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I Have Lost My Sex Drive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 36 People

    Why?

    Why is the logo for this group a cute lil guinea pig? aaww...
    nicorley nicorley
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Dec 9, 2007

    I am 26 years old and have been with my husband

    for 10 years, but married for only 3 years. I have been struggling with my sex drive for some time now and after having my daughter 2 years ago it has gotten worse. I have talked to doctors and tried varies things to get the fire back but nothing helps. It is putting a strain on...
    danni811 danni811
    26-30, F
    Dec 29, 2013

    I Am Married

    i am a hetero female who is married to a male. The only way I can ****** is to think of girls. I dont cosider myself a lesbian because I have no emotional attraction to females but I am rarely sexually attracted to men other than my husband and even when Im with my husband...
    browneyedme browneyedme
    18-21
    Jun 30, 2009

    Vitamin B12 And Zinc

    b12 and zinc tablets from your local health store are supposed to help in regaining your labido, mine comes and goes alot and i asked the doc about it and he said there was some evidence that vitamin b12 and zinc helps
    drippy72 drippy72
    41-45, M
    1 Response Nov 5, 2012

    Odd

    I lost sex drive after being married for some time. Our sex life became stale and my husband just was too tired all the time to have anything but basic sex. I then met someone online that brought back my drive. He was very romantic, intimate and passionate. It was fun for a while...
    LovelyPrincess31 LovelyPrincess31
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2012

    22 Years Old And No Sex Drive

    I been married three years and lately i have no interest in having sex. i can go month with out being intimate. I am a mother of two and work out of the house five days out of the week. but still i find myself with no sexual drive and is hard when you are married to someone that...
    mirell295 mirell295
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 2, 2010

    20 Years Old With Low Sex Drive

    Hello, I understand that pregnancy, birth control pills, and experiences of molestation, rape, or trauma can all affect your sex drive. However, I fall into NONE of these categories. I am just a normal 20 year old girl who can only ****** if I am watching **** or using my...
    imcomingback0 imcomingback0
    18-21
    May 30, 2010

    I Don't Even Miss It.

    After my ex broke up with me, I naively thought giving sex to men would make them love me. How pathetic... Now I have felt so used and tainted by it all, I've lost all sex drive. I'm numb, ice cold, Mrs Happy is asleep, my **** is out of order. I don't even ******* care. Or maybe...
    DancingFox DancingFox
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Apr 21, 2011

    How Do I Get It Back???

    Maybe losing my sex drive isn't really such a bad thing, considering I'm in a relationship with a man who has a super low drive himself. Thing is, I miss it!  I feel like the most important part of me has died.   My high libido and sex drive was a huge part...
    Creamsicle Creamsicle
    41-45, F
    9 Responses Apr 3, 2009

    Does No Sex Lead To No Sex Drive?

    I have been in a marriage for 20+ years and sex was always difficult. I believe now that my husband was never interested, but participated in obligatory sex as the duty of a husband. The sex was never good and so now by mutual consent, we have no sex. This situation is sad, but...
    Ivane Ivane
    56-60, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2013

    Thanks

    I never had an ****** with a partner until I met him.I can't even ********** now without crying. Seriously?? How ****** up is that?? I wish I was over him. I wish I could just forget him. Thanks for being such a great friend that you don't even want me to call. Really??? 
    NeopolitanSkye NeopolitanSkye
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 22, 2012

    No Real Sex Drive

    I started out bi.  Went to gay.  Went back to bi for a couple years and now I just feel asexual.  I have fantasies about people but I'm happy with keeping it at that.  I have no urge to really date or hook-up with anyone.  I am only 31, feel like I'm to...
    atvnative atvnative
    31-35
    Sep 21, 2008

    Uh-oh...

    It came back briefly. Then went again. Fickle thing.
    DancingFox DancingFox
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2011

    How Do I Fix This Problem?

     I have zero desire.  part of it is low self esteem.  I feel so ugly and old that I can't imagine anyone finding me desirable, even my husband of 14 years.  But I am afraid if I don't do something SOON I may loose him.   The other part is the usual...
    ladydewinter ladydewinter
    36-40
    1 Response Aug 21, 2009

    :(

    Not sure how or why it happend, but it did. I've lost interest in sex. With my husband, myself, nobody nothing. It's so sad I was such a sexual person and now it's like someone turned off a switch in me and I have no interest. I have talked to my doctor, a therapist etc nothing...
    VivianDrkBloom VivianDrkBloom
    31-35, F
    Nov 3, 2012

    Willing To Do Anything That Will Give Intimacy Back In Our Relationship.

    My guy friend and partner was diagnosed with peyronie disease about a year ago. His difficulties in keeping an erection have turned me off.  I have lost my sex drive completely.  He still tries but I can no longer respond and it creates tension.  We are now sleeping in...
    frilled2b frilled2b
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jan 23, 2012
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