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I Have Learned A Lot From My Past Failed Relationships

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    Well, I am 14 years old. Most of the people will definetly say "You're just a kid" "You don't know what Love is" "You are immature" and all that. But I do fall in Love. And when I do I fall hard. My first boyfriend. He was a Ethiopian. I fell for his Personality. His gorgeous...
    Jan 10, 2013

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    That everything here is like real life.Sometime back ,a new member had joined but he left soon after saying E.p. was not the place for him.For him ,it was not a place to have fun...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Failed relationships totally change a person. I was once a loving, kind hearted person and now im cold hearted and it takes a while to get me trust you. I guess i learned it from...
    verox3 verox3 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Gonna see my two young children Monday after almost 6 months,only problem is my ex wife insists she sticks around during the visit,I have learned forgiveness is very liberating...
    TommyTunes71 TommyTunes71 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 6

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    For the better and the worse. Essentially, failed relationships show you the error of your ways if you are wise enough.
    Li1981 Li1981 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I am sure failed relationships do change people. Adds things like trust issues, insecurity, anxiety, and even depression. I have tried to connect with him for years and he keeps...
    Lanie42 Lanie42 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 11

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    I have learned to take everything day by day. Nothing is ever going to be perfect. I have learned that your family is the most important thing. I have learned, nothing is better...
    OwnWhoYouAre OwnWhoYouAre 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Become a victualler.A victualler makes food and different provides within the game, that have effects almost like potions. Food ingredients and wood, like alchemic ingredients...
    mmogooglegame mmogooglegame 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I have no problem with interracial relationships. My mother was white, my dad was black. They were happily married, and then my dad passed away. She doesn't want no other man. I...
    xoxoMeowliciousxoxo xoxoMeowliciousxoxo 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    I gave my all in my previous relationships. I was cheated on an taken advantage of. Now, I am guarded. I believe that we should be a team. But, still have the trust and give...
    lulusgurl32 lulusgurl32 51-55, F Jul 12

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    Its a timeline for all of us, time doesn't heal - it justs allows us to develop better coping mechanisms. Its been nearly a year and a half for me, still think about her every day...
    TDH1980 TDH1980 31-35, M Jul 11

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    Why is now in days that we (people in general), always have to find a way to prove our undying love for one another? What happen to " I LOVE YOU", or "YOU MEAN SO MUCH TO ME? I...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    Worst night of my life... One of my closest friends ended a six year relationship with his high school sweetheart and really needed a shoulder to lean on which I was of course...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    April 27, 2011 my work called and told me to stay home for the day because bad weather was expected. I began watching the local news at 9:00 AM. I have an obsession with tracking...
    reelman4372 reelman4372 31-35, M 8 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend and soon to be fiancé is white. I'm Filipina. We're both from Chicago and we are like 2 peas in a pod. However he's Nascar and field and stream and I'm Like Carrie...
    mnorth72 mnorth72 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Learned my lesson when I let someone in. I just want things to go back to how they were. Its hard though, you get used to having someone. I think Im almost back to the way I was...
    ButencioX ButencioX 16-17, M Jul 5

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    I have been fighting this feeling for my entire life, sorting out what emotions are mine and what emotions are coming from those around me. I guess I was just scared that it would...
    Hiddenoutside Hiddenoutside 22-25, F Jul 22

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    I hate being judge by people mostly whites just because the color of my skin. Just because I'm black some people are just quick to judge and base me on other black females. We are...
    SimplyAmazingx SimplyAmazingx 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Love is awesome, problem is it's deeper than deep! That's why people can't help to mingle with another from a different walk of life.
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have to say , I love it , I find it sexy, something about the it, the color contrast is so sexual. I was stationed in Georgia for a few years. I had this room mate for a few...
    limehouse limehouse 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I am a white British girl with a half Filipino mother and an English father. I've always been attracted to Asian guys and this has always been a problem because most Asian families...
    shannen4 shannen4 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    So.. Me and this guy dated 2 months and within that 2 months we broke up twice. Yesterday I told him I still love him and I wanna work things out. (Am I stupid for that) he said he...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 7

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    well i feel that people need to understand that were all humans with just different genetic traits . The only race there is, is the human race so why not be with some one...
    Aniceguyforyou Aniceguyforyou 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    They're there but I don't have regrets. You learn from everything. Once you've been to the bottom the top never felt so good.
    ashbomb132 ashbomb132 13-15, F Jul 16

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    My gramma hates when I date nonblack guys. It's actually pretty amusing to me. Sometimes people's ignorance baffles me so much that I can't help but laugh. I dont have à préf...
    laurielala11 laurielala11 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    Why should I have a right to judge someone else's relationship based on their race?
    GemmaWeasley GemmaWeasley 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Am i the only one who have trusting issues?! :( It seriously sucks who ever i trust just let me down and they dont worth to be trusted am i fool and dump? Am really tired if...
    sollloo sollloo 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Just because I girl as a pretty face doesn't mean she has a nice persontily or heart and I don't go by looks I go by how you talk and your persontily. A girl can have a pretty face...
    vertffy vertffy 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    It's been pretty easy to cope with for a very long time, thanks to the fact that I stopped self-medicating years ago! But lately, it's been harder and harder to even think I'm a...
    TtotheD TtotheD 56-60, M Jul 18

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    From 5 or 6 years old my dad best me up and raped me. And would always say I was a waste of space and compleatly useless. This happened till I was nearly 11 when I went to the cops...
    misaka12 misaka12 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I got in a car wreck 2 years ago august 21st. This man ran a red light, and ran into our car. Our light had just turned green and I wasn't wearing a seat belt. Hit the wind shield...
    chase1990 chase1990 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    But right now I feel like I'm in a really good patch. I have a good job, uni is going alright and I actually have some friends. I have been getting some negative thoughts lately...
    KateyCake KateyCake 18-21, F Jul 6

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    There's a monster inside of me. Yes, a monster. It's not some fairytale creature with large fangs, or a hairy body, no. It's real. I can feel it festering inside of me. It is me...
    edlineuser edlineuser 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I was once in a relationship that ended in me being a therapist
    thatonerandomguy thatonerandomguy 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Mine sure did. I don't believe in happy endings anymore.
    bittersweetsourandsalty bittersweetsourandsalty 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    Yes, they do. They eliminate garbage, they set the standards for what it is you need
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F Jul 6

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    Recriminations and emotional scars... I told you so's echo in your mind. Like an oyster you add another layer....
    Paca24 Paca24 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Lyrics that you hope never apply to you, but alas! In dreams I meet you in warm conversation We both wake in lonely beds in different cities And time is taking its sweet time...
    SEDONA83 SEDONA83 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    It's a nice yet strange feeling knowing that you're not alone in certain events & that people are in the same boat as you, it's even better when they wish to talk to you too.
    KMargatroid KMargatroid 16-17, F Jul 5

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    you fi careful A di people yuh know Caz nuff a dem nuh real, dem a foe You fi careful A di places yuh go Be careful a di faces you know You fi careful A di friends weh you keep...
    ladyebugg ladyebugg 18-21, F Jul 12

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    This app is a great to share stuff and get advice!
    Magicfan1110 Magicfan1110 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    My mom seems to though. She was mad that John Legend wrote All of Me for his white wife. I see no problem in this. They love each other, that's it.
    mandarin125 mandarin125 13-15, F 10 Responses Jul 6

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    infact i encourage it!!!!!!!
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 8

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    Well don't go to lousiaianna that place is a **** hole and their jails sucks
    idkAndrew idkAndrew 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    I'm in an interracial relationship at the moment. I'm Sam-Alison and the guy in front is my boyfriend, Kris. I love him very, very much. #Swirl.
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 12 Responses Jul 19

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    If you feel the earth would be better off with less people then by all means leave it. I don't condone suicide but I definitely don't condone mass homicide. People are crazy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 21

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    I'm in an interracial relationship right now. As a matter of fact I've liked black men for many years now. Still trying to figure out how I ended up with a white kid lol.
    bird75 bird75 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 22