I Have Learned Military Love Is Difficult

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 176 People

    Feeling lonely tonight.

    ..whenever our routine changes...I worry. So hard not being able to have him hold me at night...and wake up I'm his arms...I really miss that.....
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456
    46-50, F
    Oct 14, 2014

    Trying to figure out what to do when

    and if I get out of the Navy and my significant other wants me to stay in.
    dandanrevolution dandanrevolution
    31-35, M
    2 Responses May 25, 2014

    Choppy Fairytale

    My boyfriend is currently deployed in Afghanistan.  Our story is far from a fairytale. I met him in March the day before his birthday. I was dating someone else at the time so we just hung out a lot and got to know each other as friends. A few weeks later I was single and we...
    Derrysgirl Derrysgirl
    18-21, F
    Nov 28, 2010

    I do believe that military love is difficult.

    Imagine not knowing from one day or the next if he/she is called to a meeting on the other side of the US, Never really knowing when he/she walks out the door that just may be the last time you saw him alive. Let alone if he/she get called to go on a classified deployment, not...
    ruledbyvenus ruledbyvenus
    56-60, F
    1 Response Mar 19, 2014

    The Start Of A Long Year

    Well my soldier is now gone, he left thrsday January 20th 2011. It feels as if it has been forever but Im excited to get this over with! I miss him so much! I am so thnkful to know that you all have an idea of what this is like. I know so much is ahead of the past two days and Im...
    armyangel17 armyangel17
    18-21, F
    Jan 22, 2011

    I Am In Love With A Military Man Who Is In Europe For Two Years

    It is very hard.  I met him 17 months ago after he already signed for Europe and we fell in love after he signed up.  I am going through all the emotions of him being in Europe for three years and one year has passed.   I have also lived through  and experienced his...
    nikki290 nikki290
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2011

    Chance Of Relationship Failor Taking Its Toll.

    lately i have found myself reading more and more stories about navy relationships failing once their men get to navy a school, or if their in another branch when they get to their second level of training. it has had its effect on me where i am scared to get letters now! im...
    emlove emlove
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 3, 2011

    How True

    I've been in the military for about 5-6 years and find it hard to find and keep a partner. For one reason or another something ruins it. I've been single for just over 2 years now. It hasn't been all that bad a few fun times in between sure, but I'm getting tired of it. I deploy...
    icewolf1989 icewolf1989
    26-30, M
    Apr 7, 2013

    Navy Boyfriend

      Justen and I started out as highschool friends.. He decided to join the navy and him and I would drink together and would talk .... I was dating one of his bestfriends in highschool so him and I never went to the next level or talked to eachother about liking eachother...
    JustensGirl JustensGirl
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 25, 2009

    I Am An Mp's Girlfriend At Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri

    my soldier is at fort leonard wood, missouri and returns home on november 13th...it has been tough but our love is army strong
    hottchicka09 hottchicka09
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 1, 2009

    My boyfriend is enlisting into the navy

    after we graduate. We live 40 mins away already and see each other once a week if not any. He's moving either 13 hours away or 9 hours away in a few months and it scares me. But I know we can get through anything.
    KristyLux KristyLux
    22-25, F
    Jan 31, 2014

    My Experience Dating Military, A Story That's Far Too Common

    I decided to write this because I grow weary of hearing the same story over and over. I feel very fortunate because I dodged a bullet. And didn’t end up like so many other poor women who’s lives have been left in disarray. I wish someone had done me a favor and warned me...
    Idkwhy2 Idkwhy2
    Jul 6, 2011
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