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I Have Learned A Lot From My Past Failed Relationships

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 62 People

    Learnt About Me

    I learnt weak points of me, not only in relationships but as a person. They say you learn from mistakes. I did and am moving ahead, don't know where I am going exactly, but enjoying the journey.
    Soloviento Soloviento 41-45, M Sep 18, 2012

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    Racist Love

    Well, I am 14 years old. Most of the people will definetly say "You're just a kid" "You don't know what Love is" "You are immature" and all that. But I do fall in Love. And when I do I fall hard. My first boyfriend. He was a Ethiopian. I fell for his Personality. His gorgeous...
    Jan 10, 2013

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    We may love the wrong person,Cry for the wrong person but one things for sure,mistakes help us find the right person.
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F Mar 23

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    PLEASE, I need guy advice So there is this guy at my work- Geoff. He is a member of the tennis club I work at. He's somewhat of a player and rough around the edges and about 27...
    Speifer Speifer 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I have no problems with interracial relationships at all. l believe in interracial couples dating, marrying, and having children together. I have dated and had three biracial...
    femalelovesanimals femalelovesanimals 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Relationships that have failed definatly change a persons feelings and personality. No doubt. Threw all the crap ive been threw and the way people have treated me, it gets to the...
    MajorasAngel97 MajorasAngel97 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    You know most of us have been there one time in our lives, perhaps in high school, a failed relationship for whatever reasons and sometimes after the breakup there's a remorse...
    jessycarcher jessycarcher 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    Have been stuck in this relationship out of convenience. Can you relate?
    whitesnake7hard whitesnake7hard 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 29

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    Yeah, all the invested energy and time just to have some who said they love you become an awful ebem
    spaeth spaeth 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 6

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    & Hopefully you come out as a stronger person in the end. Idk.. Do you? Or do you just go on living the same lifestyle that drove them out of your life to begin with? I don't even...
    Vixen2010 Vixen2010 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    my exposure to other people here is priceless and has improved my outlook on things greatly.I've learned not to judge someone by the label assigned to them by themselves or others...
    bob350 bob350 56-60, M 5 Responses Mar 28

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    I have been in an interracial relationship for the past three years now, and he's finally goin home in about two months.. This whole experience make me only want to date ppl of his...
    artsmak artsmak 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    As a black female that has dated majority white and Hispanic guys, I can personally say that interracial relationships are no different from any other. It just seems so ignorant...
    maribear maribear 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    I am an Asian who is with a white English female. We have a beautiful baby boy together and I don't see any problem with interracial relationships. This is the 21st century after...
    ukasianmale ukasianmale 26-30, M Apr 6

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    Hi, my name is Jocelyn and I've been in an interracial relationship for almost three years now. I'm black and he is white. I've always dated outside of my race, no particular...
    Slumbergirl92 Slumbergirl92 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    How to make this funny but serious... I believe I was born from a bottle of tanning lotion! Okay no never mind but Snooki could totally be my cousin from the way she looks. I...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 11

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    "Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes." - Oscar Wilde In that case I have some really good experience. But that's in the past and I want to keep it there. But what...
    insanitycuresboredom insanitycuresboredom 22-25, F Mar 28

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    My girlfriend is a fair Mexican and im a brownie from an island and we get along amazingly and i am so in love with her ***! She is beyond what i could ever ask for and sharing a...
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    Being the youngest of four siblings, I grew up constantly comparing my progression in life with that of my family and peers. I compared my academic and professional performance...
    Hincty Hincty 22-25, F Mar 23

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    1.) There are more selfish people in the world than selfless people. 2.) A lot of people only care about themselves. 3.) Some people enjoy causing pain to others. 4.). People...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    My depression comes and goes. Sometimes it's bad but not severe other times it's so severe, it becomes a battle I can't over come, a suicidal depression. Recently I was so so...
    juliaek1 juliaek1 13-15, F 12 hrs ago

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    I have several friends that are dating and have married outside their race. To be honest, I have two sisters that dated and married their boyfriends. Both of them have very...
    barbaratownsend barbaratownsend 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    Its funny all my bfs have been hispanic or white lols I really don't see anything wrong with I actually see it as a learning experience to me regardless like a man will always be a...
    omichio omichio 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I live with my grandparents and you know how the older generation today sees things very differently then we do. I started dating my best friend, I have never been so comfortable...
    emmapia emmapia 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I have no problem with any interracial relationship nor does any of my family members and friends. It is a beautiful site seeing an interracial couple and family together.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    When I studied abroad last fall, I made friends from all over the world. It's pretty cool to see their posts and updates that involve culture and life. For example, on St. Patrick...
    queserasera22 queserasera22 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Im tired of these medicine's, it's been two years since my serious depression, anxiety and selfharm. I dont want to take these medicine's, i have been taking them for so long and...
    Soldottern Soldottern 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I had a bad repetitive strain injury as a result of being a guitarist studying music at university. It forced me to quit school in my final year. To complicate things, I also lost...
    AJWalton AJWalton 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I suffer from depression anxiety and self harm. I have been on so many meds, begged for help and I will always be this way. I have always felt this way. I wish I was dead.
    Mangocupcakes Mangocupcakes 16-17, F a week ago

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    Definitely changed Me for the Better
    lexix0 lexix0 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Would you get back into a relationship with a person that is controlling of every thing in your life and theirs?? I mean to the point that they tell you what to wear????
    bub1982 bub1982 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 25

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    You're not the same as you used to be Now you're the monster but you don't see Quit blaming our pain ALL on me You're not innocent stop pretending to be This is your fault...
    Vixen2010 Vixen2010 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I've lost someone who was never mine. And I never thought it would hurt this bad. My heart is broken, and I don't know what to do; I wanna die....
    anderrss16 anderrss16 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    People can be with whoever they choose, no matter what sex, race, or religion, we are all a person, and deserve a chance at happiness
    ash5698 ash5698 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    I see no problem with dating any ethnicity however there is some my mother and father wouldn't tolerate so I know if I want them to be at my wedding I must stick to what they say...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    I think the most prettiest babies in the world are the ones mixed with different races! My little niece in the picture is mixed with Indian & welsh & islander. She is absolutely...
    YoursTrulyLina YoursTrulyLina 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    My mom is white and my daddy's black, and I don't see the difference between black people and white people at all.
    Bmthsavedmylife Bmthsavedmylife 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    It's a wonder why there's even a "problem" with some people in the first place. When you fall in love with someone, that should be something to celebrate, not something to stick...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 4 Responses Mar 28

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    rahulmahi rahulmahi 22-25, M Mar 29

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    I actually want to experience an interracial relationship one day.
    briannarena briannarena 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 12

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    I'd actually want to experience an inter-racial relationship some day.
    shoer shoer 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I really want to marry interracially. I'm 100% African, so I'm just thinking we need a little bit of something in my family.
    PanicAtTheDiscount PanicAtTheDiscount 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I want to experience an inter-racial marriage. I'm 100% white, and I'm ready for something different in my life.
    shoer shoer 41-45, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I feel like, everyone should just date as marry whoever you want. No one can tell you who to love, you choose who you do and do not love! Don't let others tell you who to love, I...
    TheBlazingRedAugust TheBlazingRedAugust 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'd like to experience an inter-racial relationship. I'm 100% white, and I'm ready for the next step in my life.
    shoer shoer 41-45, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Why should I? Strange that at one time all humans were one race and skin color, Black! That was so long ago that you don't remember.
    Maurelle Maurelle 22-25 5 days ago

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    It's just a waste of stress, we spend our whole lives trying to find happiness in another person, when there are a million happy things in this world. Find your own happiness.
    teejayy23 teejayy23 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Who are we to judge??? people need to mind their own business!
    tacomasr5 tacomasr5 51-55, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Tonight is another one of those nights where everything seems hopeless, without a light at the end of the tunnel. I try to cover it up but the cracks are beginning to show, again.
    nottobevelealed nottobevelealed 16-17, F Mar 30

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    Well, if you want to get technical, I still am. I'm still in and out of a few of the shelters in my area. However, I know this is a temporary situation that was meant to teach me...
    Mariposa85 Mariposa85 26-30, F