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I Have Loved Someone So Much It Hurt

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    But it's not supposed to hurt.

    Dissonance between the person I loved in my head and the real person who made me feel like I meant nothing at all. The end.
    xSCARx xSCARx 26-30, F Apr 1

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    Why Do I Feel So Guilty???..

    My lover of a year and 3 months and I are not talking. The reason being is because he says he is very busy, which I understand but he was with another female at the pool. I haven't confronted him about it and I doubt that I will because I feel like, that it's not my place to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 7, 2012

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    To ache for them but knowing you can't ever

    mention how you feel. Suspecting they feel the same but being stuck to someone you don't love anymore. Looking for them every morning you go into work, that girl who lights up the very room with her presence. That makes the miserable grind of work bearable with her jokes...
    Valtielislord Valtielislord 18-21, M Apr 3

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    I Hurt Him So I Am Hurt

    I hurt my boyfriend so bad, i cheated on him and he some how found out. I didnt mean to do it. I was holding on to an anger from a mis-understanding. I thought he was cheating on me and felt so hurt i went out and cheated on him. As it turns out he wasnt cheating on me and i was...
    julierabbit julierabbit 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    It Hurt

     I loved him for four years, and when he finally asked me, I wasn't sure if I could do it, but I said yes, and one year later, he left me. He's now with my best friend, and they've been together for almost a year, and he loves her, and I can't stop loving him.
    Tiana Tiana 16-17 6 Responses Jan 25, 2009

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    That love doesn't seem to be two ways.

    His attention is the only attention that matters, but he ignores me. When I bring it up he shoots me down by name calling.
    vattpregs vattpregs 26-30, F Apr 3

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    As You Wish Cowboy!

    I love him with all my heart and soul!  He is the man of my dreams even if he doesn't think he is.   I know how amazing he is.  He is the man that will see someone upset and give them a smile and a friendly hello!  He is the man that sees good in...
    tks tks 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    WALKED ON BROKEN GLASS AND IT REALLY HURT

    ive been in love with this guy for 10 yrs now...and he does not love me back...im sure he cares for me...just not the way i want him to...we dated for a short time...but realized that we were better off as friends...oh yeah...we lived together...even after our breakup...i told...
    ginatude ginatude 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    Yeahh I Got That

    I'm not really sure if it was love or not... he is my first kiss... man of my dream... all in him physically my dream man.. my first boyfriend.. he is patient.. most gentle.. and have sexiest lips ever... we have 1 year realtionship...then he said it has to finished.. no reason...
    jadebite jadebite 31-35, F 2 Responses May 25, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    This is hard because I never really was able to talk about it til now. In 2011 I received a phone call on the 4th of July. A mom who was outraged with me had thought her son ran...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6

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    For any Demisexual people out there, you probably understand where I'm coming from when I say I've only truly loved someone once. I'm a Demisexual; and I can't fall in love without...
    SavedByMCR SavedByMCR 16-17, F Apr 10

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    It's not that I loved someone, but that I currently love someone who doesn't feel the same. We dated almost 2 years ago, and he was just so perfect. I actually thought that maybe...
    morganlynn95 morganlynn95 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    I loved someone that didn't loved me. He used to chat on me everyday. He used to tell me 'goodnight' evernight. He played guiter for me. He gave the big doll to me. He talked to...
    preawsm preawsm 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Everyone has their own "the one" - the person that you loved very much, but you cannot be with. And whoever you'll meet, whatever you'll do, nothing will be like it would be with...
    misterweirdo misterweirdo 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    When you find out, the guy that you loved so much and would do anything for turns out to be a complete jack ***! It suck, but at least i know now
    MsLouise MsLouise 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Even til this day my feelings are so strong for him... I loved him, I love him but looking back it's pretty clear that the feelings are not mutual he must have stayed with me out...
    LadyMayah LadyMayah 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    Here is a story i wrote that sums it up Once there was a red bird who warbled sweet melodies into the sky. One day, the little curious bird saw a darkened black shed and in it was...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I recently have met someone that is pretty amazing. It's like we automatically clicked from the start. I feel very lucky and fortunate to have found someone with such similar taste...
    ibtwiny619 ibtwiny619 22-25, F Mar 20

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    My life has been a constant battle in so many ways and i feel i will always have to battle to keep as stable as i can and to stay away from toxic people. I don't hate people that...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    This is a long story, i'm not sure if i'll write it out in much detail. I'll try though. First of all, i'd like to say i'm not looking for advice or anyone to feel bad for me. I...
    aJason23 aJason23 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    I like one of my best friends. I've liked her since I saw her in 7th grade, and now she is dating my best friend. I told her about how I feel, and she told me that she loved me as...
    ThePainedBoy ThePainedBoy 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 6

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    It still hurts. The pain. Though its not physical pain, at this point I think I'd rather take the physical pain. At least that does not last long. This love story of mine was short...
    ceetasha23 ceetasha23 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    I loved you. But you liked her. You liked my bestfriend whom i always talk about you everyday. You didnt know how hurt i feel that day when you told me that you liked her. I tried...
    panda2323 panda2323 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    We were together for two years and I swear I've never felt this way about anyone else. He is the love of my life...I can't ever deny that. I fought long and hard for our...
    chescafrxn chescafrxn 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    This happen in high school (of course) we hung out a lot, we did mostly everything together. It was hard saying goodbye when i was accepted to my college and we were going to be...
    dbelone11 dbelone11 26-30, M Mar 19

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    I hooked up with my best friends brother on vacation and he texted me the night we came back home. We continued to talk for two weeks constantly texting from the moment we woke up...
    Audreywhite Audreywhite 18-21, F Mar 22

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    I guess I can say I'm in love with someone who others say isn't the one for me and he's in love with a girl who has a boyfriend and you don't know how much it hurted to hear him...
    AnnaGurrl AnnaGurrl 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    She was my dearest friend and I loved her like I love all my close friends. We did everything together. She was like a sister to me. It still hurts me to know that while I'd have...
    engarde12 engarde12 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I lost my best friend who I was like in love with back in 2010 to a drunk driver. To lose someone you love is to alter your life forever. You don’t get over it because ‘it...
    krorenae krorenae 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I finally was able to see my son today and she was keeping him from me for a reason until the courts stepped in. She's with someone else the whole time I was supporting her giving...
    Romans12 Romans12 41-45, M Apr 6

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    I currently am in love with someone, a friend, who has a girlfriend he's been with for 2 years. It constantly hurts me to see him with her, but no matter how hard I try, I can't...
    IntoxicNeeds IntoxicNeeds 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I think because of this experience I had before is the reason I hardly like/crush on anyone. Since the person I loved only liked me as a friend(yes I know friend zoned) I just lost...
    TheConfusedOne321 TheConfusedOne321 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't know if I should still love them or not. "Them" was my best friend who got me through a majorly bad time in my life, and I was at the edge of committing suicide. She was...
    Alice1998 Alice1998 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I fell madly in love with this kid Hunter. Even after all the times that I was blown off at the movies or even blatantly lied to, I was still in love...part of me still is, but I...
    cmitchellichs cmitchellichs 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I don't think I can sit here and describe how I felt about her, I don't think I can sit here and go through the sea of memories, of everything we had, everything we were, relive...
    Rodleo Rodleo 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    Every time I like a guy or develop feelings for a guy or fall in love with a guy, I'm never liked back. Never. For once in my life, I want to be liked back. I want someone who...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 23 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate him !!! Why does he always have to hurt my heart ?!
    lurveruinsit lurveruinsit 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I love her. I wish she could see that she belongs with me. Her boyfriend treats her like dirt and it really makes me hurt. She's always on my mind, I barely have any time to rest...
    cyclingmaniac cyclingmaniac 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I was working at a theater when I met her, she was dating one of my friends, then one day the three of us went to Hollywood to try and land a movie job, we didn't get the part but...
    zigster86 zigster86 26-30, M 4 Responses Apr 1

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    You know what's the worst about this experience... How delusional you are. Don't get me wrong we were in a relationship but it was overblown on my end. I was just having so much...
    Es777 Es777 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I liked this guy for about 2 years. Tried to get to know him, tried to hang out with. I tried to show him that I was a good person. He was a great friend, I'm not going to lie.. He...
    BrookeLynn8994 BrookeLynn8994 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 21

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    Im with someone for 6 years but when she left philippines and work in UAE she broke up with me ..Now she's sending me message and keep on saying goodbye and sorry. All i can say is...
    mhoriz mhoriz 22-25 Mar 25

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    i just need to get my feelings out...so me and this guy were dating for a couple of months and he would always tell me he loved me, one day after we spent the night together and...
    BlueChapsGreen BlueChapsGreen 16-17, F 9 Responses Apr 8

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    Happened to me a few years back. I was his close friend, he will invite me on dinners etc, then one day he just said that he is courting this girl. I was so heartbroken, I was...
    marellamorton marellamorton 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I meet this girl who I got so close to I began to breath the air she breathed. I wanted to be so close to her all the time and when she went out with her friends I use to get so...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I sit in my room thinking of a way to change things, I'm in the friend zone of every girl I've ever wanted even the one I want now. I'm sick of being called bro and smelling your...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    same story as told before time was counted I suppose LOL.. been with him for 13 years, this year would have been 14.. i loved a man who taught me that not every man cares about...
    sister11 sister11 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I've given pretty much half of my life to this person but still feel like I'm just in his way he doesn't know how to live at lease that's how I feel
    kathy4104 kathy4104 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    The worst part is, I told her. And now she's gone. She hates me. She thinks I'm awful. I see her sometimes in town, and she avoids me. We were good friends, but I fell for her. I...
    DartfordMan DartfordMan 36-40, M 5 Responses Apr 6

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    We no longer communicate with one another. I will miss the person they were very much.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 5 days ago

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