijim 18-21, F Sep 7, 2008

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    Jealous Over His Ugly Ex - My issue is this: I am jealous of my fiance's ugly ex girlfriend. I can say that some of this is me, my insecurities, but I also feel like he had a lot...
    kissmybutt kissmybutt 36-40 Jul 26, 2009

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    I Am Jealous Of My Wife Visits To Her Doctor. - It is probably obvious that what I'm jealous is the fact that her doctor is her gynecologist and a male.  So are his two...
    whatisitlike whatisitlike 26-30, M 19 Responses May 31, 2010

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    Jealous Over His Ugly Ex - My issue is this: I am jealous of my fiance's ugly ex girlfriend. I can say that some of this is me, my insecurities, but I also feel like he had a lot...
    kissmybutt kissmybutt 36-40 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    I hate it. Getting jealous is an everyday thing for me which I hate having to deal with. I'm so jealous of a guys' ability to go pee standing up. Whenever my boyfriend goes pee...
    anonymousXuser anonymousXuser 22-25, F Jan 2

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    I Am Jealous Of People Who Are Pregnant Or Have Children - I wanted a child of my own for so long I have pretty well given up on it. Everyone says I should wait to have children...
    needsomehelp20 needsomehelp20 18-21 Apr 20, 2013

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    Possessive Much! - I am selfish, very possessive and jealous.. I know it is a big thing but I can't stop myself. Everytime I saw my bestfriend, Having a good time, smiling...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 9, 2013

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    Jealous Over His Ugly Ex - My issue is this: I am jealous of my fiance's ugly ex girlfriend. I can say that some of this is me, my insecurities, but I also feel like he had a lot...
    kissmybutt kissmybutt 36-40 7 Responses Jul 26, 2009

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    I'm Starting To Feel Like I Might Be Crazy... - First off, as I think it lends itself to the story, I work as an Investigative Researcher for the Media. So finding hidden...
    BabyBear1981 BabyBear1981 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2010

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    Jealousy/insecurity/depression Issues About My Boyfriend's Ex-girlfriends :( - I posted this in another section of this site and got rather rude answers and very little support...
    princesscaroline87 princesscaroline87 22-25, F 8 Responses May 17, 2010

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    One Small Step In the Right Direction - I know how I react, I know what provokes my jealousy and I know what I should do to reduce it and try to stop the casscade effect it has...
    lanikita lanikita 26-30 4 Responses Apr 16, 2008

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    I really don't know why I have trust issues. It doesn't make sense why I do. I mean, I don't think I had them before I met my friend Isaac. But I can't be sure. Isaac has been my...
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    I have trust issues because of my bullying from 1st grade to 9th grade. It was a bad experience.
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    I mostly have trust issues because of bad past relationships. In my entire 18 years of living, I've dated 3 people. The first guy I dated for 2 years and he broke up with me via...
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    Yes I have trust issues only because I grew up most of my child hood- early teen years being lied too from people I loved. But my trust has definitely gotten stronger the older I...
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