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I Have Lost My Sex Drive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 36 People

    22 Years Old And No Sex Drive

    I been married three years and lately i have no interest in having sex. i can go month with out being intimate. I am a mother of two and work out of the house five days out of the week. but still i find myself with no sexual drive and is hard when you are married to someone that...
    mirell295 mirell295
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 2, 2010


    Not sure how or why it happend, but it did. I've lost interest in sex. With my husband, myself, nobody nothing. It's so sad I was such a sexual person and now it's like someone turned off a switch in me and I have no interest. I have talked to my doctor, a therapist etc nothing...
    VivianDrkBloom VivianDrkBloom
    31-35, F
    Nov 3, 2012

    I Am Married

    i am a hetero female who is married to a male. The only way I can ****** is to think of girls. I dont cosider myself a lesbian because I have no emotional attraction to females but I am rarely sexually attracted to men other than my husband and even when Im with my husband...
    browneyedme browneyedme
    Jun 30, 2009

    No Real Sex Drive

    I started out bi.  Went to gay.  Went back to bi for a couple years and now I just feel asexual.  I have fantasies about people but I'm happy with keeping it at that.  I have no urge to really date or hook-up with anyone.  I am only 31, feel like I'm to...
    atvnative atvnative
    Sep 21, 2008

    Vitamin B12 And Zinc

    b12 and zinc tablets from your local health store are supposed to help in regaining your labido, mine comes and goes alot and i asked the doc about it and he said there was some evidence that vitamin b12 and zinc helps
    drippy72 drippy72
    41-45, M
    1 Response Nov 5, 2012

    I am 26 years old and have been with my husband

    for 10 years, but married for only 3 years. I have been struggling with my sex drive for some time now and after having my daughter 2 years ago it has gotten worse. I have talked to doctors and tried varies things to get the fire back but nothing helps. It is putting a strain on...
    danni811 danni811
    26-30, F
    Dec 29, 2013

    Does No Sex Lead To No Sex Drive?

    I have been in a marriage for 20+ years and sex was always difficult. I believe now that my husband was never interested, but participated in obligatory sex as the duty of a husband. The sex was never good and so now by mutual consent, we have no sex. This situation is sad, but...
    Ivane Ivane
    56-60, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2013


    Why is the logo for this group a cute lil guinea pig? aaww...
    nicorley nicorley
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Dec 9, 2007

    20 Years Old With Low Sex Drive

    Hello, I understand that pregnancy, birth control pills, and experiences of molestation, rape, or trauma can all affect your sex drive. However, I fall into NONE of these categories. I am just a normal 20 year old girl who can only ****** if I am watching **** or using my...
    imcomingback0 imcomingback0
    May 30, 2010

    How Do I Fix This Problem?

     I have zero desire.  part of it is low self esteem.  I feel so ugly and old that I can't imagine anyone finding me desirable, even my husband of 14 years.  But I am afraid if I don't do something SOON I may loose him.   The other part is the usual...
    ladydewinter ladydewinter
    1 Response Aug 21, 2009


    I never had an ****** with a partner until I met him.I can't even ********** now without crying. Seriously?? How ****** up is that?? I wish I was over him. I wish I could just forget him. Thanks for being such a great friend that you don't even want me to call. Really??? 
    NeopolitanSkye NeopolitanSkye
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 22, 2012


    I lost sex drive after being married for some time. Our sex life became stale and my husband just was too tired all the time to have anything but basic sex. I then met someone online that brought back my drive. He was very romantic, intimate and passionate. It was fun for a while...
    LovelyPrincess31 LovelyPrincess31
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2012

    I Don't Even Miss It.

    After my ex broke up with me, I naively thought giving sex to men would make them love me. How pathetic... Now I have felt so used and tainted by it all, I've lost all sex drive. I'm numb, ice cold, Mrs Happy is asleep, my **** is out of order. I don't even ******* care. Or maybe...
    DancingFox DancingFox
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Apr 21, 2011


    It came back briefly. Then went again. Fickle thing.
    DancingFox DancingFox
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2011

    How Do I Get It Back???

    Maybe losing my sex drive isn't really such a bad thing, considering I'm in a relationship with a man who has a super low drive himself. Thing is, I miss it!  I feel like the most important part of me has died.   My high libido and sex drive was a huge part...
    Creamsicle Creamsicle
    41-45, F
    9 Responses Apr 3, 2009

    Willing To Do Anything That Will Give Intimacy Back In Our Relationship.

    My guy friend and partner was diagnosed with peyronie disease about a year ago. His difficulties in keeping an erection have turned me off.  I have lost my sex drive completely.  He still tries but I can no longer respond and it creates tension.  We are now sleeping in...
    frilled2b frilled2b
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jan 23, 2012
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