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I Have Loved Someone So Much It Hurt

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    As You Wish Cowboy!

    I love him with all my heart and soul!  He is the man of my dreams even if he doesn't think he is.   I know how amazing he is.  He is the man that will see someone upset and give them a smile and a friendly hello!  He is the man that sees good in...
    tks tks 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    It Hurt

     I loved him for four years, and when he finally asked me, I wasn't sure if I could do it, but I said yes, and one year later, he left me. He's now with my best friend, and they've been together for almost a year, and he loves her, and I can't stop loving him.
    Tiana Tiana 16-17 6 Responses Jan 25, 2009

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    That love doesn't seem to be two ways.

    His attention is the only attention that matters, but he ignores me. When I bring it up he shoots me down by name calling.
    vattpregs vattpregs 26-30, F Apr 3

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    WALKED ON BROKEN GLASS AND IT REALLY HURT

    ive been in love with this guy for 10 yrs now...and he does not love me back...im sure he cares for me...just not the way i want him to...we dated for a short time...but realized that we were better off as friends...oh yeah...we lived together...even after our breakup...i told...
    ginatude ginatude 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    Yeahh I Got That

    I'm not really sure if it was love or not... he is my first kiss... man of my dream... all in him physically my dream man.. my first boyfriend.. he is patient.. most gentle.. and have sexiest lips ever... we have 1 year realtionship...then he said it has to finished.. no reason...
    jadebite jadebite 31-35, F 2 Responses May 25, 2010

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    I Hurt Him So I Am Hurt

    I hurt my boyfriend so bad, i cheated on him and he some how found out. I didnt mean to do it. I was holding on to an anger from a mis-understanding. I thought he was cheating on me and felt so hurt i went out and cheated on him. As it turns out he wasnt cheating on me and i was...
    julierabbit julierabbit 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    Why Do I Feel So Guilty???..

    My lover of a year and 3 months and I are not talking. The reason being is because he says he is very busy, which I understand but he was with another female at the pool. I haven't confronted him about it and I doubt that I will because I feel like, that it's not my place to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 7, 2012

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    To ache for them but knowing you can't ever

    mention how you feel. Suspecting they feel the same but being stuck to someone you don't love anymore. Looking for them every morning you go into work, that girl who lights up the very room with her presence. That makes the miserable grind of work bearable with her jokes...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 3

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    But I love You! Take just one look around me and tell me what you see? Your reflection and my broken hearted me. You claim to love me, but you hurt me at the same time. You say...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    I know you can never let go of your so called best friend. I know you still have feelings for her, I know you still love her. Why did you stay with me and see me get hurt? It's...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    GingerSlimSTL GingerSlimSTL 13-15, M Aug 4

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    atarod atarod 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 5

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    I love someone who don't love me. I fell in love when I am 14. I love her madly. She was my classmate who cheeled up with frnds an also popular in the school. At first I hate her...
    paulsneha paulsneha 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Last February I was eating a sandwitch when my stomach started to hurt. Like any other human being I went to the bathroom to relieve myself. When I was done I got up, wiped till I...
    TheIdentified TheIdentified 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 31

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    Lauren, my love, I'd wish I scooped you off your feet so long around, twirled you around and made you laugh until your stomach hurt. Now when you laugh, mine does in a far less...
    ItsAlexYay ItsAlexYay 13-15, T Aug 13

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    I understand now, what it means to live without. I will not stop missing you And I cannot prevent the dreaming of dreams For yours is one that never fades I think of...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 22-25 a week ago

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    To be honest I have always been a good girl. Good grades, a good person, always trying to do what I thought was right. But then I met him. Not exactly in the way most people meet...
    rachel13124 rachel13124 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    He was older. He was my friends brother. And oh every girl in school must of wanted him. And gosh I thought I could never impress him. He made me want to like cars and motorcycles...
    Cozie Cozie 13-15, F 9 Responses Aug 5

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    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 5 Responses Aug 10

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    It's been about 8 month now, that I cling to a guy that doesn't love me back. At first he even wanted something, but hen somehow I managed to ruin that feeling and everything...
    dragonkin9 dragonkin9 26-30, F Aug 4

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    I miss so much that I cried, but I know I shouldn't miss him. I wish I can delete last week memories.
    KimVouch KimVouch 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Okay so I was in love with my best friend problem is he is also the (best friend of my ex),which is probably the worst thing ever but my ex didn't love me anyway so I guess that...
    maryamtssn24 maryamtssn24 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    SpeakUpNow SpeakUpNow 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I know this as every girl i fall in love with,she never loved me not even a little bit. They mostly thought i am a person who wanted to hear love words from but never acted same...
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    gugly14 gugly14 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    bd693 bd693 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    Dear Geoff, i waited two years to kiss your lips. I feel for you as soon as our eyes locked many years ago. I told you all my secrets, all my dreams, and gave you all of myself...
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