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I Have Lost Someone To Violence

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    I Still Miss Him...

     He was 17. We had gone to grade school and part of junior high together. He was one of the sweetest persons you would have ever met. He was car jacked, shot & killed, and his body thrown in a dumpster. Over his "rims." His mom went across the street to check out the...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    Robbie 1990-2009

    last year (2009) i graduated from high school. it was so nice to be out and have it over with.  in july, everyone was getting ready for collage, some people had even left already, we lost a dear dear friend. three young men decide to rob a local ice cream shop. they came in...
    dragongoddess dragongoddess 18-21, F Oct 20, 2010

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