I hear Christian-educated people worry that they cannot love the one that hurt them.
Well, this is what I think: if you want to be true to yourself and not live a lie in which you wear a smiling face but feel hatred inside, don't try to force the feeling, just allow for...
I really did carry a lot of resentment around toward a lot of people and the system that never did anything to help me and has failed countless others.
Now I am trying to be a part of the solution versus bitching about the problem all the time.
This is a never-ending process, though. And I haven't let go of rebellious thoughts.
But as Malachy McCourt said "resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die.”
You can't make free decisions if resentment...