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I Have Low Self Esteem

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    Will I Ever Change?

    It's weird how you can't take good advice, but you can dish it out full heartedly to people in need. All my life I have felt like the ugly duck just waiting for my shot to be the beautiful swan. Maybe it's just not what god had planned for me.. I'm not sure. On a good day I can...
    sadmercy sadmercy 18-21 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    I hate the fact that I'm a b-cup.

    . My sister is a DD and my mother is overweight but has to get her bras out of boxes at the store and my aunt has DD's too! But I'm 18 with small breasts.. I'm skinnier than all of them so I decided it's probably because of that that I have a smaller chest.
    Jessicaliners Jessicaliners 18-21, F 12 Responses Oct 9

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    katstho katstho 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Some of my friends say I'm really pretty nice

    but I just don't see it and I think I'm stupid even though I'm in 2 high school classes and I'm in 8th grade (I don't have to do 8th grade math). I wish I had more confidence 😔.
    unicornsydney unicornsydney 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 16

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    Im not so sure but i think my esteem will go

    away until i reach the age 19
    myraaxx myraaxx 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Im just wasting space is what I tell myself.

    I don't think anyone/thing could make me change my mind about that. I am nothing. Why do people compliment me? It's all lies!
    6356kk 6356kk 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 2

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    Worried About Everything

    As well as being paranoid about my looks I also worry about things as small as going to a new building - I worry that I'll look like an idiot when I can't find the door or I'll be trying to push it when it says pull! I have no idea why I worry about this I don't judge...
    mum08 mum08 26-30, F 14 Responses Feb 21, 2007

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    Like i know I'm ugly ,

    probably the main reason why I don't have a girlfriend
    YoungJoseM YoungJoseM 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 8

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    I feel ugly and I'm shy .

    Maybe I should just go for it and talk to girls for once . I can't make love happen with a random stranger. It just has to happen
    YoungJoseM YoungJoseM 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 8

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    My Self Esteem Is In The Toilet

    I've always felt that I was inferior to others and not superior. I just feel that the self esteem has been sucked out of me. I've never felt attractive or pretty. Always felt every female that is my age has it all together and is prettier than me . I had to leave college because...
    scorpiobabe82 scorpiobabe82 26-30 14 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    I was washing my hair

    when I thought of the following today: I can't allow anybody else to determine my sense of esteem. Nobody knows me well enough to judge me anyway, so why should their view be the source of my esteem? Just as my own view of myself is pretty fractured due to my past and present...
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 5 Responses Oct 11

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    Success In Failures

    I stood in middle of road broke; cornered from all sides and felt there is no light on either sides of dark tunnel. i decided to fight this battle and asked god to strengthen me and give me one opportunity to fight back. it came and i took up and i found the light in the corner...
    giftafamily giftafamily 41-45 6 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    Going to bed with tears running down my face.

    I'm sick of this ****. It's the same old crap every day. I'm stupid. I'm ugly. I'm fat. No one cares about me. I'm a **** up.
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 21

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    A year ago I was diagnosed with Complex Trauma

    PTSD, Major Depressive Disorder with Moderate Episodes, and Anxiety Disorder NOS. All of this originated from physical, sexual, and emotional abuse my entire childhood plus multiple other traumas in adulthood. I am in therapy with a Trauma specialist and we are doing EMDR and...
    mjh8808 mjh8808 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 16

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    Just wanting to say I have

    such low self esteem and it makes me feel so awful sometime but I would never ever want any one of you to feel this way and so believe me when I say...your all beautiful and I really mean that.. Even if you ever feel really down sometimes just remember that I think your all...
    lostgirl299 lostgirl299 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    I got expelled and seeing everyone at school

    and Everything makes me feel ****** about myself. I hate myself.erg
    oxoxJillianxoxo oxoxJillianxoxo 13-15, F Nov 6

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    How many of us look into the mirror

    and hate what you see? Wait a second. Did you create yourself? No, you didn't. I made myself feel bad for years because of my appearance and I blamed myself so much for it back then. In my previous school, I had no friends because they discriminated me for being ugly and I won...
    ladybug96 ladybug96 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 21

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    Im at the absolute lowest now.

    The only thing keeping a temporary sanity is Making songs, ciggarettes and an urge to win over my self-hate. School is going bad since im not sure what i want to do and the people there are very simple with simple lives. The cornucopia of feelings i have i cant express on a...
    vickepicke vickepicke 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 11

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    I'm learning to love my self a little more each

    day, I'm not dumb or stupid or helpless and I do have a future and I will go far and i am smart, very smart. I can achieve my goals for my life :) Unlike I was told almost everyday of my life, that is not true and will never be true.<3
    tigersfan195 tigersfan195 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 19

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    In terms of my body figure,

    yes.. I'm not that confident with my body. I'm a little big for an asian girl. My measurements went down ever since I have work. I can show some but I think I should work more on my tummy.
    BarbieChan BarbieChan 22-25, F 10 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    I Am Weird

    I have a big head, horrible face, depression, bipolar disorder, assexual(option because my natural state is gay), crippled by depression over the years, I am talking about 16 years battling this illness. I have no elf-steem cause I am horrible, I dont leave the house, just go out...
    Riqq Riqq 26-30, M 17 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    Why

    The reasons why I have low self esteem i guess go all the way back to when my father left i guess it maximized every little detail i saw wrong with myself and as i got older i tried to make up for it by comfort in other words....food needless to say it hasnt done wonders for my...
    Celticgirl1279 Celticgirl1279 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2013

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    Some days are good Some days are bad Some days

    I love myself Some days I'm sad Some days I succeed Some days I fail Some days have sunshine Some days it hails Some days I talk Some days I scream Some days they love me Some days they're mean The people say tomorrow will be better The doctor says the voices will go away I have...
    larosenoire larosenoire 18-21, F a week ago

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    It's so ridiculously low today,

    I hate everything about my appearance. I've been so self conscious for literally as long as I can remember, my earliest memory of it is when I was 5 years old..! o.o
    EmptySmokeClouds EmptySmokeClouds 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I Cant Help It,

    I dont care how many times I hear how Im beautiful, not fat, not horribly ugly, etc., I still cant shake those thoughts that Im everything the opposite of what all my friends and family tell me constantly. I wish it was different. I wish I wasnt constantly downing myself, and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 24, 2007

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    Criticism: disapproval based on mistakes/faults.

    That's me. Constantly thinking about all the things that are "wrong" with me. Going over each and every flaw in my mind. Unfortunately I have suffered from this my entire life. Growing up as the "chubby one" in the family isn't easy. Especially when your always criticized for it...
    BelieveInU BelieveInU 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21

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    I was looking at quotes on Pinterest

    for something to send a friend and I came across something that's supposed to be positive but just made me cry. Broken crayons still color. It's true. I'm a broken person. So broken I won't ever be able to put myself back together alone. The sad truth though, the one that...
    BrokenDee BrokenDee 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    Olga No matter how many times I punch the

    mirror it still reflects still projects still renders that horrid reality all too clearly I don't look at myself and think “cute” I think barbaric German fat girls named Olga and their chunky braids in place of ears as they salute Hitler and parade around him with flowers...
    JaneBloodyAusten JaneBloodyAusten 31-35, F 10 Responses Sep 3

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    You Can Destroy Me With One Sentence

    But you mustn't, I beat myself up enough, when I think about the chances I missed in life, my wasted talent. I feel a bit more worthless every day.
    RickiChickie RickiChickie 46-50, F 23 Responses May 1, 2011

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    I do. What is it I don't like about myself?

    Physically. My nose, I hate it! My eyes. Feel like they're too close and crunch up too much when I smile. I wish my legs and butt were bigger. But that one doesn't count because I'm fixing that with workouts ❤️ Emotionally/mentally? Well I don't really know but the...
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    my family doesn't think I'm gonna Finnish

    school. my parents make fun of me because I used to self harm. my parents tell me I don't have potential. I'm tired of everything.
    oxoxJillianxoxo oxoxJillianxoxo 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 28

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    I do have really low self esteem,

    I was bullied through school, put down by people who mattered most to me, in a relationship with a guy at the age of 15 who cheated on me, gave me verbal abuse and on a few occasions left me with bruises. I was never really made to feel good about myself. It always made me see...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    How Others See You

    This is something that everyone should see, but especially women. So many times I compliment someone and tell them they are beautiful. I can tell that they don't believe me. I promise that I wouldn't waste the effort to tell you I think you're beautiful if I didn't think that. I...
    harveyspecter harveyspecter 41-45, M 8 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    I Let Men Use Me

    This kind of spurred from another post I made, that made me think about this.. I let myself be used because i have low self esteem... You'd never know it talking to me in person. Like I've said before, I'm one of the popular girls, I'm a leader, I'm the one others look up to. I...
    hayliepartychick hayliepartychick 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    I really really feel bad today.

    😔 I kinda need a hug...
    polyglotparrot polyglotparrot 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I Refuse to Have Low Self Esteem

    I struggled with self esteem for years.   Then I stopped caring--that's all it really takes to raise your self esteem--give your self permission to stop caring what others think.   That is a big first step--it's really hard to say "I don't care"...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 30, 2008

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    I have the lowest self esteem,

    I seriously go to guys for attention to feel good about myself, and I've done it so much that I am truly ashamed of my past, but now I hope I can find a guy that likes me for me, and doesn't use me and accepts my past and wants to make a bigger and brighter future with me. I...
    jeennalouise jeennalouise 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    I guess I have suffered from low self esteem

    for a lot of years maybe even always There's also been experiences in my life that's not helped like I was in an emotionally abusive relationship. I do try work on my self esteem but it is two steps forward five back. Anyway the reason I'm putting this up here is because it...
    Ellievale Ellievale 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    I have really low self esteem,

    it is reaching the point where I don't even want to go out and socialize because I don't feel good enough.
    MissMisunderstood1 MissMisunderstood1 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    At the moment I'm in retreat,

    and going through a lot of soul-searching. One of the things that's come up in my procrastination breaking programme is the notion of self-acceptance because often it is want of perfection that stops us from taking action, due to fear of failure. At the moment I'm going through...
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 6 Responses Oct 23

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    I don't like the way I look.

    People say I'm beautiful. Even without makeup. I honestly deep down don't see the person they're talking about. There's only one person I've ever felt beautiful with. And I might be in love with him. But who knows where that will lead. I'm working on it though. Slowly I'm trying...
    shecanfly88 shecanfly88 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    I want to be someone else

    so badly. Everyone else's lives look so much better than mine. I wish I was pretty and popular and smart and I know it's shallow but I wish I had money and I wish I had parents who talked to me and I just wish I was anyone but myself. I want to crawl out of my own skin. I feel...
    crookedteethteen crookedteethteen 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 9

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    YoungJoseM YoungJoseM 18-21, M Oct 8

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    I know I'm intelligent,

    but I want to be my own definition of perfect. I compare myself to so many girls and my self confidence got so bad once that I started crying in front of the mirror...
    blueworldsapart blueworldsapart 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 20

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    I'm ugly 😂😂😂

    but I'm glad ! My personality has taken me places! And it still does
    YoungJoseM YoungJoseM 18-21, M Oct 5

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    There's just something about me.

    I'm a quiet and meek guy. And sometimes my friends joke about my lack in confidence, confidence and masculinity. My low self esteem makes me insecure when they poke fun of me. I'm glad I did not lose my temper at any of them; at the same time I feel lousy and confused. Maybe I...
    browniepants browniepants 26-30, M 5 Responses Feb 2

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    I Wrote This For An Assignemnt For School, Thought I'd Share :)

    Babystep #2 Look in the mirror and ask yourself if you are the type of person you want to marry.             When I first chose this step, I originally thought the answer would of course be “no”.  I thought of all negative things, my flaws.  But then...
    Smileandbehappy Smileandbehappy 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 27, 2012

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    Mirror, mirror, "Mirror,

    mirror, on my wall, I just want to be thin, pretty and tall. Mirror, mirror, if I change my hair, maybe someone will start to care. Mirror, mirror, if I starve myself at least I'll be beautiful, forget my health. Mirror, mirror , if I cut my wrist will I feel like I exist...
    MelXo MelXo 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    yes i have low self esteem

    but no one know about it cz i can always fake it. hard for me to believe that someone will ever love me
    fraufraufrau fraufraufrau 26-30, F Oct 21

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    I guess I should begin at the beginning,

    right? Seems like it should be a no brainer, but I'm not sure which beginning to use. Once upon a time, a Scottish coke smuggler met a tennis playing dwarf woman. They dated, got married and then created my big sister. For two years she was special, golden even, until I came...
    HayleyBuggy HayleyBuggy 18-21, T 2 Responses Nov 11

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    I feel all of your pain.

    Reading these saddens me, and I can relate...You always want to be somebody that you're not. Because of society, you think there is a certain definition to beautiful. You never want to be who you already are, because you always find the little "imperfections" "imperfect". But...
    SociallyAwkwardGirl SociallyAwkwardGirl 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 9

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