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I Have Marriage Problems

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 440 People

    I am writing this here

    because i dont have anyone else. Whom i can share this I am an indian guy snd i am married to a chinese girl from last 5 years. We live in china also We are going to have a baby by end of this year. I was very happy and this meant world to me but and so do she But she is very...
    bobbychina bobbychina 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 10

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    I married into a middle eastern family.

    Im a go happy kinda girl. Things don't phase me to much, I like to smile, laugh and live like today is my last. Im not much of a partier so nothing like that. I like to be adventurous and spontaneous, life is too short wishing and hoping. Just go out there and do it kinda person...
    smiling4 smiling4 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 8

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    Does My Marriage Have A Chance?

    I met my husband when I was 42, and just found out by my doctor 4 months before that I was not able to have children. He was 41, and we had allot of fun together. We would get together, drink and listen to music, we had so much fun. Well one night, we made love and I got...
    sophiesez10 sophiesez10 41-45 2 Responses Dec 7, 2012

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    My husband is controlling we had an affair 5

    yrs ago and r now married with a 15 month son . My son is my world but things have changed between him and I . He's always Belittling me ( I stay home with our son right now) we discussed me staying home with him way before I was even pregnant and now he guilts me for it and I'm...
    Shell32 Shell32 31-35, F May 26

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    Living abroad with Taiwanese husband.

    I've got my own problems..social anxiety, family issues. So I don't feel I deserve anyone better than this guy I'm with. He can be great, so no one would believe how he treats me when he's upset. He's very verbally abusive when he's angry, and during a fight he'll lash out...
    skiddamarink skiddamarink 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I Thought He Woke Up & Realized.

    My hubby is 44 and addicted to online gaming. He plays all weekend afternoon & evening and some weekdays. He did turn around for about 2 months when we started working out but he changed back to his old ways recently and this weekend stayed up playing until 3 and 4 in the morning...
    Cogo1968 Cogo1968 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2012

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    I need advice. I have been married to my husband

    for 11 years. We have been together for 21 years. Most of these years haven't been great. He doesn't take care of his health and is sick often. I don't want to be married to him anymore. The problem is, he is was laid off and is currently too sick to work or even look for a job...
    Traveler721 Traveler721 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    Emotional Affair

    Hi.. i feel very confused n very depressed.. My wife has an emotional affair with her colleague recently and i found out.. Confronted her and she says they r not in a relationship.. She dun seems to be remorseful abt her wrong doings.. Before i confront her, i went over to her...
    5murf 5murf 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    When i met my wife we were perfect in the sex

    department. We couldn't get enough of each other. This change started before we got married. My wife said she didn't feel right with us sleeping in the same bed, then it was she didn't feel right about us having sex until we got married. I loved her from day one so these...
    coachjames741 coachjames741 46-50, M 2 Responses May 25

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    Sometimes I feel like I'm going thru the

    motions...I love my hubby but feel I'm just not IN LOVE anymore sigh
    sweetcharity14 sweetcharity14 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 17

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    My husband is much older

    than me, more than ten years, he can provide me financially quite enough, but I am richer than him, I have more assets than him. We have trouble conceiving child due to his poor quality ***** and he is just ok in bed, not a romantic and only know how to perform standards and...
    Xylocopa Xylocopa 31-35, F 2 Responses May 2

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    He Doesnt Want Me !

    My husband and I have been married for 28 years. Together for 30 years. He is retired from the military. I have found out over the past years he has been unfaithful about 5 times that I know of. I have never been with anyone else. He was my first. Now he says he cant get in...
    mom1986x3 mom1986x3 46-50 4 Responses May 25, 2013

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    I have been married for 10 years

    and have three children with my wife. The last 2-3 years have not been enjoyable. I can't say that is due to any one incident or event, so my story isn't terribly riveting. We have had our share of verbal fights...sometimes in front of the children, which I really regret...
    canadiankid26 canadiankid26 36-40, M 5 Responses Apr 16

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    On Verge Of Divorce!

    I am having marriage issues that have been going on for quite a while. It started a couple years ago when i decided to make a career change, but decided that since my husband wasnt getting the best hours and pay, i was going to still keep the old job part-time. We do have a...
    thereshope79 thereshope79 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 4, 2013

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    Married 7 years, not trying to make it to 8!

    My husband is such a clown that i have to find some sort of outlet for this stress he CONSTANTLY has me under before I'm on an episode of snapped! THE SHORT VERSION: female with his name tatooed on her wrist; a baby produced ONE YEAR after the vows; got jumped on by his 2...
    2ThruWithU 2ThruWithU 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    Really Need Some Advice About Abusive Relationship What To Do??? Will She Change?

    I been married for three years and in those three years I been separated for 5 times and in those 5 times my wife has insulted me, name calling, insulted my parents and i do not mean she telling me stuff about them, she insulting my parent in person. it has got to the point that...
    ferrari121 ferrari121 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 10, 2013

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    I've been married for almost 4 years now.

    Still having problems showing any emotions. Trying hard to change to become a better person for her. She points out whats my flaws and I try to resolve them but when i point out hers, then its a problem, so I just keep quiet now days. I am not financially secure but do provide...
    187ted 187ted 31-35, M 2 Responses May 11

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    My husband and I met during high school about 6

    years ago. He was always the one guy I wanted and thought I could never have. And it stayed like that for years. It wasnt until my senior year that I really saw that we had a chance. He was already in the military when we started dating and 2 months in we found out that he was...
    ChelleBelle1 ChelleBelle1 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 1

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    Sad, Sad Story

    My story is that I've married for 18 years, unhappily. My wife is a good person, terrific mother, hard worker but is always critical of me: we almost have a business relationship rather than a marriage. We really don't have anything in common. I always thought that there...
    Oyster01 Oyster01 46-50 4 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    My husband constantly choses to play video

    games instead of coming to bed with me. It really hurts that I pretty much have to lure him into bed with sex to get him to come lay with me. I just asked him if he would come and lay with me just until I fell asleep and he said that he was in the middle of a match. He then...
    mrsmoe13 mrsmoe13 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 18

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    My Marriage Is Falling Apart

    This is my first post but it isn't a happy one. I am married and have been for almost 4 years but I don't think my marriage will last. We have our good days and our worst days but lately it's only been bad. I feel like he is falling out of love with me and I'm not sure why. He...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 6, 2013

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    How Do I Let Go Of All This Anger And Hurt And Move On?

    My husband text and tried to hook up with my ex best friend about two ysars ago. I try to get over it but it keeps getti g thrown in my face and it hurts. I have allowed my husband to break down my self esteem so low I feel like killing myself most days and I don't want to live...
    missmcv25 missmcv25 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    I am 43yrs old, blonde hair blue eyes,

    5'7" & weigh 118lbs. I've been married for 20yrs, and worship the ground my husband walks on. Our sex life used to be freaking amazing!! At least twice a week!! For the past year, I've been lucky to get it once a month! I recently discovered that my husband had been taking...
    justamotherwife justamotherwife 41-45, F 2 Responses May 26

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    Trading Wife Pictures Destroyed My Marriage

    When I first signed up with ep, i was intrigued by the trading wife pictures groups. I started by posting nude pictures of my wife with her head cropped out. I started to become addicted to these groups and found myself checking messages multiple times a day. I then progressed to...
    Dogrow Dogrow 36-40, M 4 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    Every time Time I argue with my narcissist W it

    feels like boarding a train to Crazy Town. There's no point as she never admits fault and always projects back on me. It got me wondering, what is the anatomy of an argument in other relationships. How do they typically go? Does it ever end well with someone stepping up and...
    deepbreathneeded deepbreathneeded 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 8

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    When do you throw in the towel?

    I love my husband as a person; a friend for 20 years of my life. We have so many experiences together, including two amazing young children (4 and 7). But every single day starts off with him being impatient with our kids, and every weekend we fight. He hasn't worked in 7 years...
    differentdrummer78 differentdrummer78 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    Not what it used to be.

    Feeling lonely from lack of affection; lack of intimacy....... husband doesn't seem very motivated in me or his future to better himself. Don't say he may be depressed. He dismisses any sadness I have. He would be more sympathetic
    movingalong movingalong 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    So my Husband & I have been married about a 2

    months now. He's in the Army stationed in Kansas while I'm still in Cali finishing school. It's inevitable that him and I have trust and communication if we want to make our marriage work. Well 2 weeks ago while I was visiting him in Kansas, I found him in the bedroom texting, I...
    yasssyy yasssyy 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    candycc12 candycc12 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    Out Of Options

    January 5th will be my 2nd anniversary, we have alot of problems in our marriage. we meet online, dated for roughly 4 weeks and he asked me to marry him. He was deployed 3 weeks later. while he was in afghanistan he broke off the engagement in october, when he came home in dec...
    SandraU SandraU 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    A few years ago I caught my texting back

    and forth to here old boy friend and I stopped it. She said the was just talking and that she ran in to him once and he kissed her but that was it. Now I find out that Now I caught here again Talking to someone else I know . I caught her kissing him I said that was I and I...
    brokenHusband brokenHusband 41-45, M 4 Responses Jan 28

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    Do you ever want to move

    and start new?
    3tothemom 3tothemom 36-40 3 Responses Jan 4

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    I Wish...

    I wish you could empathize instead of judge me. I wish you understood that your words have such a profound effect on me, they don't just "roll of my back". I wish you knew how much I love you, and what I hope for your future. I want your life to be filled with love, joy...
    KarynT45 KarynT45 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 18, 2012

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    Everytime I Talk About Us I Cry

    I have been married 20 yrs. I am 44 and I have 2 kids. I have dated him since 11th grade. He became my best friend. At 23 we had our 1st child & he cheated on me right after with our neighbor. Then he would go out with his sister and her husband and leave me home with the baby...
    Cogo1968 Cogo1968 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    I'm actually a guy but I really need help

    learning to deal with my wonderful wife each month. It's bad. Very. Very. Baaaad. I don't know how to say it strongly enough. We have a beautiful marriage and enjoy each day throughout the month, but then for a couple days prior to menstruation she regrets marrying me and she...
    gman1616 gman1616 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 27

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    For about a year I've been considering

    divorcing my wife of nearly 8 years. Our relationship has never been great. We are great friends, but horrible lovers/spouses. We do things together, travel, talk about life/politics/news/etc with no problem. But out marriage and love life seem to be on autopilot. We started...
    randomtiger45 randomtiger45 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 1

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    My husband works away

    for usually just over a month so we kinda have a honeymoon effect when he is home for the first day or so. However it hasn't been the same lately, he isn't happy with his job, gets stressed easy and snaps at me. These 'snaps' are really getting me down now as we have young...
    TheCoitalQueen TheCoitalQueen 31-35, F 31 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband is a douche.

    He doesn't help me with our 2 kids, he works but is laid off in the winter, all he does is eat, sleep and watch tv in the basement. I am so beyond sick of it!! And nothing I do is ever good enough (while raising 2 kids I also go to school for nursing, I just graduated this dec...
    mandy821 mandy821 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 12

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    Almost a year ago my wife fell in love with

    another man. It started out with texting and flirting. This escalated to texting an average of 5500 times a month. One day she asked me to stay home with our four children while she went out to run an errand. Turns out she simply drove over to his house the have sex with him in...
    MrKarenina MrKarenina 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 12

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    I'm so wet right now!

    Why should a married person be horny if that can't have s.ex.! I want to be f. Ucked really hard now but instead he sleeps. I want anal really bad but hunks he does it wrong any suggestions? :(((( I'm dripping
    yesmeik yesmeik 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 31

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    It's not for me this question it's

    for my sister ... What's everyone's thoughts on going back to her husband after a long seperation? My sister is wanting to go back to her ex husband and she has had relationships during this 4 year seperation.. I worry about her but what are your thoughts on this and is it...
    ozgirl25 ozgirl25 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    I am not sure I love my wife enough.

    I've been married for 11 yrs, together for 18 yrs and we have 2 young kids. About 2 yrs ago she was unhappy because I was spending too much time on my growing business and side-activities. She started hanging out with a coworker and it grew into a close friendship. I tossed in...
    Inurdrmz Inurdrmz 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Please Help, I Don't Know What To Do.....

    I have been married for 6 months and really don't know if it's a mistake. We argue so much over stupid things and he has such a temper (always has) there is just never any need for arguments to get so out of hand. I'm just a laid back type of person and can't be bothered with...
    Fllewis Fllewis 26-30 3 Responses Feb 25, 2012

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    It seems like every single time I get married

    ***** be getting jealous. We have kids and do our thing then another girl flirts with me and the wife sees it. She gets all angry and refuses a compliment or joke from me after that. It always results in ending the marriage and moving on to the next one. So.... do you think for...
    Jackson2222 Jackson2222 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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