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I Have Loved And Have Lost

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    It Wasn'T Our Fault. - I hate using the word "love." Mostly because people don't really think you know what love is. I know that when my friends tell me they love someone, I don't...
    lshirley lshirley 18-21, F Apr 8, 2013

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    It'S Better - It's better to have loved and lost than to be in torment the rest of your natural life, with the wrong person. I've only lost the loves who were bad for me. Most of...
    Goslyn Goslyn 31-35, T Jun 30, 2013

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    A Heart For Each Love - Like many who have reached my age, I have had the opportunity to have loved and lost several times. I rarely stop loving someone -- the depth and intensity...
    Monarch64 Monarch64 41-45, F Jan 23, 2012

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    Loved And Lost My Soulmate - If you truly love someone, you do not love that person one day and not the next.True love lasts for a lifetime and beyond.I miss you so much.Tears...
    captivehearts captivehearts 51-55 1 Response Feb 14, 2013

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    Obsessed And I Don't Even Know You - I don't know if I've met you yet. All I know is I go day to day wondering when you'll come into my life. My dearest love, I haven't even met...
    Lex8track Lex8track 22-25, M Sep 14, 2013

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    Private Emotion - ¨We are done¨I dont want to admit but i have to..I need to start waking up in the morning not thinking about you, I need to close my eyes at night without the...
    sweetnovember19 sweetnovember19 26-30, F Jun 4, 2012

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    Love.....At A Glimpse - I fell in love with this boy, and he with me. We never had a chance, to get to know each other, to hold one another, to make love, never kissed, never told...
    NeverRose NeverRose 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Part Four: Moving On...a Long And Bumpy Road - (NOTE: I added "Parts" to my stories as some of you were getting confused. I am kind of writing a time line of my love life. Don...
    ryboy50 ryboy50 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 6, 2011

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    PART TWO: My First Love - Rie - Rie, my high school sweetheart. She was a cheerleader, I was a football player. We were the perfect couple. She was a princess in every sense. She...
    ryboy50 ryboy50 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 29, 2011

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    Black Tangled Heart - He kissed me passionately....hugged me tightly... cuddle me warmthly and love me tenderly. The feeling was euphoric, I was young he was sweet and it was...
    sweetnovember19 sweetnovember19 26-30, F Jun 3, 2012

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    Holding On - The worst feeling in the world is when you can't love anyone else because You're heart still belongs to the one who broke it 3
    Tooheartlessx3 Tooheartlessx3 18-21, F Jul 31, 2011

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    Falling For This Guy Broke My Heart - I fell in love with a guy in my class. We started university together. We are in the same group. When we first met we were friends. I always...
    alexdublin alexdublin 26-30, M Jul 15, 2013

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    PART ONE: Crazy Little Thing Called Love - I don’t want to say I have bad luck when it comes to love. Let’s just say, it hasn’t been easy. I’ve been in love three times in...
    ryboy50 ryboy50 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 28, 2011

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    Good things come to an end so that better things can fall into place
    ems177 ems177 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Everything Makes Sense Now - After watching a movie i realized what it means to be in love and the length that you will do to be with that person. I finally realized that he didnt...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 19, 2013

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    Clingy - Uh I've waited a long time to find a good guy and now that i found one he is amazing and treats me so good but he is very smuthering and wants to take me every where and...
    Tooheartlessx3 Tooheartlessx3 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    When I Was 15... - I met the person I believe was my soulmate. Joshua. I know I was young but now that I'm 28 I still feel that way sooooo.... Being somewhat popular in high school...
    Stillafloat83 Stillafloat83 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2011

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    Rise And Fall Of The Tides - Just like the rise and fall of the ocean's tides, I have loved, and I have lost. I was only a kid when I began to feel that intense feeling of wanting...
    MidnightMustang MidnightMustang 22-25 1 Response Aug 3, 2013

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    Forgotten - Someday you will forget about me, my name, my voice, who I am and who I was to you. But even if you still totally forget about me, I just want you to know that I will...
    Tooheartlessx3 Tooheartlessx3 18-21, F Aug 1, 2011

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    Heartbroken &Amp; Devastated - So to give you guys a little background story into our relationship, I knew my ex all through my adolescent years and we were always very good...
    pugs390 pugs390 22-25, F Jun 28, 2013

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    Forgetting - I know it's going to be hard to forget you. But, eventually I will.
    Tooheartlessx3 Tooheartlessx3 18-21, F Aug 1, 2011

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    /: - Tbh love ***** you over, you spent time putting your heart out there and then someone can just break it. Its like dammmn you can love someone with all your heart and they'll...
    Icanthelpet Icanthelpet 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2011

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    It's Been Six Years Since I Lost My Love, And I Still Cannot Move On. - I do not believe I will ever be able to move on with my life. How long can a person mourn for someone? He...
    miles2gob4isleep miles2gob4isleep 56-60, F 5 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    Need Something? - Need something valuable ? Then just follow me, I have a tendency to lose everything I ever wanted..
    Tooheartlessx3 Tooheartlessx3 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    The Truth... - I may or may not have told anyone, I might not have made it clear. so here it goes, my short story. When I was fifteen, I fell in love. we both wanted each other...
    NeverRose NeverRose 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    PART THREE: My Second Love - Kimilyn - The second love of my life was Kimilyn. I was partnered with her on a Japanese project during my second semester of college. We needed to do...
    ryboy50 ryboy50 22-25, M 8 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    Lost You - I was just a fool , a fool for you . . . didn't know what I had , until I lost you . <3
    Tooheartlessx3 Tooheartlessx3 18-21, F Aug 4, 2011

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    On Being In Love - I wonder if I'm in love with the idea of being in love. Having been through a few things, I've promised never to fall in love again. Yet, I find myself drawn...
    sundragon sundragon 41-45, M Aug 23, 2012

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    Cold Lamenting -  It's cold today..But then, i've been cold since you left,The sun is out yet I shiver fully clothed in bed... Our Cat at my feet, I sweat though am chilled.I...
    nate2501 nate2501 26-30, M May 1, 2012

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    Looking Back - Some time I sit and wonder if she still thinks of me from time to time, I try to stop thing of those days for they all weren’t all happy days. Why would I think of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    I Am Really Bad At This Stuff, And It's Tearing Me Apart.... - I am torn in half right now. My most recent ex is making this day quite hard to get through. She can be a...
    Ritual1985 Ritual1985 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    Thoughts. - You have done nothing but string me along for years and now I'm left here all alone, picking up the pieces. We could have had something really special, but you've...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 19, 2013

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    Love And Its Bittersweet Memoir... - Sometimes losing your love is like pouring a drink outside of your glass. You know there was something in there, you can still smell it and...
    mikemmie mikemmie 31-35, F 2 Responses May 21, 2013

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    Miserable - There is a saying that it is better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all. I have to disagree with that sentiment. This is my perception, my...
    reteod reteod 41-45, M Dec 16, 2012

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    I Have Loved And Lost - I have loved and lost. But if I didn't love, I would loose even more. So in a way I won. I'm not even sure I lost in the first place. By the way - I'm...
    Clothed Clothed 41-45, M Apr 7, 2013

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    Back To Square One - Well me and my guy are no longer together. i found out he was cheating on me. And yes...another 14 year old. He's confused, because I gave him permission to...
    fallenpandora fallenpandora 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    Racing With A Ghost - I saw her walking in lightness through the dark. I called to her; she could not hear. Or else, perhaps, she did not care. I followed her into the night, I...
    kehnn kehnn 36-40, M Jul 27, 2013

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    Part Five: Noe - My Third Love - (WARNING: THIS IS A LOONNNNGGGG ONE) Noelani was the third girl I fell in love with. As stated in my previous story, after the sudden and tragic...
    ryboy50 ryboy50 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 2, 2011

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    But it's not supposed to hurt. Dissonance between the person I loved in my head and the real person who made me feel like I meant nothing at all. The end.
    xSCARx xSCARx 26-30, F Apr 1

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    Babysitter Blues- So when I was little, around 6. I had already developed my lust for tickling. My parents were also really into tickling as well, so you could say it was a family...
    Strangerhood Strangerhood 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    Kilig, it's always been your decision. If I can't then I won't. Which temple is my next question, apparently.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 18

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    I think I am beginning to understand how to act & take responsibility for myself like a real man would. (21 M). Since moving in with roommates I always used to feel "below" them...
    Mcgregor117 Mcgregor117 18-21, M Mar 22

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    To ache for them but knowing you can't ever mention how you feel. Suspecting they feel the same but being stuck to someone you don't love anymore. Looking for them every...
    Valtielislord Valtielislord 18-21, M Apr 3

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    That love doesn't seem to be two ways. His attention is the only attention that matters, but he ignores me. When I bring it up he shoots me down by name calling.
    vattpregs vattpregs 26-30, F Apr 3

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    As you can tell by the subject, I love tickling. I don't want any weird conversations or role playing, I'm just curious about how it has affected other people's lives.
    Noneofyourbiznit Noneofyourbiznit 18-21, M Apr 7

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    Anyone who looks at my page can see that I have been through some hard things. I battle depression; I am a cutter; I've had a suicide attempt; I loved someone that didn't love me...
    Imhurtingtoo Imhurtingtoo 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I've always been asking myself if it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. As a very young child, I still remembered I had two great friends. Friends...
    EndSeeker EndSeeker 18-21, M Apr 7

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    not so long ago i fond some one how under stud me and the week ans years went by i fell moor and moor for him i should of let go my heart only bets for him. i have loved him four 5...
    bratey bratey 16-17 Mar 28

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    It's been almost an hour since I received the news of my grandma about her health. My family and I have known few months ago her health has gotten worst and the doctor said she has...
    raldy raldy 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I've been feeling like I need to share this experience because I have been struggling with it occasionally since I have found out about it. This experience is because of a guy I...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I went skating tonight and saw the guy I have had a huge crush on for weeks. I knew he was pretty mad, I wasn't sure why, I am an aggravating person in all so i am always making...
    SaphiraJane SaphiraJane 16-17, F Mar 16

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    Let me introduce myself. I'm 17th and I'm from Indonesia. Sorry if my English not really good. There's a guy in my school. I know him since we're 7th grade at junior high. He is...
    loveforroyals loveforroyals 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 16