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I Have Mixed Feelings About A Family Member's Pregnancy

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    The Pregnancy Everyone Saw Coming

    Recently I found out that I family member is pregnant.  She (Susan) is still in her teens but out of high school.  Everyone saw it coming because she was allowed to live with her boyfriend.  She isn't very responsible likes to party, likes to drink...
    BluOmni BluOmni 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Yeah, But It's Not That Bad

    I have this cousin who has three children and is pregnant with a fourth, and I think I should be happy for her, but I'm not really because I think she's wasting her life a bit on creating yet another. But if she wants to do it and it makes her happy, who am I to judge?
    learntocook learntocook 18-21 Aug 18, 2010

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    I Did And....

    I did have mixed feelings about a family member's pregnancy &, to an extent, still do. The family member I am referring to is my cousin & the pregnancy I am referring to was over eight years ago. Her little boy, who I, & everyone who knows him, love very deeply, is now nearly...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F May 29, 2010

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    The Continuing Saga

    So this member of my family is not too intelligent.  She is living a life that is Jerry Springer like.  It is like a cycle repeating.  Her mom and her mom before her had unplanned pregnancies.  They were living a life of poverty.  She believes that her...
    BluOmni BluOmni 31-35, F Feb 10, 2010

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